Inner Confidence Podcast
Episodes
112: Gabriel Grey – Surgical Pickup
07 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie and Gabriel get to talking about how picking up girls is a skill that is no different than anything else and can always be lea...
111: Pablo J Rosario – Flirting
01 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie talks with author and speaker Pablo J Rosario about relationships, communication, and much more with some thrilling advice on ...
109: Book Review “Everything is Fucked” by Mark Manson
19 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie and Tyler discuss the book “Everything is Fucked” by Mark Manson. They go through some of the points and ideas that stuck ...
108: Brian Begin – Diet + Intermittent Fasting
18 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Robbie meets with his friend Brian Begin from TheFearlessMan.net and they discuss using different types of fasting as well as visualiz...
106: Gustavo – Travel & Social Hacking Part 2
07 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Robbie gets connect with Gustavo yet again and share experiences of traveling, international dating, and answer some questions along the way. Show Not...
105: Gustavo – Travel & Social Hacking Part 1
04 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie talks with fellow world traveler Gustavo about his travels, experiences, and personal hacks on how to approach your encounters...
104: Hector “Papi” Castillo – Girls Chase
29 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie talks with Hector “Papi” Castillo about their approach to women and experiences with them all while giving advice on the s...
103: “Money Revealed” Series Review – Investment Strategies of The Rich
27 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie discusses and reviews the Money Revealed series with Jason. They go over many shows and discuss many topics from Real Estate t...
102: Captain Shifaz of Azalea Cruises Luxury Yacht Co
22 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie talks to Captain Shifaz who is the captain of the Azalea cruise ship in the Maldives. Show Notes: Shifaz’s Steps to Becoming...
101: John Keegan of The Awakened Lifestyle – Spiritual Approach to Women
19 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie talks to his long time friend John Keegan who is the founder of the Awakened Lifestyle and who has also been featured in the N...
100: Peter King – Host of the PK Experience Podcast on Fatherhood & Masculinity
15 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie talks with Peter King, the host of the PK Experience Podcast who is a thought-leader on relationships, masculinity, and father...
99: Jon Anthony – Sage Fitness, Dating & Business Advice From A Young Phenom
08 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie talks with Jon Anthony, who is an experienced fitness advisor, about how to get the ideal summer body you’ve been looking fo...
98: Jared "Psych" Laurence – Modern Flirting
20 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie talks with Jared “Psych” Laurence, a veteran dating expert who Robbie’s known since his early days as a dating coach. Sh...
97: Book Review “Sex at Dawn” by Christopher Ryan
21 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Robbie covers the pivotal evolutionary psychology book Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha. The book covers the science...
96: Mark Sing – Alpha Symposium + NLP Life Hacking
04 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Mark Sing is a world renowned dating coach and the founder of Alpha Symposium. After years of training men how to attract women, Mark and his group of...
94: Using Instagram to Build Your Network and Meet Hotter Women
22 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Who is this for? Guys who are getting numbers but a less than usual conversion from a number to a date. A less than usual conversion would be anything...
93: Matt Artisan – Travel & Dating In Southeast Asia
19 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Matt Artisan is the leading expert in transforming the lives of men and empowering them to create authentic relationships. He was voted world’s best...
92: Haley Reed – Adult Film Star
12 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
In her first-ever podcast interview, I talk with Haley Reed, one of the hottest new porn stars today. Haley started when she was 19 years old and prid...
91: Kalvin Paul – Tips From A Life Beast
08 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I have a conversation with Kalvin Paul, a lifestyle design expert and entrepreneur who discusses his personal journey, and how his gro...
90: Andrew Lindy – The Travel Bum YouTube Star
05 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I have a conversation with Andrew Lindy (The Travel Bum), a fashion photographer, travel photographer, and dating coach who created th...
89: Brian Begin – The Fearless Man
01 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I have a conversation with Brian Begin, the founder of FEARLESS. Brian specializes in presence work: getting people "out of their head...
88: Gordon Cowie – Why You Should Meditate
24 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I have a conversation with Gordon Cowie, a movie director, experienced meditator, and men’s coach, who discusses his personal transf...
87: James Whittet – Former Professional Poker Player Turned Life Coach
18 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I have a conversation with James Whittet, a professional mindset coach, former poker professional and digital nomad, who shares his se...
86: Jason Hartman – Real Estate & Travel Guru
18 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I have a wide-ranging conversation with Jason Hartman where we discuss everything from traveling around the world, to modern dating cu...
85: Sasha – Natural w/ Women Breaks Down Seduction
16 Jun 2017
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode we have Sasha, one of the moderators from the Leverage Program. Sasha is one of the best guys I know with women. He’s a former profe...
84: The Digital Nomad Lifestyle & Best Practices
31 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we discuss the myth of the digital nomad lifestyle, and how time management skills are still crucial even when you have freedom and f...
83: Travel:Career:Dating
22 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we discuss the importance of doing cool things in order to build yourself as a complete man. Following your passions as a career, tr...
82: Drew Gatsby – The Nightlife Industry Exposed by NYC Promotor
06 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Drew started out unconfident with women and worked his way up to becoming a successful club promoter and now a general manager of a popular bar in New...
81: Patrick – Becoming A Digital Nomad
22 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Patrick is a digital entrepreneur who left behind a lucrative engineering career to pursue his passions of photography and travel. He’s use the Leve...
80: Modern Dating Culture and Alternatives to Monogamy
20 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
We discuss how to have “the talk” to set up non-monogamous relationships, and how to stand out in the dating world when everyone is addicted to th...
79: Dating Versus Social Circle Game
23 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
This is a shorter episode. We start talking about college game, but stick with it here because the strategy I recommend for college guys is actually t...
78: Jeff Callahan – Become More Compelling
06 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, we host Jeff Callahan from Become More Compelling to discuss building charisma, advancing your conversation and social skills, approa...
77: Dan Chang – Advanced Conversation Skills
25 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, we host Dan Chang from The Friend Formula to discuss conversation skills, small talk, getting out of your head, and more. You'll lear...
76: Bryant – BDSM
17 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, we interview Bryant to discuss BDSM. Brian shares the story of how he escaped the box that society put him into and started living ow...
75: Age and Age Differences
07 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, we discuss age, age differences, and how dating is different in the stages of a guy’s life with a special guest female host. Topics...
74: Anthony Johnson – Founder of The 21 Convention & 21 Studios
29 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This week’s episode features one of the best interviews we’ve had in a long time! We had Anthony Johnson, founder of the famous 21 Convention. We ...
73: Jay Campbell – Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT)
21 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, we have Jay Campbell from TRT Revolution discussing testosterone and testosterone replacement therapy. Testosterone deficiency is a m...
72: Consumerism
26 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: On this episode, we discuss the effects of our culture being completely co-opted by corporate interests, materialism, and consumerism. It affec...
71: Masculine and Feminine Energy
19 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes: [00:20] The way of the superior man [00:30] Should choose 150 books and read the over and over during your lifetime. At every time you rea...
70: Group Coaching Call
13 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Listen in on our group coaching call from clients in the Leverage Program. Show Notes: It’s important to consistently check in with your girl...
69: Social Media
30 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes: Why really good looking guys are at a disadvantage What dating apps like Tinder are and aren’t good for Robbie’s new simplified versio...
Bonus Episode: Body Language and Height
09 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We answer a listener question about body language and discuss The Truth About Height, from a Leverage Moderator.
68: Relationship Communication
06 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Communication is the number one thing in good relationships, and that leads to trust. Show with your actions how you would like a relationship ...
67: Organizing An After Party After Hitting The Bars
01 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Summary: When inviting people back to your place, sell the experience, not the item (i.e. I have a sick pad). Find out what they want before you invit...
66: Oliver – Becoming The Man Women Want
12 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: 'If you're not approaching a million chicks, you're not gonna get ass'. You need to build up reference experiences of girls liking you. The onl...
65: Listener Questions
05 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: When you start talking to hotter girls, it's a whole new process of getting used to talking to them, as far as anxiety. The way to have lots of...
64: The Inner Game of Time and Money
01 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: If you want strong inner game, do the stuff in life that's hard, get better at it, get results, and stack up wins. Getting things done and exec...
63: Overcoming Your Struggles
28 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Having to struggle and not having an easy start in the dating game ends up paying itself back in the long run because you have to develop way b...
62: Taking Action
21 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: You need to have the growth mindset when you're going through the process of approaching and learning all these other skills with women. Enjoy ...
61: Building Your Social Circle
14 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Robbie used to crush burritos with his bros in San Diego when he was a little on the heavy side. Spend time with people who have the same goals...
60: Megan – Female Dating Expert Part 2
11 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: There is no such thing as rejection. It's just feedback. In night game, the opening line can basically be anything. When the interaction starts...
59: Megan – Female Dating Expert Part 1
07 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Profession doesn't really matter to most girls. It's more about whether you’re excited about what you're doing. When guys are bored with the...
58: Max – How To Travel The World (Part 2)
05 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: On this episode, we interview Leverage Program moderator Max about his journey around the world. Traveling is a very crucial part of life as it...
57: Max – How To Travel The World (Part 1)
30 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: On this episode, we interview Leverage Program moderator Max about his journey around the world. Traveling outside of the country is your one r...
56: Mike Diretto – Swinging (Part 2)
27 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Inro: Take swinging slow with your girl. Do not press your girlfriend from day 1 to do crazy shit. Be patient and slowly bust out of your comfort zone...
55: Mike Diretto – Swinging (Part 1)
24 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: It's important to face your fears and root them all out. Swinging improves your communication skills exponentially because you have to explain ...
54: Jonny Dupree – Connection (Part 2)
20 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: If you liked our discussion of connection triggers with Marcus Oakey, you’ll love this episode! We get deeper into the connection discussion,...
53: Jonny Dupree – Connection (Part 1)
17 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: If you like our discussion of connection triggers with Marcus Oakey, you’ll love this episode! We get deeper into the connection discussion, ...
52: Marcus Oakey – Connection Triggers (Part 2)
11 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We've all experienced those times where we've just hit it off with a stranger and usually when that happens its because we instantly connect over a co...
51: Marcus Oakey – Connection Triggers (Part 1)
03 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We've all experienced those times where we've just hit it off with a stranger and usually when that happens its because we instantly connect over a co...
50: Conversation Skills Revisited
25 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: It's important to start talking to people and daygame before you go out to get warmed up. Start approaching early in the night as well. It's so...
49: Brazil Follies and Escalation
19 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Girls in Brazil are very direct. You know whether they're interested in you or not very quickly. They don't play games like American girls. It'...
47: Long-Term Relationships (Part 2)
10 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: As long as you only see girls once every 7-10 days, you will be able to avoid the relationship conversation for a long time. you will not have...
46: Long-Term Relationships (Part 1)
28 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Forced monogamy will halt your progress and keep you stuck in a bad place. You'll inevitably break up. Every guy needs to spend a period of tim...
45: Steve Mayeda – Stripper Game (Part 2)
21 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Hang out in the type of strip clubs where you like the vibe and the girls. You need to go to different ones and see which scene you like. They ...
44: Steve Mayeda – Stripper Game (Part 1)
18 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Gaming waitresses, bottle girls, strippers, etc. is all pretty much the same. If you're not living a partying type life where you're up until 6...
43: The 80/20 Approach to Nutrition
14 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: As long as your nutrition is on point 80% of the time, you're good. Keep track of macros (carbs, fat, and protein). Calculate all the numbers f...
42: Sam Polk – For the Love of Money (Part 2)
11 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: On this episode, we interview former hedge fund trader-turned-philanthropist Sam Polk. Sam wrote a New York Times op-ed piece that went viral a...
41: Sam Polk – For the Love of Money (Part 1)
04 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: On this episode, we interview former hedge fund trader-turned-philanthropist Sam Polk. Sam wrote a New York Times op-ed piece that went viral a...
40: How to Connect With Women (Part 2)
28 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: When you find a funny teasing joke, make it the theme of the night. Repeat it at different moments while you're hanging out. Girls just want to...
39: How to Connect With Women (Part 1)
26 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: You want to connect emotionally or in a mentor type of way. Make sure your comments invoke a bond or add value. Avoid close ended questions. Th...
38: Bachelor’s Guide To Personal Finance
22 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: The most important thing is putting down all your monthly expenses on a spreadsheet and finding the total costs per month. Compare it against y...
37: How To Date A Model
17 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: (Apologies for the crappy audio) Be authentic. Own who you are. Girls can sniff out fake personalities. Online dating is useless for meeting mo...
35: Conversation Skills (Part 2)
24 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Great episode about calling things out. You need to call what's happening in real time. It needs to be funny or insightful, not lame. For examp...
Episode 34: Conversations (Part 1)
19 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Pay attention to people who annoy you in conversation and why they are annoying, then make sure you're not the one doing annoying things. Annoy...
33: Why Students Fail In Dating Programs
04 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: You need to follow the system that's in place because it works, but it takes faith and consistency to get the results. Don't change the proven ...
32: Improving Your Sexual Presence (Part 2)
10 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Men who are honest about their sexual intentions tend to have more sex. They can talk about sex in an effective way. Show Notes: Applying your...
31: Improving Your Sexual Presence (Part 1)
07 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: You need to state your intentions in a more direct, sexual way. Don't say it obviously, such as 'I want to have sex with you', but you need to ...
30: Become A Minimalist To Enhance Your Bachelor Lifestyle
23 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Guys that are good at this embrace this way of living. Having a bunch of stuff doesn't actually make you feel good. As far as assets are concer...
29: The Leverage Program Euro Trip Immersion
23 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Finding cool new cities in Europe is about discovering the places that aren't hot yet. If you hear tons of people talking about the place, it's...
27: Navigating Open Relationships
07 Aug 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: The key here is to be with someone who has the same goals as you in a relationship. In this situation, John and Jackie are both into the open r...
26: How To Optimize Personal Growth For Faster Dating Success
30 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Everyone should write. It allows you be reflective and organize your thoughts. It forces you to confront all the different things in your head....
25: How To Present Yourself Authentically
23 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Figure out what you want to do and take the risk. Live life with no regrets. If you have things you want to do, just do them, even if they are ...
23: Q&A – Tips On Hooking Up & Confidence Building
13 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Embarrass yourself on purpose to make yourself not give a fuck and be more confident. Good exercises for that are pushing your face up against ...
22C: Tinder & POF Message Breakdowns (Video Podcast)
10 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Follow the script and don't go rogue. Don't put 'lol' and 'haha' in every response. Don't say 'it was a joke' if a girl doesn't laugh at your j...
22B: Another In Depth Text Message Breakdown (Video Podcast)
07 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Know the context of the situation. Don't send openers that don't make any sense in relation to what happened. If the girl says 'lol' and short ...
22A: In Depth Text Message Breakdowns (Video Podcast)
06 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Don't be try hard on the opening text. Don't open with lame corny lines. Open with over the top, exaggerated, funny stuff. When texting, follow...
21: Dating and Sex in Western Post-Feminist Society
03 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Don’t be a nice guy, don’t be an asshole, be sort of a hybrid. You have to be assertive without being a completely terrible individual. Sh...
20: Texting Mistakes – Part 2 (Video Podcast)
01 Jul 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Bust girls balls when they say ridiculous things over text. Don't miss those opportunities. After not texting a girl for a couple weeks, don't ...
19: Texting Mistakes – Part 1 (Video Podcast)
29 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Play off what girls say to you. Don't just text responses that have nothing to do with they just said, especially when your response to those r...
18: Texting Fundamentals
27 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: People who want something call. People who are being asked for something text. Texting is for flirting with a girl, not for exchanging informat...
15: The 7 Fundamentals of Masculinity
18 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Do not give girls/people reasons to instantly dismiss you (ie. bad fashion, out of shape, etc). Be aware of other's perception of you. Think ho...
14: The Introverts Guide To Dating Success
13 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: The main thing to get out of this is that committing fully into being successful with girls. He lived in a huge apartment with guys who were al...
13: Troubleshooting Daygame Sticking Points
09 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: In daygame, don’t be outcome dependent when delivering the line. Really emphasis on not giving a shit. It throws girls off and makes them ask...
12: The Only Method For Guaranteed Weight Loss
05 Jun 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Main things are accountability and consistency. Accountability makes you consistent. This applies to all things you are trying to accomplish, n...
11: Threesomes & Group Sex
29 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Always have ED pills in case you need them. It’s best to find women who are also looking for these experiences vs. trying to convince women t...
10: Setting Up Casual Relationships & Avoiding Drama
27 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes: Robbie and Maxwell discuss the roadmap of how to date multiple women, with honesty, integrity and avoid drama altogether. When to have the...
9: How To Poise Your Mind For Success With Women w/ Dr. Donald Grant Jr.
24 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Make sure that most of your social choices are strategic. Choose places where you hang out for these reasons. Ie – Eat lunch at an expensive ...
Episode 8: Amir – Why You Shouldn’t Start A Business
21 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Don't start a business just to do it for the lifestyle. Only start a business when you're solving a problem. It's all about making money. Devel...
7.5: Fashion Part 2
19 May 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Intro: Don't dress like a cholo at the gym. Really make sure all your clothes are on point as girls find a guy who has solid style attractive. Follow ...