How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Tired of Being Ignored on Dating Apps? Steal My 10 Best Flirty Openers: #1 Works 81% of the Time!
Sun, 09 Feb 2025
Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers—tested and proven to get responses. You’ll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman … and gets him replies 81% of the time!You’re about to learn:05:30: Connell’s Lowest Online-Dating Moment06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 Nights—All from the Apps!09:30: Flirty Opener #10: What to Write… when Her Bio is Empty12:52: Flirty Opener #9: …when She Has Lots of Selfies14:31: Flirty Opener #8: …when She’s into Partying and Socializing16:25: Flirty Opener #7: …when She Has a Dog in Her Photos19:09: Flirty Opener #6: … when She Has Bold, Flirty Pics (Bikini shots, Cleavage)23:30: Flirty Opener #5: …when Her Bio is Witty or Sarcastic30:01: Flirty Opener #4: …when She’s Really into Travel33:40: Flirty Opener #3: …when She’s an Artsy, Creative Type37:00: Flirty Opener #2: …when She’s Highly Career-driven40:03: Flirty Opener #1: The Best Opener that Works On Any Woman 81% of the TimeListen now and use these flirty openers to get women writing you back… and get dates!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
What are the top flirty openers for dating apps?
It's a free thing that's going to help you flirt with confidence because I'll bet that you struggle with what to say to women and how to flirt, right? Well, let's fix that. I'm going to give you what I call the flirty 30. These are 30 flirty questions to ask women on the apps or on dates or when you approach. so that you can confidently connect with cool sexy women starting today.
It's time to stop running out of things to say and start asking them flirty questions. that are going to make them want to date you. So to get your copy of the Flirty 30, it's totally free. Just go to datingtransformation.com slash flirty30. And that's F-L-I-R-T-Y 3-0. Datingtransformation.com slash flirty30.
You're about to start confidently flirting with women, going on dates, and soon getting a great girlfriend. Go get your Flirty 30. Okay, let's go with flirty opener number four. How about when she has a travel photo or lots of travel photos? You know, lots of women are into travel. You'll see one or multiple travel photos.
You know, she's standing on the beach in Bali or, you know, holding a coconut. Now, here's what not to write. Don't just write, hey, looks like you like to travel. Where was that photo taken? Again, That can get you a response, but it's pretty logical. It's pretty boring. And we want to make it a bit more engaging. So here's an opener, actually two variations of the same opener.
Here's what you can write. Hey, Katie, you've been collecting passport stamps like Pokemon cards. I respect that. I'm heading to country, fill in country, next. Where are you plotting your next adventure? Okay, I'll read that one again. Let's go with Australia. I'll choose that. I'll say I'm going to Australia. Hey, Katie, I see you've been collecting passport stamps like Pokemon cards.
I respect that. I'm heading to Australia next. Where are you plotting your next adventure? Now, you can absolutely change some of the words here. You don't need to have it sound exactly like me. In fact, it should sound authentically like you. You don't want your openers to sound like Conal Barrett, dating coach, wrote them for you.
So feel free to tweak any of these to make them sound more like you. OK. But yeah, why does that work? A little bit of cleverness. You're comparing her passport to Pokemon cards, which is cute and clever. And you're also saying where you're going next, in my case, Australia. Now, I'm not actually going to Australia. I just wrote that as a hypothetical here.
But all you have to do is pick a place that you would like to go to. It's OK to tell a white lie. Where do you want to be heading next? That's fine. You can use that. And then you're asking her, where are you plotting your next adventure? Another way to basically frame this or write this, basically the same thing would be, hey, Katie, I see you're a fellow travel addict. My next trip is Australia.
I'm going to attempt surfing in Sydney and probably wipe out spectacularly. Where are you dying to jet off to next? Do you hear all the emotion in that? The specificity? Um, the emotion, that's what women get magnetized to. Um, I'll read the last one again. Hey Katie, I see you're a fellow travel addict, a travel addict. My next trip is Australia.
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