Head Over Feels: Love, Sex, and Relationship Advice
Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
Episodes
How your attachment style affects your sex life
29 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is an attachment styles 101 crash course where you can get an overview of this framework and how it affects your sex life. This is a research-sup...
Keeping the Spark Alive, Conflicting Closeness Needs, Scratchy Beard During Oral Sex, and Sex Toy Shaming
09 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sorry for the delay all, was moving this weekend! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. We share plenty of memes, resources, and keep you updated!Joi...
Why people fake orgasms, and why you never should
03 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Meg dives in this week to examine the psychological underpinnings of faking an orgasm, and explains the importance of self-advocacy and sexual empower...
Baking a Conflict Cake, Emotional Standoff, An Anniversary Disappointment, and How to have Sex Health Conversations
24 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. We share plenty of memes, resources, and keep you updated!Join us in the private Rebel Hearts Facebook group to d...
Why you put off dumping your lover, and how to be less cruel when you do
19 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Meg takes the mic solo this week again! She discusses why we put off breaking up with someone we know isn't a good match, the emotions and dynami...
Refusing STI testing, Narcissist Roulette, Crying about Performance Issues, and the book: How to Do the Work by Nicole LePera
10 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. We share plenty of memes, resources, and keep you updated!Join us in the private Rebel Hearts Facebook group to d...
How to improve a romantic connection by rocking the boat
03 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Meg takes the mic solo this week again! She discusses why we hide the parts of ourselves we think others will disapprove of, why we choose being appro...
An Aftercare-Neglecting Domme, Friends Taking Sides After a Breakup, Shibari Rope That's Too Slippery, and Emotional Intelligence
26 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. We share plenty of memes, resources, and keep you updated!Join us in the private Rebel Hearts Facebook group to d...
A story of the journey out of sexual shame-- and how you can too.
20 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Meg takes the mic solo this week while Fernando is recovering from a surgery. She discusses her repressive past, struggles around sexuality, journey o...
The Relationship That Wasn't, Sudden Love-Bombing Abandonment, Sharing Clingy Memes, and the book Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
12 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Interested in any of the books we've mentioned in the podcast? Go to audibletrial.com/headoverfeels to get one FREE audiobook with your FREE mont...
Excessively Triggered Jealousy of Exes, Broken Condom Drama, Getting Tied Up Too Loosely, and the 3-minute Game
05 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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Getting Full participation in a Foursome, Exes Coming Out of the Woodwork, A Partner’s Mom’s Baby Fever, and How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes
29 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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Finding your Husband on a Gay Dating Site, Staying Friends with a "Cheatee", Validating a Relationship in Non-Sexual Ways, and How to Love Yourself While Single
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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Annoying Sex Sounds, Cowboy Concerns, Intro to Anal Fisting, and People Pleasing.
15 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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Cheating With the Person They Mocked, A Lack of Condom Notification, Bad Hearing, and the book Marriage Fitness by Mort Fortel
08 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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Excessive Crying, Inconsiderate Boyfriend, Feelings in a Female-Led-Relationship, and Why We Advocate Therapy!
01 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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New Poly-wog Concerns, Older Sister Sex Shadow, Texting Privacy, and A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle
22 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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A Stationary Boyfriend, Making a Threesome Happen, A Girlfriend Withholding Sex, and What is Shadow Work?
15 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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Live Q&A: Scheduling Sex, Long Distance Relationships, Mail Potato, and so much more!
08 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is our first Facebook LIVE Q&A, presented in audio form!We didn't realize downloading the video and exporting the audio would result in ...
A Messy Love Polygon, A Moody Girlfriend, Learning to Love an Uncut Dick, and Models by Mark Manson
01 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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Trusting a Remorseful Cheater, Dating your Girlfriend's Friend, A Deadbeat Boyfriend and Polyamory 101
25 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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Distracting Bodily Insecurities, Anal Judgement, Going Braless, and Difficult Conversations
18 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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A Poly Married Mess, Enthusiasm Fadeout, Familial Gay Intolerance, and Hierarchical Poly 101
11 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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Cuckhold Regret, Assessing Attraction, Excessive Phone Usage, and Becoming Nobody by Ram Dass
04 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
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A Curious Sugar Baby, Questioning Porn, Poly Hookup Guilt, and Sex on Substances
28 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Link to Youtube Video about Mindgeek and the Porn Industry:https://youtu.be/WEYB02EZtVsInterested in any of the books we've mentioned in the podc...
Flirting with an Asexual, Teasing Foreplay, Poly on the Rocks, and the Narcissist/Empath Dynamic
21 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
22 Stages of Relationship Between An Empath and A Narcissist :https://themindsjournal.com/stages-relationship-empath-narcissist/Interested in any of t...
Dating Your Best Friend's Ex, "Soft" Ghosting, Penetration on a Pedestal, and the RADAR Check-in Tool
14 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
RADAR Check-in Tool:https://www.multiamory.com/radarInterested in any of the books we've mentioned in the podcast? Go to audibletrial.com/headove...
Having Louder Orgasms, Being the "Man," Destabilizing Secondaries, and the book, The Charisma Myth
07 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
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Kong Licking-Style Cunnilingus, A Bad Breath Boyfriend, Slippery Shower Sex, and ALL About the G-Spot
30 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
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Getting Breast Implants, Getting Kinkier, Peeing While Sitting Down, and the Do's and Dont's of Impact Play
23 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
She says it feels wrong to want breast implants, but is she in the right mindset? How does one go from vanilla to kinky? Is it unmanly for a man to pe...
A Big Clit, NRE Sex Imbalance, Decline of Sexual Interest, and Psychoanalyzing Bondage
16 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This guy doesn't know how to approach a bigger-than-normal clit, but is there even a normal?? How to navigate the common situation where a partne...
Dick Hardening, Unshaved Legs, Recreating Vacation Sex, and the book, Daring Greatly
09 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Why is his fickle dick not always the same hardness? Should she shave her legs to get more potential dates? How can they bring the sexy vacation vib...
Coaxing Therapy, Porn Addiction, Getting More Head, and Safewords
02 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How can she convince her bf to go to therapy? Can this couple rebuild trust despite infidelity and a porn addiction? How can he convince his gf to giv...
A Jealous Non-Meta, Anal Enjoyment Strategies, A Rockstar Meta, and the Book: The Truth
26 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How does jealousy extend beyond the couple? How can anal sex be enjoyed more? Can she quell her insecurity about her meta who is literally a rockstar?...
Dirty Talk, Poly Oversharing, Housework Imbalance, and How to Hold Space
19 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How can one learn to do more dirty-talk? How to deal with hearing the deets about your partner's other relationship? How can this couple balanc...
Simultaneous Orgasms, Pandemic Dating, Forbidding Masturbation, and Trauma Bonding
12 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How can this couple cum together, and is it important? How to deal with the extra layer of flakiness of dating during the pandemic? Should she stop ma...
Creative Face Sitting, Covid Dating Navigation, Work Boyfriend Messiness, and the book: The Body Keeps the Score
05 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How can these ladies get creative with the logistics of face-sitting? How to keep your chin up during pandemic dating? Why shouldn't you shit whe...
Red Flag City, Edging, Haunting Ex-Thoughts, Music Festival Magic, and The Apology Languages
28 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Look at all these red flags! How can he teach his gf to edge him? Can she move past these weird recurring thoughts of her ex? Was this connection ju...
Friendship Jealousy, Covid Ghosting, Too Much Chilling, and Aftercare
21 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Can this friend diffuse the jealousy of her friend's partner? What's up with all these covid ghosts? Is there such thing as too much chill...
Mosting, Nosebleeds, Revealing Poly to your Kids, Incest Dreams, and Toxic Positivity
14 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What is mosting and why is it awful? Why is this guy getting nosebleeds during sex? How can this parent reveal their poly lifestyle to their kid? What...
A Triggering Event, Secret Cross Dressing, Crush Recovery, Non-Anal Options, and the book Opening Up
07 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Get the Audible version of "Opening Up" here!Interested in any of the books we have mentioned in the podcast?Go to audibletrial.com/headover...
Changing Your Last Name, A Foursome Disaster, Dateception, A Large Unpaid Debt, and How to Handle Rejection
31 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Interested in any of the books we have mentioned in the podcast?Go to audibletrial.com/headoverfeels to get One Free Audio Book and One Free Month Tri...
Meaningful Chores, Healing Too Late, Ascertaining a Rebound, Too Many Partners, and Safety Love Languages
24 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Infographic on Routes of Safety:https://www.instagram.com/p/B-LVMDUDp6U/Interested in any of the books we have mentioned in the podcast?Go to audiblet...
Squirting Revelations, Diva Girlfriend, Coaxing out a Daddy, Sex in Nature, and The Power of Now
17 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Get the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle here!https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808Interested in any of the books ...
An Unshared Kink, Sexual Shutdown, Psycho-Analyzing Boyfriend, Stuck in the Short-Term, and How to Break Up
10 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Interested in any of the books we have mentioned in the podcast?Go to audibletrial.com/headoverfeels to get One Free Audio Book and One Free Month Tri...
Disclosing being Trans, A Boyfriend Hiring Sex-Workers, Crushing on Your Therapist, New Partners having Poly Tension, and The Ethical Slut
03 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Get a trial of Audible through our link (see below) and then follow this link to get The Ethical Slut!https://www.amazon.com/The-Ethical-Slut-audioboo...
Moving On, Staying Confident in Dating, Moving for a Lover, A Poopy Orgasm, and How to Receive an Accountability Talk
27 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Link to our Accountability Talk Reference:http://www.adiosbarbie.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/CLAIM.jpgInterested in any of the books we have mentio...
Finding your Dad's Porn, "Requiring" High Heels, Dating after Divorce, Falling for a Friend, and How to Have an Accountability Talk
20 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
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A Circus Love, Bipolar Excuses, Gender Dynamics in Non-Monogamy, A Charismatic Flake, and Making Marriage Work
13 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Our Toolbox resource this week is:The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Exper...
Being Too Much, Having your Cake and Eating it too, An Ignored Safe Word, Sneaking Porn, and Ask Versus Guess Culture
06 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Interested in any of the books we have mentioned in the podcast?Go to audibletrial.com/headoverfeels to get One Free Audio Book and One Free Month Tri...
A Sexy Renaissance, a Friend who can't Read Signals, Lack of Curve Appreciation, Romantic Vacation Aftermath and Types of Emotional Abuse
29 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Spotlight: PDF of Types of Emotional Abuse, from The Mend Projecthttps://themendproject.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Original-Abuse.pdfMore info on ...
The Misconceptions of Promiscuity, Racist Grandparents, Threatening Suicide, Potential Cheating, and Mating in Captivity
22 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Toolbox Book: Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Ether Perelhttps://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence...
Jealousy, Withdrawn Poly Consent, Cheating as Revenge, Bad Hygiene, and The Spoon Theory
15 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's Toolbox, we will be going over The Spoon Theory.https://butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/ Add...
An Affection-less Marriage, Accepting Favors and Getting Over Betrayal, and Non-Violent Communication
08 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Our combined Spotlight/Toolbox topic this week is on Non-Violent Communication (NVC), what it is and how to use it!Nonviolent Communication: A Languag...
Staying for the Sex, Crushing on your Girlfriend's Sister, Secretive Texting, and Self Care
01 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Our combined Spotlight/Toolbox topic this week is on Self Care (what it is, why it is important, and ways to practice self care).Interested in any of ...
Low Sex Drive, The Friend That's Too Close, and An Interrupting Primary Partner
25 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Our Spotlight this week covers the topic: Power Dynamicshttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201602/4-truths-about-power-in-rel...
Dating as a Yoga Teacher, Supporting a Depressed Partner, and Living with your Partner's Parents
18 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover questions about dating as a yoga teacher, supporting a depressed partner, and living with your partner's parents.Our spotlight...
Emotional Processing, Orgasmic Inequality, Political Incongruity, and Potatoes
11 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover: emotional processing, orgasmic inequality, political incongruity, and potatoes! Our Spotlight topic this week is on Emotional Pro...
How to Reveal a Kink, Video Game Girlfriend, Trash Talking your Friend's Partner and Health Shaming
04 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover topics like: the video game girlfriend, trash talking your friend's partner and health shaming.In the Spotlight section we go ...
Fucking Your Professor, Dating With Anxiety, and Having Conflicting Communication Styles
27 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover topics like fucking your professor, dating with anxiety, and having conflicting communication styles.Our spotlight topic and Toolbo...
Dating a 30 Year Old Virgin, Wearing Slutty Clothes, and Revenge Fantasies
20 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover questions about dating a 30 year old virgin, wearing slutty clothes, and revenge fantasies. Our Spotlight topic is about Kink Sha...
Going to a Conference with a Meta you Can't Stand, Being a Dom Who Can't, New Relationship Secrecy, and the Concept of Bids
13 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover topics like going to a conference with a meta (or metamour) that you cannot stand, being a Dom that struggles being a Dom, and new ...
Slut Shaming, Sex Farts, and Mismatched Futures
06 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover why sex shaming is never ok, how to handle passing gas during sex, and how to prep for the future of a relationship that isn't...
Talking to a Wall, Period Sex, and Body Image
30 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover topics like how to talk to a wall (the wall being your partner), navigating period sex, and how to maintain your positive body imag...
How Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder, Wedding Attire, and Shirtless Selfies Without You
04 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover taking space in relationships, being self expressed in wedding attire, and how to deal when your boo is showing off shirtless selfi...
Foot Fetishes, Work Crushes, and Having a Poly Partner When You Want to Be Monogamous
04 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we cover foot fetishes, how to handle work crushes, and being monogamous while your partner wants to be polyamorous. We also learn that Fe...
Introductions, Dating in Different Colleges, Falling in Love While Still Dating, and First Threesome
02 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we introduce ourselves so you know what this is all about! We also will be talking about how to tackle a long distance relationship when m...