I See What You're Saying
Episodes
Connect Your Head and Heart to Maximize Your Potential | Keith Castille | Ep. 164
06 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the key to developing yourself and your team isn't more training, but more honesty about where your "weapon system" actually stands?In this ep...
Understand What Stops People From Being Honest With You, and How to Encourage Honesty | Michael Reddington | Ep. 162
04 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Why People Don't Always Tell You the TruthWhat if the people in your life aren't holding back because they're dishonest? What if it's because of somet...
Learn to Speak the Language of Leadership and Improve Your Influence | Lauren Sergy | Ep. 162
29 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the way you speak is actually telling people whether or not you deserve to lead?In this episode, Michael Reddington sits down with Lauren Serg...
How to Productively Leverage Lies to Obtain the Truth | Michael Reddington | Ep. 161
27 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the lies you receive every day are actually opportunities to get closer to the truth?In this solo episode, Michael Reddington breaks down one ...
Heal Yourself and Apply Heart Centered Leadership | Josh Rizzo | Ep. 160
22 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What does it really mean to lead with your heart when the work is hard, the pressure is relentless, and you're still carrying your own baggage?In this...
Overcome Listening Misconceptions | Michael Reddington | Ep. 159
20 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if everything you think you know about reading people is actually working against you?In this solo episode, Michael Reddington breaks down the mo...
How Your Brain Constructs Emotions, Resolves Them, and Rewires Your Beliefs | Cedric Bertelli | Ep. 158
15 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the emotions you've been trying to control are the very reason you stay stuck?In this episode, Cedric walks Michael through how the brain actu...
Prepare like an Interrogator | Michael Reddington | Ep. 157
13 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most people walk into high-stakes conversations asking the wrong question. Michael Reddington breaks down the preparation strategy he developed from i...
How a Master Mediator and Negotiator Remains Calm, Defuses Tension, and Closes Deals | Hesha Abrams | Ep. 156
08 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What does it actually mean to "hold the calm" when everything around you is falling apart?In this episode, Michael Reddington sits down with Hesha Abr...
Listen for Intelligence | Michael Reddington | Ep. 155
06 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if you’re not just listening… but missing the most important information?In this episode, Michael Reddington breaks down how elite investigat...
Owning Responsibility for Their Story: A Ghostwriter’s Approach to Drawing Out Central Events | Jennifer Locke | Ep. 154
01 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What does it really take to draw someone’s story out of them?In this episode, Michael Reddington sits down with ghostwriter and nonfiction strategis...
10 Listening Lessons From the Interrogation Room | Michael Reddington | Ep. 153
30 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What can interrogation teach us about everyday communication?In this solo episode, Michael Reddington breaks down 10 powerful listening lessons learne...
The Power of Listening in Trauma and Foster Care | Dr. John DeGarmo | Ep. 152
25 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when someone has never been truly listened to?In this powerful conversation, Michael Reddington sits down with Dr. John DeGarmo, a leadin...
Learn How to Recognize and Improve the Accuracy of Your Observations | Michael Reddington | Ep. 151
23 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
How often are your observations actually… wrong?In this episode, Michael Reddington breaks down one of the most overlooked skills in communication: ...
The 4 Truths That Will Change How You Lead, Listen, and Live | Terry Tucker | Ep. 150
18 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What does it really mean to live a meaningful life… and how does that impact the way we communicate with others?In this episode, Michael Reddington ...
Understanding the Risks and Limitations of Traditional Active Listening | Michael Reddington | Ep. 149
16 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Michael Reddington takes a closer look at the concept of active listening and why it may not always be enough in high-stakes con...
How Filmmaking Taught Chris Barron to Observe, Listen, and Negotiate the World | Ep. 148
11 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore storytelling, curiosity, and disciplined observation with filmmaker and explorer Chris Barron, founder of Frontier Films a...
Why Leaders Struggle to Listen, and How to Quickly Improve | Michael Reddington | Ep. 147
09 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Learn how leaders can improve listening skills, gather better intelligence, and communicate more effectively in high impact conversations.In this epis...
How Police Leaders Rebuild Trust and Culture | Jeff Wenninger | Ep. 146
04 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore leadership, trust, and the future of modern policing with retired LAPD Lieutenant Jeff Weninger. With more than three deca...
Apply the Goals and Characteristics of a Great Listener | Michael Reddington | Ep. 145
02 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into what it truly means to be a great listener. Grounded in critical research, we explore practical strategies and core...
Expand Your Leadership with Systems and Processes | Chris Hallberg | Ep. 144
25 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the disciplined art of leadership communication with expert guest Chris Hallberg. We dive deep into...
Applying the Disciplined Listening Method | Michael Reddington | Ep. 143
23 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most of us were never actually taught how to communicate with other adults.We were conditioned to talk as kids, then we grew up and started leading te...
Discover Echelon Front's Approach to Impactful Leadership | Codey Gandy | Ep. 142
18 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of learning from Marine Corps veteran and leadership expert Codey Gandy as he joins us to unpack the core princ...
How a Secret Service Agent Gets People to Tell the Truth | Brad Beeler | Ep. 141
11 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of I See What You’re Saying, Michael Reddington sits down with former U.S. Secret Service agent Brad Beeler to break down what it re...
Apply Design Thinking to Solve Human Problems | David Philips | Ep. 140
04 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of I See What You’re Saying, we explore how human-centered design and disciplined listening intersect to solve the right problems wi...
Take Control of Your Thoughts, Emotions, Conversations and Results | Stacey Franco | Ep. 139
28 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the transformative power of self-awareness and self-command in communication and leadership with mental wellness strategis...
Anticipate and Prepare to Negotiate Like a Professional | Ted Stephany | Ep. 138
21 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the dynamic relationship between sales and negotiation with expert guest Ted Stephany. We uncover strategies for prepari...
Develop the Discipline to Dominate Business with Presence and Confidence | Dre Baldwin | Ep. 137
14 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the opportunity to learn from Dre Baldwin as he shares his transformative journey from a high school benchwarmer to a profess...
Apply Native American Principles in Your Business and Family | DJ Vanas | Ep. 136
07 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of exploring the authentic meaning of the warrior spirit and tribal leadership principles with our guest, DJ Va...
Researched Based Techniques for Obtaining the Truth | Christian Meissner | Ep. 135
31 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the opportunity to learn from Christian Meissner, a leading expert in credibility assessment and investigative interviewing. ...
Accelerate Your Leadership with High Impact Communication Techniques | Michael Delisser | Ep. 134
24 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the key communication skills that set impactful leaders apart with expert guest Michael Delisser. We explore the crucial...
Build Trust and Earn Commitments With Character-Based Leadership Approaches | Kevin Basik | Ep. 133
17 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the essential components of leading with character alongside guest Kevin Basik, a seasoned Air Force leader and behavior...
Listening, Leadership, and Communication from a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Legend | Chris Haueter | Ep. 132
10 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the powerful journey of Chris Haueter, a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu legend, as he shares hard-earned insights on overcoming stu...
Eliciting Truth: Interrogation Expert Busts Communication Myths | David Thompson | Ep. 131
03 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the powerful world of investigative interviewing and business communication with expert Dave Thompson. We uncover the mo...
Listening, Interviewing, and Communication Techniques (Forensic Linguist) | Luna Filipovic | Ep. 130
26 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the science and strategy behind effective investigative interviewing and high-impact conversations ...
Build Self-Confidence & Meaningful Relationships: The Formula Revealed | Zoey Charif | Ep. 129
19 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the fascinating intersection of data analytics and emotions with guest Zoey Charif, exploring her unique framework for c...
Evidence-Based Self-Regulation Skills for Teens & Adults | Dr. Kathy Wu | Ep. 128
12 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Kathy Wu to explore the transformative power of self-regulation and resilience in both teens and adults. We disc...
Maintain a Learning Mentality While Chasing Mastery | Emmanuel Manolakakis
05 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we journey into the transformative lessons drawn from martial arts, personal growth, and mastering our own potential with Emmanuel Ma...
How to Balance Authenticity and Sales with Social Media | Cassandra D'Alessio
29 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the power of authentic communication and strategic storytelling with marketing expert Cassandra D'A...
Improve Decision Making for Better Outcomes | Greg Dinkin | Ep. 125
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the science and strategy of decision-making with expert decision coach Greg Dinkin. We explore how focusing on decisions...
Discover How Humor Can Be Learned and Harnessed in the Workplace | Andrew Tarvin | Ep. 124
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of humor in the workplace with comedian, author, and consultant Andrew Tarvin. We explore the s...
How Crisis Negotiation & CBT Techniques Improve Listening | Andy Fairie
08 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the essential listening and communication skills that truly make a difference in challenging conversations, with insight...
Science-Based Interviewing Techniques to Uncover the Truth | Christian Cory
01 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the science-backed techniques of investigative interviewing with Christian Corey, a seasoned police captain and expert ...
How a Blind Jiu Jitsu Black Belt Observes On and Off the Mat | Jim Neitzel
24 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of hearing Jim Neitzel’s remarkable journey as he adapts to life and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu after losing his eye...
How Investigative Interviewing Techniques Can Transform Your Conversations | David Lund | Ep. 120
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with David Lund, Executive Director of the International Association of Interviewers, to uncover the real meaning behind ...
How School Resource Officers Build Trust & Impact Kids | Vic Montalvo | Ep. 119
10 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of learning from Officer Vic Montalvo, a seasoned law enforcement professional who brings a unique, compassiona...
Transform Your Unconscious Conversations: Master Conscious Communication with Chuck Wisner | Ep. 118
03 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the art of conscious conversations with renowned consultant and author Chuck Wisner. We explore powerful strategies for ...
Unlock Hidden Creativity for Breakthroughs | Melissa Dinwiddie | Ep. 117
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the powerful intersection of creativity and problem solving with innovation strategist Melissa Dinwiddie. We uncover how...
How to Create Conversations People Want to Join | Graham Drew & Katheryn Mitchell | Ep. 116
20 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with Graham Drew and Katheryn Mitchell, co-founders of the Conversation Lab, to explore the power of intentional communic...
Improve Your De-escalation and Peacemaking Skills with Neuroscience | Doug Noll | Ep. 115
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we immerse ourselves in the transformative practice of affect labeling and emotional competency with lawyer and peacemaker Doug Noll....
Apply a System to Start the Conversations You've Been Avoiding | Tucker Miller
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of intentional conversations with Tucker Miller, CEO of Onward Leadership and author of The Fir...
Tips and Approaches for Strengthening Relationships | Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of sitting down with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, co-hosts of the One Extraordinary Marriage podcast, as they share...
Apply Engaged Listening Techniques to Forge Stronger Relationships | Matt Halloran
23 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with Matt Halloran—storyteller, speaker, co-founder of Proudmouth Podcasting, and author of Shut the F Up and Listen. T...
Lessons in Trust, Rapport, and Collaboration from a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner | Jaclyn Rodriguez
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of learning from Jaclyn Rodriguez, a seasoned Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE) nurse and CEO of ForMed Insi...
Apply Forensic Psychology to Difficult Conversations | David Hayes
09 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with forensic psychologist and cold case criminologist David Hayes to explore how the principles of forensic psychology c...
How Chocolate Can Help You Develop Mindfulness and Appreciate Life’s Moments | Melissa Mueller-Douglas
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the unique world of mindfulness with wellness expert Melissa Mueller-Douglas, who teaches presence ...
Improve Relationships: How Kids & Parents Process and Express Emotions | Kahlila Robinson & Sarah Gerstenzang
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the essential topic of helping children—and ourselves—navigate strong emotions and develop self-regulation skills wi...
Empathetic Leadership Lessons from a Non-Commissioned Army Officer | Jevon Wooden
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the dynamic relationship between military leadership lessons and business success with Jevon Wooden, founder of Bright M...
How to Process and Apply Emotions to Bridge Gaps and Build Stronger Relationships | Dr. Ed Daube
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the powerful concept of using emotions as tools with our expert guest, Dr. Ed Daube. We discover ho...
How to Observe and Communicate to Build Confidence and Elevate Your Career | Dayna Adelman
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the journey of Dayna Adelman, who shares candid lessons from being the youngest—and often only—woman in the room whi...
How to Build the Perception of Your Value and Get Paid What You're Worth | Casey Brown
28 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the transformative power of pricing strategy and communication with expert guest Casey Brown. We di...
Combine Creativity and Science to Problem Solve Like a Successful Inventor | Dr. Robert Yonover
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of exploring the inventive mind of Dr. Robert Yanover as he shares his unique approach to problem solving, crea...
Leadership Lessons from a Nuclear Submarine Lt. Commander | Matt DiGeronimo
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the powerful lessons of leadership, communication, and self-awareness with guest Matt DiGeronimo, a retired Navy su...
Improve Relationships and Develop Yourself Through Meditation and Martial Arts | Jeff Patterson | Ep. 101
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of the meditative arts with Jeff Patterson, founder of Northwest Fighting Arts and author of Th...
How to Cultivate Stronger Relationships with the Four Pillars of Authentic Sales | Scott Ramey
30 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the four pillars of authentic sales leadership with expert guest Scott Ramey. We examine how surfacing tension, uni...
How Therapist and Entrepreneurial Mindsets Drive Personal and Professional Growth | Jason Wasser
23 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the complex interconnections between marriage therapy, sports performance, and business coaching wi...
Increase Your Leadership with the Eight Principles of Trust | Natalie Oldfield
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the complex world of building and sustaining trust with esteemed guest Natalie Oldfield. We discuss...
How Leaders Can Leverage Facilitation Skills to Increase Their Influence in Every Conversation | Therese Miclot
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we welcome Therese Miclot, a seasoned educator and co-author of The Facilitation Advantage. Therese discusses the essential skills lea...
Saving Lives with Suicide Prevention Lessons from a Survivor | Frank King
02 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of exploring the vital conversation around suicide prevention with our esteemed guest, Frank King, the mental h...
Taking Action to Break Free from Stress-Based Business Decisions | Glen Dall
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring Glen Dall's transformative insights on navigating the CEO doom loop and empowering leaders to overc...
Let Go, Notice More and Use Everything: Communication Lessons From an Improv Expert Gary Hirsch
19 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the fascinating world of improvisation and its profound impact on communication with our guest, Gary Hirsch. We delve into...
How a Sketch Artist Builds Trust and Captures Reliable Information | Gil Zamora
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of exploring the meticulous craft of forensic sketch artistry with Gil Zamora. We dive deep into the critical s...
Leveraging Egos | Dale Gillmore
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we welcome Dale Gillmore, a seasoned strategist in family and privately owned business transitions, to explore the nuanced world of s...
Creating A Strong Partnership | Tom McGreal and Joanne Ryan
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we welcome retired detectives and former partners Joanne Ryan and Tom McGreal as they share the keys to their successful investigativ...
Power of Plain Language | Dr. Deborah Bosley
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we welcome Dr. Deborah Bosley as she enlightens us on the transformative power of plain language in both written and verbal communica...
Activate Culture Change | Tim McCleary
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join us as we sit down with culture activation expert Tim McCleary to uncover the secrets of successful organizational change! Discover how to get you...
Four Zones of Listening | Paula White
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we embark on a journey with Paula White to explore the innovative fusion of music, listening, and leadership. We discuss how the way ...
Accountability is a Vulnerable Process | Chris Norris
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the critical skills of building honest rapport and fostering accountability with expert guest Chris Norris. We discuss t...
Empower People to Speak Up | Tim Klatte
22 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the world of whistleblower interviews with expert guest Tim Klatte. We uncover the essential techniques for encouraging ...
Anatomy of a Good Decision | Pádraig Ó Céidigh
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of exploring the profound principles of purposeful decision-making with our esteemed guest Pádraig Ó Céidigh...
Interrogation as an Onramp to Leadership | Debbie Maples
08 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the world of global leadership and investigative techniques with Debbie Maples, VP Global Safety & Security at Sales...
Build Strong Alliances | Robin Dreeke
01 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the profound connection between communication and leadership with former FBI special agent Robin Dr...
Verify Then Trust | Peter Warmka
25 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the essentials of effective management with expert guest Peter Warmka. We uncover how true leaders prioritize empathy, t...
Words That Sell with Amy Reczek
18 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the honor of exploring the nuances of powerful presence and authentic communication with Amy Reczek, a renowned sales trainer...
Best Idea Wins | Kristen Ziman
11 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the critical realm of leadership and organizational preparedness with Kristen Ziman. We explore the significance of pro...
Stress is A Choice | David Zerfoss
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the art and science of strategic growth and leadership with David Zerfoss. We explore the importance of moving beyo...
Earn the Right to Ask Questions | Mark Anderson
27 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the essential art of high-value conversations with expert guest Mark Anderson. We explore the concept of "intensity of ...
Escaping Conventional Wisdom | Steve Garcia
20 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the necessity of adaptive leadership, the power of networks, and the importance of vulnerability in building strong, res...
Would You Like To Understand? | Harry Kraemer
13 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the essential traits of effective leadership with expert guest Henry Kraemer. We explore the profound importance of humi...
A Touch of Class | Joy Weaver
06 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of etiquette with Joy Weaver. We explore how mastering social skills, from handling first impre...
Mine For the Truth | Matt Doherty
30 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with Matt Doherty to dive into his unique take on leadership and personal growth. Matt shares powerful insights on aligni...
Admission Before Confession | Bobby Masano
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the nuanced world of effective interviewing with special guest Bobby Masano, a seasoned investigator and Special Agent ...
Going Through Life With Blindfolds | Chet Tart
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the art of leadership communication with Chet Tart. We explore transformative techniques like engaging conversation...
Build to The Moment | Sean McDonough
09 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we have the privilege of exploring the nuanced world of sports broadcasting with seasoned commentator Sean McDonough. We uncover the ...
The First Liar Loses | Sara Lincoln
02 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the significance of professional reputation and meticulous courtroom preparation with our expert guest, Sara Lincol...
Create Opportunities For Conversations | Karin Hurt
25 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the nuanced world of conflict resolution and collaborative conversations with our guest, Karin Hurt. Together, we explor...
Torture is Counterproductive | Mark Fallon
18 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the science and ethics of interrogation with experienced guest Mark Fallon. We explore the crucial differences betw...
Freedom From Tension | Angela Gala
11 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of presence and mindful listening with mindfulness expert Angela Gala. We explore the impo...
The Art of Deal Discovery | Kwame Christian
04 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of mindset and self-awareness in negotiations with expert guest Kwame Christian. We uncover th...
We Are All We Have | Tregg and Jessie Lindberg
28 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the profound challenges and triumphs of raising a child with special needs with our inspiring guests, Jessie and Tregg L...