You’re Flirting Wrong: The New Way to Talk to Women + 5 Flirting Fails to Avoid (Part 2 of 5)
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What is radical authenticity in dating?
I'm going to give you the good stuff, the moves, the tips, the what to say. You're going to learn all about how to confidently flirt with women using my flirting formula. And this means you're going to be able to stop running out of things to say with women you're talking to. And you're going to be able to start attracting some cool, cute girls. So I'm going to give you my flirting system that you'll be able to pick up really quickly. I'm also going to share 10 tested flirting tips that you can use right away. And not done there, but wait, there's more. I'll give you five of the biggest flirting mistakes to avoid. And you might not even know you're making some of these flirting mistakes. By the way, stick around to the very end of the episode. I'm going to give you three of my favorite flirty questions to ask women if you ever get stuck in your head. Think of these as three back pocket flirting moves, flirty questions so that you always have something to say. No more awkward silences. No more just getting stuck in your head, running out of things to say.
How can you avoid the friend zone?
I'll share that with you at the very end of today's pod. Here's my question for you. Do you struggle with what to say and how to flirt? Have you ever been stuck in the friend zone? I know I used to be. I have been there. I remember a date I had many years ago with a beautiful young woman named Brandy. And she wanted to like me, but I couldn't make her feel the feelings that I wanted her to feel. And at one point, I finally went for a kiss on like date three. after the right moment had passed. We were standing on a romantic street in Brooklyn. And I wanted to kiss her, but I was afraid. And I went out. Five minutes later, I tried to make up for the mistake. I went for the kiss. And she said, sorry, I've lost interest. You had your chance back there.
She basically said, you're really bad at this. So back then, I had to learn how to do all these things myself. So I've been in your shoes. I know what it's like to struggle with flirting. So let me give you what I've developed as the secret. Not the secret, but a flirting formula. It's no secret. It's in my book. It's on the podcast. But it's a flirting formula that I think is basically the closest thing there is to a magic bullet with attracting women. Because bottom line is, there's not magic bullets in this area. There's only magic bullets in werewolf movies.
We were attacked by a lycanthrope. A werewolf. I was murdered. An unnatural death. And now I walk the earth in limbo until the werewolf's curse is lifted. Shut up.
But in real life, there's not a magic bullet. However, what I'm about to share with you is the closest thing there is to a magic bullet. And here it is. The flirting formula that I give all my clients is called, drumroll please, man-to-woman communication. Man-to-woman communication. Think of it as a turbocharged form of flirting that makes it so much simpler to romantically connect with women.
What is the man-to-woman communication formula?
And you get to do it in that real authentic way. So how does man to woman communication work? What is it? How does it work? Well, here was my aha moment. Many years ago, around about the time Brandy was friend zoning me, I was really struggling with dating, struggling with flirting. Date after date ended with women saying, Connell, you're a nice guy. You're funny. You're sweet.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is radical authenticity in dating?
1:15–2:22
2
How can you avoid the friend zone?
2:22–4:29
3
What is the man-to-woman communication formula?
4:29–5:41
4
How to never run out of things to say on dates?
5:41–11:03
5
What is the 80-20 rule in flirting?
11:03–16:42
6
What are the biggest flirting mistakes to avoid?
16:42–25:31
7
What are some effective flirting tips?
25:31–29:35
8
How to create attraction beyond being attractive?
29:35–55:30
Speakers
1 identifiedMore from How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
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8 Flirty Things to Say (and Not to Say) When You Freeze Up Around Women
The 10 Most Surprisingly Sexy Things to Say on a First Date
The 7 Lies that Keep You From Approaching—and 7 Tips to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere
The 10 Texting Commandments: How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting Dates
21 Flirty Ways to Make Her Feel Authentic Attraction (How to Escape the Friend Zone, Part 2)