Intimacy Advisor Podcast

9 New Products Recommended by Our Romance Specialists

28 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to The Intimacy Advisor Podcast! We can safely say, variety is everywhere between the walls of Lover's Lane, and we have a little somethi...

Lets Get Explosive in the Bedroom: New Toys You Have to Try This Summer

03 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Here's the latest, greatest, and most explosive toys you can play with in the bedroom! Join us exploring ten different toy and lube categories to find...

Conversations About Coming Out and LGBTQA+ Terms

19 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Pride, Intimacy Advisor family! As we celebrate Pride 2023, join us discussing when is right to come out, and the change in your sense of self. ...

Tentacles, Dragon Tails, and Other Fun Gadgets

29 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Introducing (finally!) - Uberrime! This Orlando-made product is crafted with love, skill, and hand-poured silicone. Making dildos and tentacles alike ...

10 Massage Moves You'll Crave

15 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you're looking to give in to relaxation and want the same for your partner, this is the episode for you! Let's take the first and most important st...

Rain, Rain, Here to Stay with Toys That Encourage Squirting

24 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

April showers are here! I mean, really here, in the bedroom and all! Don't dry off inside, head to the bedroom instead with the toy picks from Episode...

The Best Tools for Your Intimate Toolbox

10 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

From toys to lubes to outfits...what tools are going to benefit your Intimate Toolbox the most? And which toys and products are worth trying (or at le...

Exploring Beloved Intimacy Serum and Relationships with Dr. Megan Fleming

27 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the Intimacy Advisor Podcast, Dr. Megan Fleming! In this episode, Dr. Megan Fleming joins us to take a look at a new lubricant, Beloved, cr...

Talking Dirty 101

12 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Take it from us, talking dirty isn't always an easy task in the bedroom. And when you're put on the spot with your partner quick to say "talk dirty to...

A Look In To BDSM Devices

25 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you have a curious mind or are looking to continue experimenting in the bedroom, this episode is for you! Let's take a dive at different roles, the...

Valentines Gift and Lingerie Guide 2023

09 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Valentine's Day here from Lover's Lane! It's the most lovely time of the year, so let's take the stress out of finding your love a gift this hol...

Valentine's Love Kit Guide

26 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Valentine's Day is just around the corner! The holiday of showing love to your special someone deserves no gift less than our Love Collections!  Join...

Episode 83: New Year Hotter Sex

12 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Bring on 2023! What resolutions or lifestyle changes are you bringing to the table this year? At Lover's Lane, Sex Drive and The Intimacy Advisor Podc...

Episode 82: Top 10 Toy Picks of 2022

29 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to Season 3 of The Intimacy Advisor blog with your new (old) host, Haley! Today we're talking what new products made their way to our top...

Finding Your Sexual Confidence

25 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today's episode wraps up Season 2 of Intimacy Advisor Podcast!!  This year, we've covered everything from awakening your arousal and the joys of 69 t...

Top 10 Turn-Ons

15 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What does hearing what your partner likes, neck kisses, and eye contact all have in common?  They're all on the list of top 10 turn-ons!  Want to up...

Listener Questions Answered: Back to School Edition

05 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We've been holding onto your questions for this very moment!  Labor Day marks the end of summer for many of us and in the spirit of back to school, S...

Bootylicious Basics

25 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Happy A n a l August, lovers!  No topic is taboo here at Intimacy Advisor and booty play shouldn’t be either.  If you haven’t ventured to the ba...

Masturbation Makeover

15 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When was the last time you revisited your solo play technique?  Are you relying on the same hand trick from high school? Have you burnt out your vibr...

How to Build Your Own Sex Room

05 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been binging How to Build a Sex Room on Netlfix? In this week’s episode, Sarah breaks down celebrity designer Melanie Rose’s approach and...

BDSM Day Buffet

25 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Happy National BDSM Day!  BDSM is a highly creative kind of play with limitless possibilities.  This episode celebrates the different flavors of Kin...

Tool School: How to Please the Big D

15 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

On this week's episode, Sarah drops a ton of knob knowledge...From satisfying hand techniques and how to create firmer, more sensitive erections to fl...

Travel-Friendly Toys

05 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Tis the season for hitting the beach, the road, and all locations near and far.  But, what toys do you bring?? Sarah covers the most discreet and com...

Tapping Into Your True Desires

25 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Getting in touch with what you want – what you actually want – is incredibly empowering!  But, where do you start?  Sarah takes ...

The Art of Strap-On Play

15 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Curious about mutual pleasure with your partner? Expanding your penetrative play options? Exploring new power dynamics with your partner/s?  Then...

Perfectly Queer

05 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Pride!  In this episode, Sarah nerds out on the history of the term queer, how it reflects the versatility, resilience and inability to be ...

Ode to the 69

25 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week we are celebrating our 69th episode by giving some love to the much talked (and snickered) about sex position!  69ing is an act of mutu...

Sex-Positive Parenting

15 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It can be intimidating to talk to your kids about S-E-X!  Where do you start? What do you say? How do you know what's age appropriate?  In t...

Femme Dominance

05 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Traditionally, feminine people are type cast as submissives.  But, what if subverting traditional power dynamics ignites your desire and makes yo...

Ask Anything! Listener Questions Answered

25 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This week on Intimacy Advisor Sarah fields listener questions.  How can I make my girlfriend come? What other positions can I explore if I love b...

Weeknight Sex Hacks: Building Erotic Bridges

15 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The movies have lied to us!  Going from zero to hot & bothered and ready for action 7 days a week is a myth.  Most of us have busy lives...

Spring Fling: Post Pandemic Dating with Elle Chase

05 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Spring has sprung!  Tis the season of vibe checks and new relationships.  Are you feeling a little out of practice with dating? Are you tire...

Finding Your O

25 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Orgasms are a physiological response.  Orgasmic experiences are also your mind, your body and your breath working together to allow for surrender...

Multiple Os

15 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We've been working up to this... Multiple Os!  Learn how to catch and ride the waves of Multiple Orgasms.  Sarah covers tips and techniques ...

Pleasure-Based Anatomy

04 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Understanding our bodies' building blocks for experiencing sexual pleasure can help demystify roadblocks to orgasm, our partner's needs and so much mo...

Awakening Your Arousal

25 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Arousal is an overlooked building block to expansive orgasmic experiences.  Sarah debunks some arousal misunderstandings, breaks down the nuances...

Date Night Overhaul

10 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The most popular date night of the year is upon us – Valentine’s Day!  When is the last time you changed up your date night routines?...

Valentine's Day Gift Guide

04 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner.  Vday is a perfect opportunity to invest in your sexuality, your sensuality, and the love relat...

Love Languages Pt. 2

25 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is a part 2 to our very first (and very popular!) episode about the original 5 Love Languages.  This episode explores expanded concepts ...

Body Ody Ody Love

15 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find yourself overwhelmed by unrealistic body standards? Do you speak to yourself negatively about your body on the regular? Or are you struggl...

Pleasure Resolutions

05 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We are kicking the New Year off with a new host, Sarah TomTom.  Sex Educator and founder of Damiana Productions.  This week we are talking about pri...

Episode 54: Spooky Sex and Dungeon Fantasies

01 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

One more round of spookiness before Halloween season is done! In Episode 54, we talk how to build a dungeon, how to communicate your eerie needs, and ...

Episode 53: Tricks and Treats for Your Best Sex Ever

18 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Trick or Treat?! In Episode 53 we talk about TikTok trending sex toys and products, how to give the easiest and best blow job ever, and helpful hints ...

Episode 52: The Sex-Ed Episode

11 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's time for the talk...about how the sex ed we've learned as young adults doesn't add up to what you grow to learn. No one teaches pleasure, they do...

Episode 51: Chest and Breast Stimulation

04 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 51 is all about nipples! If you're wondering what products and creams and gels do all the best job of tugging, sucking, clamping, and caressin...

Episode 50: Breaking the Fake

27 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you tired of faking it?! I bet you are. But why are we faking? Is it our fault? Our partners? Technique? Skill? The real reason behind it can be...

Episode 49: Bringing Lingerie Out of the Bedroom

20 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Now's the season of layering your clothes! But what's this... a sexy surprise for your partner after date night? You betcha! In Episode 49, you'll lea...

Episode 48: Celebrating SeXtember with IA Podcast‘s 1 Year Anniversary!

13 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hooray! Our 1 year anniversary episode! So how do we celebrate? On today's episode we are giving the best alternatives to some of our high end luxury ...

Episode 47: Labors of Love

06 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Labor Day 2021! As we enjoy a relaxing day away from work, consider how our personal relationships need care, understanding, excitement, and emo...

Episode 46: Anal Hooks and Other Not-As-Popular Toys

30 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Here it is...the odds and ends that just take the right person to love on! Interesting stimulators like electro-spanking, tentacle play and anal hooks...

Episode 45: Making Sex A Priority

23 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

While a healthy sex life often gets overlooked as part of a health regime, we also discuss how your sexual health needs to be just as talked about, ju...

Episode 44: How to Handle Sexual Rejection

16 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Using the right communication to handle dry times in your sexual relationship is part of the process. Sometimes rejection is unfazed by the rejector, ...

Episode 43: Brand Spotlight - High on Love

09 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

High on Love is quickly gaining popularity between adult stores, sexual wellness educators and experts and those in the cannabis industry. With a revo...

Episode 42: Porn With A Partner

02 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Porn! It might not be for everyone, but there certainly is every type of porn. In Episode 42, Haley talks about how watching it can lead to super ho...

Episode 41: New Moves For Your Erogenous Zones

26 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Today's episode is all about erogenous zones that we all know, erogenous zones we often overlook, and some fun toys to stimulate different than someth...

Episode 40: Explore Your Backdoor

19 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In the 40th Intimacy Advisor Episode, we are relearning stimulation! This time with a much more gentle approach and through a back door. So often with...

Episode 39: Out With the Old! Why You May Want to Update Your Toy Collection

12 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Here's the harsh reality of sex toy materials and how dangerous select few of them can be. Always look for a non porous toy; Episode 39 gives you the ...

Episode 38: Prostate Play for Health and Pleasure

05 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Another Episode for the penis owners and prostate players! This Episode is all about how to touch that sensitive spot found internal and all the ben...

Episode 37: Sexy Summer Date Ideas to Start Planning Now!

28 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Look no further, your date ideas are right here! Summer is the real season of love, because it can be a bit more spontaneous, fun, and sexy than Valen...

Episode 36: Toys For Boys

21 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Enough girl talk - this one is for the fellas...there are so, SO many toys and enhancements out there for men, so which ones are worth the time (and f...

Episode 35: So You Want a Threesome...

14 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Soooo...you want a threesome?! Are you in a relationship looking to add a third and don't know where to start? It's not going to be all hot and bother...

Episode 34: A-Z of LGBT

07 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Happy PRIDE Month!! Let's kick off being back to the Intimacy Advisor Podcast with a Pride Celebration of our own, Episode 34, a resource to everyone ...

Episode 33: May is Massage Month – Get to Rubbin’!

03 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Massage Month! It's starting to heat up outside so keep the heat between you and your partner in the bedroom, too! And if intimacy or passion ha...

Episode 32: April Showers Bring...Orgasms! All About Squirting and How To Do It!

26 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hate to break it to you all...but porn does not give us the best how-to lessons on sex. Sure, the squirting scenes where it's (just about literally) r...

Episode 31: Stress Less With CBD in the Bedroom

19 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Just when you thought you had a perfect bedroom collection of your favorite oils, lubes, and stimulating gels...BOOM! CBD infused products start poppi...

Episode 30: How to Put Some Kink in Your Life

12 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Your desires don't need to be secrets to your partner; although it can seem intimidating to tell them your fantasies...  What's the worst that could ...

Episode 29: Safe Words and Red Flags – Safety in Relationships and Sex

05 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We know any fun bondage/discipline scene or dominant/submissive relationship calls for a safe word to ensure everyone's physical and mental safety. Bu...

Episode 28: BDSM IRL - Taking It From the Sheets to the Streets

29 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Total. Power. Exchange. Some find it hot, others find it, well, not. But regardless of your stance on it, TPE exists! Whether you're giving up control...

Episode 27: Spring Fever - Why Your Sex Drive Changes

22 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The changing of the seasons can always be pleasant, but what about the changing of your sex drive? At times, it can be not as enjoyable. Of course we ...

Episode 26: Therapy In Relationships and Sex

15 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A lot goes in to a relationship. It's not always amazing connection, great sex, perfect communication skills...though a lot of times it starts off tha...

Episode 25: International Women's Day 2021

08 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Happy I-W-D, International Women's Day! The first step in change is education. And as far as sex education goes...well, there isn't much sex educati...

Episode 24: Lessons Learned in Sex Education with Dr. Sadie Allison

01 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In order to have good sex, a lot of trial and error happens (generally) when growing up! In health class, you're taught why not to have sex so who's...

Episode 23: Is Opening Up Right For You?

22 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever considered opening your relationship? That could mean a whole list of options: from inviting a third to enjoying a physical and emotiona...

Episode 22: Squeeze to Please - Kegel 101

15 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Kegels - yep, another thing to add to your workout regimen! Strengthening your PC muscle or your pelvic floor has a long list of benefits for both pen...

Episode 21: Valentine's Sexpectations

08 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

'Tis the season! ...the love season, to give some well deserved effort, thoughtfulness and time to your relationship! Even if you and your honey don...

Episode 20: What's Sex Got to do with It? Let's Revisit Romance

01 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Romance without sex or sex without romance? Why choose?! Your relationship is about you and your partner and whatever works...WORKS! The pandemic has ...

Episode 19: A Sex Toy Enthusiast's Essentials

25 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Bottom line...which toys are thee best?! In Episode 19, Haley takes vote of those of all different styles and preferences and gives the truth about w...

Episode 18: The Truth About Enhancements

18 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A wall of pills all boasting "largest, proudest, biggest, hardest" I'm sure can seem intimidating...but what's in the fine print? In Episode 18 of T...

Episode 17: Resetting Energy with Frank Lawrence's Vibrating Tarot

11 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

2021...it's kind of hard to believe we're here. We all desperately need a change of pace, a new beginning, and some new, fresh energy. Out of all the ...

Episode 16: The Queen of Blended Orgasm - Lora DiCarlo

04 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Imagine creating a robot based on an orgasmic experience...crazy right? Now imagine creating a whole company based on that experience! Enter Lora DiCa...

Episode 15: Relationship Resolutions for 2021 with Jay Schienberg of Liberator

28 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It's the very last episode of 2020! Let's get into...position! Liberator's specialty is oh so luxurious sex position furniture that you can work in to...

Episode 14: Give Good Vibes with We-Vibe and Womanizer

21 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Samantha Brown of Wow-Tech is joining us on Episode 14 of The Lover's Lane Podcast and it's been a long time coming! Both We-Vibe and Womanizer are es...

Episode 13: All About Anal with Alicia Sinclair of B-Vibe

14 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Give the gift of booty. With sleek anal plugs, smooth beads, and extensive knowledge, any B-Vibe toy really is that gift.  Alicia Sinclair chats wit...

Episode 12: Sexy Little Things with Coquette

07 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

*insert Grinch voice* "but what will I wear?!" Holiday shopping for something oh so sexy? But what size do you pick? What style? How to complete the o...

Episode 11: All About Connection with Intimate Earth

30 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes connection and the physical act of having sex isn't as simple as "I want it, let's do it!" Sometimes lube/stimulants/foreplay needs to be pr...

Episode 10: Prostate Pleasure with Topher Taylor of Nexus

23 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We are at double digits of our podcast episodes! To celebrate, we've interviewed Topher Taylor of Nexus (who also works at Clonezone and is the host...

Episode 9: "Is That Weird?" and Other Questions from Working at Lover's Lane

16 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 9 acts as a run through of our retail locations and Haley addresses commonly asked questions from some of our top departments. The flustered "...

Episode 8: Ejaculation Communication

09 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 8 follows as a continuation of our discussion in Episode 7: The Big O's. In this episode, we talk about the connection needed between partners...

Episode 7: The Big O's

02 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In the seventh episode of The Lover's Lane Podcast, we discuss what exactly is outercourse and why you should try it, some fun oral sex tips, and di...

Episode 6: Kink & BDSM Basics

26 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Kink and Bondage and Consent - oh my! Where do I start? What is my role? What is BDSM and why would I want to try it? Get all the answers right here...

Episode 5: Myths and Facts

19 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What have I learned that's right?! What is wrong?! Don't stress, in Episode 5, Haley addresses both common and not-so-common sex myths and facts. At t...

Episode 4: Becoming Cliterate

12 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Becoming Cliterate is not a radical idea. Like literacy, like it or not, once you know, you can't forget. Just like the clitoris - once you know it's ...

Episode 3: Foreplay 101

05 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In the third official episode of the Lover's Lane Podcast, Haley talks about what foreplay is, gives suggestions to fit many different lifestyles of c...

Episode 2: Communication is Key

28 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Isn't it crazy how little we learn in sex-ed?! Now how are we supposed to learn about ourselves AND our partners?! The answer is communication. Hale...

Episode 1: Love Languages

21 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Join Haley from Lover's Lane discussing Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages and how-to communicate them with your partner. You can take the quiz to fin...

Introduction - Welcome to the Lover's Lane Podcast!

10 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In the Introduction Episode 0 of the Lover's Lane Podcast, your host, Haley, discusses health and the overlap of physical, mental and sexual health. ...