How C*m

29 How Greek (Jordyn Fischer)

10 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking Greek Life this week! Sororities, Fraternities, rushing, hazing and why people do it-- with one of Remy's best friends and college roomm...

28 How Only Fans Changed Their Minds (Billy Procida, Anya Volz, Kenneth Pabon + Ben DeMarco)

31 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Only Fans this week announced that they would no longer be allowing adult content and then took it back after swift internet backlash. We are talking ...

27 How Much Money Do You Make? (Nicole Lapin)

21 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

New York Times bestselling author of 'Rich Bitch' and 'Boss Bitch' Nicole Lapin joins us to talk about taking control of your finances. We discuss the...

26 How Often Do You Shower (Gianmarco Soresi, Andrea Allan + Emily Lubin)

16 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The internet is abuzz with celebrities from Jake Gyllenhall to Mila Kunis + Ashton Kutcher revealing how often or how little they shower from so you K...

25 How Gymnasty (Sylvie Borschel + Dylan Adler)

10 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This week Simone Biles dropped out of competing for US gymnastics in the Olympics this week due to mental health concerns and we talked to TWO comedia...

24 How Do We Still Love Twilight (Gabby Bryan)

03 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Remy and fellow Twihard comedian/podcaster Gabby Bryan dig into The Twilight Saga (now on Netflix) and WHY we love it so much despite its heteronormat...

23 How to Eat Ass (Christiana Jackson)

26 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You've ass-ked and we've delivered: we're teaching you how to eat ass with the comedian who puts the ass in passionate and the host of the Stout Lusty...

22 How Far She's Cum (Poutine Levine)

18 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A trip down memory lane with Remy's longtime friend, writer and drag performer Poutine Levine. We talk about the importance of changing your mind and ...

21 Late Bloomers and Gay Ass Movies (@FatCarrieBradshaw + Eric Williams)

08 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A cumazing episode all about late blooming, coming out/dating later in life, and "gay ass movies" that shaped us with Gay Ass Podcast host/ comedian E...

20 How Animals Do It (Richie Redding + Dr. Lisa Lippman)

25 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking about the birds and the bees-- and how SO many other animals get it on with one of the most socially influential veterinarians in the Un...

19 How Not Horny (Irene Tu)

16 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking to stand-up comedian and actor Irene Tu, who has NEVER had an orgasm and is probably okay with that! Irene tells us about how she is "al...

18 How Gen Z/ How Friend Part Deux (Marissa Meizz + Drew Hardin)

08 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

New Tik Tok besties Marissa and Drew (!!) c*m on to talk about their whirlwind Tik Tok friendship [inspired by Drew's viral video overhearing Marissa'...

17 How Pivotal (Coach Carey)

29 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking pivotal life moments with life coach and motivational speaker Raia Carey (better known as "Coach Carey") and How C*m's own Social Media ...

16 How Understanding (Eman El Husseini + Jess Salomon)

22 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking Israel + Palestine with your favorite Jewish/Palestinian lesbian married couple, OR the only one you know -- the "El Salomons!" Comedian...

15 How Unexpected (Ester Steinberg)

13 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and season 1 guest Ester Steinberg is back for a special cumgratulations: we are celebrating her first Mother's Day! She tells us about the b...

14 How Sad and Sexy - SSRIs ( Andrew Collin + Dr. Barbara Bartlik)

06 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You've requested it, and it's FINALLY HERE! We're talking anti-depressants and sexual dysfunction with psychiatrist + sex therapist Dr. Barbara Bartli...

13 How Sensitive (JR De Guzman)

28 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking sensitivity with comedian crooner JR De Guzman (Netflix, Kevin Hart's Hart of the City). From his heart to his uncircumcised head JR kno...

12 How Motherhood Happened (Jessica Kirson)

21 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Undeniably hilarious comedian and producer of FX's new documentary 'Hysterical,' Jessica Kirson joins us on this exciting episode. We discuss her new ...

11 How Accessible (Pamela Rae Schuller)

14 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are joined by internationally known disability advocate and stand-up comedian Pamela Rae Schuller. Pamela tells us about growing up a...

10 How Photogenic (Dave Krugman + Jenni Walkowiak)

07 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This week witnessed Khloe Kardashian's unedited photo "scandal" and we talked to two NYC photographers, Dave Krugman and Jenni Walkowiak, about the hy...

9 How Betchy (Sami Sage)

01 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We have a special cumgratuations: Celebrating Betches Media 10 year anniversary with Co-Founder and Chief Creative Officer Sami Sage! Betches is a fem...

8 How Dare You (Dominique Nisperos)

25 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger warning: this episode discusses the increase of violence against AAPI folks. Join us for this important conversation around the intersection o...

7 How Fit (Melody Afkami, Nicole Pearce + Riley Lassin)

18 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Only 6 more days until hot girl summer!! How to get washboard abs in just 7 days! -- And other fitness headlines that will make you click, but won't w...

6 How Exciting (Ben DeMarco)

10 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Remy welcums Ben back to celebrate their 1 year anniversary of accidentally living together, a year in review for all the craziest news from March 202...

5 How Fake (Gabrielle Bluestone, Wylie Heiner + Sophie Ross)

04 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking social media and celebrity; how fake they can both be, and how scammers, grifters, and con artists are taking over the internet-- and wh...

4 How Body Negative (Maddy Smith + Jordan Jenson)

26 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are celebrating self love through self loathe with comedians and co-hosts of the Flat Bottom Girls podcast, Maddy Smith and Jordan Jenson...

3 How Manly (Stan Talouis)

19 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking manliness vs. toxic masculinity this week with our sweet friend, Comedian Stan Talouis as well as an awesome South African Cumpanion nam...

2 How Squirt (Wednesday Martin PhD + Kenneth Play)

12 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We are joined on this momentous episode by NYTimes Best Selling Author Wednesday Martin PhD and 'World's Best Sex Hacker' Kenneth Play to answer EVERY...

1 How Curious (Margaret Cho)

02 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Season 4 kicks off with comedian, activist, musician, and forever sexually curious icon Margaret Cho. We discuss the importance of maintaining sexual ...

Promising Young Women (Bonus)

23 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Remy and Ben are back to discuss rape-culture, Armie Hammer's cannibalism "scandal" and abuse of upward of 200+ "Kittens" (young women) and Emerald Fe...

40 Cumgratulations/ How Friend (Marie Faustin + Sydnee Washington)

29 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hi best friends! For our season 3 finale we are celebrating C*mgratulations and FRIENDSHIPS! Two things that got us through this wildly tough year. We...

39 How Cult (Brooke Arnold)

22 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger Warning: Rape/Sexual Assault/Cults This week we are joined by comedian, writer and professor Brooke Arnold. Brooke tells us all about her expe...

38 Female Healthcare (Dr. Jolene Brighten)

14 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking hormones and women's healthcare with a prominent leader in women's medicine and author of 'Beyond The Pill,' Dr Jolene Brighten. Dr Brig...

37 Hypocrites and Idiots (Joey Dardano + Irene Morales)

08 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are joined by two hilarious comedians to talk about advice and whether the people who dish it out can be trusted. Joey Dardano, host of ...

36 Weed + Sex (The Cannasexual, Chanel Ali, and Courtney Reynolds)

01 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking two of our favorite things- sex and weed with award-winning sex educator and coach Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) and comedians and reg...

35 Sex and New York City (EJ Dickson + Julia Moshy)

23 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

New York natives EJ Dickson, culture writer for Rolling Stone, and Julia Moshy, Socialite and tastemaker join us this week to talk growing up in New ...

34 Womb Havers (Ashley Gavin + Gara Lonning)

17 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why don't cis men know about the flat tongue technique, and why won't some people take advice once you tell them how you like it?  We're breaking it ...

33 The One About TV Shows (Ashley Ray)

10 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Recorded on the day the election was over, this is a chill joyous episode to celebrate. It's been a stressful week of news watching so we're winding d...

32 Jokes by Survivors (Dylan Adler + Kelly Bachman)

03 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger warning: Rape/Trauma/PTSD/Assault This week we are joined by Dylan Adler and Kelly Bachman, standup comedians and co-hosts of "Rape Jokes by S...

31 How To Live F*ck Boy Free (Mary Beth Barone)

29 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Mary Beth Barone joins us this week to talk politics and 'Drag His Ass' her fuck boy treatment and redemption program (and live show/meme acc...

30 Herpes, Tall Men, and Big Misconceptions (Erica Spera)

19 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian and Shooters Gotta Shoot podcast host Erica Spera stops by to talk sex and dating while having herpes and the most common things people get w...

29 Daddy Couture (Matthew Camp)

12 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This week we're talking to gorgeous gay icon, Matthew Camp. We learn how he became one of the original pioneers of Instagram modeling as well as co-ow...

28 Pregnancy and Covid (Giulia Rozzi + Will Miles)

05 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking pregnancy during a pandemic with hilarious comedians and new parents Giulia Rozzi and Will Miles. We discuss having a newborn during Cov...

27 Walking Red Flag (Chris Barnett)

28 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are joined by Tik Tok heart throb and self-proclaimed 'Starry-eyed Storyteller,' Chris Barnett. This model/actor, turned TikTok sensation...

26 Cheaters (Ashley Madison)

21 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

That's right, a cheating episode. Tune in as we dive behind the scenes of one of the most controversial online dating sites, Ashley Madison and talk t...

25 Sugar Dating (Amanda)

16 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

For our 100th episode we are joined by Remy's good friend, former Sugar Baby and frequent user of 'Seeking Arrangements,' "Amanda" who takes us on fa...

24 Mendy (Sarah Afkami)

08 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are joined by Los Angeles screenwriter and standup comedian, Sarah Afkami. Sarah has just wrapped on a Lionsgate project called "The Look...

23 Catcalls of The World (Sophie Sandberg)

31 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Founder of @CatCallsofNYC Sophie Sandberg comes on to talk about the various types of street harassment and how her grassroots initiative (which start...

22 Coming Out as Straight (Lucas Connolly)

24 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Lucas Connolly comes all the way from New York for this outrageously funny and didactic episode. He regales us with stories about being one o...

21 Good Trouble (Michelle Hope)

17 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We are talking to Sexologist and Activist Michelle Hope about what it means to get into "good trouble." We discuss protesting, actionable items for al...

20 What About Ben's Balls? (Ben DeMarco)

10 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It's a penis and balls episode! Ben is back to talk about why him and Remy don't bang often anymore, the famous 90's toy he used to masturbate with as...

19 I'll Miss You Most of All (Charlotte Kassimir)

03 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The Kassimir sisters reunite (after recently separating) and discuss the reason for Remy's bittersweet move out of NYC/ Nanny's apartment and Charlott...

18 Cumpanion Q+A (Part 2)

27 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Remy, Robyn and Gavriel are answering more of your submitted questions and taking a trip down memory lane to learn all about how every team member bec...

17 Sluts and Whores (Arielle Kaplan + Lorrae Jo)

20 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We're honored by the presence of TWO of our favorite sex-meme creators this week; Lorrae Jo of @SluttyGrlProbs and the woman behind @Whorgasmic, Ariel...

16 The Dream Episode (Dr. Dylan Selterman)

13 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Anybody else been having the craziest dreams lately? We have and needed to dig into why. We are talking dreams and nightmares with Dylan Selterman, Se...

15 The Legendary Syd Xtravaganza (Sydney Baloue)

06 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our first Ballroom episode! Sydney Baloue (AKA Syd Xtravaganza) is a ballroom archivist and historian as well as a producer of HBO Max's Legendary who...

14 Cumpanion Q+A with Remy and the HC Team

29 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This week Remy is joined by some members of the extremely international How Cum team, Robyn Kennedy and Gavriel! We're getting to know the team and an...

13 Horny at Hogwarts (Neko White + Will Posnan)

22 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our Harry Potter episode is finally HERE! Our favorite researcher (the magical Charlotte Kassimir) is back to talk witchcraft + wizardry with her sist...

12 Beauty and The Sink (Cas Humes + Nasser Khan)

15 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Remy and Ben talk about Remy's sexuality and how Ben feels about dating someone who is not entirely straight! Woohoo! Then we go back in time to May 2...

11 Coming Together (Jay Jurden)

08 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Remy and comedian Jay Jurden (The Tonight Show, Comedy Central, HBO's High Maintenance) discuss fluid sexualities, coming out, equality and how to com...

10 I Love You More (Caitlin Peluffo + Steve Rogers)

01 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Remy is joined by her boyfriend comedian Ben DeMarco to interview another comedy couple; Caitlin Peluffo and Steve Rogers. We discuss our recent blowo...

09 Freedom For All (Katie Ford)

25 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger Warning: physical /sexual abuse, slavery, and child torture. We begin with idiotic banter and spontaneous beat-boxing from Remy and Ben as th...

08 Anal 401 (Usama Siddiquee + Pranav Behari)

18 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Remy is joined by her friends and fellow NYC comedians, the ridiculously funny hosts of Mango Bae; Pranav Behari and Usama Siddiquee. Prepare to guffa...

07 The Reality of Fake People (Chanel Omari)

11 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This week Remy, Ben and How Cum were featured on Bravo's The Real Housewives of New York City in the wildest clip we could've ever expected! In the be...

06 Tank's Good News (Tank Sinatra)

04 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger warning: suicidal ideation, substance abuse and death- but it's a really fun one, we swear!  This week we're joined by Instagram God, Legend,...

05 Abstinence + Outercourse (Taylor Tomlinson)

26 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking *comedy couples*, Christianity, and confusing cums this week with hilarious standup comedian Taylor Tomlinson. Currently quarantined wit...

04 Love In Lockdown (Vanessa Marin)

20 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking love and relationships in the time of quarantine with none other than sought after psychotherapist Vanessa Marin, who specializes in sex...

03 The Two Week Rule (Andrew Schulz)

12 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Bit of a trigger warning on this episode with the flagrant and unfiltered (yet wildly empathetic) comedian Andrew Schulz. Andrew goes deep into why he...

02 How To Have Hot Sex (Dr. Emily Morse)

05 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Legendary sex therapist, podcaster and host of SiriusXM's Sex With Emily, Dr. Emily Morse stops by to dispel sex myths and teach us how to have the ho...

01 Stay Safe + Stay Sane (Kelsey Darragh)

01 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We've cum back! No, it's not an April Fool's Joke, we wouldn't do that to you during this nightmarish pandemic. We kick off the season by taking a muc...

37 Cumgratulations! (Season 2 Finale with Remy & Charlotte)

02 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Remy and Charlotte close out the season by calling Cumpanions from around the globe to Cumgratulate them on their new accumplishments this year. Wow -...

36 BDSM is Chic (Mistress Couple & Rachel Sennott)

25 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are talking BDSM! Everything from being a Sub, Dom--to both, to catching a whip with your genitals and exploring your sexual fantasies. ...

35 Periods! Period. (Miki Agrawal and Nadya Okamoto)

18 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are talking about a bodily function that effects our lives and helps to give life: our PERIODS! We are joined by two giants in the perio...

34 The Boobies Episode (Suzannah Weiss & Meshelle)

11 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

We're discussing all things BOOBS this week: How we feel about them in society, how we've felt about our own, and every question you've ever wondered ...

33 I'm a New Bitch (Syd Wilder)

08 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger Warning: rape, suicide and abuse. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following mater...

32 Sexless Marriage to Sexuality Doula (Ev'Yan Whitney)

04 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week's guest is Ev'Yan Whitney: sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman. Ev'yan...

31 Is There Still Sex In The City? (Candace Bushnell)

28 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

OMG we could not be more excited for this guest!! Remy sits down with (and fan-girls over) the original Carrie Bradshaw, Candace Bushnell; icon, it-gi...

30 Catch Up With Rem (And Char)

21 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Sadly, Remy couldn't be here to host this episode… because today, she is our GUEST. This week Charlotte interviews Remy about her biggest takeaways ...

29 CROSSOVER EPISODE! with We Really Love Island (Chris Williamson)

18 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Warning: This episode contains deep thoughts and SICK banter. In this VERY EXCITING How Cum/ We Really Love Island crossover event Remy, Charlotte, a...

28 The E.D. Doctor (Dr. J Francois Eid)

14 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

We're talking all things PENISES! Remy and Charlotte interview Dr. Eid, a board-certified urologist focusing on the treatment of advanced erectile dys...

27 It's a Cocktus! (Maria Del Russo & Alexandra Fine)

07 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

An unbelievable conversation with sex/ love writer and recent author, Maria Del Russo and Co-Founder of sex toy company Dame Products, Alexandra Fine....

26 We're Having Gay Sex (Emma Willmann, Jade Catta-Preta, & Ashley Gavin)

30 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

...is the name of one of our guest's new podcast AND what we are doing on this episode! Remy and comedians/actors Emma Willmann (Crazy Ex Girlfriend/ ...

25 Audio Erotica (Quinn & Feel Good Filth)

23 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

We're taking you into the world of audio porn this week and it is SO GOOD. Remy and Charlotte talk to Jim; the orgasmic voice behind FeelGoodFilth.com...

24 He Wrote a Note to His Penis (Logan Pierce)

16 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

We are in LA with wildly talented author and adult film star Logan Pierce! Logan tells Remy about the way he pursued a career in porn, how his "boy n...

23 Healing Pelvic Pain (Dr. Tayyaba Ahmed & Dr. Allyson Shrikhande)

09 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this week's episode we have two brilliant doctors of physical medicine and rehabilitation, Dr. Tayyaba Ahmed and Dr. Allyson Shrikhande, who specia...

22 You Wanna Play? You Gotta Pay. (Jared Freid)

02 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week Remy welcomes hilarious comedian, J-Train/U Up? podcaster, and naturally good advice-giver Jared Freid. Jared answers all of your dating que...

21 Mr. Angel (Buck Angel)

26 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Pardon this late-in-the-day post, we were celebrating Charlotte's 26th BIRTHDAY but this one is amazing and worth the wait.  Remy sits down with the ...

20 What About Ben's Roommates? (Ben DeMarco and Cenk & Volkan Eryaman)

19 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 20 of every season means Ben is here! Remy talks to her boyfriend and his ROOMMATES; brothers Volkan and Cenk, who she essentially lives with ...

19 Ramy & Remy (Ramy Youssef)

12 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week Remy sits down with her wildly talented, hilarious, and similarly named friend Ramy Youssef. This stand up/writer/actor has not only been on...

18 The Nanny Named Fran (Fran Drescher)

05 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger Warning: rape and assault. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can...

17 Hamiltoe & The Holocaust (Eitan Levine)

28 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Thank you, thank you to everyone who came out our first ever LIVE show this past Thursday. We SOLD out and are definitely going to do more of these ba...

16 Berned & Bluestoned (Hannah Berner & Gabrielle Bluestone)

21 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Nanny and Remy's house flooded TWICE this week but it's ok because our LIVE show is Thursday and we c*nt wait to meet you guys. We ALSO got to record ...

15 Anal 101 (The Pleasure Mechanics)

14 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Tickets are almost sold out for our first live podcast/ stand up show! Join us at Stand Up NY on April 25 at 7:30. Use our promocode "How Cum" for a 2...

14 Life Can Be A Drag (Katya Zamolodchikova)

07 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Make sure to get your tickets for our first LIVE PODCAST & stand up show on April 25th at 7:30. (Doors open @ 7) Use our promo code "How Cum" for a 25...

13 Fuck Boy Tendencies (Lev Fer)

31 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

We are gearing up for our FIRST LIVE SHOW and couldn't be more excited. Buy your tickets, use promo code "How Cum" and we will see you on April 25th i...

12 Slutever (Karley Sciortino)

24 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This one is a banger. We get to chat with the one, the only, the amazing and stupendously slutty host of Viceland's Slutever Karley Sciortino. We talk...

11 The Slut Whisperer (Kirill Bichutsky & Jax Dell'Osso)

17 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

On the day that he celebrated "10 years of being a professional degenerate," Kirill Bichutsky's 1 million+ follower account @slutwhisperer was yanked ...

10 The Virgin Bachelor (Ray Gootz & Freddy G)

10 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

"Nobody's sex life is anybody's business…except on this podcast." So, we chat with comedians & sexual "late bloomers" Freddy G and Ray Gootz. Ray te...

09 The C.O.U.G.A.R. & Her Cub (KarenLee & Cam Poter)

03 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

We sit down with the amazing and hilarious mother son duo, KarenLee and Cam Poter from the hit podcast Sex Talk With My Mom. We cover A LOT with thes...

08 The Girl Without A Clit (Mystery Guest & Crystal Beth)

24 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Wow. This. Episode. We call Remy's friend, comedian Crystal Beth; AKA "The Girl Without a Clit" and catch up with our anonymous friend from the bonus ...