Habits and Hustle
Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations
24 Dec 2024
In conversations do you tend to dominate or take a backseat? In this Habits and Hustle episode, I’m re-sharing a conversation I had with etiquette expert Sara Jane Ho about using guidelines to foster a more interactive, balanced dialogue, and deeper connection. Listen as we discuss the challenge of dancing around the fine line between curiosity and intrusiveness, noting cultural differences in what's considered polite or rude, and the intersection of East meets West and female empowerment - especially in business! She also shares the true impact of making a strong first impression, especially in the world of modern dating, and the evolving norms of social etiquette in the post-COVID world. Sara Jane Ho is the star of Netflix’s “Mind Your Manners”, author of the book of the same name, founder of Chinese finishing school, Institute Sarita, where students are taught etiquette and lifetime skills. What We Discuss: (11:00) The legacy of etiquette and charm schools (20:00) How to master etiquette and dating in the modern world (22:18) The impact of a first impression (37:00) The essential guide to exceptional table manners (51:10) The key differences between curiosity and intrusiveness (58:34) Career choices and female empowerment (01:01:51 Herbal remedies and Eastern medicine (01:11:50) Innovative intimate wellness company and proper vulva hygiene education (01:25:14) Avoiding graveyard energy in your home, and the 20 second/40 second rule …and more! Thank you to our sponsors: AquaTru: Get 20% off any purifier at aquatru.com with code HUSTLE Therasage: Head over to therasage.com and use code Be Bold for 15% off TruNiagen: Head over to truniagen.com and use code HUSTLE20 to get $20 off any purchase over $100. Magic Mind: Head over to www.magicmind.com/jen and use code Jen at checkout. BiOptimizers: Want to try Magnesium Breakthrough? Go to https://bioptimizers.com/jennifercohen and use promo code JC10 at checkout to save 10% off your purchase. Timeline Nutrition: Get 10% off your first order at timeline.com/cohen Air Doctor: Go to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code HUSTLE for up to $300 off and a 3-year warranty on air purifiers. Find more from Jen: Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ Instagram: @therealjencohen Books: https://www.jennifercohen.com/books Speaking: https://www.jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagement Find more from Sara Jane Ho: Website:https://www.sarajaneho.com/ Book: Mind Your Manners Instagram: @sarajaneho
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All right, guys, this is a fun episode we're doing today because I have Sarah Jane Ho, otherwise known as Sarah Jane, that's how you go by, who wrote a book called Mind Your Manners. She has the same name for her Netflix show, which is now not going into season two. We don't know yet. You don't know.
There's only been season one.
There's only been season one, but she is a renowned etiquette expert. I can't wait to ask you my questions. And we are going to get really into all this stuff. Sarah Sanku, thank you so much for being on this podcast. Thank you for having me. I love talking about habits and hustle. Well, I'm glad because we're going to be talking all about habits and hustle, but how to do it properly.
I mean, I got to tell you, I'm actually kind of nervous to have you on. I told you that when you walked in because... I don't know. I think maybe I need, like, I need to hire you because there's a couple areas of my life that probably I'm not the most groomed and well, my etiquette may be a little bit lacking. So this could be a long way to find out.
Yeah.
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