Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

#268 | Why Betrayal Feels Like a Life-or-Death Trauma — and What's Really Happening Inside You

04 May 2026

Contributed by Lukas

If you've discovered a partner's affair and wondered why the pain feels like it might actually kill you, you're not overreacting. In th...

#267 | Why You Keep Having the Same Fight — And How to Finally Stop

27 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Do you and your partner keep circling the same argument, no matter how many times you've tried to resolve it? The problem might not be what eithe...

#266 | The Civil War of Betrayal: Why You Love Them and Want to Leave at the Same Time

02 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

After discovering a partner's affair, many people ask the same question: Am I going crazy? You love this person deeply — and part of you wants...

#265 | The Venus Fly Trap: Love, Borderline Personality Disorder, and the Relationships That Change You

19 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

What draws someone back to a relationship they know is hurting them — and what does it take to finally walk away?In this episode, Todd sits down wit...

#264 | Is It Insecurity—Or Is It Manipulation? How to Tell the Difference in Your Relationship

02 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

What if the "insecurity" you've been working so hard to reassure isn't insecurity at all?In this solo episode, Todd Creager—a li...

#263 | Why You Cannot Move On After Being Lied To: Cognitive Dissonance Explained

26 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

You know they lied. You've seen the evidence. So why can't you just move on?In this episode, Todd addresses one of the most painful experien...

#262 | Trust Your Gut: Recognizing Gaslighting in Your Relationship

19 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like something's off in your relationship, but your partner keeps telling you you're the problem? That knot in your stoma...

#261 | When Cheating Meets Denial: How Gaslighting Protects Infidelity

12 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Have you noticed your partner acting differently but they tell you you're imagining things? You might be dealing with something more than just in...

#260 | When Shame Makes You Disappear: How to Stay Present During Conflict

22 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when you shut down during a fight with your partner—when your chest tightens, your voice vanishes, and you feel small like a scolded ch...

#259 | Why Silent Punishment Hurts Your Partner and How to Repair Without Words

15 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when the person you love most goes quiet—not yelling, not fighting, just... gone?In this episode, Todd Creager addresses one of the mos...

#258 | When Your Body Shuts Down During a Fight: Understanding the Freeze Response

08 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when you freeze up during a difficult conversation with your partner—when your mind goes blank, your voice disappears, and you can&apos...

#257 | Why Defending Yourself Pushes Your Partner Away (And What to Do Instead)"

01 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Does every conversation with your partner turn into a back-and-forth where nobody feels heard? You're not alone—and you're probably not do...

256 | The Need to Be Right is Ruining Your Relationship

24 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, relationship expert Todd Creager shares the real story of Sam and Barbara—a couple who came to him with "communication problem...

#255 | Why Bickering Becomes Your Default (And How to Break the Cycle)

17 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Here's a podcast episode description optimized for podcast platforms and Todd's brand voice:Episode Title: How to Stop Bickering: The Real P...

#254 | How to Rebuild a New Identity After Cheating on Your Partner

10 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this revealing episode, relationship expert Todd Creager tackles the profound identity crisis that occurs when infidelity is discovered. If you&apo...

#253 | Why Did I Cheat? Understanding the Real Reasons Behind Infidelity (And How to Stop)

13 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you've been unfaithful to your partner, you're probably drowning in one question: "Why did I do this?" And if you're the b...

#252 | What Kind of Therapy Helps You Heal Infidelity?

06 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode, I'm diving deep into one of the most important questions I get: when there's been a discovery of infidelity, when d...

#251 | Do I Need to Separate to Have Clarity After Infidelity?

29 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

One of the most common questions I get from betrayed partners: "Todd, do I need to separate from my partner to get clarity? Do I need to separate...

# 250 | What Boundaries Are Needed After Discovering Infidelity?

22 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

After you discover infidelity, everything changes. The sacred boundary around your couple has been ruptured by secrets, and now you need to rebuild it...

#249 | Can You Really Forgive After Infidelity? Finding Your Way Back to Peace

15 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

One of the most painful questions I get asked: "Todd, how do I forgive my partner after they cheated on me?" It feels like a monumental task...

#248 | When a Person Who Betrayed is Becoming Trustworthy: Key Signs to Watch For

08 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode infidelity expert Todd Creager discusses one of the hardest questions you're grappling with right now: How do you know when your ...

#247 | Understanding Multiple Infidelities: Essential Insights for the Betrayed Partner

01 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when your partner hasn't just cheated once, but multiple times? If you're dealing with serial infidelities, I know you're...

# 246 | How Old Do You Feel? The One Question That Saved My 41-Year Marriage

25 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever noticed how your partner can turn you into a defensive teenager faster than anyone else on the planet?Hi everybody, this is Todd Creager...

245 | The Hidden Truth About Infidelity: Why It’s Never Really About You (And What It Actually Reveals)

18 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Todd's sharing a conversation that could completely change how you think about betrayal and recovery.He recently interviewed Lora Cheadle, a betr...

#244 | Why Attachment Styles Impact Your Sexual Desire

04 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Todd Creager shares insights you probably won't find in most relationship books or articles - discoveries he's made from th...

#243 | How Your Attachment Style Affects Addictive Behaviors

28 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered why some people turn to addictions while others don't? In this eye-opening episode, I dive deep into the fascinating conne...

#242 | The Joy of Kissing: Rekindling Passion Through Life's Most Intimate Act

21 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you noticed that kissing has taken a backseat in your relationship? As a relationship expert who's helped countless couples rekindle their ...

#241 | Attachment Styles & Infidelity: What You Need to Know

14 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

 In this episode, Infidelity expert Todd Creager explores the crucial connection between attachment styles and infidelity - a topic he's helped ...

#240 | Attachment Styles: How They Affect Your Love Life

07 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode, I'm discussingsomething I see constantly in my therapy practice - attachment styles and how they profoundly impact our i...

#239 | The Hidden Cost of Not Fixing Your Communication Patterns

23 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager is diving deep into something he's observed over decades of working with couples -...

#238 | Why Love Isn't Enough: Breaking Free from Repeating Arguments

16 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered why you and your partner keep having the same arguments over and over, despite how much you love each other? In this powerful e...

#235 | The Truth About Your "Broken" Self: It's Just Nervous System Overload

12 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this powerful episode of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, I'm going to share why those moments when you freeze up, ...

#237 | Why Just Talking About It Isn't Working - Moving From Conflict to Connection

09 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wonder why talking about relationship problems sometimes makes things worse? In this  episode, Todd Creager therapist and relationship expert s...

#236 | What Your Parents Never Taught You About Healthy Love - The Truth Revealed

02 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode,  Therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager dives deep into what our parents (and society) never taught us about healthy love. ...

#234 | Stopping Arguments Before They Escalate

26 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wished you could stop an argument with your partner before it spirals out of control? In this episode, I share powerful insights on how ...

#233 | Why Your Partner Doesn't Hear You - It's All About Brain Chemistry

19 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wonder why your partner seems to be listening but isn't really hearing you? In this eye-opening episode, I reveal the fascinating neurochemi...

#232 | How Better Communication Leads to Better Sex - Expert Tips

12 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I'm diving deep into the intimate connection between communication and sexual satisfaction. As a sex therapist, I've seen h...

#231 | Relationship Playfulness: The Key to Lasting Love

05 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I'm diving into something that's absolutely crucial for keeping your relationship vibrant and alive - playfulness! While we...

#230 | Creating a Safe Space For Healing From Trauma

28 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this podcast episode, I'm going to guide you through the essential process of creating a safe space to heal from trauma. As someone who has wo...

#229 | Love As A Healing Force For Trauma

21 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this  episode, I share how love can be the most potent healing force for trauma. Drawing from my decades of experience as a relationship expert an...

#227 | 3 Common Ways Partners Lose Trust (And How to Repair It)

14 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

 In this episode of The Let's Talk About Love & Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I'm diving deep into the three most common ways partners lo...

#228 | EMDR: How it Can Help Heal Infidelity Trauma

19 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hi everyone! In today's special episode, I'm diving deep into how EMDR therapy can help heal the profound trauma of infidelity. As someone ...

#226 | 7 Signs of Unhealed Relationship Trauma

03 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hi! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the seven signs of unhealed relationship trauma. Drawing from my years of ex...

#225 |  4 Types of Trauma That Causes Relationship Challenges

24 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hi everyone, I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the four types of trauma that can significantly impact our ability ...

#224 | This Might Be The Reason Why Intimacy Feels Scary

03 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In today's deeply personal episode, I dive into the complex connection between childhood trauma and intimacy struggles. As both a couples therapi...

#223 | Building a Stronger Relationship After Infidelity: Your Questions Answered

27 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this powerful episode, I dive deep into how couples can experience post-traumatic growth after infidelity - yes, you read that right! While infide...

#222 | Managing Triggers After Infidelity: 5 Essential Questions Answered

20 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hi everyone, Todd Creager here. In today's powerful episode, I dive deep into one of the most challenging aspects of healing after infidelity: ma...

#221 | Deepening Emotional Connection after Infidelity: Your Questions Answered!

13 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hi everyone, this is Todd Creager. In today's episode, I dive deep into answering your most pressing questions about rebuilding emotional connect...

#220 | How to Take Responsibility Without Shame When You've Cheated

06 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hi there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode of Let’s Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I address one of the most challe...

#219 | Betrayed and Confused? 5 Critical Answers You Need Right Now

30 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today's powerful episode of Let's Talk about Love, Sex and Infidelity, Expert Todd Creager is diving deep into the heart-wrenching experi...

Special Episode: Celebrating You Whether Your Holidays Are Happy or Not

23 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today's special episode of the Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I am sharing a special episode.I want to talk  about so...

#218 | Your Questions Answered: Can Childhood Experiences Raise the Risk of Infidelity?

23 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this eye-opening episode, I'm diving deep into the fascinating world of attachment styles and how your c...

#217: Your Questions Answered: How to Create Safe Communication After Infidelity

16 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome, everyone! In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," I'm diving deep into a topic that's close...

#215 | Is Cheating Different In The Digital Age?

09 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating diff...

#214 | Micro-Cheating vs. Normal Relationships: When Are We Just Splitting Hairs?

02 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

 In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore the fine line between harmless interacti...

#216 | Is gratitude the secret sauce for a happier life?

27 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity....

#213 | Does Micro Cheating Cause Major Relationship Problems?

25 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're diving into a topic that I deal with every day in my practi...

#212 | Micro Cheating EXPERT Reveals 7 Shocking Signs

18 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In thi...

#211 | Micro Cheating - The Secret Behavior That’s HURTING Your Relationship

11 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, ...

#210 | Taking Your Relationship to The Next Level After Infidelity

04 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our se...

#209 | Identifying and Overcoming Triggers When Healing From Infidelity

28 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

 Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving dee...

Ep 208: The Forgotten Half: Healing the Betrayer After Infidelity for Lasting Change

21 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey - healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinkin...

Ep #207: Healing Infidelity Understanding Attachment Styles and Rebuilding Trust

14 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered why some people cheat while others stay faithful? In this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity I reveal th...

Ep #206: Creating A Partnership of Equals in Your Relationship

07 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity....

Ep #205: Rebuilding Trust: How to Support and Heal The Betrayed Partner

30 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep ...

Ep #204: The Hidden Link Between Childhood and Infidelity: Find Out Why!

23 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In today's episode, we'r...

Ep #203 Beyond Betrayal: How Understanding Both Partners' Pain Leads to Healing

16 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the topic of understanding the pain of the betray...

Ep #202: How Childhood Experiences Influence Conflict Avoidance in Marriage

09 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for healthy relationships: conf...

Ep #201: Conflict Avoidance: The Unexpected Reason Your Physical Intimacy is Suffering

02 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome, dear listeners! Todd Creager here, ready to dive into a topic that's crucial for every relationship but often swept under the rug. In th...

Ep #200: Lessons Learned From 40 Years of Marriage

26 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that's close to ...

Ep #199: The Disarming Technique: A Powerful Tool for Conflict Resolution

19 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we dive deep into the complexities of human relationships. I'm Todd...

Ep #198: Understanding and Addressing Low Sexual Desire

12 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we&a...

Ep #197 How Trauma Can Affect Your Intimate Relationship

05 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episod...

Ep #196: Healing After Infidelity - A Path to Rebuilding Your Relationship

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to a profoundly insightful episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," hosted by me, Todd Creager. Infidelity can ...

Ep #195: From Pain to Passion: Restoring Sexual Intimacy Post-Infidelity

22 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another heartfelt episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m your host, Todd Creager, and today, we&apos...

Ep #194: Causes of a Sexless Marriage: Understanding the Underlying Factors

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episode, we'...

Ep #193: Beyond Basics: Deepening The Commitment in Your Relationship

08 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episod...

Ep #192: Tips for Youthful Skin and Enhanced Intimacy with Lana Kerr

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creger, and today we have an extra...

Ep #191: Revitalize Your Intimacy: Tips for Great Sex As You Age

24 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m your host, Todd Creager. Have you ever w...

Ep #190: Transform Your Relationship: The Secrets to Deep Commitment

17 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we’re diving deep into the essence of commitment i...

Ep #189: Creating Novelty in Relationships: Secrets to a Thriving Partnership

10 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hi everyone, Todd Creager here, and welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In this episode, I dive...

Ep #188: Adrenaline Addictions: Secrets You Didn't Know

03 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity"! I'm Todd Creager, and today, we're diving deep into a topic tha...

Ep #187: Regulate, Don't Medicate: Powerful Strategies to Conquer Addiction

27 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m Todd Creager, and today we’re diving deep into the ...

Ep #186: The Relationship Between Addictions and Stress

20 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in today’s episode, we're di...

Ep 185: Gaslighting and Children: Protecting the Vulnerable

13 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we delve into the complex dynamics of relationships a...

Ep 184: Building Healthy Relationships After Gaslighting

06 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode, we're tackling a vital topic that touches the lives of many—building healthy relationships after experiencing gaslight...

Ep 183: Overcoming Gaslighting With The Help of Therapy

29 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity: Overcoming Gaslighting Through TherapyWelcome to another episode of Let’s Talk About Love, Sex, and...

Ep #182: Healing from Gaslighting: Steps Towards Recovery

15 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another heart-opening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we dive deep into the intricacies of hu...

Ep #181: Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out

08 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" with me, your host, Todd Creager. Infidelity ca...

Ep 180: Overcoming Betrayal: The Science Behind Healing

01 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Join infidelity healing expert Todd Creager as he delves into the depths of trust, betrayal, and the path to healing. Infidelity can shake the very fo...

Ep #179: Debunking 7 Common Myths About Infidelity

25 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Join Todd Creager infidelity healing expert and therapist, as he explores and debunks the 7 common  myths about infidelity. With years of experience ...

Ep #179: Navigating Tough Choices with a Disagreeing Partner

11 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" with me, your host, Todd Creager. In today’s episode, w...

Episode #178 Appreciating Differences: How Differing Opinions Can Enhance Intimacy

04 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode, we're diving into a topic that touches the core of every relationship: "Appreciating Differences: How Differing Opi...

Ep #177: Building Trust Through Joint Decisions: Strengthening The Intimacy in Your Relationship

26 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hello, I'm Todd Creager, your host for "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we dive deep into the complexities of i...

Ep #176: Transforming Conflicts into Intimacy: A Guide for Couples

19 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we peel back the layers of what truly ma...

Ep: 175 Balancing 'We' and 'Me': Compromise and Individuality in Couple Decisions

12 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hello, I'm Todd Creger, and welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're explorin...

Episode #174: Mastering Patience and Understanding: A Game-Changer For Your Relationship

05 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hello and welcome to another enlightening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" with your host, Todd Creager. In toda...

Episode #173: Reevaluating Your Priorities for A More Connected, Alive Relationship

29 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" with your host, Todd Creager. In this enlightening episode, we delve into a top...

Episode #172: The Benefits of Play and Leisure in Adult Relationships

22 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" with me, your host, Todd Creager. Today's ...

Episode #171 Transform Your Relationship with Stillness: The Art Of Doing Nothing Together

15 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another insightful episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," hosted by Todd Creager. In today's episode...