Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
Tim Storey: Turning Setbacks Into Comebacks and Achieving Unstoppable Success | E105
Thu, 15 May 2025
Tim Storey grew up facing financial struggles, family instability, and a devastating loss at a young age. When his father tragically passed away in a car accident, it could have broken him. Instead, Tim leaned on his family for support and drew strength from his faith and community. This resilience led him to become a life coach, eventually earning the title of "comeback coach" for stars like Robert Downey Jr., Charlie Sheen, and Grant Cardone. In this episode, Tim joins Ilana to share the pivotal moments that shaped his life, the power of maintaining a "miracle mentality," and the role of resilience, discipline, and consistency in achieving success. Tim Storey is a life coach, motivational speaker, and bestselling author, known as the "Original Comeback Coach." With over three decades of experience, he has helped individuals, including high-profile clients, turn setbacks into comebacks. In this episode, Ilana and Tim will discuss: (00:00) Introduction (02:00) Growing Up in a Challenging Childhood (03:56) Coping with Tragedy and Finding Strength (07:54) How Mentors and Teachers Shaped His Life (13:34) Building His Own Path to Success (18:46) The Mindset to Overcome Life’s Challenges (20:39) Understanding the Miracle Mentality (22:29) Thriving in the Age of Digital Overload (25:48) Pushing Through Pain to Achieve Success (31:29) How to Create Opportunities and Get Results (34:07) The Power of Living in the Moment Tim Storey is a life coach, motivational speaker, and bestselling author, known as the "Original Comeback Coach." With over three decades of experience, he has helped individuals, including high-profile clients, turn setbacks into comebacks. Tim is the author of several bestselling books, including The Miracle Mentality, and has spoken in 78 countries, reaching millions through his books, keynotes, and media appearances. Connect with Tim: Tim’s Website: timstorey.com Tim’s Instagram: instagram.com/timstoreyofficial Resources Mentioned: Tim’s Book, The Miracle Mentality: Tap into the Source of Magical Transformation in Your Life: https://www.amazon.com/Miracle-Mentality-Source-Magical-Transformation/dp/0785236724 The Agony and the Ecstasy: A Biographical Novel of Michelangelo by Irvin Stone: https://www.amazon.com/Agony-Ecstasy-Biographical-Novel-Michelangelo/dp/0451171357 Leap Academy: Ready to make the LEAP in your career? There is a NEW way for professionals to Advance Their Careers & Make 5-6 figures of EXTRA INCOME in Record Time. Check out our free training today at leapacademy.com/training
Chapter 1: How did Tim Storey's childhood shape his resilience?
So much of our life in the formation of it is before age 10. So if we go birth to 10, those are really rough years for me, birth to 10. Because what took place in our lives is that we were struggling financially, struggling with leadership in the house where my parents were not in a great relationship. And so my parents were raising five children with a lot of instability in their own lives.
Then the fact of being more lower income that added to the equation. But in the midst of that, I had a very good attitude and I had a very good sense of humor.
Do you think you felt it? You felt that they were financially challenged or at that point you're still too young to really realize it?
I definitely felt it. And the way I felt it is when I started to play sports. So when you played sports, let's say in baseball, So you had to get these Little League shoes. They called them cleats. And then I realized that some of the other kids were getting very nice ones, like maybe Adidas. And then I wanted certain types like them, and we could not afford them.
And with the sports side of things, I started to realize it was school clothes. realized it. Birthdays of Christmas, realized it. But it wasn't something that I talked about, but I saw that something was different.
And then right at the age of 10, which is actually a pretty pivotal time for any kid, you had a big thing happen in your family. Can you share? And how did that shake your world?
Yeah, and I think that it's something that all of us that are watching right now and listening, we've all faced what I call a life interruption. An interruption is a disturbance. It is like a knock on the door that you do not expect. It's a call at three in the morning. Usually something is not good. If you have family members, you wonder like, what's wrong?
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Chapter 2: What pivotal moment impacted Tim Storey's life at age 10?
So the life interruption was my father wanted to get my mother food. So he called a local restaurant, ordered food for my mother and my father. And it's an interesting thing. The reason he ordered food for my mother is because we had eaten that night. And I just asked her this about two months ago. And I said, well, why did you need food?
And she said, because this was common when you're cooking for five kids and they keep saying, do we have any more? Do we have any more? It's easy for the mother to sacrifice and then say, I'll find something else to eat. She said, but that particular night, I had nothing else in the house.
So your father went to get me food and he was going through a green light and a person ran a red light, hit him, and then my father passed. Now, so it was an accident. The man that was driving did not do it on purpose. He was looking down for paperwork. But the interesting thing about it, he was actually a police officer who on duty, in the police car. So that was a very strange thing in life.
For one day, my father was there. And then the next day, he was not. And there was a lot of added pressure to pressure that we already had. But when I'm saying all this, it's not like a downer because we found our way through the storm. But that's just the reality of what happened at that time.
Which again, it will shake everybody, right? And I do want to go there for a second, if you will, because I think especially now, a lot of people are going through a lot of life moments. And I think at that point, I'm sure you saw your mom crying. I'm sure you saw a lot of stress. How does that, because again, at that point you have a choice, right?
And you can go down the black, you know, very dark area and you can actually take it, you know, and what you've done is anchored faith, et cetera. But in that pivotal moment, how did that shape you, Tim?
I was fortunate enough to have three older sisters and then a brother. I have a sister eight years older, seven years older, six years older, and then a brother three years older, and then I'm the youngest. So my older sister is just a leader of leaders and still is. So she was very wise in the area of education. So even when we were in tough neighborhoods, she saw that we all did our homework.
We knew how to really pull together. Everybody knew how to do the dishes, but at a high standard. Our house was small, but always very, very clean. Those things were important because we were able to rely on each other. So instead of there being pain and then panic, And then separation, there was pain, probably some panic, but then we learned to try to come together to heal each other.
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Chapter 3: How did mentors and teachers influence Tim Storey's journey?
That's incredible what you just said, because I think who you surround yourself at those moments is just so critical. And I didn't think about it in the way you just said it. So at that point, you're in Kempton. It's a small area, right? I'm sure you see people that are not necessarily choosing kind of more of a dark path.
But for you, it's very clear that you're going to lean on the light or the faith, etc. How did you grow up from that point? So teenhood later on?
I think what happens is that if you were to watch the movie King Richard and see Venus and Serena Williams, so that is a good part of the parts of LA that we were raised in. There was a lot of challenges in that area, but there were in inner city Detroit, Chicago, New York City, certain parts. But I was raised in an area where you really had to guard yourself and
You had to really make sure you made the right choices because the wrong choices at an early age could really take you to the wrong place fast. So I have people that are my cousins. They are the children of my aunts or uncles that are still incarcerated to this day. And I've been around a while. They're still incarcerated to this day. They're in jail. They're in prison.
So they did not make the right choices. So going to church was a big thing for me. I found that to be a safe place. I found sports to be a safe place. I played the traditional American sports, basketball, baseball, football, and my coaches were fantastic. My coaches played a real key in my life, in my development, in bringing out the champion that was inside of me.
Do you think that helped shape that desire to devote yourself to lifting others and to do the same? Do you think that's part of it?
One hundred percent. Because when you think of my sixth grade teacher, now that we had moved out of Compton, we were in another part of Los Angeles. He was Caucasian. And he said to me, Tim Story, can you stay after class? I stayed after class. He says, I think you are brilliant because I think you are brilliant. I want to see if you would like to read one of these books from my library.
And I chose this book on the life of Michelangelo. But for this guy to call me brilliant, I'd never heard that word before. So he literally branded me brilliant is the way I say it in my talks. But the thing that I was wise enough to do at that age is not push away what he said. What he said, I think you are brilliant. I didn't question it. I took it and I just put it here.
So people like that made a big impact on me and definitely has encouraged me to be what I am today and encouraging other people.
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Chapter 4: What strategies did Tim Storey use to build his career?
I mean, what an amazing story.
It gives me chills. I had to have you shared. But take me back in time. You're suddenly you're this like really young man that decides to travel internationally and speak. I'm sure that people gave you the looks or underestimated you because that's pretty classic. Tell me a little bit. How did you get the grit to at age whatever, 20, start traveling the world?
I really do believe this, that if you build your spot, life will put the spotlight on your spot. So my spot was to be very good in understanding human beings. So my doctorate is in world religion and then master's in counseling therapy. So that was a spot I built. I never built that spot thinking that I would become really well known for building that spot. At all. But I wanted to build it.
So when I say build it, I call it the law of the harvest. You got to plow the ground. You got to plant the seed. You have to water the seed and then you get the harvest. So I was constantly studying, constantly learning. constantly serving, plowing, planting, watering is repetition. And then the harvest came. But the harvest came so much more than I ever thought would happen.
And that was through this ability to help people that people in the entertainment business started to see. And very famous people that we were raised watching their movies. I mean, the most famous. started to look for me.
Before you go there, this is fast, right? And we, as people, first of all, we're lacking patience. We want everything yesterday. So I get that. That's part of the thing. But for you, again, you're starting from, to some extent, Tim, not much, right? It's not like you grew up to know all these people. How do you even... make connection with those BP? How do you get in front of them?
How do you get their attention? Tell us a little bit. What happened?
I'm very non-traditional in the way I approach this. I think that the average book would say you have to find a way in the room. I do think that that is one way. Even the community that you've created is a great room to be in. Because like attracts like. And there's things that we can learn from each other and gain from each other than possibly collaborate through the power of partnership.
So that's one way. And the other thing is that a lot of people think that, oh, I need to get to know that person. That person is doing what I like to do. What would it take? I need to get to that person. I don't think that way. I think I may want that person's ideas so I might read their book. I may want to know more about them so I may read articles about them or I may watch a documentary.
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Chapter 5: How does Tim Storey connect with high-profile clients?
The end result did not look like I would speak to up to 85,000 people at a time and be interviewed by Oprah a lot and be in her books and documentaries. There was no end result. It was... Build your spot and life will put the spotlight on your spot.
So just as much as I enjoy being on the NBC Today show, I love to go into prisons and I'm involved in prison reform and try to educate people to get up and out. I still work in the rehab business, real big. I go into rehab centers for free and volunteer my time to speak to people, to try to help them turn their step back to come back.
So to me, what's big to one person is not necessarily big to me.
Were there moments like, I don't know, in the 2000s or 2008, or maybe those didn't really hurt you, but COVID, I don't know. Like, were there moments where you're suddenly like, man, this is hard? Are there moments where you also doubt yourself?
2008, with the housing crisis and everything that went on, I obviously see the challenge. I'm realistic about the challenge. I'm realistic about the economy in America. I'm very realistic about division in America. You know, many of my friends who are politicians have wanted me to get into politics and starting when I was probably 27 years of age. I spoke to the US Congress at 28 years of age.
That is a way I could have gone. So I'm very aware of the challenges that we face. But the way I look at it is that life is seasonal. There are winter, springs, summer, and falls. And so if we are in a winter season, I want to know what should I learn from this winter season? How can I grow? How can I get better? How can I be more prepared for the other seasons?
So even though I'm doing well in my jobs, plural, we all have our own challenges. It might be my mother aging. She's 94 now. Or it might be another situation in my life. So that's how I see life. I'm not looking just for a life of summer so I don't get let down on rainy days.
That's strong. And I love that you said that because I think some people are feeling a lot of winter right now and I think they need to hear it. So they need to hear how to grow. And I think in your book, The Miracle Mentality, I think you talk also a lot about
not only recuperating from these things, but also to live beyond the average thinking, like how to look much grander than to what your full potential is and not to look at just survival, right? So take a stare for a second and what shaped that book?
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Chapter 6: Why is cultivating your own path important according to Tim Storey?
You could take any four or five-year-old into a toy store and they think their parents can buy them anything in the store because they have a miracle mentality and they're connected to their parents and they feel like my parents are the source. I tease about this in a talk. A mother could say to a daughter, oh, here's the Barbie.
And then the daughter at five will say, but what about the whole Barbie house? And the Barbie house is huge. And the mom knows she can't afford the house, but she can afford the Barbie. But the daughter doesn't understand because she has a miracle mentality. And so when we're little, we believe. But not only do we believe... we expect.
And so I maintain my innocence that I stay in a place of belief and expectation, no matter what is going on. I mean, everything could be hitting at once and I find a way to maintain my innocence. I think that's a real strength of mine, no matter what takes place.
Tim, do you have some strategies for people who are listening right now to this episode and saying, I'm in a dark place. All the evidence is against me. I have haters. I have financial situations. I'm losing the belief. I'm losing my ability to dream. How do we help them, Tim?
One of the things we need to do is we need to go back to the place of innocence. For me, I trigger myself through music every single day. I said every single day. So for me, as a person of color, I was raised on Motown music. Stevie Wonder, Smokey Robinson, Jackson 5, The Supremes, Aretha Franklin. So seven days a week, I listen to motel music. I already have today. So music triggers me.
Old movies trigger me. Once in a while, even though it's really not that healthy, I will go through a supermarket and I'm shopping for other things and I will buy cereal, like Trix or For Kids or Sugar Smacks. They're not healthy, but I'll buy them And usually I'll just take a few bites and then like I'm over it. It's too sugary. But I do that to trigger myself to stay in a place of innocence.
It's a very complicated world. So I stay innocent like a child, but I get things done like an adult.
When you're a comeback coach for so many people, I'm sure, first of all, you're seeing patterns that are the same, but also I'm sure you've seen a change in this digital world because we're just moving in such a fast pace that I assume there's a difference in what you've seen a few decades ago.
There's never been as much pressure as there is right now on human beings because of the digital world, as that the idea of exposure to things, you could maybe as a child be driving down the street and you may have seen a billboard and you saw a person smoking. So a child may say, well, what's that? Oh, that's somebody smoking. Well, what is smoking? It was a billboard. It was a magazine.
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