Front Porch Swingers

Episode 398: Predators in the Playrooms

27 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

As attendees of MANY events over the years, we've seen it all when it comes to group play. And while some of it has clearly been fun and consensual fo...

Episode 397: Hot People as a Marketing Strategy

20 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

We all know that hot people are used in marketing campaigns. We see it in the sale of everything from dog food to cars to cleaning services. Is this s...

Episode 396: There's No "I" in "Team," Right??

13 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

It's become one of the buzz phrases in the lifestyle: It should be about you as a couple. Do the things that bring you closer together as a couple. Wh...

Episode 395: When Religion and Non-Monogamy Collide

06 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

A controversial take on religious lifestylers from the perspective of two people who consider themselves anti-religion... Before you get offended, lis...

Episode 394: Is Your D*** My Responsibility?

30 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails the fun. ...

Episode 393: What the H*ll is Pre-Consent?

23 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking substances, it...

Episode 392: The Dreaded Manosphere

16 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

After watching a documentary all about the rampant misogyny currently being spewed to young men on the internet, we were left with one important quest...

Episode 391: Where's the Intimacy?

09 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

A very raw and honest conversation about the intimacy issues we've experienced, in part because of our involvement in the lifestyle. How did jumping s...

Episode 390: Setting Healthy Boundaries with Lifestyle Friends

02 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

We haven't always been the best when it comes to setting solid boundaries in our lifestyle friendships. When you combine sex with interpersonal relati...

Episode 389: Coming Out of the Closet

23 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Brenna finally reveals the catalyst for her sobriety, and it leads to a very real and honest conversation about how we plan to navigate our profession...

Episode 388: Wait, You're HOW OLD?

16 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Our birthdays have spurred a renewed conversation around age in the lifestyle, specifically how different generations interact both digitally and at e...

Episode 387: Frumpy Men in the Lifestyle

09 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

It's a running joke in the lifestyle: Women are almost always better put together than their male counterparts at clubs and events. We all laugh about...

Episode 386: Read the Room, Man!

02 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

"We're trying so hard to connect with lifestylers online, but we're having no luck! What gives?" We discuss how we are currently receiving digital com...

Episode 385: The Lifestyle Isn't Dead - It's Evolving

26 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Stagnation and a lack of safety protocols in the lifestyle have left many lifestylers disenfranchised with clubs and events over the last year. They'r...

Episode 384: I Regret You Banging Someone Else

19 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

A forum post leads to a very interesting conversation around shared sexual identities in couples, regret in the lifestyle, and when it's ok to keep so...

Episode 383: I HATED My Body

12 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

An emotional and raw episode of FPS.... A listener email had Brenna all in her feels about her struggles with body image issues, including insight int...

Episode 382: Newbie Whisperers?

05 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone has to start somewhere in the lifestyle, but is it also ok to not want to bang people that are brand new to the space? We discuss this after ...

Episode 381: Sperm Competition is a Real Thing

29 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Since we're all just mammals at the end of the day, it makes perfect sense that the biological urges seen in nature can also be seen in the lifestyle,...

Episode 380: Old School Swinging

22 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A post on a swingers' forum had us scratching our heads about the state of "old school swinging," and led to in-depth conversations about consent, alc...

Episode 379: Sometimes the Truth Hurts

15 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A message from a single man looking to enter the lifestyle spurs a conversation on the balance between being honest and being kind... We also talk abo...

Episode 378: I Envy the Newbies

08 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A trip down memory lane reminds us of the things that felt very taboo and naughty before getting into the lifestyle. And how truly vanilla they seem n...

Episode 377: What the H*ll Am I Doing Here?

01 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A jam packed and very vulnerable episode about Brenna's imposter syndrome in the lifestyle, fears for our future as a hotwife couple, and some very ho...

Episode 376: What Does Lifestyle Inclusivity REALLY Mean?

24 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

As two proud members of the LGBTQ community, we have some very strong opinions about inclusivity in the lifestyle. Nowhere is this more important that...

Episode 375: One Hell of a Trip to Detroit

17 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We spent a weekend in Detroit to host the Real Hotwives of Detroit at Hidden Agenda. And the experience has spurred MANY conversations between us abou...

Episode 374: One VERY Honest Single Guy

10 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A message on our kink profile has had our heads spinning.... And asking questions like, "Is it really just a numbers game in the lifestyle?" Plus, Bre...

Episode 373: It Only Took 5 Years...

03 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

After a 5 year hiatus from swapping with couples, we did it! Hear our thoughts on the experience, and if we plan to continue pursuing couple play in t...

Episode 372: Ew, You Dirty Swingers

27 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Cognitive dissonance is a real thing. And social programming very much impacts how others view us as non-monogamous people. But does all of that progr...

Episode 371: I'd Rather Be Aloof Than a Creeper

20 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Brian gets VERY vulnerable this time around.... He discusses how some of his past experiences, both romantic and sexual, have shaped who he is as a li...

Episode 370: Is Physical Attraction Top Priority?

13 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Through conversations online recently, we may have found ourselves in some hot water with a particular opinion... So we discuss in depth: Is physical ...

Episode 369: We're Not Cheating, But You'd Prefer if We Were...

06 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone knows a person who is a cheater, who has been cheated on, or they themselves are the victim of cheating. Is that the reason infidelity seems ...

Episode 368: Comparison is the Thief of Joy

29 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Whether it's financials, looks, frequency of play, or relationship dynamics, it's almost impossible to not compare yourself to other lifestylers and t...

Episode 367: The Married Man Dilemma

22 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A controversial take on married or otherwise partnered men in the lifestyle.... We discuss some of the ire we have received over the years for our vie...

Episode 366: A Major Takeover!

15 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

As we approach the 5th year anniversary of our largest event of the year, we have some important questions for each other: What do we want for the oth...

Episode 365: Did We Want to B*ng a Couple?

08 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A very interesting pool party experience has us questioning if we're ready to jump back into couple for couple play... Plus, we discuss the overall he...

Episode 364: It's All About Perception

01 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Our personal perceptions on ourselves, and on the world around us, have such an interesting impact on the lifestyle. From who we are attracted to, to ...

Episode 363: What We Can Learn from the World of Kink

25 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

After helping to facilitate a kink event over the weekend, we were reminded of how different the space can be from the lifestyle... Plus, Brenna gets ...

Episode 362: How the H*ll Did We Get Here?

18 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Join us for one of the most candid and honest conversations we've ever had on the podcast.... Hear our origin stories, and the truths behind how we en...

Episode 361: Cheap Isn't Always Good

11 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone values something different out of a lifestyle experience, but when should cost be the most important factor? Plus, a continued hiatus from th...

Episode 360: I'm Bringing the P***y

04 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

How important is attraction when deciding who to play with? And does that answer change in the hotwife lifestyle versus in the couple for couple world...

Episode 359: A MAJOR Anniversary

28 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A whole year of sobriety has done so much good in our lives. But how has it most impacted our lifestyle journey? Plus, we discuss the evolution of our...

Episode 358: The Puppy Pile

21 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Brenna hosted an event alone in Denver, and the results left her in tears.... in a very good way! Find out what we mean! Plus, MANY tips and tricks fr...

Episode 357: Brenna the Cougar?

14 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Brenna has seen a trend with younger guys looking to get into the lifestyle that has her questioning if the cougar life might be right for her... Plus...

Episode 356: Bull Burnout

07 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

With the many hoops single men have to jump through in the lifestyle, it's no wonder many of the longer-term guys are experiencing "bull burnout." Wha...

Episode 355: An Overnight Guest

30 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Brenna invited a very sexy man to come stay the night at our place while Brian was fast asleep in the next room... What happened during their wild rom...

Episode 354: Brian Gets His FRICTION On!

23 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Brian traveled across three time zones to go to.... a couples event? Alone? Hear how it went! Plus, what naughtiness did Brenna enjoy in his absence.....

Episode 353: Brian's Riding Solo

16 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Brian is going to a lifestyle event, by himself? What are our feelings on that? Plus, how have we found peace in the lifestyle given all of the things...

Episode 352: The Soft P*nis Drama

09 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 352 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast delves further into the issue of maintaining an erection in the lifestyle, after MANY messages followi...

Episode 351: It's Getting Trashy

02 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Is it acceptable to wear bootie shorts and ripped fishnets to a lifestyle event? What are some of the trends we're currently seeing in the lifestyle w...

Episode 350: An 8 Hour Date

26 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 350 of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast delves into all sorts of topics! Brenna enjoyed a full 8 hour date, partially clothed and partially ve...

Episode 349: The Male Loneliness Epidemic

19 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 349 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast discusses the "male loneliness epidemic," and how it seems to manifest itself in the hotwife lifestyle...

Episode 348: Something BRAND New!

12 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 348 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast dives into a recent experience that Brenna had that was something COMPLETELY out of the box for us... ...

Episode 347: Get Your Head in the Game!

05 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 347 of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast dives into a recent hotel takeover we attended. Brenna went into it with A LOT of expectations, and no...

Episode 346: That One Couple We B@nged

28 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 346 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast takes a trip down memory lane of our couple swapping days, and how it is impacting how we search for n...

Episode 345: Lifestyle Friendships

21 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 345 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast delves into some very deep and introspective conversations we've had lately about friendship. What doe...

Episode 344: Who Cares About a Scar?

14 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 344 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast discusses sex post-op, including the big concern so many voiced when they found out she was getting pl...

Episode 343: Breaking Our Celibacy

07 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 343 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast covers a VERY important topic: Sex after a SEVEN WEEK HIATUS! Brenna is finally healed enough to do th...

Episode 342: For F's Sake, Wrap it Up!

31 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 342 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast dives into multiple topics: Brenna has been online corresponding with some new single men, and she had...

Episode 341: Brian's Bi Preferences

24 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 341 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast explores what has happened to both of our desires after six weeks of celibacy! Spoiler alert: Brian is...

Episode 340: Toxic Monogamy

17 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 340 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast dives into toxic monogamy, and how some of it creeps into the lifestyle. Four-way chats, anyone? Plus,...

Episode 339: Worst D**k Pic Ever!

10 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 339 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast delves into some of our recent trainwreck experiences trying to make new connections digitally. Includ...

Episode 338: Disrupting the Lifestyle

03 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 338 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast details some BIG topics! Brenna is now 2 weeks post-op from a major elective surgery. Hear how we expe...

Episode 337: A Body Transformation

24 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 337 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast delves into what it's REALLY like to go through a major body transformation while being in the lifesty...

Episode 336: How Often is it Mind-Blowing?

17 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 336 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast delves into the different types of sex that happen in the lifestyle, based on different sexual partner...

Episode 335: Jorts and Dirty T's

10 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 335 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast walks through what we personally look for in lifestyle events. And here's a hint: It does NOT involve ...

Episode 334: Two Months of No S*x??

03 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 334 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast explores Brenna's concerns about both of us taking a two-month hiatus from the lifestyle after her upc...

Episode 333: AVN Week!

27 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 333 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast delves into our AVN 2025, including a two-day shoot house we hosted with a big group of sexy creators!...

Episode 332: Where Do We Go From Here?

20 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 332 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast aims to answer one specific question: Where the hell do we go from here? A very honest conversation en...

Episode 331: Who's REALLY The Problem in the Lifestyle?

13 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 331 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast dives into gender expectations and differences in standards in the lifestyle. This conversation stemme...

Episode 330: Am I Being Jealous?

06 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 330 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast details an important conversation wherein Brenna attempts to answer one very important question: Is sh...

Episode 329: One Hell of a Year

30 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 329 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast details MANY life changes in 2024: From loss of loved ones to sobriety to a HUGE change in our lifesty...

Episode 328: Hotwifing Ain't Easy

22 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 328 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast details the place single men hold in the hotwife lifestyle, and the ups and downs we've seen single me...

Episode 327: To Poly, Or Not to Poly

17 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 327 of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast discusses an incident that occurred between Brian and a past play partner that left Brenna with a our ...

Episode 326: S*x Club Shenanigans and Big Wins!

09 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episod 326 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast details a week of wins for us! Between TWO successful play dates for Brenna and a very naughty visit to...

Episode 325: Why Do You Want to Be in the Lifestyle?

02 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 325 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast explores a very important question: What is your why? What is the collective "why" we have decided on ...

Episode 324: Let's Fall In Love... with the Lifestyle!

25 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 324 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast delves into some of the reasons we have taken a step back from the lifestyle, and our plan for falling...

Episode 323: Not Your Average Swingers

18 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 323 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast covers one very important topic: What does it mean to be the "average" lifestyler? And how far off are...

Episode 322: Brenna Gets Her Mojo Back!

11 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 322 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast dives into TWO play sessions Brenna has enjoyed recently with THREE different men, as well as an FFM t...

Episode 321: Did You Just Fake That O?

04 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 321 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast features an in-depth discussion about performative sex in the lifestyle: When is it ok, and what impac...

Episode 320: I'm Definitely Judging You

28 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 320 of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast poses this question: When is it ok to judge in the lifestyle? Brian finds himself getting the ick from...

Episode 319: Two VERY Different Hotwife Experiences

21 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 319 of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast details two very different hotwife encounters Brenna had on back to back days... Find out why one had ...

Episode 318: You Want to Couple Swap??

14 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 318 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast features a very candid conversation between us about why Brenna hasn't been feeling sexy in club envir...

Episode 317: A Walk Down Naughty Memory Lane

07 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 317 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast details some of our past play dynamics, everything from couple swapping to threesomes to bi orgies. We...

Episode 316: A Very Different Pod Bash

30 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 316 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast details Pod Bash 2024, from our perspective. Due in large part to Brenna's sobriety and Brian's changi...

Episode 315: The Creepy Old Guy

23 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 315 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast features an in-depth conversation about age in the lifestyle. Why is it that Brian often feels like th...

Episode 314: A Very Different Podcast

16 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 314 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast delves into some major changes for FPS, including us opening up about some major life changes. We anno...

Episode 313: A Good Ole' Fashioned Spit Roast

09 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 313 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details a primal MFM threesome Brenna shared with two fellow creators, Doc ...

Episode 312: THIS is Why We Play Solo

02 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 312 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details TWO recent encounters we had: Brian's most recent time with "Natash...

Episode 311: Does He Want to F*** Me?

26 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 311 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details a hotwife encounter Brenna shared with a NEW and very sexy single g...

Episode 310: Brenna Bangs an Ex!

19 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 310 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details a BRAND NEW experience for Brenna... playing with an ex! Yusef re-e...

Episode 309: Getting Raunchy with a Red Head

12 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 309 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details a very hot and heavy encounter Brian had recently with a tatted red...

Episode 308: An Enticing Offer in Denver

05 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 308 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details a VERY unique play session for Brian... After a very exciting offer...

Episode 307: Podcasters Gone Wild 3!

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 307 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details Brenna's recent hotel romp with the ever-sexy Doc Chocolate of the ...

Episode 306: One Naughty Pool Party

22 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 306 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details a WILD topless pool party Brenna and Brian recently hosted. First, ...

Episode 305: Three C*cks, One Sore Hotwife

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 305 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details how a scheduling issue turned into one of the hottest days of hotwi...

Episode 304: One Wild Bull Ride!

08 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 304 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details a recent experience Brenna had at a hotwife hotel takeover. A very ...

Episode 303: One Naughty Hotwife Weekend

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 303 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details Brenna's extremely naughty adventures at Splash Mocha! She met a ma...

Episode 302: Hotwife Palooza, Part 2

24 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 302 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details Brian's naughty fun playing bull for a day at this year's Hotwife P...

Episode 301: Hotwife-Palooza, Part 1

17 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 301 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details Part 1 of our fun in Tucson at Hotwife Palooza 4! Brenna mustered s...

Episode 300: The Down and Dirty Hotwife

10 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 300 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details a very overdue and VERY naughty evening Brian spent with a play par...

Episode 299: Let Me Redeem Myself

03 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 299 of the sexy swinger and hotwife podcast, Front Porch Swingers, details two interesting and VERY different hotwife encounters Brenna had wi...