Free Sex
Episodes
054 - Affordable homes - Alva Gotby
08 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How would housing justice help our sex lives?My guest in this episode is Alva Gotby, a writer and housing organiser. She is also the author of the new...
053 - Prioritise pleasure - Prishita Maheshwari-Aplin
01 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How can we prioritise pleasure?My guest in this episode is Prishita Maheshwari-Aplin, a writer and queer community organiser. Having just written a bo...
052 - Better flirting! - Alice McKee
25 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What’s stopping us from flirting?My guest in this episode is Alice McKee, a playwright and documentary maker. Alice thinks we can build a world wher...
051 - AI girlfriends - Georgi Dimitrov
18 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can men use AI to learn how to seduce women?My guest in this episode is Georgi Dimitrov, founder of an AI platform that helps men to generate a fake w...
050 - BONUS: Sex spaces for all
11 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
To mark the milestone of hitting 50 episodes of Free Sex, I want to add my own idea for how we can build a world where people are free to have the sex...
049 - Shame is good! - Dug Gaines
04 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How can we educate people so they can enjoy their shameful desires?My guest in this episode is Dug Gaines, who is a living legend. For 50 years Dug ha...
048 - A day without Instagram - Ruby Rare
27 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if we all quit watching influencers and met to discuss sex instead?My guest in this episode is Ruby Rare, who has a bone to pick with the interne...
047 - Group sex - Leanne Yau
20 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is group sex the way to a better world?My guest in this episode is Leanne Yau, who runs the @polyphiliablog viral accounts across social media. Leanne...
046 - Cost cutting - Matt Skully
13 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are sex events and fetish gear too expensive?My guest in this episode is Matt Skully, who’s a performer, curator, events producer and occasional sex...
045 - Be serious! - Anastasiia Fedorova
06 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can we find a way to take sex seriously?My guest in this episode is Anastasiia Fedorova, a latex lover and author of a book called Second Skin: Inside...
044 - It’s complicated! - Sari van Anders
30 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if sexuality wasn’t a spectrum?My guest in this episode is Sari Van Anders, who is a very multi-faceted scientist and thinker. Drawing on her e...
043 - Licensed sex - Karl Verboten
24 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How should we regulate sex clubs?My guest in this episode is Karl Verboten, one of the masterminds behind one of London’s greatest kink club nights,...
042 - Tone shift - Zachary Zane
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are sex-positive people too self-righteous?My guest in this episode is Zachary Zane, a writer whose work focuses on sex and, well, his own experiences...
BONUS: The rent is killing my sex life
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What a dominatrix taught me about universal basic incomeThis is an audio version of an essay from the Free Sex Substack - subscribe now to receive my ...
040 - Free money is sexy - Eva Oh
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if we didn’t need to work to earn money?My guest in this episode is Eva Oh, a dominatrix who wants everyone to have their basic needs financial...
039 - No normal - Silva Neves
03 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How can we flip the script on what sex and relationships can be?My guest in this episode is Silva Neves, who is a psychosexual and relationships psych...
038 - Kink as an identity - Richard Sprott
24 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Should we change our sexuality labels?My guest in this episode is Richard Sprott, a psychologist and sexuality researcher. Richard’s been exploring ...
037 - Channelling sexual energy - Kalah Hill
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do we all share a communal sexual energy that’s just waiting to be activated?My guest in this episode is Kalah Hill, and she thinks the answer is de...
036 - Sexy clubs - Diana Isi
10 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How can we create non-judgemental sex clubs and dancefloors?My guest in this episode is Diana Isi, who is part of the underground queer scene in Londo...
035 - Foot shame - Adam Zmith
03 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if... we could suck toes without shame?In this episode, my producer Tash turns the mic on ME to ask me about my foot kink. I’ve just published ...
034 - BONUS: My book about foot fetishes - Adam Zmith
03 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is an excerpt from my new book, Solemates: A History of Our Fetish for Feet, published by 404 Ink. You can buy the book from the usual pl...
033 - Open desires - Liam Wignall
28 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What if... we could see everyone’s intimate sexual desires?My guest in this episode is Liam Wignall, a researcher, lecturer and writer specialising ...
032 - Free choice - Kitty Drake
20 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we desire what we desire?*This episode discusses sexual assault and an alleged case of rape*My guest in this episode is Kitty Drake, a journali...
031 - Denied sex - Claire Bates
13 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How are people with learning disabilities held back from sex?My guest in this episode is Claire Bates who runs a network for people with learning disa...
030 - ‘Clean’ bums - Henry Blest
06 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What if you could have anal sex without the shit?My guest in this episode is Henry Blest, “the most ambitious bottom in London”. It says that on h...
029 - Sex is boring - Tina Fetner
29 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we need social norms around sex?My guest in this episode is Tina Fetner, a sociologist who has studied peoples’ sex lives in Canada. Tina wal...
028 - Bi-curious play - Emma Sayle
22 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What can bi-curious men learn from women?My guest in this episode is Emma Sayle who for two decades has been running glamorous sex parties that centre...
027 - Blue pills - Phil Samba
15 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
When can we have all the sexual health services we need?My guest in this episode is Phil Samba, health promoter and the host of The Other Blue Pill po...
026 - Queer hearts - Amanda Middleton
08 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What can straight people learn from queer relationships?My guest in this episode is Amanda Middleton, a family and systemic psychotherapist. Amanda wo...
025 - Sex robots - Heather Parry
21 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Would sex robots be good for us?My guest in this episode is Heather Parry, who’s been wondering why we need sex robots. Heather is a writer of ficti...
024 - Maximum intimacy - Nick Woof
14 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Can you be intimate with 200 people?My guest in this episode is Nick Woof, the founder of London’s edgiest erotic party, Bator Bros. The party is ce...
023 - Older people - Hayley Conyers
07 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Does age matter?My guest in this episode is Hayley Conyers, who has been working as a research assistant at the London School of Hygiene and Tropical ...
022 - Slut power - Beth Ashley
31 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How can we overcome slutshaming?My guest in this episode is Beth Ashley, author of Sluts: The Truth about Slutshaming and What We Can Do To Fight It. ...
021 - Bye bye, bisexual men - Lewis Oakley
25 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Why don’t some women want to date bisexual men?My guest in this episode is Lewis Oakley, a bisexual activist. Lewis has experienced prejudice from w...
020 - Sexual free speech - Pup Davey
18 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Should we show off our kinky selves in public?My guest in this episode is Pup Davey, who is a pornstar and all-round kinky queer person. He makes a li...
019 - Too much sex - Mark Walton
11 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Is it possible to have too much sex?My guest in this episode is Mark Walton, who thinks the answer is yes. Mark has a history of compulsive sexual beh...
018 - Fat sex - Gina Tonic
04 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Will ‘body positivity’ actually end fatphobia?My guest in this episode is Gina Tonic, who is a writer and the host of The Polyester Podcast. Gina ...
017 - Big erection data - Dr Elliot Justin
26 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Should doctors be prescribing orgasm?My guest in this episode is Dr Elliot Justin. Elliot has a background in emergency medicine, but recently he’s ...
016 - Masturbation for all - Vic Liu
19 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
My guest in this episode is Vic Liu, an artist and information designer who makes books that aim to make the world a little better. One way the world ...
015 - Poly possibility - Libro Levi Bridgeman
12 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Could we have a polyamorous world?My guest in this episode is Libro Levi Bridgeman, a writer, performer, the editor of Hot Pencil Press, and a ‘solo...
014 - What do you like? - Susan Bratton
05 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Can we make it easier to say what we want in sex? My guest in this episode is Susan Bratton. As an intimacy adviser and wellness expert, Susan ha...
013 - Take care - Dani Singer
29 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How can we take care of each other? My guest in this episode is Dani Singer aka Dani Dinger, who is a performer, sex worker, activist and an expe...
012 - Pleasure for the good of our health - Jozef Shaw
22 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Isn’t pleasure a part of good sexual health?My guest in this episode is Dr Jozef Shaw. Joe works in a hospital in London, practising sexual health, ...
011 - Kinky showtime - Dan Daw
15 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How can a submissive disabled person get the sex they want?My guest in this episode is Dan Daw — an exquisite performer with huge ideas and an ...
010 - Less sex, please? - Rosie Wilby
08 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Why are we having less sex?My guest in this episode is the author and comedian Rosie Wilby. Rosie is wondering why surveys are showing that people, es...
009 - Risk! - Tina Horn
01 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Can we calculate risk at the same time as trying to nut with someone?My guest in this episode is Tina Horn, who is a writer and perv, just like me. Sh...
008 - Sex in Public - Jackson King
18 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why can’t we have sex in public?My guest in this episode is Jackson King, a writer, journalist and pro dom (professional dominant). Jackson’s way ...
007 - Sex therapy - Dr Lori Beth Bisbey
11 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How can therapy help us to have better sex?My guest in this episode is Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. Not gonna lie: since I watched Dr Lori counsel countless c...
006 - Gay shame - José Carlos Mejia
04 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Can you imagine a world without any shame?My guest in this episode is José Carlos Mejia, who told me the three things we’d need to eliminate if we ...
005 - Sex health inequality - Dr Rageshri Dhairyawan
27 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why are South Asian people in the UK getting more STIs?My guest this episode is Dr Rageshri Dhairyawan. In treating her patients in HIV and sexual hea...
004 - You’re not normal - Girl On The Net
20 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we want to be cool during sex?My guest this episode is Sarah from Girl On The Net — one of the hottest sex blogs in the world. Sarah is ...
003 - Body Hair is Gorgeous! - Asad Zafar
13 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do I have to remove my body hair to get better sex?My guest in this episode is Asad Zafar, the non-binary slut-dragon of your dreamz. They are tall, q...
002 - Sex Whilst Disabled - Andrew Gurza
13 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What stops a disabled person from hooking up with someone?My guest this episode is Andrew Gurza. Andrew is dedicated to the same thing as me — remov...
001 - No Censorship! - Reed Amber
13 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why can’t sex workers have an Instagram account?My guest this episode is Reed Amber, a sex worker, educator, anti-shamer and activist. Reed has work...
Trailer: Free Sex with Adam Zmith
02 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Coming soon from Aunt Nell — the team behind the award-winning podcasts The Log Books, Queer Roots and Routes, and Black And Gay, Back In The Day.In...