Struggling with Dating Confidence? Try this Mindset Shift to Become Instantly Magnetic to Women (Live Coaching Results)
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What is the real cause of dating insecurity?
I'll bet there's some kind of doubt that's holding you back. And that's incredibly common. It's so common. I dealt with it too. And today I'm going to help you transform any confidence issues you have and go from lacking confidence to feeling really certain and confident about your attractiveness to women. I'm going to let you in on a coaching session I did a while back with my client, Nick. Nick is a great guy. You're about to listen to the very first coaching session. call we ever had. And Nick came to me because he just feels like he sees himself as a five. He's a five or six out of 10. He's not a really attractive guy in his mind. And what you're going to listen to is how we take Nick from feeling like I'm not good enough, I'm too nice, women don't want nice guys like me, and you'll actually hear his transformation in this episode. And I'm going to take him through a process that I call the higher self awakening or the authentic self awakening.
How can you awaken your higher self for confidence?
Essentially, what we're going to do is identify his biggest limiting belief that is hurting his confidence with women. I'm gonna ask him some questions and take him through a process. And at the end of this episode, you're gonna hear the change in his voice. You're gonna hear how much more confident he sounds, how much more belief he has in himself. So he's going to essentially transform, not into a different person, but he's gonna awaken what I call the higher self, which is you, me, Nick. It's any man at his most confident. what I call a higher self. Because here's what I learned in all of my years of first working on my dating life and then becoming a dating coach is that you me everybody we all have dual selves in a sense we have what i call the higher self and what i call the lower self now your higher self is the hero of your life it's any area of your life that brings you joy fulfillment confidence you feel amazing that's your higher self he's confident he's focused he's authentic he's in the zone He's basically you operating at your full potential.
So the job you love, the biceps you've sculpted, maybe the great kid that you're raising if you're a single dad, any area of your life where you feel like amazing, or at least amazing at times, it's the superhero inside of you who's running the show. At the same time, every superhero has an arch villain. Every superhero has to face that mustache twirling bad guy. And I call that the lower self. The lower self is that fearful, doubtful side of you who says, oh, maybe I'm not enough. Maybe I'm not tall enough. I don't have six pack abs. Women don't want to date me, at least not amazing women. And it's that little voice that says, don't approach her. She's out of your league. It's that little voice that
That creates the frustration, the insecurity, and leads to things like loneliness, leads to things like settling, leads to things like anger, depression. In extreme cases, with some guys I've worked with, really dark thoughts, wanting to hurt themselves. And I felt this way too for a long time. I walked through the world feeling like I was just not enough. So again, think of your higher self as you at your best and your lower self, it's that voice of self-doubt. And what you're going to hear today with Nick is you're going to hear him go from that lower self to his higher self. And you're going to hear him give his higher self a name. Because what I'd have all my clients do when we first start working together is they give their lower selves a name.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is the real cause of dating insecurity?
0:54–2:00
2
How can you awaken your higher self for confidence?
2:00–9:07
3
What limiting beliefs are holding you back in dating?
9:07–13:37
4
How can you erase self-doubt for good?
13:37–18:05
5
What was Nick's breakthrough moment in dating confidence?
18:05–22:01
6
How do you awaken your most authentic self?
22:01
7
What practical steps can you take to increase your dating success?
20:52
8
How can you actively engage in your transformation process?
14:47–1:16:04
Speakers
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