I Think I Like You
Episodes
The unique struggles overachievers face in dating + relationships | Ep 71
25 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I meet so many women —often in their later 30s— who say something along the lines of "I focused on my career, that's why I'm single...
The practice that is *actually* helping w/ my sex life (and so much more) w/ Ishtara Founder, Tracy Harward | Ep 70
18 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I've spent the past decade trying everything from traditional sex therapy to "yoni massage," (yes, that's a thing), to bring more ...
Nancy Levin drops the knowledge on relationships for overachievers | Ep 69
12 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
On today's podcast I'm chatting with author and master life coach, Nancy Levin. I was introduced to Nancy by my own coach years ago, via her...
A dating Q+A w/ Amy Nobile | Ep 68
04 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Amy Nobile is the founder of Love, Amy, a dating coaching service that marries the holistic view of human-to-human energy and connection with the te...
Everyone is IN it and here's the deal w/ Psychological Astrologer Dani Beinstein | Episode 67
28 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
" Real love stories are inconvenient. As a culture we’ve thrown away romanticism in favor of extreme practicality. "Earlier the year, on t...
3 clients who have found flow in their dating lives | Episode 66
20 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In light of some new one to one coaching spots opening up (pssst, I'd love to work with you!), in today's episode I'm walking you throu...
Episode 65: Should I settle for this? How do I know?
14 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
SETTLING. We're so rattled by it. We want rules and directions. Just tell me what I should and shouldn't ok in a partner in order to have it...
Episode 64: How to meet met who actually want to commit.
06 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
On the heels of last week’s episode that blew the pants off everything we know to be true about anxious attachment style, this week’s episode is v...
Episode 63: How I drastically mitigated my anxious attachment style.
30 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Nearly a decade ago, on a the heels of life-altering breakup, swimming in self help, I landed upon the book Attached. Like many people, I was eager to...
Episode 62: On the crushes we just can't quit.
24 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you have a crush you just can't let go of? It's as if they've got their proverbial teeth sunk soooooo far into you? Maybe they live ...
Episode 61 (Bonus!) *Special Announcement*
21 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
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Episode 60: What your adolescent + teen identity have to do with your dating + relationship life NOW.
16 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
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Episode 59: How social stalking is hurting more than helping (and what your tendencies say about YOU).
12 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I Think I Like the Course: Peep the Curriculum6 Things That Made All the Difference When I was SingleDo you get the urge to stalk? Maybe he's lin...
Episode 58: What our mom's careers have to do with our dating lives.
30 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode was specifically recorded in follow up to the following reel I posted earlier this month. In the reel I talked about how if, in your fami...
Episode: 57: On letting go of the ones who can't give you all you need.
25 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we love to obsess over men who are nice, fun, kind, maybe there's a lot on paper that's just so damn good— and yet it just isn&apos...
Episode 56: I Never Had a Honeymoon Phase & Busting Other Myths About Marriage
18 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Where do you share your deepest truths? Where are you able to breathe life into the things you feel but are afraid to utter? When my retreat co-captai...
Episode 55: My journey with emotionally unavailable men.
11 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We tend to think just because we want a relationship that we're emotionally available. But one does't automatically equate to the other.Most...
Episode 54: Dani Beinstein on what we desire versus what we actually need.
04 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dani Beinstein has been a long time follow favorite of mine, largely for her unparalleled wisdom and grace, steeped in astrology and so much more. Thi...
Episode 53: How achievement does not lead to fulfillment and so much more w/ Megan Hellerer
28 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This conversation with brilliant career coach Megan Hellerer was so rich, I found myself having to hold back from scribbling notes whilst recording. ...
Episode 52: Three of the most consistent practices I use with my clients + myself.
21 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
As we land on the spring equinox— a time rife with rebirth and renewal— I thought it a fitting time to walk you through three practices and princi...
Episode 51: When you feel utterly and completely stuck (3 things to do)
14 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There's a moment in time where you feel as if you have done—or are doing— all the things, and yet nothing is changing. The job, the partner, ...
Episode 50: What a real sexual journey looks like (opening up about mine).
28 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why do I still have to work on this sh*t in myself?This is a question I face often in session. But without a doubt, most certainly, to a T, in myself....
Episode 49: We all just want to meet the one person that will deliver us from our shame and pain.
21 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We all just want the whole *thing*— whether the thing is a person or a house or a job or a something to work out. To happen. To just....be there. An...
Episode 48: What's the difference between coaching and therapy? How do we feel about matchmakers? And more.
14 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I consistently receive the following questions in my conversations with clients and coaching discovery calls:What's the difference between coachi...
Sunday Stories II: Dating Without Texting is the Absolute Best
05 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
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Episode 47: How your relationship with your job impacts the state of your romantic life.
05 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Often the only air time that work gets in the space of dating is the notion that we've devoted so much time to our work and therefore can't ...
Episode 46: How alignment in career connects to depth of partnership, and confronting the ongoing stress of a long term relationship w/ Catherine Zack
31 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
<Register for the Free Masterclass>Conscious Dater Masterclass: Understand Your Patterns in Order to Date LessA beautiful thing happened by way ...
Episode 45: Your marriage and the Enneagram (among other things...)
24 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Christa Biegler and I first crossed paths just about a year ago. I was least interested in her work as a dietician, though she’s quite incredible in...
Sunday Stories: Volume I
22 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This is the start of a new podcast series! Each Sunday I'm going to be reading and revisiting a piece of writing. This week's is the followi...
Episode 44: A deeper dive on life timelines— what's at the root of feeling "behind."
17 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Curious to work with me one on one? Schedule some time to chat.I Think I Like You on Instagram I've yet to meet a client, follower or listener wh...
Episode 43: On healing from cheating and coming home to ourselves.
10 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week I'm sitting down with fellow entrepreneur and Instagram friend turned real life friend, Diana Davis. While we touch on the work she doe...
Episode 42: If I were starting the year single, here's the approach I would take.
03 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Happiest of New Year's! This episode came to me in the quiet I allowed myself (and am still reveling in) over the holiday. This episode will reso...
Episode 41: A look back at 2022 and a look into 2023 with psychological astrologer Sofia Adler.
27 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
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Episode 40: When you feel like you've "done all the work," and the relationship still hasn't happened.
20 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I met Jeanne Grabowski in one of the most tumultuous times of your life. I've spoken of said time on the podcast— it happens to be one of the m...
Episode 39: The correlation between love, money and receiving (w/ my personal coach!)
13 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today's episode is an interview with my longtime business coach and, in many ways, transformational healer, Meg Markey. I wanted to have and sh...
Episode 38: If you moved to another place, would is be easier to meet someone?
09 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever thought or wondered, "If I lived <insert dream location> it would be so much easier to meet someone"? This is a conversa...
Episode 37: When, deep down, you don't believe a relationship is ever going to happen for you.
06 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
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Episode 36: A quick thought on ghosting (i.e. what do when someone does it)
04 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A client recently informed me of something she did when a guy ghosted her after a first date and I had to share it here. I thought the tactic was so b...
Episode 35: The holidays are hard as sh*t. Let's talk about that.
02 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On the heels of my Thanksgiving holiday with family, which was equal parts blissful and challenging, I wanted to share how distinctly different those ...
Episode 34: On dating intuitively (but for real).
22 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode welcomes Anna Gannon, Energy Work and Intuitive Development Coach and Psychic. This episode will resonate if you:Struggle to hear your in...
Episode 33: How Googling when to text back or polling our friends around whether or not we should entertain a second date is doing more harm than good.
15 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
2022 has been a year of growth for me, and a massive (consistently uncomfortable) one at that. One of the things that's coming up big for me is h...
Episode 32: Jealousy towards ex-partners, anxious attachment style, the core issue around common dating advice, and more.
08 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode here is like a holiday grab bag with legit goodies. Not one of those bullsh*t grab bags where you open it up and you're like "I...
Episode 31: On meeting in your 30s vs your 20s. Is it *that* different?
01 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Recently a listener wrote in with a question regarding meeting and forming a relationship in your 20s vs. your 30s. We tend to adopt the notion that m...
Episode 30: The breakup that isn't a breakup. When they just ghost.
11 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Many of us have been there, the guy that comes in hot, wants to label the relationship from the get go, even expresses how intimacy is a challenge for...
Episode 29: On the tendency to mute ourselves when we're around someone we like.
04 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
"Just be yourself!" has got to be one of the most grating phrases known to mankind. At least it is to me. And not just grating, but wildly...
Episode 28: On being the martyr in my own relationship.
27 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I have a story, and it goes like this:I have to do everything on my own.In this episode I'm joined by my fiancé James to discuss my long held te...
Episode 27: What does your gut imbalance have to do with the state of your relationships?
23 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The first time I met Abby Hueber, founder of Above Health Nutrition, was over artfully roasted cauliflower and punchy green juices at True Food Kitche...
Episode 26: What if he says he's not sure about kids?
20 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A client of mine recently faced the following dilemma: Things were going swimmingly with the guy she's seeing, but then he, very kindly so, dropp...
Episode 25: On falling in love with women when you've historically only been with men.
16 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Exactly three years ago, Lauren McBrayer and I crossed paths at a writer's retreat in rural Connecticut lead by Dani Shapiro. It was an intimate ...
Episode 24: It's comfortable being single. Is dating worth disrupting my life?
13 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Back in August a listener reached out with a question so rich, so spot, so chock full of pretty much every single conundrum and obstacle I address wit...
A psychological astrologer on the purpose of our relationships.
05 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A true seer, the biggest of hearts, the wisest of words, and a tad witchy— Sofia Adler is all of these things and more. Forget what you know (or thi...
Episode 22: How to survive the grey area of dating.
23 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The grey period primarily signifies the period in dating when you're seeing someone, things are going quite well, but you don't yet know whe...
Episode 21: An exercise for getting back into alignment with yourself and your work.
19 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the podcast, Clara is running through her decision around shifting the structure and timing of her one to one coaching practice. Th...
Episode 20: A get to know you with my fiancé James + the story of how we met.
16 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode of the pod, Clara is joined by her fiancée, James. The two share:James's background and schooling for the 20 years b...
Episode 19. Why we *think* dating is a number's game—but why it actually ISN'T.
09 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever been stuck in that cycle where you go on a bunch of dates (you’ll literally say yes to anyone), feel like they all go horribly, swear off datin...
Episode 18: Am I *actually* feeling this in my gut? Or is this just old conditioning?
02 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's fairly safe to say that we've all had a gut feeling about someone or some situation before. But what makes a gut feeling different than...
Episode 17: On our obsession with healing.
27 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Blocks, rewiring our subconscious, healing childhood wounds....are we all just too obsessed with fixing all this stuff? And is the fixation on fixing,...
Episode 16: What I'm Working on Within Myself + Wedding Planning Conundrums
19 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Coming to ya'll with a breakdown today of the work I'm doing on myself— how it reflects my greater, life long, journey with control, and h...
Episode 15: Your breakup Qs answered.
15 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode expands upon episode 14. I cover the following listener questions:How do you know when it is time to break up? What do you do when your r...
Episode 14: On the way you miss someone post-breakup (and what to do with those feelings).
12 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Brrrreeeeeaaaakups. And not even just official breakups, where you actually were in a relationship with the person your heart desires, but any sort of...
Episode 13: Are we really dating right now?
06 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In the webinar I ran last week, a very thoughtful and wise participant posed the following question (I'm paraphrasing):Given the state of the wor...
Episode 12: Dating isn't something to be "figured out." But what do we do when it feels that way?
28 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What do we do in periods where we know we shouldn't be dating (and boy do those exist), but we still yearn for a relationship? This question was ...
Episode 11: On the comfort of being single.
21 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We can want a relationship and also be resistant to intimacy, in ways that are really hard to see within ourselves. That's the crux of this week&...
Episode 10: How sibling dynamics impact our romantic relationships.
14 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We talk endlessly about our parents. Their marriage, their divorce, their relationship with us, their relationship with each other, but our siblings t...
Episode 9: It *is* possible to meet people in person. It's just time to shift your beliefs.
07 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week I dive deep, like real deep, into the process of meeting people in person— romantically speaking. As I relay early on in the episode, this...
Episode 8: The pain of female friendship.
31 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Those middle/high school school wounds run deep, and very much still show up today. I remember a client once saying to me: Omg, I realized I STILL see...
Episode 7: When all your friends are getting married and it's just you that's single (and other later bloomer, woes).
24 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I didn’t have sex until I was 21 years old, but does that make me a late bloomer? And does it really even matter?Recently, a listener emailed in, sa...
Episode 6: What dating (and relationships) looked like for me 18 months before getting engaged.
17 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Lori Gottlieb's Maybe You Should Talk to Someone was a smash hit for damn good reasons. We relish knowing how the "expert," the person...
Episode 5: The relationship that broke me in all the ways I needed to be broken.
10 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode marks a story— a relationship story— I've been wanting to share for quite some time in its entirety. I've had two relations...
Episode 4: What if going on the date wasn't always the actual goal?
03 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We tend to think the only way we're either moving towards partnership or putting ourselves out there is to date. I.e. go on the dates (I suppose ...
Episode 3: Dating Apps Makes Me Wanna #%$FCBJKH&@!
26 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Nothing about online dating—despite what Hinge, Tinder, and the like may claim— is intuitive or seamless. That's not to say it's impossi...
Episode 2: You don't need to be good at flirting.
19 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A few weeks ago, my editor at mindbodygreen reached out about an article related to flirting. She was curious to get my thoughts on it as it related t...
Episode 1: You're....a dating coach?
19 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the podcast! I’m kicking things off with some background around how I got into this work. It was by no means a clear path, and one which ...
I Think I Like You: The Trailer
01 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Coming April 12th, 2022. Hosted by Clara Artschwager, I Think I Like You is a podcast for the woman who is worn out by traditional dating advice. She&...