Why is sobriety more popular than ever?According to Pew – 79% of New Year's resolutions are about one thing: health. It's Been a Minute is kicking off 2025 with a little series called "new year, new me." We're getting into some of the big questions and cultural confusion around our health and wellness. This week – many Americans are starting out the year by cutting out alcohol and going "dry." But overall, alcohol is getting less popular in general: according to Gallup, the amount of Americans that drink is down to 58% – the lowest number since 1996. And 41% of Americans who do drink say they want to drink less. Is alcohol on its way out? And what would it mean to live in a more sober culture? Brittany Luse is joined by writer and journalist Ana Marie Cox to get into how people are disentangling alcohol from their lives, and the lessons she's learned as a recovering alcoholic.Interested in trying out dry January? Our friends at NPR's Life Kit have a newsletter just for the sober-curious. Sign up here.Support public media and receive ad-free listening & bonus content by joining NPR+ today.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy
What is the significance of Dry January?
have so many interests and they have like their swim class and their dance class and they're like drawing and they're just like, I'm learning a language. Children with their interests. Yeah. They're always doing stuff. And it's cool.
I mean, I did a lot of stuff when I was a kid, but I feel like as an adult, I was talking to one of my best friends a couple of weeks ago and she and I were just like, oh, remember hobbies? Remember doing stuff other than going out to eat, going out to have a drink? Remember like doing stuff? And we're going to take a tap dancing class. anywhere, which I'm really excited about. I love it.
When you have any sort of default and you let go of that, you release that, it leaves a lot of space for new experiences and new opportunities. And I think that that's something that I think a lot of people need, myself, especially in the wintertime.
If I was going to give advice, I guess, about dry January, I think In pop psychology in general, people talk about it's easier to add than subtract, right? To add a habit than subtract a habit. So do try January, but maybe it always should be paired with something else that you want to do, that you tap dance, you know. Needlepoint.
Needlepoint, bouldering, doing something out in the world, I think, is actually a wonderful option.
We've been discussing how many people are embracing sober curiosity and how there seems to be less of a stigma around deciding not to drink at dinner or during a night out. But there's definitely still a stigma around alcoholism. How can the sober curious or anybody be better allies to those who are in recovery?
Going out for drinks with everybody and your turn comes around and you usually order a wine, but you're doing dry January. Don't say like, no, I'm doing dry January. Maybe just... Just say like, all right, not tonight. Not tonight. This is going to sound really crazy, but maybe just don't crow about it too much.
You don't have to keep it a secret, but it'd be cool to just make it normal to not order a drink. There, that's what you could do. Yeah. I think a lot of people who do dry January are doing it just because they want to, but still find it something of a struggle, right? Still find themselves challenged by it. I don't know. I guess just know that it's not easy for everybody.
Yeah, just try to remember that. Yeah, it's hard. It's hard.
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