In Bed with Science: a Sex Podcast
Episodes
Can AI Fix Low Libido? I Put It To The Test
05 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
AI is being turned to as a replacement for therapy. As a sex therapist who specialises in low libido, I wanted to know - can it actually help with som...
‘Men Will Have Sex With Anything’? A Sex Therapist Breaks Down the Harmful Myth
21 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We've all heard it before: "Men always want sex". They’re simple and always raring to go.As a sex therapist specialising in low libido and mismatche...
Low Sex Drive in Women & Mindfulness, with Dr. Lori Brotto
07 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Low desire in women is often treated as a hormonal problem or a relationship one.But what if the problem isn’t low libido persay, but rather a lost ...
Why We Have Sex We Don't Want (& What To Do Instead)
03 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes low libido doesn’t look like avoiding sex. Sometimes it looks like having sex you didn’t really want in the first place.In this episode,...
ADHD, Autism & Sex: Why Sex Feels So Hard, with Dr. Bowen Marshall
03 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
For many neurodivergent people, sex becomes draining or disconnected over time, even when there’s desire and care underneath it all.Sex can start to...
“We Used to Have Such Great Sex”: Can Sexual Nostalgia Help Desire?
06 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
“We used to have such great sex" is one of the most common things I hear from clients as a sex therapist and coach.Along with this confession usuall...
Sex & Performance Anxiety: What Helps with Dr. Evie Kirana
16 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you want sex to feel good again and not have to think about whether you're hard or softening, or whether you're going to have an orgasm soon — th...
Sex & Performance Anxiety: What’s Really Going On with Dr. David Rowland
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve ever felt your body shut down the moment sex begins (your arousal just disappears, or you become consumed with worries about your performa...
"Does It Even Work?": 'Female Viagra' for Low Libido with Dr. Glen Spielmans
11 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
A quick fix for low libido in women - sounds like a dream, right? Even for me as a sex therapist!In this episode, I talk with researcher Dr. Glen Spie...
When Planned Sex Works & When It Doesn’t: What the Science Really Says
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If the idea of planning sex makes you panic, this episode is for you.And if you’re curious whether planning could help your sex life and relationshi...
Low Libido in Men—How Hidden Emotions Push Couples Apart with Grace Wang
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Up to 40% of men experience low desire. But it's rarely talked about—in society or relationships. In this episode, I talk with researcher Grace Wang...
Taking My Own Advice: Slowing Down To Show Up Better
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is a bit of a departure from the regular stuff! A personal update and a few important reminders about sex, desire, and overall well-being...
How to Talk About Sexual Preferences Without Killing the Mood
05 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How can you tell if a new partner shares your turn-ons — without making it awkward?In this episode, I answer a listener question about casual sex, p...
Should You Tell Your Partner About Your Sexual Fantasies?
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sharing what turns you on with a partner can be scary. But it can also be hot, and emotionally rewarding. This episode dives into one of the most comm...
Low Desire and The Mental Load: The Hidden Link with Dr. Simone Buzwell
24 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel like your sex drive is just… gone — and you don’t know why?In this interview episode, I talk with researcher Dr. Simone Buzwell...
What Keeps Passion Alive in Long-Term Relationships?
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is it normal for desire to fade in long-term relationships? Or can passion actually last?This episode breaks down a powerful study of over 38,000 peop...
How You React to Sexual Rejection Matters—A Lot
26 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever hesitate to initiate sex because you're afraid of being rejected — or feel guilty for turning your partner down?In this episode, I answe...
Can Being a Perfectionist Mess with Your Sex Life? With Noémie Viens
26 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
A lot of us feel the pressure to perform well in bed — whether that means lasting long or wanting sex "enough". In this episode, I talk to researche...
What Science Says About the Beliefs That Shape Your Sex Life
26 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve ever thought, “If we were really right for each other, our sex life would just work”… this episode is for you.In Episode 1 of In Bed...
Trailer: In Bed with Science: a Sex Podcast
12 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Interested in my services? Check them out hereJoin my 1:1 online program Re:Desire here.Do you want to submit a listener question for the podcast? Her...