How to Do It with Stoya and Rich
Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
Episodes
My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want.
27 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bea...
My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend
20 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected. *** Read the How to ...
My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend
20 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.***Read the How to Do...
No One Tells You What Happens When You’re Suddenly a Hot Guy
13 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man whose attractiveness is getting in the way of his life and work. *** Read the How to Do It colum...
I’m Overwhelmed by My Boyfriend’s Sexual Demands
06 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who is overwhelmed by her partner’s daily sexual needs, and they discuss a letter from a man who wo...
The One Thing My Partner Desires in Bed Makes Me Gag
27 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who wonders what they can do to have a better experience giving oral sex, and they discuss a letter f...
I’m a Woman With a Very Male Sex Problem
20 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich advise a woman whose partner complains that she orgasms too quickly, and they discuss a letter from a woman who’s puzzled ...
The Simple Way to Have Better Sex After Marriage
13 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter for Valentine’s Day from a man who’s looking for tips on how to spice up his sex life with his wife, and...
I (Unfortunately) Know What My Husband Has Been Doing in Garage
06 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who’s worried about her husband’s secret habit, and offer suggestions for oral sex to a let...
I’ve Only Just Discovered What Really Turns Me On. But What Is This Even Called?
30 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s just made a new sexual discovery about himself. Then they hear from a woman who’s feeli...
What Everyone Gets Wrong About Herpes
23 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who has a tricky question about herpes and a new man she’s seeing. Then they hear from a man ...
I'm Worried About Cheating on My Girlfriend With My Wife
16 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s concerned he’s cheating on his girlfriend—with his wife. Then they hear from a woman ...
I Have “COVID Dick.” Can I… Grow It Back?
09 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who wonders what he can do about “COVID dick.” Then they hear from a letter writer ...
My Husband Tried Something “New” With His Penis. I’m Dying.
02 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who’s been traumatized by her husband’s new “look.” Then they hear from a lette...
The Thing That’s Been Turning Me on the Most Is Completely Unavoidable
26 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who’s keeping a neighborly secret. Then they hear from a letter writer who wonders ho...
I Had Another Woman Take Over Sex With My Boyfriend...
19 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who feels left out of her partners’ escapades. Then they hear from a letter writer wh...
Is What I Just Did Really “Cheating” on My Boyfriend?
12 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who wonders if what she just did counts as cheating. Then they hear from a man who wond...
My Girlfriend’s Real Sexual History Caught Me Off Guard
05 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who just found out something about his girlfriend that disgusts him. Then they hear from a letter...
I Have the Curse of the Straight Woman
28 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who can’t quit men. Then they hear from a man who is about to have sex for the first time sin...
What Happens After I Fight With My Girlfriend Is … Worrisome
21 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s getting highly aroused at an inopportune time with his girlfriend. Then they hear from a ...
I Discovered an Astonishing “Secret” About My Boyfriend
14 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who wonders if she got duped by her boyfriend—including feedback from listeners like you. The...
The Big Problem With Well-Endowed Men
07 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who wonders if she can do more to accommodate her partner’s, uh, large needs. Then they hear ...
I Saw What My Husband Is Secretly Doing on His Computer
31 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter about a woman who has noticed her husband’s peculiar secret habit on his computer. Then they advise a woma...
The Truth That Would Devastate My Husband
24 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who feels guilty for what she thinks about during sex with her husband. Then they advise a lett...
I Feel Terrible About What Turns Me On. But It’s So Hot.
17 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who feels terrible about what turns her on the most. Then they advise another woman who’s suf...
The Question You Can Never Ask Men on Dating Apps
10 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now and get $25 off your first year. This week...
The Question You Can Never Ask Men on Dating Apps
10 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now and get $25 off your first year.This week,...
My Wife’s Devastating Confession About Our Sex Life
03 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus for just $1 for your first month. This week, S...
My Wife’s Devastating Confession About Our Sex Life
03 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus for just $1 for your first month.This week, St...
I Thought I Was Pro-Sex Work
26 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer letters from a woman who thought she was pro-sex work—until her friends started doing it. They also discuss another...
I Thought I Was Pro-Sex Work
26 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer letters from a woman who thought she was pro-sex work—until her friends started doing it. They also discuss another...
What I Just Caught My Wife Doing
20 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
For launch week only, this Slate Plus episode of How to Do It is free to everyone. Sign up for Slate Plus now so you don’t miss out next Monday. On ...
What I Just Caught My Wife Doing
20 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
For launch week only, this Slate Plus episode of How to Do It is free to everyone. Sign up for Slate Plus now so you don’t miss out next Monday.On t...
Love at First Jizz
19 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer letters from a man who falls in love for a very embarrassing reason, and a woman whose good friend just started a new...
Love at First Jizz
19 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Stoya and Rich answer letters from a man who falls in love for a very embarrassing reason, and a woman whose good friend just started a new...
Introducing: How to Do It
10 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
A sex advice podcast from Slate, coming 9/19. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Introducing: How to Do It
10 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
A sex advice podcast from Slate, coming 9/19. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.