Gentlemanly

Love is a losing game

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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You’re Not Losing to Better Men — You’re Losing to Faster Men

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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The mistakes we see our clients make repeatedly that make women lose interest immediately

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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The Dating Collapse: 7 Brutal Reasons Most Men Have No Chance in 2026

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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10 Things Men Do Instead of Just Talking to Women!

04 Apr 2026

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The Brutal Truth About Dating Apps (Its Worse Than You Think)

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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You're Not Bad With Women...You're Just In The Wrong Environment

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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10 Signs She’s Cheating (Before It Actually Happens)

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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We Made a Client Approach 100 Women (This Is What We Learned)

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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The Brutal Truth About Men Who Never Learn Game

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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How Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom is Killing your Dating Life

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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The Moment Most Men Freeze When They See a Beautiful Woman

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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The One-Woman Myth That Ruins Lives: Desperate Guys Believing in ‘The One’

04 Apr 2026

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The Brutal Truth About Female Dating Behaviour

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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Women Confirm the 80/20 Rule: Only Elite Men Make the Cut – The Rest? Forgotten

04 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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More Red Flag Stories....

03 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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The CRAZIEST Red Flags We Ignored… And The Chaos That Followed

24 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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We Made a Client Approach 100 Women (This Is What We Learned)

24 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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The Brutal Truth About Men Who Never Learn Game

24 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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How Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom is Killing your Dating Life

24 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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The Moment Most Men Freeze When They See a Beautiful Woman

24 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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The One-Woman Myth That Ruins Lives: Desperate Guys Believing in ‘The One’

17 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

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MODERN DATING is in a DARK place!

28 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

My course APPROACH ACCELERATOR with James Tusk and Les Ganso is open for new students now. If you want to take action, go to the link in my bio / emai...

'THERE'S NOWHERE TO HIDE!' — The Hellscape of Modern Relationships EXPOSED!

25 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

My course APPROACH ACCELERATOR with James Tusk and Les Ganso is open for new students now.We also have spots on our Rio Carnival bootcamp 13th - 21st ...

The moment you stop reacting, everything changes

23 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

My course APPROACH ACCELERATOR with James Tusk and Les Ganso is open for new students now. If you want to take action, go to the link in my bio / emai...

What dating coaches get wrong about modern dating

15 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Stop watching life happen while you freeze up with that woman you want to date. Get a proven, field-tested formula to meet women anywhere and convert ...

The Men Who Don't Believe This Lie Win!

14 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

My course APPROACH ACCELERATOR with James Tusk and Les Ganso is open for new students now. If you want to take action, go to the link in my bio We als...

She Left You? Good. That’s When Your Real Power Begins.

16 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

LONDON COACHING 6-7th DEC 2025Quick reminder — my Winter Gentlemanly Intensive Bootcamp runs in London, Dec 6–7, and there are only 2 places total...

Why Women Chase Men Who Stay Mysterious (It’s Science AND Power)

07 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

🔥 EXTENDED SALE — ENDS SUNDAY MIDNIGHT (UK) 🔥Due to extreme demand, I’m extending access to my most powerful dating & charisma programs ...

The moment you need her, you lose her

06 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

🔥 EXTENDED SALE — ENDS SUNDAY MIDNIGHT (UK) 🔥Due to extreme demand, I’m extending access to my most powerful dating & charisma programs ...

She Can Sense When You Don’t Respect Yourself 😬

04 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

🎃 HALLOWEEN SALE — 5 DAYS ONLY 🎃The masks are off. For five days, I’m slashing prices on the most powerful dating & charisma programs I’...

She Doesn’t Want Stability — She Wants to Feel Alive

04 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

🎃 HALLOWEEN SALE — 5 DAYS ONLY 🎃The masks are off. For five days, I’m slashing prices on the most powerful dating & charisma programs I’...

She Can Feel When You Want Her Too Much 😬

31 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

🎃 HALLOWEEN SALE — 5 DAYS ONLY 🎃The masks are off. For five days, I’m slashing prices on the most powerful dating & charisma programs I’...

Women want the man who couldn't care less

27 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you would like to apply to join me and James Tusk & Les for coaching in Mexico City over the Day of the Dead celebrations (29th Oct - 3rd Nov),...

Rules Are Made To Be Broken (Especially the boring ones...)

26 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you would like to apply to join me and James Tusk & Les for coaching in Mexico City over the Day of the Dead celebrations (29th Oct - 3rd Nov),...

If she wasn't beautiful, would you still want her in your life?

24 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you would like to apply to join me and James Tusk & Les for coaching in Mexico City over the Day of the Dead celebrations (29th Oct - 3rd Nov),...

Burn Your Old Life To The Ground

24 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you would like to apply to join me and James Tusk & Les for coaching in Mexico City over the Day of the Dead celebrations (29th Oct - 3rd Nov),...

Why The Herd Fails With Women [Individuality is an Aphrodisiac]

21 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you would like to join us in Mexico City for coaching during the Day of the Dead festivities 29th Oct -3rd Nov, then drop me an email at troy@realt...

No Half Measures: If Your Dating Life Is Stuck You Need to Change EVERYTHING!

21 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Change your entire dating life this Halloween

17 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

To apply, please drop me an email at [email protected] with the word 'HALLOWEEN' in the subject line.

Why A Sense of Danger Is The Sexiest Currency

15 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Creating an incredible life requires a capacity for DESTRUCTION!

13 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

For dating and life...For all enquiries (coaching and otherwise) email me: [email protected]

Stop Worshipping Leaders: Become The Man Others Follow!

02 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Stop Worshipping Leaders: Become The Man Others Follow!

Why Comfortable, 'Nice' Men Always LOSE!

26 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Why Comfortable, 'Nice' Men Always LOSE!

Your Appetite For Risk Is EVERYTHING In Modern Dating

26 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Your Appetite For Risk Is EVERYTHING In Modern Dating

Break Free From The Herd — Or Be Crushed By It!

26 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Break Free From The Herd — Or Be Crushed By It!

Do Whatever It Takes — Or Stay Mediocre Forever

23 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Do Whatever It Takes — Or Stay Mediocre Forever

Comfort is Killing You — And Your Dating Life

22 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Comfort is Killing You — And Your Dating Life

If You Don't Reinvent Yourself, You're Finished (In Dating AND In Life)

20 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Desire is Destiny — Why Wanting Hard Enough Breaks Every Wall

17 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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High-End Places Are Your Secret Weapon — Here's Why...

16 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Death is waiting - you have to live for the now!

12 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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SOCIAL EXPERIMENT! Does Wearing A Tie In Public Affect How People Treat You?

12 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Your Dating Life Is NOT a Competition

11 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Dating Skills Are All About Subtext - What Happens Under the Surface

11 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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You NEED Social Awareness - Here's How You Get It

08 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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How to SILENCE Your Inner Critic

02 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Longing is the most Potent Emotion of All

26 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Longing is the most Potent Emotion of All

Is Intelligence Sexy?

21 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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How To Deal With Not Feeling Good Enough

19 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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The Reinvention of Self (Gentlemanly S2. Ep. 4)

11 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Building a Life Women Want To Step Into (Gentlemanly S.2, Ep.3)

08 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Building a Life Women Want To Step Into (Gentlemanly S.2, Ep.3)To get in touch, email: [email protected]

How to have a strong internal narrative

06 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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Libido and Ageing

04 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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20 Rules for Surviving Yourself (A Letter from the Abyss) - GENTLEMANLY Season Two, Episode One

01 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

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You Can’t Charm Anyone If You Secretly Hate Yourself

30 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Inner peace isn't just wellness fluff—it's the foundation of confidence. But you’ll still need social skills and a well-tailored jacket. T...

High-achieving Man With No Time to Talk to Women? Bullsh*t. You’re Just Scared

29 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A lot of men we work with CLAIM that they have no time to talk to women during their day since they are too consumed with their careers. While there c...

STOP the 'Talking Phase' – She’s Already Losing Interest (DATING ADVICE)

23 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Let's face it, the 'talking phase' is a waste of time for everyoneThis is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And t...

Is Modern Dating Now Completely TRANSACTIONAL?

22 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame....

What are you doing this for anyway? (You need a strong 'why' to succeed)

20 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame....

The Art of SELF DELUSION! is literally magic

16 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The art of self-delusion

How Important to Women Is What You Wear?

14 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Few things are more important in life than love, death and good tailoring. This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Po...

Modern Dating Is Broken—And I Should Know. I Teach This Stuff….

13 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Swipe culture is eating intimacy alive—and I’ve lived through it.

Most Dating Advice Will RUIN You!

12 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame....

The Curse of the Self-Improved Man

12 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

He fixed his body, read the books, did the work — and she still chose the bartender with a cigarette and a crooked smile.This is not a podcast about...

Romance Is a Luxury for the Ruthless

09 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Sentiment is wasted on the passive. Only those willing to risk everything get the real thing.This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence....

The DECADENT City of Sin - BOGOTA, COLOMBIA

08 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame....

The Art of Strategic Withdrawal (In Relationships, Business and Life)

24 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame....

Is STOICISM a tired self-help cliche or something you MUST incorporate into your life?

23 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame....

It's not what you SAY, it's the POWER and PRESENCE behind it . . .

22 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In today's world, effective communication goes beyond words. It's about the energy you project and the presence you command. This episode delves into ...

The Rule of 100: Dating, Discipline, and Dopamine

17 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Want to rewire your dating life, your confidence, and your self-mastery? Don’t think. Don’t overanalyze. Just do it 100 times. The Rule of 100 cha...

Lonely but successful - the modern man's SECRET CRISIS

15 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

He’s got the watch. The apartment. The abs.But at 2 a.m., he’s scrolling, spiralling, and wondering why it all feels so empty.This isn’t therapy...

The Rise of the "Gentleman Villain" — and Why This Archetype is So POWERFUL

14 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Smooth. Dangerous. Impeccably dressed. From Tom Ripley to Patrick Bateman, the "Gentleman Villain" has captivated culture for decades—and ...

Bogota, Colombia - The Greatest Destination On Earth? | With @Tuskandteam

14 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

♤ Colombia 🇨🇴Bogotá Immersion: 24th – 27th April 2025Perched high in the Andes at 2,600m, Bogotá pulses with raw energy — a city of cont...

Money Isn’t the Flex. This Is . . .

11 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve got the car, the suit, the Instagram feed—but she’s still lukewarm. Why? Because money can’t substitute for soul. Charisma. Depth. Ener...

Why Women Never Choose The Nice Guy [EVEN When He's Winning!]

10 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

He’s got the job. The car. The polite smile.He does everything right — and still gets left behind.Why? Because niceness isn’t magnetism.In this ...

BECOME THE MAN WHO CAN'T BE BROKEN: Turn your pain into FIRE!

09 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Pain is inevitable - success is notWhen we feel pain, whether around relationships, work, or any other aspect of our lives, we need to use it as a for...

The Unforgiven: What We Get Wrong About Closure

08 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Why you don’t need forgiveness, or even understanding, to move on — you need power.We’re sold a lie: that closure comes from calm conversations,...

Why Conversation Is the Ultimate Male Superpower (Gentlemanly #podcast Ep. 9)

07 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve ever run out of things to say to a woman—You need to hear this.The method is simple. The impact is massive.🎙️ Gentlemanly Episode 9...

Forget Balance — Choose Obsession

03 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Average men chase balance. Great men go all in.→ Balance is for accountants. You want greatness? Get obsessed.This is not a podcast about pickup.It’...

I Relapsed for a Woman: Lust, Cocaine, and the Lie of Control

02 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

I Relapsed for a Woman: Lust, Cocaine, and the Lie of ControlA raw confession: what led to the slip, what it revealed about ego, love, and addiction —...

Roy Cohn Was Evil — But He Got Sh*t Done Lessons (Lessons from Trump's Mentor)

01 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Today’s episode is about one of the most ruthless men in American history — Roy Cohn.A man who played the power game like Machiavelli with less he...

What Nobody Tells You About Charisma (Gentlemanly #Podcast 5)

31 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

🔥 What Nobody Tells You About CharismaGentlemanly Podcast #5Two decades in the trenches.Scars on my body. Scars on my soul.I’ve lived this. Bled ...

Most Men Fade - Here's Why I Won't [Gentlemanly #podcast Ep. 4]

28 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Most men soften with age. They lose their edge, their presence, their power.But some of us — the few — refuse to go quietly.This episode is about ...

Why She Chose Him Over You - Gentlemanly Ep.3

27 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

I used to think love was about being nice.About loyalty. Waiting. Hoping.I got everything wrong.In this episode of Gentlemanly, I break down the hard ...

The Story I Never Wanted To Tell (But Had To) - Gentlemanly Ep. 2

26 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame....

Gentlemanly by Troy Francis - Introduction

25 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this first episode, I explain what Gentlemanly is — and what it isn’t.This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style....

Learn to Love FAILURE

29 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coming up . . . London Advanced 3-Day Bootcamp 🇬🇧 📅 Mid-July 2024 Location: London This event offers hands-on opportunities to interac...

I'm a Good looking Genius & You're A Dork - Now What?

27 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coming up . . . London Advanced 3-Day Bootcamp 🇬🇧 📅 Mid-July 2024 Location: London This event offers hands-on opportunities to interac...

Let's Be Honest - Most Guys DESERVE To Fail In The Dating Game

13 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Tusk and Troy discuss why cold approach is still important even in 2024, the importance of building sustainable habits, why we all nee...