Girls Gone Deep
Episodes
068: Sensation Play with Sarah Eve: TENS and Electroplay, “Pervertables”, and Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body
25 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Sarah Eve about sensation play, including everything from the tools to use, to what questions to ask before a ...
067: Overcoming Challenges and Exploring Dynamics in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Stag and Vixen, Playing Separately vs Together, and Alcohol's Effects
18 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifes...
066: Guys Gone Deep on Prostate Play, Squirt Juice Facials, Spit Play and Latex Fetish feat. Zachary Zane and The Builder
11 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game.First up, Zachary Zane @zach...
065: Hedonism Swing Breakers 2024: Intentions and Takeaways, featuring Squirting, Day Orgies, Speculum "Caving" and Slut Scouts
04 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat before and after Vee goes to Hedonism Swing Breakers: an under-45 swinger event at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica. ...
064: SNCTM with Daniel D’Ottavio: Erotic Performance Art, Exploration Through Anonymity, and the Deeper Meaning Behind Impact Play
28 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode, Elle and Vee chat about all things SNCTM, the private members club that the girls have always wanted a peek inside. The...
063: “Daytime Playtime” Sober Play Party: Penis Sounding, Sensation Play, Cumming On Top, Apple Vision Pro Home Porn
21 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Horny for Knowledge: Daytime Playtime Sober Play Party with Mini Workshops. (00:54)What is a daytime sober play party like? Analyzing the space and vi...
062: Sugar Daddy Fantasies, Orgasm Control, Foot Worship and Sex Dungeon Experiences
14 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two sexy friends to play WHOREible Life the game! Leia (@vibrantbyleia) from Episode 41: Transformationa...
061: New High-End Sex Party Noetic: Fantasies, Strap-ons, Consent Double Standards and Hot Girl Privilege
07 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Listen in as Elle and Vee chat with Amy and Byron about Noetic, an exclusive elite VIP sex party which hosts unique, kinky, themed events in NYC...
060: NSFW Sex Club Founder Daniel Saynt on Creating a Sex Positive Community, Bi Male Acceptance, and Cannabis and Herbal Sexual Enhancements
29 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Vee and Elle had special guest Daniel Saynt on the show: founder and Chief Conspirator of NSFW, AKA New Society for Wellness, which ...
059: Sensual Shibari Practitioner Jaqueline Michelle on Embodiment after Disassociation, Healing Trauma, Solo Kink and Conscious Sex Work
21 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with sensuality mentor and sensual shibari practitioner Jaqueline Michelle about ways to heal trauma and connect wi...
058: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play
15 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back guest Jess from Episode 37: Edging, to play the game WHOREible Life together! This conversation perfect...
057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life!
08 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Zachary Zane on everything from coming out as bisexual to overcoming shame, the importance of community and...
056: 2024 Sexual Intentions and Fuckit List Items: Sex Dolls, MFMs, and Overcoming Codependency
01 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee reflect on their sexual highlights from 2023, and look forward to what they want to focus on in 2024, sexually and perso...
055: The Beauty of Sex as Play: Deep Throating, “Caving”, Double-ended Dildos, and “Who’s in My Mouth?”
25 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up after their separate slutty adventures. Elle gives all the naughty details of her trip to Nicaragua with a gr...
054: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix with Sasha Silver: Financial Domination, Small Penis Humiliation, Giantess Fantasy and Healing Through Kink
18 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Femdom Sasha Silver. The girls talk about her journey from webcamming to dominatrix to self discovery to the p...
053: Butt Stuff: Anal Sex, Pegging, DP, Butt Plugs, Rimjobs, Douching, and Everything In Between!
11 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In the episode you've all been waiting for ;), Elle and Vee dive deep into all things BUTT STUFF, including (drumroll please)... Vee's play ...
052: Enthusiastic Consent, Slut Hacks, Airtight Sex Dolls and DVAP (DVP + Anal)
04 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Happy New Year! Elle and Vee usher in 2024 by reflecting on some of the never-before-released clips from some of the most popular episodes of 2023. ...
051: Interviewing Julia Lange, the Woman Who Runs Hedonism Swing Breakers (HSB): What To Expect, Tips for Newbies, and What to Bring
28 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Wrapping up 2023! Podcast stats revealed! THANK YOU to our listeners! We appreciate you spending time with us each week and for sharing this podcast w...
050: Handling Rejection: How To Turn Someone Down, Polysaturation and Getting Out of a Group Sex Situation
21 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The girls chat with Bibi, Vee's friend in the lifestyle, about all things rejection, including:Open lifestyle and rejection: How do you reject or...
049: Vagina Health: How to stay DTF, Tips to Prevent and Treat Yeast Infections, BV, and UTIs
14 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee have one of their most important conversations to date: all things vaginal health. Elle is a medical professional - a ...
048: Freaksgiving Revisit: Sex Party Hosting Checklist, Sub/Dom and Impact Play, and Prioritizing Your Partner
07 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend. ...
047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix
30 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Brandi about her ten years' worth of experience in the lifestyle, throughout which she's been able t...
046: BDSM: Safety, Communication, and Intention, Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG), and “Demystifying Rope” aka Shibari
23 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, join Elle and Vee with return guest Physics to get an inside view of what goes on in a top’s brain and the intricate communicatio...
045: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Manifesting Through Sex Magic, and the Importance of Prostate Play
16 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Physics (@physics_shibari) about the ins and outs of founding a sex group, what a yoni massage involves, and w...
044: Halloween Sexcapades: Sex Swing Sex, BDSM with Strangers, & Sensory Deprivation
09 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee catch up on their weekend sexcapades. Vee attended a private sex party event with 40+ people and the City of Gods Halloween party in NYC ...
043: Hoes in Hoboken Sex Party: The Role of Substances in Enthusiastic Consent, Exercising Your "No", and Getting Out of Your Head to Squirt
02 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up about Vee’s latest sex party that she hosted with J, including squirting, enthusiastic consent, substance use...
042: Sexual Somatic Healing, Erotic Embodiment, and Embracing Spirituality through Sexuality
26 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee bring Leia back for a part 2 to discuss Sexual Somatic Healing and so much more! What is somatic healing? How does it differ from typica...
041: Transformational Experiences of ENM: Sexual Healing, Self Love, and the Benefits of Dating Couples
19 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with their friend Leia (@vibrantbyleia), who gets deep about being a single bisexual female in the lifestyle, datin...
040: Sex with Pregnant Women, The Pussy Pump + Other Sex Toy Reviews, and Period Sex
12 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee catch up and chat about sex with pregnant women and talk about new sex toys, offering their reviews and opinions. Being pregnant in the ...
039: Stretching Fetish: Fisting, DVP and Vagina Spreaders; Shaved vs Hairy Pussies; and Introducing a Partner to ENM
05 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Elle and Vee chat with T Money about what he's learned in his twenty years in the lifestyle, including:Introducing someone to ethical ...
038: How to Keep it Sexy in a Long Term Relationship: Esther Perel’s 4 Things to Foster Erotic Desire
21 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee dive into the work of Esther Perel, a relationship expert, on relationship dynamics, how to keep things sexy and how to foster erotic des...
037: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and Spanking
14 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee have two special guests in today's episode, Ace and Jess who share their lifestyle practices with edging and other kinky experienc...
036: Triggered: Bringing a Third to a Sex Party, The Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Perception Vs Reality
07 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee share their experiences and challenges of bringing a third to a weekend getaway and how they worked through being triggered.Vee shares he...
035: JOYsey Shore: Partying Sober, DVP Tips, and Sybian vs F*ck Machine
31 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee debrief on the highlights, challenges and takeaways from their most recent weekend away with their ENM friends. “A g...
034: How to Squirt: Tips and Tricks, the Peeing Sensation and Social Stigmas of Squirting
24 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with M, the squirt master. He shares his tips and tricks on how to make a girl squirt and the girls share their per...
033: Intimacy Inventory: Questions for Introspection, What You Bring to Your Relationship, and Taking vs Being Taken (including CNC)
17 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What is an Intimacy Inventory, and why is it important for our relationships? (1:52) Get Access here… What strengths do you bring to your relatio...
032: Sexual Shame: Unlearning Religious Messages, The Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Healing Through ENM
10 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee chat with their friend Kit, who grew up in a strict religious home. The girls chat about their formative sexual experiences and messages ...
031: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband
03 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, the girls sit down with Slutlana, who is Elle and her husband M's best friend and girlfriend. They cover a range of topics, in...
030: How to Transition to Sexy Vibes in Group Sex (Especially with Longterm ENM Friends)
27 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when you’ve had the same group of ENM friends for years? In this episode, Vee and Elle sit down with M to chat about the catch-22 of h...
029: Cum: Ejaculating vs Squirting, Spitting vs Swallowing, and Tasting Yourself
20 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee talk all things CUM, including Ejaculating vs Squirting: and is there pee in squirt juice? (2:54)Taste: modifying your ...
028: Navigating Emotional Triggers in Group Sex, and The Beauty of Day Orgies
13 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee cover a range of topics, from dealing with the emotions of multiple partners in threesomes and foursomes, questioning ho...
027: The Joy of Porn: Connecting with your Partner, Formative Sexual Experiences, and VR Porn
06 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things pornography, from their use of it to their first exposure to it, including: How do you use porn? Aut...
026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas: Emotional Intimacy, Sexual Satisfaction, and Questioning Societal Norms
29 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee and their monogamous friends answer each others’ questions, including: What does the word vanilla mean to you, and is...
025: Baconfest 2023: Merging Swinger and Traditional Friends, Threesome Takeaways, and BDSM Tests
22 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their weekend at Baconfest 2023 at their friends' house at the Jersey Shore. It was a mixture of ENM and vani...
024: Going Deep with Safe.Slut Tricia Wise: Genital Herpes, OnlyFans, and Energy Healing
15 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Tricia Wise, aka Safe.Slut, who is a sex activist (Instagram @safe.slut), an OnlyFans content creator (saf...
023: Solo ENM with Holly: Being a Unicorn, Group Sex Dynamics, and What is Comphet?
08 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Holly, who gives the perspective of a single twenty-something in the ethically non-monogamous dating scene in ...
022: Setting (and Pushing) Boundaries in ENM Relationships
01 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things boundaries and agreements in open relationships, from the early rules they had when they entered the ...
021: Alternative Dating Apps for ENM and Kink: Exploring Desires, Finding Events Near You and Defining “Heteroflexible”
25 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee were inspired to chat about the alternative dating apps and websites that have worked for them in the lifestyle, includi...
020: Weddings from an ENM Perspective, Divorce, and the Meaning of Being "Settled"
18 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on Elle’s trip to Florida with the Joy Fam, while Vee was at a monogamous friend’s wedding… which prompts...
019: Arousal Styles, FOMO, and Running Into Ex Lovers
11 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss what turns them on based on Dr. Emily Morse’s (@sexwithemily) article, “These Are the 5 Arousal Styles, Whic...
018: Female Friendships in ENM: Support, Finding Your People and “Zhuzhing”
04 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Elle and Vee chat with their friend “Mommy” about the importance of female friendships in CNM (consensual non-monogamy), including: Th...
017: Guys Gone Deep on Approaching Women: Body Language, Turn Offs, and Panty Droppers
27 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee continue their conversation with Chet about how to approach women in the lifetsyle, including:Body Language: how can you figure out if so...
016: Guys Gone Deep: Chet on Leaving Mormonism, Navigating ENM, and Approaching Women with Authenticity
20 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Elle and Vee talk with Chet, whose journey into the non-monogamous lifestyle is unique in that he was raised in the Church of Latter Day Sa...
015: Going Deep with Julia Lange, the Woman Behind Hedonism Swing Breakers
10 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Julia Lange, the brains behind Hedonism Swing Breakers, and the daughter of Harry Lange, the owner of Hedonism...
014: Hedonism Swing Breakers: Being Naked in Public, Prioritizing Your Partner, and Orgy Highlights
06 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee record both during and after their week at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica for the theme week Hedonism Swing Break...
013: What Does "Vanilla" Mean to Swingers?
30 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
After some thought-provoking conversations with monogamous (non-lifestyle) friends, Vee and Elle discuss what the word "vanilla" actually me...
012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle
22 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Elle and Vee chat with M and their friend The Builder, who are known as the "DP Duo" in their friend group. The girls ask them ...
011: Vagina Health: How to Prevent and Treat Yeast Infections, BV, and UTIs
15 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee have one of their most important conversations to date: all things vaginal health. Elle is a medical professional - a ...
010: Love Languages Gone Sexy: Taking the Five Love Languages into the Bedroom
08 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week Elle and Vee talk about how to apply the Five Love Languages to your sex life, including:What are the 5 Love Languages, and how important ar...
009: Threesomes: Finding a Third, Being a Third, and What to Discuss Beforehand
01 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Elle and Vee record in the same room for the very first time! And they've saved a topic very close to their hearts: threesomes. ...
008: Rejection: How to Turn Someone Down at a Sex Party and Ethical Rejections
22 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The girls chat with Bibi, Vee's friend in the lifestyle, about all things rejection, including:Open lifestyle and rejection: How do you reject or...
007: Sex and Weed: Powerful Orgasms, Anxiety, Surveys and Science
16 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The girls explore how weed affects their sex lives, inspired by a Vice article connecting marijuana use with more powerful orgasms. Including: Vee...
006: Freaksgiving: Hosting a Sex Party, Impact Play and Cultivating Joy
08 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend. ...
005: Guys Gone Deep: M on Compersion, Staying Hard and DP
01 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Guys Gone Deep is a regular series of Girls Gone Deep, in which Elle and Vee pick the brains of men in the lifestyle to get the male perspective. In...
004: Lifestyle Vacations: Lifestyle vs. Vanilla Resorts, and Playing with Couples who are on the Same Page
25 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Vee tells Elle about her vacation with a lifestyle events company. They talk about resorts, takeovers, and what they’re like, including Temptation...
003: New Years Intentions: Sexual, Personal, Professional, and Fuckit Lists
19 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee catch up in the beginning of a new year to fill each other in on their holidays and set some personal, professional, and sexual intention...
002: Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) Part 2: Authenticity, Boundaries and Honesty
18 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee take another dive into non-monogamous relationships (consensual non-monogamy) and share nuggets they have learned, including answering th...
001: Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) Part 1: Self-Love, Jealousy, and Communication
18 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Elle and Vee have their weekly catchup on all things lifestyle and self-love, including:-The importance of checking in with themselves and honoring wh...