Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
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I promise you, it will make you feel right at home. But thanks so much for tuning in and thank you again for coming out. I like to start with something funny and heard about this scientist. He said to God, we've decided that we no longer need you. We can clone people. We can transplant hearts and do all kinds of things once considered miraculous. God said, that's fine.
But to prove you don't need me, let's have a man-making contest. The only requirement is you have to make man out of dirt. The scientist said, great. And he quickly reached down to pick up a handful of dirt. And God said, not so fast. Go get your own dirt. Hold up your Bible. Say it like you mean it. This is my Bible. I am what it says I am. I have what it says I have.
I can do what it says I can do. Today, I will be taught the Word of God. I boldly confess my mind is alert. My heart is receptive. I will never be the same. In Jesus' name, God bless you. I want to talk to you today about there's another ingredient coming.
Amen.
We all face disappointments in life and situations that we don't understand. It's easy to get discouraged and think, why did that happen to me? Why did that friend betray me? Why did I get laid off? Why wasn't I raised in a good childhood like you, Joel? No, life is not always fair, but God is fair. He said in Romans 8, all things are work together for good to those that love the Lord.
The key word is together. You cannot isolate one part of your life, one divorce, one bad childhood, one disappointment. That in itself may not be good, but God is not finished. Your life is not over because you had a bad break. Don't get stuck where you are. There's another ingredient coming. That means the right people, the right opportunities are in your future.
If you'll get your passion back and start moving forward, you'll see what God promised. It will all come together and work out for your good. When our children were small, one of their favorite things to do was make chocolate chip cookies. We had done it so much, we didn't even have to look at the recipe. We knew exactly what to put in.
Jonathan, just five or six years old, he would get the brown sugar, the butter, the eggs. Little Alexandra, just three years old, she'd get the flour, baking soda, vanilla. We were very precise to put in the exact amount in the exact order it was called for. But one time, about halfway through making a batch of cookies, I realized that we didn't have any baking soda.
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Chapter 2: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
It's not flat anymore. Things begin to take off. Bam, a good break. Bam, a healing. You're lonely. That person left you.
Chapter 3: How can disappointments shape our perspective on life?
Bam, a divine connection. Somebody better. Maybe your child's off course. Think, Joel, I don't know what I did wrong. I raised him in church. I just don't understand it. No, you didn't do anything wrong. Relax. There's a bam coming. God knows how to get him on the right course. He's not going to stay in the pit.
At the right time, God will add just the right ingredient that will cause him to rise up and fulfill his God-given destiny. I don't know about you, but I'm expecting some bams. Listen, you have not seen your best days. You have not reached your full potential. God has ingredients coming your way that will thrust you to a new level.
He has ingredients that are going to cause everything to make sense. When God brings it all together, and you see the fullness of what he was doing, you're not going to worry about who hurt you, what you lost, how unfair it was. You're going to look back and say, wow, God, you're amazing. You had it all figured out. Your plan was better than my plan. You gave me beauty for ashes.
You made a way when I didn't see a way. You had just the right people show up at just the right time. Why don't you trust him? You may not understand something right now, but one day you will. It's going to all come together. The mistake we make too often is we isolate one incident and it causes us to lose our passion.
I had a lady tell me recently how her husband of many years left her for another woman. She was so devastated. She couldn't understand it. And I know that's hard, that's painful, but that is not the end. If that person leaving was going to keep you from your destiny, God would have never allowed it. This may be hard to swallow, but if they left you, you didn't need them.
If they walked away, they weren't a part of your destiny. There's another ingredient coming. Somebody better. Somebody that God ordained. Somebody that will treat you like a queen or a king. Somebody that will value you, celebrate you. Somebody that cannot live without you. There's something called the gift of goodbye. They may think they did you harm, but they're doing you a favor.
Blow them a kiss. Don't ever look back. Just keep moving forward. Now, some of you, you got to quit mourning over what you've lost. Quit being discouraged over what didn't work out. It's not over until God says it's over.
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Chapter 4: What role does faith play in overcoming life's challenges?
I heard somebody say, God always ends on all is well. So if all is not well in your life, that simply means it is not the end.
Chapter 5: How can we recognize the 'ingredients' that God adds to our lives?
Keep moving forward. Another ingredient is coming. A lot of times like this lady, people are soured on life because they can't understand why something has happened. But everything is not going to make sense if you isolate it. If you look at it just on its own, you'll get discouraged. You have to remind yourself it is not yet all come together. It's not supposed to make sense by itself.
Imagine my children, when they were smaller, wanted to make some chocolate chip cookies, but we didn't have time to bake them. So I got the ingredients out and gave them to Jonathan to eat separately. Jonathan, here's a cup of brown sugar. Eat this. Wash it down with this tablespoon of vanilla. Here's the raw eggs. When you're done with that, here's two cups of flour.
Okay, here's your two sticks of butter. Now, Jonathan, you officially have chocolate chip cookies on the inside.
Chapter 6: What lessons can we learn from personal stories shared?
Somehow, it doesn't work that way. The key is it has to all be mixed together. In the same way, you cannot isolate one part of your life and think, oh, this tastes bad. I went through a divorce. I had a lousy childhood. I started a business that failed. I had to take a year of chemotherapy. Look what I've been through. That's not supposed to taste good by itself.
You got to wait for God to bring it all together. He's got another ingredient that he's going to add to your life. That person that left you, that's painful. That's bitter on its own. But when God brings it all together and brings you somebody greater than you ever dreamed of, you're not even going to miss that old goat that left you. All the bitterness will be gone.
Just a matter of time before it comes together. the person that lied about you, tried to ruin your reputation, by itself, that tastes bad. But that's only one ingredient. God knows how to vindicate you. God knows how to make wrongs right. He can prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies.
When it all comes together and you're promoted, living your dreams, fulfilling your destiny, it will taste good. When you're facing that sickness, Maybe having to take the treatment, it's easy to think, man, God's not even concerned about me. Look what I'm going through. No, God has you in the palm of his hand. He said, no weapon formed against you will prosper. Weeping may endure for a night.
Here's the promise. Joy is coming in the morning. God is saying it may get tough. You may face some situations that are bitter, but if you'll stay in faith and not let the bitterness get on the inside, God says, I'm not at a loss. I have another ingredient that can turn the bitter into sweet. Several years after Victoria and I were married, we received an unexpected tax bill in the mail.
The man that was doing our tax returns lived in another state. He wasn't familiar with a certain tax law in Texas. Now we owed thousands and thousands of dollars. To make matters worse, over half of what we owed were in penalties. I thought, God, this is not fair. I hired a professional. He messed up. Now I'm having to pay for his mistakes. We were discouraged.
We were a young couple and we were trying to save money for a down payment on a home. This was going to take all of our funds. We ended up finding this man to help us get it straightened out. He was a tax attorney. For several weeks, he was at our house every night going over the documents, filling out new forms. We would eat dinner together, run errands together.
We ended up becoming very good friends. 10 years later, I was working in the television department here at Lakewood. A man stopped me before service and said, Joel, my cousin has a construction permit for the last full power commercial television station in Houston. He'd like you to be a part of it. As you know, a TV station in a major market is extremely valuable. I didn't know where to start.
I was young. I thought I don't know anything about negotiating a contract for a TV station. Then it dawned on me, I'll call my attorney friend, the one I met during my tax problem. In three months, he handed us a contract. The station was ours. We put it on the air. Eventually, my father went to be with the Lord. Now, I was the pastor.
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Chapter 7: How can we shift our mindset from bitterness to hope?
Friends, God knows what he's doing. He's got it all figured out. In life, you will face situations that don't make sense. On their own, it seems bitter. You may think like I did. God, it's not fair. Why is this happening? Let me assure you, God has a plan. There's another ingredient coming.
Somewhere down the road, in a month, in a year, in 20 years, you're going to see God work it all for your good. When you face these situations that don't make sense, it's very powerful to say, God, I don't understand it, but I trust you. God, it doesn't seem fair, but I know you're fair. I'm not going to get bitter. I'm not going to lose my passion.
I'm going to keep pressing forward knowing that you are in complete control. Here's what I've learned. Nothing in life happens to you. It happens for you. God wouldn't have allowed it if he didn't have a purpose. If that person that left you, if that bad break, if that sickness was going to keep you from your destiny, God would have never permitted it. The enemy is not in control of your life.
God is in control. The enemy can't even touch you without asking God for permission. Keep the right perspective. Instead of getting bitter, discouraged, know our attitude should be, this is not happening to me, it's happening for me. God said he is going to take what's meant for my harm and use it to my advantage. It may be bitter right now, but I know a secret. Another ingredient is coming.
I heard about a man that was out in his boat and a big storm came up and his boat capsized. He ended up stranded on a deserted island. Month after month went by. He was so miserable all by himself. Just when he thought it couldn't get any worse, when he was out gathering food one day, he came back and the little thatched roof hut that he built had caught on fire.
He sat there and watched it burn to the ground. It was like pouring salt in the wounds. He said, God, I give up. I ask you to help me. And one bad thing after another happens. About that time, he looked way off in the distance. He saw a boat coming toward him. He perked up. It got closer and closer. Sure enough, it was the Coast Guard. Came and rescued him. He was so thrilled.
Got on the boat, gave everybody a big hug. Said to the captain, how in the world did you find me? The captain said, we saw the smoke from the fire that you built. Sometimes what we think is a disappointment is God simply getting us in position to go to a new level. I didn't like the tax problem, but I sure do like being in the compact center. When your hut's on fire,
If your hut ever gets on fire, keep the right perspective. Don't start complaining. God wouldn't have allowed it unless he had a purpose. May not make sense right now, but one day when it comes together, it will make sense. In the scripture, there's a lady named Naomi. Her name means my joy. Every time someone said, hello, Naomi, they were saying, hello, my joy. Good morning, Naomi.
Good morning, my joy. She must've been a very happy, joyful person. But Naomi went through a series of losses. Her husband died. It's very devastated. Her sons were killed in a battle. All these things came against her. She made the mistake of letting the bitterness get on the inside. Yes, there's a proper time for grieving, but you can't let a season of mourning turn into a lifetime of mourning.
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Chapter 8: What examples illustrate the concept of unexpected blessings?
It was my mother that turned the bitter waters into sweet. Some of you, like my father, you've gone through disappointments. Maybe you've made poor choices and now you're beating yourself up. No passion, no dreams. You've got to get back in the game. It starts by forgiving yourself. Receive God's mercy. Quit listening to the condemning voices. That mistake did not stop God's plan.
Shake off the self-pity and move forward and you'll see God at another ingredient. David put it this way. I have pitched my tent in the land of hope. My question, where have you pitched your tent? Do you know God has another ingredient? Do you believe that together it's all gonna work for your good? Or are you doing like Naomi and letting life change your name?
Can't understand why something has happened. No, you've got your tent pitched in the wrong location. If you wanna see God's favor, if you wanna see God add new ingredients, you gotta pack up your belongings, move out of the land of discouragement.
It's time to leave self-pity estates, move out of the nothing good ever happens to me subdivision and come on over to the land of hope, the land of faith, the land where you know BAMs are in your future. When life tries to push you down, when you face situations you don't understand, don't isolate them. Don't try to figure it out and say, oh man, this doesn't taste good.
Remember, that's not the whole recipe. That's just one ingredient. God wouldn't have allowed it unless he had a purpose. Like the hut on fire, like my tax problem. It's not happening to you. It's happening for you. God's going to use it to your advantage. Many of you have been faithful. You passed the test, done the right thing when the wrong thing was happening. You need to get ready.
God's about to add an ingredient. That person you've been waiting for, bam, they're about to show up. That problem that's dogged you for years, bam, a breakthrough, bam, vindication. That sickness, that chronic pain you thought you had to live with, bam, healing, bam, a new beginning. or maybe that dream you've been believing for, bam, a good break, bam, a divine connection.
I want you to go out expecting some bams this week. Listen, friends. If you will keep your tent pitched in the land of hope, God promises you will never be permanently disappointed. At just the right time, he's going to add just the right ingredients. I believe and declare together it's going to all work out for your good in Jesus' name. If you receive it, can you say amen today?
We never like to close our broadcast without giving you an opportunity to make Jesus the Lord of your life. Would you pray with me? Just say, Lord Jesus, I repent of my sins. Come into my heart. I make you my Lord and Savior. Friends, if you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got born again. Get in a good Bible-based church. Keep God first place.
He's going to take you places you've never dreamed of. It's easy to feel stuck in life, wondering why things aren't changing and worrying if it'll ever happen, but there's a better way to wait. I'd love to send you my new resource called Pray It Forward. This book is a collection of prayers and promises from the scripture to help you pray boldly to strengthen your faith.
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