From Dateless to Dates on Demand! How to Improve Your Profile and Get 2 Dates Per Week (Part 4 of 4)
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Who is Connell Barrett and what is the focus of this podcast series?
And I just want you to know that you can, and if you want to, you will find success and dates and love on dating apps. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you flirt with confidence, get a lot of matches and dates on the apps, and find a great girlfriend. Yes, finding her from online dating. And I know it's possible because that's how I met my incredible girlfriend, Jess. I met her on a dating app, and I've met many, many women on dating apps, as have my clients. So yes, online dating success is possible, even if you've never had a date from the apps. Even if you struggle on the apps, it is fixable. Welcome to part four of four, the special four-part series I've been doing called The 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Online Dating Profile. to get you matches and dates. If you haven't listened to parts one through three, I suggest you go back and check them out because today's episode won't make a lot of sense to you otherwise.
Basically, there are 12 essentials that you need to have handled to get a lot of good matches on the apps. And today's episode is about once you have those 12 essentials all in place on your profile and you've relaunched your profile, Today's episode is about troubleshooting some issues that might come up along the way in case you have some roadblocks. So go back and listen to parts one through three if you haven't already. First, let's do a really quick review of what the 12 essentials are. And then I'm going to go through seven problems and seven fixes that you might come across once you relaunch your profile with these 12 essentials in place. So today's episode is about troubleshooting. problems and fixes.
What are the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Online Dating Profile?
But first, let's review, do a really fast review of what the 12 essentials are. Number one, a swipe magnet first photo, basically a really great portrait in that first slot. That's essential number one. Essential number two is a second really good portrait. I call it the one-two punch. You want your first two photos on your profile to be really good, magnetic, authentic portraits of you. Well-dressed, looking good, but also different outfits and different vibes. So essential number two is a second portrait in the second slot to help you get more matches because women like to see those first two great portraits. Essential number three is an action-oriented or, quote, masculine photo. You doing something action-based. Essential number four is social proof.
A photo of you doing something out in the world, living a cool, fun social life. Social proof. Essential number five is a heartstrings element. What I call the awe photo. Or it could be an awe prompt. Something to tug at her heartstrings. Because hey, dating is not just about good photos. Online dating isn't just about good photos. It's about tugging at people's heartstrings. Making them feel the feels. Essential number six is flirty energy and good date vibes. We want to have some kind of flirtatiousness on your profile. Essential number seven is a good profile hook, something that hooks her interest from the very first words that she reads on your profile. Humor, something unusual, something that creates curiosity.
We got to hook her interest or else she's going to swipe left. Essential number eight is a concept called show, don't tell. Show what a great guy you are. Don't tell her, but show her. Go back and listen to the recent episodes for me to detail that. Essential number nine is specificity equals standing out. So be specific in how you talk about yourself. Specificity, not vague, not vagueness, not cliches. Essential number 10 is showcase your personality and your humor, specifically your authentic sense of humor. You want to make a woman laugh at least once. If you can get her laughing out loud at your profile, you're going to get matches and she's going to want to have dates with you. Essential number 11 is signaling emotional maturity, a prompt or something in your bio that shows you've been working on yourself, shows you've learned a thing or two in your life. Women want to date an emotionally mature man. And the 12th essential of an online dating profile that gets matches is no red flags. Remove the red flags. Remove the things that will make a woman go, I don't think so.
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Chapters
7 chapters
1
Who is Connell Barrett and what is the focus of this podcast series?
0:00–2:05
2
What are the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Online Dating Profile?
2:05–7:31
3
How did Ben improve his matches from 3 to 87 in two days?
7:31–14:29
4
How can you troubleshoot your own dating profile if it’s not getting matches?
14:29
5
What mindset should you adopt when relaunching your profile?
12:18–28:52
6
What are the seven common dating profile problems and how do you fix them?
28:52–47:35
7
Why might you get matches but no replies and how to fix it?
47:35–47:57
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