Hot and Unbothered
how to embody CLASS & CONFIDENCE: High-Value Woman Habits, Tips, and Mindset to become MAGNETIC
Fri, 04 Apr 2025
Being classy isn’t about perfection—it’s about embodying high-value habits that elevate your mindset and presence. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host, Brianna Gomez, shares powerful strategies to help you develop the habits of a high-value woman, exude confidence, and carry yourself with elegance in every situation. If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, this episode is your blueprint for becoming the best version of yourself. Tune in and learn how to shift from uncertainty to unstoppable confidence, embrace your inner power, and show up in the world with poise and purpose. It’s time to stop holding back and start living with grace!Remember to rank the pod 5 stars & leave a review to be featured in next week's episode! Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more!Join our Hot & Unbothered besties groupchat! Tune in to learn how to unlock your highest, hottest, & HAPPIEST self and truly GLOW UP from the inside and out.Shop my sustainable made to order clothing line! Stream Hot & Unbothered on ANY PLATFORM.LET’S BE FRIENDS ♡:Hot & Unbothered is now on TikTok!:@hotunbotheredHot & Unbothered Instagram:@hotunbotheredKeep up with me on Snapchat:@bbriannagomez Shop all my favorite things on myAmazon StorefrontBri's Instagram:@bbriannagomez Bri's TikTok:@bbriannagomez Pinterest:@bbriannagomez Spotify:@bbriannagomezShop my Closet on Depop:@xobbrianna See you next Bri-day!xo, Bri 💌
Chapter 1: How can you become more elegant and confident?
All of us have been there where we see that girl who looks like she has her life together. Maybe her hair is a certain way, her outfit is perfect, the way she carries herself is so elegant and so confident and you get home and you look at yourself and you're like, why am I not like that?
You're comparing, you are wondering why you're so disorganized, why your life isn't together in the same way, why you're so behind on all your projects, why you can't walk with that same confidence. Today is the day.
that all of that changes because there is truly a reason why you clicked on this episode today i'm going to teach you how to become elegant and classy from the inside out and to truly be magnetic so if you want to learn how to level up your life and unlock the hottest highest and healthiest version of yourself this is the podcast for you welcome to today's episode of hot and unbothered
Hello beautiful people and welcome back to my podcast. If you are new here, my name is Brianna Gomez or you can call me Bri and I am your host of Hot and Unbothered, the ultimate podcast for leveling up your life, identifying what your dream life looks like and showing up as the highest version of yourself every single day.
And today we have something that I'm honestly really excited to talk about. How to be classy, chic, elegant. It's a trend on TikTok right now. Things that I find incredibly chic, right? And I did my own take on it and I was like, everyone else is saying these material things. Matching sets, red lipstick, stiletto heels.
And yes, those things might be chic, but there are so many ways that you may not realize that you can be chic, classy, and elegant just in the way that you carry yourself or the way that you handle your day-to-day life. Before we dive into today's episode, I just want to share a quick podcast review. Today we have one from Lily. She said,
and you have helped me so much to work through my problems. I love you so much, and I love how much you have helped me over the past two months. Thank you so much, Lily Jenkins. Lily, I am so proud of you, and I hope you know how deeply loved you are and how needed you are to this world. and how my podcast platform and this hot and unbothered community would not be the same without you.
And I'm so happy you're here, and I'm so happy that the podcast episodes resonate with you and that they help you. It's still unbelievable to me to this day that people actually listen to my podcast and like what I have to say, and that it helps them. So I just want to thank each and every one of you for being here today.
And please do not forget to rate the podcast five stars and leave a review on this episode for the chance to be featured next week. But without further ado, I just want to dive right into it with you guys today. I'm going to break it down into a few categories like your attitude, your clothing, your self-care, slash how you take care of your body.
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Chapter 2: What are some misconceptions about being classy?
You come in, you're stumbling, your stuff's falling out of your bag, you didn't have time to eat breakfast or do your hair, right? But if you really take the time and take everything as a regimen, the getting ready, the eating your breakfast, even enjoying the drive playing a nice podcast, use everything as a regimen, as a routine, as a ritual, and enjoy and be intentional with your time.
Intentionality is a Huge, huge, huge one. I try and be intentional or I'm working on being intentional with everything in my life. When I'm sitting and talking to you guys, I want to be intentional. When I'm sitting and talking with a friend, I want to be intentional and I want to be curious. I want to be present, be there with them, ask them things about themselves and their lives.
It's so easy and it makes such a difference. I think I forgot to say in terms of being compassionate and considerate, complimenting others. Such an easy way to spread love and positivity and it shows that you're not jealous. A lot of us automatically resort to a feeling of jealousy when we see someone has something that we like.
Maybe it's their outfit's super cute or they're just beautiful and you wish you looked like that and oftentimes you're like, ugh. And you kind of feel this hidden deep down resentment almost towards them. But try being open with that and using that as fuel to compliment them and be happy for them and it will make their day. And it shows that you are secure within yourself.
Insecurity is not classy. Now, as for clothing, number one, I'm just going to come out and say it, modest. I never thought that I would be someone who wants to lean towards a more modest style. Obviously, I love wearing skirts and things like that, but on some days, I just love a modest outfit. You don't have to show skin and do whatever modest means to you.
All of our ideas of modest are very, very different, but all I'm saying is you don't have to show off your body for anybody.
as long as you know that if you like what you like and you feel the most confident maybe showing some more skin do that do whatever you feel the most confident in what i'm saying is don't dress for other people is the main thing especially the male gaze we do not need that also avoiding trends i know i briefly touched on earlier but we go through so many trends you will see every single fashion trend come and go throughout our lifetime
So just stick to what you like. If a trend comes out and you're like, I am not vibing with that. For example, skinny jeans are coming back. I don't think that's something I'm going to be hopping on. Even if every single person on this planet and their mom is wearing skinny jeans again. I probably won't because we might feel inclined to. Everyone else is doing it. All the cool kids are doing it.
Maybe I should too. You don't have to. Do whatever you feel best in. This really ties into dressing for your body, dressing for your taste, and dressing for your comfortability and what you feel the most confident in yourself in. Do not dress for any other reason.
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