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Episodes
Dating Burnout, Breakups & Moving On: What Men Need to Hear (Ep. 80)
10 Jun 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Feeling stuck in your dating life? Whether you're constantly getting friend-zoned, struggling with dating burnout, or trying to move on after a br...
How to Overcome Approach Anxiety in Dating (Ep. 79)
03 Jun 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Approach anxiety, fear of rejection, and limiting beliefs are keeping too many men stuck in modern dating. In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and...
Why “Love Finds You” Is a Dating Myth (Ep. 78)
27 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Does love really find you when you stop looking? In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down one of the biggest dating myths men beli...
Why Men Lose Women by Waiting Too Long to Make a Move (Ep. 77)
20 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Dating anxiety, mixed signals, second chances, and unclear romantic intentions — this episode of Just Ask Her dives into the patterns that keep men ...
Why You Can’t Make Someone Fall in Love (And What to Do Instead) (Ep. 76)
13 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Struggling with mixed signals, overthinking, or wondering how to make someone fall in love with you? This episode breaks down the truth about attracti...
How to Make Your Intentions Clear in Dating (Stop Missing Chances) (Ep. 75)
06 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve ever wondered why she chose someone else over you, this episode breaks down the real reason—and how to fix it.In this episode of Just As...
Dating After Divorce: Confidence, Self-Trust & Starting Over (Ep.74)
29 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Dating after a long-term relationship can feel overwhelming—but how do you actually know when you're ready to start again? In this episode of Ju...
Stop Overthinking After a Great First Date (Do This Instead) (Ep. 73)
22 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
That amazing first date felt perfect—but does it actually mean anything?In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down why long, intense first dates...
Why You’re Not Getting Dates (Even If You “Have It Together”) (Ep. 72)
15 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Struggling with dating even though you have your life together? This episode breaks down why being “a good guy” isn’t enough—and what actually...
Mixed Signals in Dating: Why It Feels Real (But Isn’t) (Ep. 71)
08 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Mixed signals in dating can leave you confused, frustrated, and questioning everything. In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down why emotional i...
Why Men Freeze in Dating (And How to Build Real Confidence)
01 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you freeze up around women you’re attracted to, this episode of Just Ask Her breaks down why it happens and how to handle it. Gracie and Tracy sh...
What “Not Ready for a Relationship” Really Means (Ep. 69)
25 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If she says she’s “not ready for a relationship,” what does that actually mean—and what should you do next? This episode breaks down one of th...
Dating After Divorce, Trusting Someone With a Past & Approaching Women IRL (Ep. 68)
18 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Dating after divorce, trust after infidelity, and how to approach women in real life without being creepy—this episode of Just Ask Her tackles three...
Dating Anxiety, Rejection & Texting: How to Stop Spiraling and Stay Confident (Ep. 67)
11 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Dating anxiety, rejection, and texting after a first date can feel brutal—but this episode reframes the whole process through one core idea: life is...
Dating While Divorcing: Liminal States, Integrity, and What to Do Next (Ep. 66)
04 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
The most attractive energy in dating isn’t just decisiveness—it’s decisiveness paired with emotional groundedness. In this episode of Just Ask H...
Dating Confidence Under Uncertainty: Rejection, Long Distance, and Apps
25 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Using AI (like ChatGPT) for dating texts can help—or it can quietly destroy your confidence if you rely on it the wrong way. In this episode of Just...
You’re Not Being Rejected. You’re Rejecting Yourself
18 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you keep getting friend-zoned, ghosted, or rejected, your dating mindset may be the real problem—not your looks, age, or personality. In this epi...
Rejection Is Data: How to Date with Confidence Instead of Fear
11 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re dating and keep thinking “something’s missing,” this episode reframes the whole game—rejection as data, not failure, and curiosity...
You’re Not Behind, You’re Learning How to Date
04 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Dating confidence starts before the date, when you stop performing to be chosen and start showing up as the chooser. In Episode 62 of Just Ask Her, Gr...
She Doesn’t Want Marriage After 14 Years—Now What?
28 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re stuck in mixed signals, waiting to be “reconsidered,” or navigating a relationship where marriage and long-term goals don’t match, t...
Episode 60: Should You Take Her Back? Plus Confessing Feelings to Your Best Friend
21 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 60: Should You Take Her Back? Plus Confessing Feelings to Your Best FriendWelcome back! After a brief hiatus to upgrade our studio setup, Grac...
Laid Off and Dating: What to Say (and What NOT to Put on Your Profile)
14 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Chemistry and availability aren’t the same thing—and that’s a key reason dating can feel confusing. In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and ...
Dating Mindset Shifts, Spotify Wrapped Wins, and Real Listener Advice (Ep. 58)
31 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you ready to take control of your dating life and attract the women you want? In Episode 58 of the "Just Ask Her" podcast, dating expert...
Why You’re Alone on Christmas (And How to Change It) Ep.57
24 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Feeling alone this Christmas Eve? You’re not the only one. In this special holiday episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and cert...
Unlocking Dating Clarity: Real Advice for Men, Navigating Mixed Signals, and First Date Success (Ep. 56)
17 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome back to Just Ask Her, the no-nonsense dating advice podcast for men who want real answers from a woman’s perspective! In Episode 56, dating ...
Why She Didn’t Text Back: Real Talk on Dating Apps, Instagram DMs, and Moving On (Ep. 55)
10 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Show NotesEpisode 55: Why She Didn’t Text Back: Real Talk on Dating Apps, Instagram DMs, and Moving OnWelcome back to Just Ask Her—the no-nonsense...
Should You Approach Her When She's Alone? Ghosting, Rejection & Building Real Confidence (Ep. 54)
03 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Should You Approach Her When She's Alone? Ghosting, Rejection & Building Real Confidence (Ep. 54)Show Notes:Listener submissions spark honest conv...
Gratitude, Growth, and Real Talk: Navigating Dating Challenges & Self-Trust (Ep. 53)
26 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode Description:Gratitude, Growth, and Real Talk: Navigating Dating Challenges & Self-TrustIn this special Thanksgiving and birthday episode, ...
One Year of No-BS Dating Advice: Real Women, Real Answers – Anniversary Special (Ep. 52)
19 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the anniversary episode of Just Ask Her! Gracie and Tracy celebrate a full year of empowering single men with honest, actionable dating adv...
Breaking Patterns & Building Self-Trust in Dating (Ep. 51)
13 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 51: Breaking Patterns & Building Self-Trust in DatingDescription:In this episode of "Just Ask Her," Gracie and Tracy dive into t...
Real Dating Questions Answered – Confidence, Signals & Starting Over (Ep. 50)
05 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 50: Real Dating Questions Answered – Confidence, Signals & Starting OverDescription:In this milestone 50th episode of Just Ask Her, dati...
Ghosted, Blocked, and Bouncing Back — Real Dating Dilemmas & Self-Made Man Advice (Ep. 49)
29 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 49: Ghosted, Blocked, and Bouncing Back — Real Dating Dilemmas & Self-Made Man AdviceEpisode Description:Are you tired of feeling stuck ...
Dating After Divorce – Confidence, Apps & Real Connections for Men Over 40 Ep. 48
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Dating After Divorce – Confidence, Apps & Real Connections for Men Over 40 Ep. 48Hosts: Gracie Pleschourt & Tracy PleschourtIn This Episode:...
How to Stop Being the Second Option: Dating with Confidence, Setting Boundaries, and Moving On Ep. 47
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you tired of feeling like someone’s backup plan in your dating life? In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certif...
Why Dating Apps Aren’t Working for You: Real Advice to Attract Women & Build Confidence Ep. 46
08 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you tired of feeling stuck in your dating life, striking out on dating apps, or wondering why nothing seems to work? In this episode, dating exper...
Break the Cycle: Real Advice for Dating Confidence, Moving On, and Finding Love (Ep. 45)
01 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Break the Cycle: Real Advice for Dating Confidence, Moving On, and Finding LoveEpisode 45 – Just Ask Her PodcastEpisode Summary:In this episode, Gra...
Living at Home, Gym Love, and Mixed Signals (Ep. 44)
24 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 44: Living at Home, Gym Love, and Mixed SignalsHosts: Gracie Pleschourt & Tracy PleschourtStruggling with dating while living at home? Uns...
Stood Up Again? Real Talk on Dating Disappointments, Blind Dates & Building Confidence (Ep. 43)
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 43: Stood Up Again? Real Talk on Dating Disappointments, Blind Dates & Building ConfidenceShow Notes:Why do people keep getting stood up o...
Real Stories, Real Advice: Overcoming Dating Struggles (Ep. 42)
11 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 42 – Real Stories, Real Advice: Overcoming Dating StrugglesIn this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified li...
Breaking the “Just Friends” Cycle: Flirting, Ghosting, and Setting Standards (Ep. 41)
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 41 – Flirting, Ghosting, and Setting Standards: Real Dating Advice for MenIn this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt a...
How to deal, think about and learn from rejection, and what to do now (Ep. 40)
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 40: How to deal, think about and learn from rejection, and what to do nowWelcome back to Just Ask Her, the no-BS podcast for real dating adv...
Dating After Divorce, Overcoming Insecurities & Navigating Workplace Romance: Real Advice for Men | Just Ask Her (Ep. 39)
20 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 39: Dating After Divorce, Overcoming Insecurities & Navigating Workplace RomanceIn this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Ples...
From Public Shaming to Second Chances: Navigating Modern Dating Drama (Ep. 38)
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle three powerful listener submissions about dating challenges, online reputation, and moving on after heartbrea...
Taking Initiative in Your Dating Life (Ep. 37)
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Hosts:Gracie Pleschourt (Dating Expert) & Tracy Pleschourt (Certified Life Coach)Episode Summary:In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle real lis...
Am I Ever Someone’s First Choice? | Healing After Rebound Heartbreak, Starting Conversations, and Breaking Old Dating Patterns (Ep. 36)
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode, we hear from three men navigating dating after heartbreak, rejection, and personal transformation. Tiago, a newly single dad...
Ghosted After 3 Perfect Dates? Here’s What Women Wish You Knew (Ep. 35)
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s one of the most painful dating experiences: everything feels amazing… and then she disappears.In this raw, relatable episode of Just Ask Her,...
When Feelings Resurface: What to Do When the One That Got Away Comes Back (Ep. 34)
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
She said she only wanted something casual… but your heart didn’t get the memo.In this episode of Just Ask Her, we’re diving into three real stor...
Politics, Privacy & the Girl Next Door (ep. 33)
09 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week on Just Ask Her, we’re tackling three very real (and wildly different) dating dilemmas from our listeners:Carlos wants to know if there’...
When It Feels Real… But She Pulls Away
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode, we’re diving into three powerful stories from men navigating the messy middle of modern dating:💔 Luke thought he was one st...
Too Much, Too Soon: When Early Interest Turns Into Sudden Distance Ep. 31
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In Episode 31 of Just Ask Her, we dive into one of the most confusing dating experiences: when everything starts fast, feels promising… and then sud...
Dating After 35, First Dates at 62 & Grieving Love: How to Begin Again (Ep. 30)
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does it really take to start over in dating—whether you’re 36, 62, or healing from deep emotional loss? In this episode of Just Ask Her, we r...
When the Vibes Are There… But She Isn’t: Mixed Signals, False Starts, and the Friend Zone (Ep. 29)
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do some of your best dates go absolutely nowhere? In Episode 29 of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down the most frustrating moments in moder...
Navigating Summer Sparks, Career Focused Dating, and Decoding Mixed Signals Ep. 28
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' hosts Gracie Pleschourt, a dating expert, and her co-host Tracy Pleschourt, a certified life coach, tackle three in...
Dating in Small Towns, Big Cities & Emotional Limbo: Should You Stay or Walk Away? (Ep 27)
28 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three powerful submissions from men feeling stuck—whether it’s bumping into your ex at th...
How to Stop Being the ‘Safe Guy’ and Start Being Seen Romantically (Ep 26)
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
EP 26 — Timing, Betrayal, and the Friend Zone: Real Advice for Modern DatingIn this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three brutally ...
Dating Advice for Men Who Feel Out of Practice, Out of Options, or Unsure Where They Stand (Ep 25)
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode 25 – Dating Advice for Men Feeling Out of Practice, Out of Options, or Unsure Where They StandIn this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tr...
Feeling Like You’re Behind in Dating? Here’s What to Do Next (Ep 24)
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Gracie and Tracy respond to three real submissions from men who feel like they’re doing everything right—but still struggling in their ...
Is Being Too Nice Costing You Dates? (Ep #23)
30 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Gracie and Tracy respond to two submissions that hit on a common frustration: putting in effort and still not getting the outcome you want....
Ep 22: Nice Guys, Situationships & Starting Over
23 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Gracie and Tracy cover everything from confusing situationships to rebuilding your confidence after divorce.They unpack how to handle it wh...
Ep 21: When You’re Doing Everything Right—But Still Not Meeting Women
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Gracie and Tracy talk about what happens when focusing on self-growth starts to make dating feel… unnecessary, how to handle it when wome...
Ep 20: Is It Even Worth Dating Right Now?
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Gracie and Tracy dive into three listener submissions.They talk about what dating feels like after divorce and years off the market, how to...
Ep 19: She’s Grabbing Dinner with Her Ex… What Do I Do?
02 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Gracie and Tracy dive into listener submissions that include: what to do when you feel stuck and scared you’ll never find someone, how to...
Ep 18: Why It Keeps Ending After 3 Dates (And How to Fix It)
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Gracie and Tracy are back from Utah and diving into three relatable listener submissions: how to stop sabotaging early dating stages, why y...
Ep 17: She Checks All the Boxes—So Why Don’t I Feel It?
19 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle some of the toughest dating dilemmas men face—choosing between chemistry and compatibility,...
Ep 16: Does She Like You Or Just Want a Free Drink?
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week Gracie and Tracy dive into the complexities of workplace romances, strategies for avoiding being used for free drinks, whether men should be...
Ep 15: Is There Such a Thing as 'The Right Person, Wrong Time'?
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' Gracie and Tracy address how to handle feeling exhausted from past relationships, setting and maintaining boundarie...
Ep 14: How to Have a Shot With Younger Women
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week Tracy and Gracie kick off the episode with their opposing opinions on the popular dating show, Love Is Blind. The topics covered include the...
Ep 13: Dating Multiple Women at Once
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week Tracy and Gracie read the first ever update from a previous submission! They also touch on themes such as navigating long-distance connectio...
Ep 12: How to Leverage Being Single on Valentine's Day
11 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode Gracie and Tracy provide advice to single men on navigating Valentine's Day. The episode covers everything from leveraging the ...
Ep 11: Work Crushes, Exes, and Valentine’s Day Announcement
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' dating experts Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt discuss navigating feelings for a close friend at work and recon...
Ep 10: Should Finances Affect Your Dating Timeline?
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt address how financial stability impacts dating, offer advice on first interactions and ...
Ep. 9: Is Loyalty a Dying Trait in Modern Relationships?
22 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' dating expert Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt discuss managing unequal dynamics in relationships, the impact of past re...
Ep 8: Dating Again After a Life-Changing Injury
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Just Ask Her podcast, co-hosts and dating experts Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt dive into real, unfiltered dating advice from a w...
Ep 7: High Standards vs Unrealistic Expectations in Dating
08 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt discuss how to balance high standards with realistic expectations in dating and emphasize...
Ep 6: New Year’s Dating Reset: What Single Men Should Leave in 2024
01 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this New Year’s episode of the Just Ask Her Podcast, Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt dive into New Year’s dating resolutions and share what single ...
Ep 5: Holiday Dating Dos and Don'ts
25 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt dive into holiday dating do's and don'ts, discuss their favorite Christmas traditions, an...
Ep 4: Single For the Holidays
18 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Gracie and Tracy share tips for navigating the holiday season while single, and talk about the benefits of being single this time of ...
Ep 3: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
11 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In Episode 3 of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle a listener's heart-wrenching story of betrayal, offering insights on whether to rebuild a 4-year...
Ep 2: Am I Being Played? Mixed Signals and Dating Red Flags
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Gracie and Tracy discuss their podcast upgrades inspired by listener feedback, share their personal Thanksgiving traditions, and dive into ...
Ep 1: She Ghosted Then Blocked Me...
27 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In the premiere episode of the Just Ask Her podcast, mother-daughter duo Tracy and Gracie introduce their show, which aims to offer dating advice for ...