Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman
Episodes
What Most Women Wish Men Understood About Desire
11 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the real secret to female arousal has nothing to do with technique… and everything to do with emotional attunement? Most people approach in...
You Built the Life… But You Can’t Outrun Your Past
06 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
You can do everything “right.” Build the career. Earn the recognition. Create a life that looks successful from the outside. And still feel like...
You’re Allowed to Love Again After Loss
29 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when your heart begins to open again after loss… but guilt rushes in before desire even has a chance? For so many people, the idea of ...
Why Desire Fades in Relationships (And How to Bring it Back)
27 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If your sex life has slowed down… or feels like it disappeared altogether… it doesn’t mean the love is gone. What it usually means is something...
Coming Home to Yourself After Trauma (Without Losing Who You Are)
22 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if healing isn’t about becoming someone new, but remembering who you were before you learned to silence parts of yourself just to feel safe, lo...
When One of You Shuts Down and the Other Feels Rejected
15 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
You’re trying to talk something through…and suddenly, one of you is gone. One of you can’t find the words.Shuts down. Goes quiet. And the othe...
Your Sexual Energy Isn’t Just for Sex
13 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Your sexual energy isn’t just about sex.It’s the most powerful creative force you have. It fuels your focus.Your confidence.Your ability to take ...
What To Do When You Know Something Needs to Change (But Don’t Exactly Know What or How)
08 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the life you’re living… isn’t actually the life you want? Not because anything is “wrong.”But because something inside you is ready...
How to Get Over Fear of Rejection in the Bedroom
01 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
You love them, you're attracted to them, but the fear of hearing "not tonight" stops you from taking action or initiating intimacy. So you wait for th...
The Truth About Performance Anxiety (And What’s Really Happening)
30 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Sex is one of the most vulnerable experiences you can have. You are naked, literally and emotionally. So how do you build sexual confidence? Most peop...
Why Feeling Lost Might Mean You’re Becoming with Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik
25 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the confusion you’re feeling right now isn’t a sign that you’re lost… but a sign that you’re evolving? What if the “in-between” ...
When You Want to Want Sex… But Don’t
18 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if mentally you want sex, you love your partner, you are attracted to them, but your body just will not respond? Arousal takes forever or does no...
The Real Reason Why Women Fake It in Bed
16 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
How do you really know if a woman is faking it in bed, and what can you do about it? Most women will admit they’ve faked an orgasm at some point. A...
Ancient Traditions That Change How We Think About Sex with Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah
11 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if sexual freedom isn’t something we need to fight for, but something we’re being invited to remember? In this episode of The Language of Lo...
What to Do When Keeping the Peace Costs You Yours
04 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever kept quiet just to avoid ruining a good moment? Sometimes keeping the peace actually costs you your own peace. You stay silent to keep t...
The Art of Being an Unforgettable Lover
02 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
How do you become the kind of lover she brags about to her best friend? What actually makes someone unforgettable in bed? If you want to drive a woman...
The Key to Healing Anxiety (Hint: It’s Not in Your Mind) with Dr. Russell Kennedy
25 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful Language of Love conversation, I sit down with Dr. Russell Kennedy, The Anxiety MD, to completely rethink how we deal with anxiety. R...
When You Keep Fighting About The Same Thing
18 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when despite apologies given for something done wrong or after an argument, the same conflict keeps resurfacing again and again? The word...
Why the 5 Minutes After Intimacy Can Make or Break Your Relationship
16 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Even when the sex itself is good, what you do in the five minutes after sex matters far more than most men realize and it can be the difference betwee...
Grief as Sacred Medicine with Bobbi Vogel
11 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if grief is not something to get over, but something meant to open us? What if the pain you are carrying is not a sign of weakness, but a doorway...
When You’re Lonely in a “Good” Relationship
04 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when your partner is kind, loyal, and on paper seems like everything you should want, yet deep down, you feel unseen? In this Language o...
What Women really Need to Feel Turned On
02 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Do you know the brain is a woman’s main sexual organ? So how do you unlock her mind before you try to turn on her body? Because even when everything...
Living as an Empath in an Overwhelming World with Dr. Judith Orloff
28 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Do you leave social gatherings feeling utterly drained, as if you've absorbed everyone else's stress, sadness, or tension? Do you find yourself consta...
When You’re Not Fighting, But You’re Drifting Apart
21 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes relationships don’t fall apart, they just grow quiet. You’re still together, still functioning, still sharing a life, but something fee...
Why “Not in the Mood Tonight” is More Than What it Seems
19 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When your partner says she’s “just not in the mood,” it’s easy to hear it as rejection. But what if it’s not about you at all? What if “no...
The Telepathy Tapes & A Mother's Journey Beyond Loss with Libby Ingram
14 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this special Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Libby Ingram, a speech therapist, grieving mother, and a central voice from the groundb...
The Bedroom Mistake Men Make Without Realizing It
07 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most men don’t realize that the biggest mistake they make in bed has nothing to do with size, stamina, or technique. It is something far simpler and...
The Psychic Navigator with John Holland
31 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why does intuition feel normal, but psychic still makes people squirm? Why are so many of us feeling more sensitive, more aware, more affected by the ...
Why Some Breakups Hurt So Much More Than Others
24 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever gone through a breakup so painful it made you question who you even are? The kind that leaves you replaying every moment, wondering what...
How to Make a Woman Crave You Without Saying a Single Word
22 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Did you know you can make a woman crave you without saying a single word? Really so much of attraction has nothing to do with pickup lines, fancy outf...
How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships You Want with Alexandra Solomon
17 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why is it that the person you love most can also trigger the fears you thought you left behind? What if your partner’s most irritating habit isn’t...
How to Live and Love Again After Loss
10 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When someone you love dies, people tell you to “move on,” but what does that even mean? How do you move forward when your heart still feels stuck ...
Five S*x Magic Secrets to Become a Magnetic Lover
08 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why is it that some men leave an imprint on a woman’s body, her heart, her energy, her memory, and sometimes even her soul… while others are forgo...
The Girl Who Baptized Herself with Meggan Watterson
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with theologian and author Meggan Watterson, whose books Mary Magdalene Revealed and ...
When One Partner Wants More, What Do You Do?
26 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you worried and feeling tension in your bedroom because of very different sex drives? You want to address it, but the last thing you want is for e...
Manual Stimulation The Way Women Really Want It!
24 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
So many guys think they have manual stimulation all figured out, but most are still doing it in a way that leaves her less than thrilled. The truth is...
Choosing Wholeness Over Goodness with Elise Loehnen
19 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if being a “good partner” has been quietly costing you your aliveness? We’ve been taught to shrink, to please, to perfect, to wear the mask...
Sex, Energy, and the Science of Staying in Love
12 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When was the last time you felt completely alive with your partner, not because of what you did, but because of how connected you felt? No new toys, n...
How to Have Sex Again After a Long Dry Spell
10 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s be honest, every long-term relationship has seasons where sex gets pushed aside. Between changing bodies, kids, work stress, money stress, and...
Love, Loss, and the Goal of a Lifetime with Nikki Mark
05 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when everything you’ve built, everything you’ve believed in, suddenly means nothing, and all that’s left is heartbreak, silence, ...
Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Having the Same Fight Over and Over Again
29 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Did you know that if you keep leaving relationships because you’re tired of having the same arguments, you’ll probably end up having those same fi...
Is This the Best S*x Position Ever for Women?
27 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Some people swear by the 69 position, others love the comfort of missionary, some can’t get enough of doggy style, and plenty enjoy the view with re...
Letting Go, Letting Love, and Learning to Stay Open with Jennifer Pastiloff
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We all carry invisible chains: beliefs like "I’m not enough," "I’m not ready," or "What if I fail?" The real cage isn’t the world around us; it’...
Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same kind of painful relationship almost like you’re tuned to a certain frequency that keeps pu...
Can’t Stay Present During Sex? Here’s Why
13 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How often do you find yourself zoning out during sex? One moment you’re fully present, the next, you’re mentally sorting laundry, overanalyzing yo...
Safe in Love: Building More Secure Relationships with Jessica Baum
08 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why does it always seem like déjà vu when it comes to your love life? Ever catch yourself wondering, “Why does every guy I date end up cheating, n...
When They Are “Checking All The Boxes” but You’re Still Not Sure
01 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when everything looks good on paper, yet your heart keeps whispering that something’s missing? You love your partner. Nothing’s reall...
What Do Fantasies Really Mean?
29 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wondered what sexual fantasies really mean? Is there something deeper to them? In this Language of Love Bite, I unpack what science and symbolis...
Mapping Out Life’s Journey with Spirit by Your Side with MaryAnn DiMarco
24 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We all long to feel connected to our loved ones after they have crossed over. That ache to speak with them again never really goes away. But is it p...
How to Break Free from Inhibitions & Open Up About Your Desires
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt too shy or embarrassed to talk about your sexual needs, even with a partner you trust? This episode might be for you! In today’s ...
What to Do When You Love Your Partner But Don’t Feel Turned On
15 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Like it or not, attraction can dim even in the brightest, most loving relationships. Maybe you're loyal. Maybe you care deeply. Maybe you've built a l...
Someday, Now: Grief Doesn’t End, It Evolves with Tembi Locke
10 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Raising a child while carrying the weight of grief after losing your husband is no easy task. Learning to love again, knowing that loss is always a po...
How to Come Back to Your Body After Trauma
03 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why does something that happened years ago still show up in the bedroom today? Why can you trust your partner completely, and still feel yourself pull...
Why the End of the Honeymoon Phase Should Excite You
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when the honeymoon phase ends? That early period in a relationship, full of excitement, ease, and constant attraction, doesn’t last for...
Autism as a Unique Expression of Light with Suzy Miller
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Language of Love Conversation, I welcome Suzy Miller, a former pediatric speech pathologist whose world was turned upside down ...
Is Wanting More in the Bedroom a Betrayal?
20 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the thing you crave most is the one thing you can’t say out loud? You love your partner. The sex is good. But there’s more inside you—...
Do You Really Want Sex Or Are You Just Trying to Feel Okay?
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When that desire for sex hits hard, like I need this now, have you ever paused and thought… is this really about sex? Or is it something else? A nee...
Grief, Healing and Evidence of An Afterlife with Liz Entin
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Liz Entin didn't believe in an afterlife. She wasn’t spiritual, and she avoided thinking about death. That changed after she lost her father. His ...
Sex on the First Date: Bold Move or Big Mistake?
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
So the date’s going really well. The drinks are flowing, the laughter is effortless, the chemistry? Off the charts. One thing leads to another... an...
5 Things High Desire Women Secretly Wish Their Partners Knew
04 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We hear so much about low libido, but what about the women who feel alive with desire, who crave connection and intimacy, and don’t always know wher...
Dying to Be Me: Love and Truth from the Other Side with Anita Moorjani
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever lost someone you love and found yourself wondering… where did they go? Are they still near? Can they feel me? In this episode of Lang...
Same-Sex Fantasies: What Do They Mean?
23 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do same-sex fantasies really mean? You’re in a loving, heterosexual relationship. You feel close to your partner—emotionally and physically. ...
How Your Attachment Style Shapes Your Sex Life
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You know that weird knot in your stomach when your partner doesn’t text back? Or that moment when, after an argument, you just totally shut down? Wh...
How to Sense, Hear & Communicate with Loved Ones on the Other Side with Rebecca Rosen
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The truth is, death doesn’t sever bonds. Love doesn’t end with a last breath. And if you’ve ever longed for one more moment, one more word, one ...
Stop Asking for Romance - Do This Instead
09 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Does your partner feel more like a roommate than a lover lately? You’re definitely not alone—and you’re not wrong for wanting more. In this Lan...
Why Does Sex Leave Me Feeling So Alone?
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You just had sex… and now you feel worse." The bodies were close, the chemistry was there, maybe even fireworks. But now you're lying there, staring...
A Space in the Heart with Larry Carlat
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when the worst thing you can imagine… actually happens? When Larry Carlat’s son, Rob, died by suicide, it shattered his world. Yet f...
Discover the Magic That Rekindles Passion
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you looking for more ways to spice things up in the bedroom? We’ve all heard the usual—lingerie, toys, candlelit date nights, maybe even a thr...
The Intimacy Freeze: What No One Tells You About Sexless Relationships
23 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever looked across the room at your partner and thought, “When did we become roommates instead of lovers?” Maybe you’re still affection...
Truth, Trauma and Transformation with Dr. Frank Anderson
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel emotions that don’t seem to belong to you? Like you're carrying pain that started long before you were born? What if the things you’re s...
It’s Just Porn, But Why Does It Hurt So Much?
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
So… your partner watches porn. Does that mean they’re cheating? Or is it just harmless fantasy? If you’ve ever asked yourself this—or felt a p...
The One Question That Could Make or Break Your Relationship
08 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
They say love is enough—but is it really? What if one simple question could reveal whether your relationship is built for long-term growth… or des...
The Sacred Wait: When Desire Meets Devotion with Sohale Sizar
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean to wait for love—not out of fear, but from deep, spiritual conviction? In this extraordinary Language of Love Conversation, we me...
Is It Still Love If Touch Feels Like a Risk?
28 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Love after trauma isn’t just about passion—it’s about patience. The quiet moments between kisses, the hesitation in a held hand, the unspoken fe...
Why Your Soulmate Isn’t Who You Think
26 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if everything you've been told about love...is wrong? That magical moment when you'll meet "The One"—the perfect partner who completes you, und...
Turning Temptation into Transformation with Mark Walberg
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the role you’ve played your whole life—the one that made people love you, trust you, applaud you—was actually the thing keeping you from...
Meet Yourself In Truth with Janne Robinson
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel like your life no longer fits you? Like you’re walking around in a version of yourself that you’ve outgrown—but you're not sure...
Renegade Grief: How to Grieve Out Loud in a World That Wants You Silent with Carla Fernandez
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean to grieve in a world that tells you to move on? How do you find light in the darkest corners of loss, and can grief—often seen as ...
The Real Reason You’re Stuck in the Same Fight (Again and Again)
30 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel like your relationship is stuck in a loop? The same fights, the same frustrations, the same silent distance—even though you both wa...
Tiny Relationship Rituals That Bring Back the Spark
28 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt like the spark between you and your partner has… well, fizzled out? Like, maybe you’re sitting on opposite ends of the couch sc...
When Grief Becomes Your Greatest Teacher with Devi Brown
23 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when your world falls apart—and you’re left standing in the wreckage, asking, “Who am I now?” In this moving Language of Love C...
Can You Ever Truly Rebuild Trust After Infidelity?
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you move forward when trust shatters in an instant? When the person who vowed to stand by you crosses a line that feels impossible to uncross? ...
Lost in Translation: Are You Speaking Your Partner's Love Language Wrong?
14 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you loving your partner the way they need to be loved? In this Language of Love Bite, we tackle the subtle mistakes that might be undermining your...
Connecting with Loved Ones Beyond the Veil with Maureen Hancock
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Your loved ones, even after passing, are still with you, guiding you, and sending signs of their presence. In this Language of Love Conversation, I si...
Can Love Survive the Shadows of the Past?
02 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can love truly heal the wounds of the past? It’s a question many of us ask ourselves when past traumas creep into our relationships, casting long sh...
The 5 Mistakes That Could Be Sabotaging Your Intimacy
31 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your relationship? Are you caught in a cycle of recurring arguments, wondering why the spark that once brought you toge...
How to Menopause with Tamsen Fadal
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Did you know menopause comes with 34 symptoms—yet most women are never told what to expect? Instead, they’re left guessing, struggling, and wonder...
Work Spouse: Office Joke or Relationship Threat?
18 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The "work spouse" dilemma – why is this modern trend causing so much tension in relationships? You’ve likely heard the term before… It's that co...
The Secret Ingredient to Better Sex? It’s Not What You Think…
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How many times have we overlooked the little moments that make our relationship special? The gentle touches, the inside jokes, the quiet ways our part...
A Love Story in 250 Questions with Lindsay Jill Roth
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is your hesitation—your fear of being fully seen—actually keeping you from the deep, lasting connection you crave? In this episode of The Language...
When Love Feels Like a Tug-of-War: Breaking the Cycle of Conflict
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you stuck in the same argument over and over again? It starts with something small—an offhand comment, a last-minute plan, or a simple misunders...
Get Your Sexual Energy Flowing
03 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Did you know that your sexual energy isn’t just about what happens between the sheets? It’s the fuel that powers your confidence, your creativity,...
Dive into Your Akashic Records with Daniela Gil
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
There are whispers of a place—an unseen archive where every thought, every decision, every soul’s journey is etched into existence. Some call it t...
The Silent Stigma: Herpes and the Fear of Disclosure
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
For far too long, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) have carried a heavy weight of stigma—whispers behind closed doors, silent fears, and the cru...
Why Their Phone Gets More Attention Than You (and How to Change That)
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you beginning to feel like your partner’s phone is becoming the third wheel in your relationship? Are you tired of being "phubbed"—that unsett...
The Wisdom of Jacob’s Ladder with Jacob Cooper
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if our worst moments are actually an opportunity to shift into a deeper connection with ourselves and everyone and everything around us? In th...
Why Do We Keep Having the Same Fight?
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Did you know that most arguments in relationships aren’t really about what they seem? That fight about the trash? The dishes? Being late? It’s rar...
Can Your Relationship Survive Betrayal? Here’s How to Make Sure It Does
03 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The headlines are buzzing, and let’s face it, Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater’s story feels like a drama we didn’t ask for. Relationships in the ...
From Grief to Healing: Staying Connected with Those We’ve Lost with Meghan Riordan Jarvis
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if grief isn’t just about loss, but about staying connected to those who’ve passed on? Have you ever wondered if your loved ones are still wi...
Caught in the Act: What to Do When Your Kids Walk In on You
22 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when your child accidentally walks in on you and your spouse during an intimate moment? It’s one of those unexpected situations that ...