Protect Your Heart From Offense | Victoria Osteen
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You know, as long as we live, we're going to have to guard our hearts from taking in offense. You know, all through our life, people are going to hurt us. Unfair things are going to happen. We'll be disappointed. People may say something that's not true. See, these are all the types of offense that we can't allow to take residency in our heart. See, we can't allow those things to become part of our lives. I have seen people who have gone through a difficult divorce. They have been hurt. I've seen people who have been cheated, and it was real.
What does it mean to guard your heart from offense?
But the difference is those people never let that situation go. They always brought that situation back into their life. And you know, these types of offenses, they don't do us any good. You see, they only bring heartache, resentment, bitterness, unforgiveness. See, that's what offense does when it gets into our heart. It produces in our life. That's why we have to make sure that we don't allow what happens to us to get in us. You see, I believe that God wants us to understand that we are secure in Him. You know, we talk about identity. We talk about what we identify with. You see, if you identify with your job and your job goes away, then your identity has gone away. If you identify with a… person and they make you important, if that person happens to leave or that person happens to disappoint you or say something to hurt you, guess what?
Your identity has been crushed. You see, we are to identify with Jesus Christ. We are to find our security in Him. We have to know that he is for us and he's not against us. He's the one that's gonna take care of us. When we identify with the wrong thing and the wrong thing happens to us, then guess what? We feel wrong. That's an offense. That's an offense. And I want to encourage us all, if you've ever been hurt, if you've ever been left, if you've ever been cheated, if you've ever been lied on, they're real and it hurts. But can I encourage every one of us today, let it go. Let it go. Don't get stuck in that offense. Don't hold onto it. Don't let it be a part of your identity. Listen, people can't define your life unless you allow them to.
You see, when you hold on to those situations and those offense, you know what you're doing? You're allowing those situations, those unfair things to continue to hurt you. You might not be able to change the situation. It happened. The person, what they said, yep, they said it. But you know what? If you hold on to it, then the hurt continues. Let it go. Get good at letting it go. In fact, what I want to say to us today is we're going to have to get good at forgiving and covering their offenses. All right? Their offenses. See, let's look at it this way today. The offense is not yours unless you take it. The offense originated from them. So you can either take that offense or you can drop that offense. And you can say, no, I'm gonna forgive them.
I'm gonna cover this offense. Listen to what it says in Proverbs 17, nine. It says, he who covers and forgives an offense seeks love. You see, it's an offense. It's an offense. Didn't say it wasn't going to come. It is an offense. What are you going to do with it? The choice is ours. We can seek to go after love and say, uh-uh. Forgiveness is powerful and God's love is more than enough even when I don't feel like I can love. God has got more love than I could ever use up. Or we can seek the offense. We can talk about it. tell our friends about it, dwell on it, get frustrated, lose sleep, coddle it, snuggle it. This is my offense. You see, that's how you draw that in. That's how you make it become a part of who you are and your identity.
But what we have to do is we have to do this. We have to push that offense away from us. We have to say, no, it's not my offense to take. I'm God's. I've got the power in my life through the Spirit of God to forgive.
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