In Bed with Koaty & Sumner
Episodes
In Bed With VACAYA CEO Randle Roper: Redefining Queer Travel, One Voyage at a Time
05 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if queer travel could be more than parties and pool floats?In this week’s In Bed with Koaty & Sumner, we’re literally in bed with Randle ...
Blayne It On Us: Live Confessions from the Queer Chaos
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when your ex keeps sending you money, your boyfriend disappears into afterparties, or your “open” relationship starts feeling more li...
Jealousy, Thirds & the Open Relationship Hangover | Blayne It On Us
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week on we have a full episode of Blayne It On Us, where we read your confessions on are and give our take on it. We had lots of submissions this...
James Ash: Rising OnlyFans Star with Parents Who Support His Career
24 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean to come out, build a community, and launch a porn career at 21 in 2025? In this episode, we sit down with James Ash, one of the newe...
Growing Apart: Moving On from Friendships in Your 30s
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this raw and hopeful episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne dive into the reality of friendships shifting in your 30s. From recognizing when friends no l...
Game Day Love: Football, Relationships & Confessions | Blayne It On Us
10 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s football season, and in this episode of In Bed with Koaty & Sumner we talk about what the game means for our relationship. 🏈Koaty grew...
Launching Our New Segment: “Blayne It On Us” | Queer Relationship, Sex & Friendship Advice
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Koaty and Sumner Blayne are taking In Bed With Koaty and Sumner overseas—podcasting from a bed in Japan while Koaty’s on a work trip. After a quic...
Beyond the Bedroom: How Sex Toys Deepened Our Relationship
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we’re diving deep—literally and emotionally. Koaty and Sumner open up about how adult toys transformed our sex life and brought us clos...
Why Gay Men Feel Disconnected—And How to Fix It (w/ Dr. Hector)
23 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this special “first-in-bed” episode, Koaty & Sumner welcome their first actual in-bed guest: psychiatrist, entrepreneur, and emotional edge...
What is sex therapy with Dr. Chris Donaghue, author of Rebel Love
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we’re in bed with the one and only Dr. Chris Donaghue—sex therapist, author, and queer truth-teller behind the book Rebel Love. We div...
Differentiation, Exploration, and Red Flags with Author Tom Bruett
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We’re joined by therapist and author Tom Bruett, whose book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men has genuinely impacted our relationship. In thi...
Daddy Issues & Narcissist Parents: Knowing When to Cut Ties
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this vulnerable and validating episode, Koaty shares the emotional journey behind cutting off his father—and the years of narcissistic behavior, ...
Ex Mormon, Ex Engineer, Ex tra Gay
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
From church pews to OnlyFans views. In this episode, Sumner opens up about growing up Mormon—from blessing sacrament trays as a teenager to being in...
The ICCAs, The Trophy, and The Trap of Comparison
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
"Hey!!! We just got back from Puerto Vallarta, where we were nominated for three awards at the very first International Content Creator Awards (aka th...
Do We Like It Tight or Loose? A Gay Fashion + Fetish Showdown
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Skinny jeans are out. Baggy cargos are in. Harnesses? Always timeless. In this episode, Sumner & Koaty Blayne dive headfirst into the messy, sexy,...
We can’t circuit like we used to…and that’s ok!
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne open up about their full journey through circuit party culture—from wild weekends, outfit changes, and hook...
Kink 101: :Learning To Be Open-Minded
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne open up about their evolving relationship with kink, not as experts or full-time fetish freaks, but as a coup...
AI & The Future of Sex: Are Robots Replacing Romance?
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this spicy and thought-provoking episode of In Bed with Koaty and Sumner, we’re diving into the wild world of AI, sexbots, and the future of inti...
11 Collabs in 7 Days, Koatys First Content House!
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Season 2 of In Bed with Koaty & Sum kicks off with a bang! We’re diving into one of the wildest, most productive weeks Koaty has ever had! For s...
Keeping the Spark Alive: Balancing Intimacy and Desire in Our Relationship
11 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the topic of physical intimacy and how it plays a crucial role in our relationship. We open up about how often we need i...
Bottoming Should Be Fun
27 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, the couple dives deep into the art of maximizing your experience as a bottom. From preparation tips and mindset shifts to their favor...
How Doing SeanCody Affected Our Relationship
20 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Koaty and Sumner dive into the complexities of life as a gay couple in the spotlight. They discuss navigating the highs and lows of b...
Erectile Dysfunction: Myths, Causes & Real Talk on Aging & Intimacy
13 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Hey everyone, it’s Koaty and Sumner, and on this episode, we’re getting real (and a little cheeky) about something that affects way more people th...
How We Chose the Perfect Wedding Venue
06 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We are beyond excited to share that we’ve officially chosen Villa de Amore as the perfect venue for our wedding! In this video, we’re taking you i...
Trust Boundaries and Freedom, Why we Gave Up on Monogamy
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We’re Koaty and Sumner Blayne, a gay couple engaged and building our dream life together. In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most frequ...
DeBunking Stigmas About Gay Porn Stars
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we’re diving into some of the biggest stigmas surrounding the porn industry that we’ve faced personally. There’s a lot of misun...
Inside Open Relationships: Gay vs. Straight in the Adult Industry – Real Talk with Kazumi & Reggie
09 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Koaty and Sumner sit down with Kazumi and her boyfriend Reggie to dive deep into the dynamics of open relationships, comparing the ex...
Hooking up with a 3rd vs a Couple, Jealousy Vs Envy
27 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the fun and sometimes complex dynamics of our open relationship, sharing whether we prefer hooking up with a third perso...
Dealing with Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom
27 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we open up about our own experiences with performance anxiety in the bedroom, especially during those one-night stands and small flin...