Life on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory Podcast
Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
Episodes
SS 305: Designing Your Perfect Relationship, with Dr. NerdLove
01 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
We've all spent a big chunks of our your lives trying to transform relationships from "kind of okay" into "good". Most of us wait to have big conver...
SS 304: Pants Feelings - Things That Make You Go Mmmmmm
28 Oct 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Attraction. Chemistry, Urges. Biting our lower lip. Pants Feelings. *grunt* Join Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas as they welcom...
SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging
13 Oct 2017
Contributed by Lukas
We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must ...
SS 302: Making Room in Life for the Things That Matter
07 Oct 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes we lose sight of some of the people and some of the things that matter in ourlives. Dr. Liz Powell, Mike Joseph, and Dylan Thomas get togeth...
SS 301: Gang Bang the Mailbag 34 - Inquiring Swingers Want to Know
26 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tonight, Madam Fierce joins the Mike Joseph, Dirty Lola, and Dylan to re-open the mailbag once again to give it the gang bang it deserves. The crew an...
SS 300.1: Post 300th Episode Orgasm Nap
13 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Hello Swingset Fans! We're taking a short break, episode 300 took an immense amount of effort to prepare: From recording -actually live- with an almos...
SS 300: Live, atop Mt. Swingset at the Ski Chalet!
07 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Life on the Swingset gets back together at the ski chalet, high atop Mt. Swingset, except it's August and the air conditioning is on. The chair lifts ...
SS 299: Foreplay and Changing Ideas of Sex
03 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
When people think of sex, they generally assume there's penile penetration, probably into a vagina, and that everything leading up to that penetration...
SS 298: Putting Ourselves Out There In Sex & Relationships
23 Aug 2017
Contributed by Lukas
It is always risky, telling people what you're into, what you want, that you like them, but as we've found out it's often essential in getting anywher...
SS 297: Pursuing Threesomes
11 Aug 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Dirty Lola, Cooper S. Beckett, and Dr. Liz Powell get together to discuss threesomes, the bests, the worsts, and the firsts Check out Swinger S...
SS 296: Dick Pics and Dating Profiles w/Cunning Minx
29 Jul 2017
Contributed by Lukas
When setting up your dating profile, be it monogamous, poly, or swinger, if you're considering putting a big close up of your dick front and center, y...
SS 295: Mortality
19 Jul 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Most of us, especially when young, hope that death will never come, or at least not for a really really long time, and that can mean being unprepared ...
SS 294: Game Changers: When Awesome People Upset our Carefully Planned Lives
15 Jul 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Non-monogamy definitely ups the ante on BUSY, which causes many of us to try to organize and plan our lives as carefully as possible. We say things li...
SS 293: Long Distance Relationships & Keeping it Sexy
07 Jul 2017
Contributed by Lukas
We have a habit here of finding people fascinating on social media and at conferences, and so often they seem to live so very far away... like man...
SS 292: Building Our Sexy Community in the Most Pleasurable Place on Earth
22 Jun 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Over the last five years, the Swingset has seen first hand the glorious moments and difficulties of building our own community on our trips to the mos...
SS 291: Planning an Orgy - The Dynamics of Group Sex
14 Jun 2017
Contributed by Lukas
In traditional one on one sex, you pretty much know who you'll be engaging with, but when that complexity deepens to three, four, five or more (which ...
SS 290: Gang Bang the Mailbag 33 - My Wife and I, the Sequel
08 Jun 2017
Contributed by Lukas
We're Gang Banging the Mailbag once again, it is in fact our 33rd time! Today, Dirty Lola, Cooper S. Beckett, Dr. Liz Powell, and Dylan Thomas a...
SS 289: Gang Bang the Mailbag 32 - "My Wife and I"
31 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Eighteen episodes is the longest we've ever gone without a listener mailbag episode, so tonight we've dug in deep with a new collection of listener qu...
SS 288: Masturbation - Our Touching Origins!
25 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
For many of us, masturbation is one of the first things to go when we're depressed. Tonight we're going to explore the flipside of our full throttled ...
SS 287: Why In The Butt? The Joy of Anal Sex
17 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about butts bunches. Many of us enjoy putting things in our butts. Some of us wish we enjoyed it. What we don't often get into is the whys of ...
SS 286: Making Porn: The Sexy, the Silly, & The Mundane, with Kate Sinclaire
04 May 2017
Contributed by Lukas
We've talked a lot about porn, often in high falutin ways about its importance (cuz it is important), its ability to change the world (cuz it has tha...
SS 285: Keeping it Sexy in Unsexy Times
27 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
We've all had the experience of life getting in the way of our sexy. Sometimes life pounds us with things that try to compel us to STAY DOWN. Tonight,...
SS 284: The Non-Monogamy Renaissance w/ Andre Shakti
20 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Non-monogamy is riding a wave. Recently CNN had a positive article about the fact that more and more young people are choosing some flavor non-monogam...
SS Special: Cooper and Ginger Talk Approaching the Swingularity
15 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Ginger continues the two-year tradition by sitting down with Cooper for a frank and intimate discussion about his new novel Approaching the Swingulari...
SS Off Week: April 2017
12 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Hey Swingset Fans, Dylan Thomas here. It's an off week for the Swingset. We're going to schedule these in every so often because you know what... ...
SS 283: Ethical Unicorn Hunting in Swinging & Polyamory - Life on the Swingset
05 Apr 2017
Contributed by Lukas
While many people enter into non-monogamy when already "coupled," there are some ways that folks approach this transition that can make folks like me ...
SS 282: Playing with Disability w/ Andrew Gurza
29 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
When we talk about privilege, it's usually a matter of race and class, and boils down to us not seeing or not even knowing to look for the issues that...
SS 281: Finding and Being Community Role Models w/ Kevin Patterson
22 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
There is a sort of order from chaos that happens when like minded people discover others like themselves. Individuals become clusters, clusters become...
SS 280: Sharing & Oversharing: Putting Our Sex Lives on Stage with Lucas Brooks & Kinky Jean
16 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
After seven years of podcasting, it's rather shocking to us how much we put of our lives out into the ether. A podcast can be very much like a living ...
SS 279: The Allure of Paradise - The Swingset at Desire Resort
03 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tonight we celebrate two things, first, our 7th anniversary as a podcast, and second our first takeover of Desire Resort last November. It's no secret...
Desire Week 2017! ESDA 080: Dungeon Desire DM Roundtable - Ending the Sexual Dark Age
02 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it of...
Desire Week 2017! GPSC 014: Closing the Deal, at the Swingset Desire Takeover - The Gentleperverts' Social Club
01 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Hello Swingset Fans and welcome to Desire week on the Swingset! The following podcast was recorded at Desire in November 2016 and features Dr. Liz Pow...
SS 278: From Dildos to Playrooms - Accessorizing Our Sexy Lives
23 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
You're all sexy and sophisticated human beings, You understand your sexuality and you enjoy both giving and receiving pleasure. Once you've figured a...
SS 277: On Gender, Feminism & Non-Monogamy with Dedeker Winston
15 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
It's no secret that women may have dramatically different experiences entering into the non-monogamous world than men, whether it's exploring dating...
SS 276: Our Finest Sexy Hours, #EXPLANABRAG
01 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Used to be, we'd talk pretty endlessly about our sexual activity on this podcast, to the point where our MOST NEGATIVE REVIEW EVER called us out for i...
SS 275: The Myths of Sex & Porn Addiction with Dr. David Ley
26 Jan 2017
Contributed by Lukas
It seems to happen like clockwork. Someone cheats, or gets caught in some sort of sex scandal. They have to make amends, show that they're working to ...
SS 274: Never Finished - Improving Ourselves for Sex & Relationships
18 Jan 2017
Contributed by Lukas
It's the New Year, 2017, and for much of our country that means halfhearted resolutions. I'm going to change. I'm going to improve. These resolutions ...
SS 273: Cybersecurity for our Naughty Bits, aka: Bring on 2017
15 Jan 2017
Contributed by Lukas
We've been overdue for for a rapprochement with one of our favorite past topics: Privacy and Security in Swinging & Polyamory.The team of Mister Pent...
SS 272: Beyond Kinsey - Sliding Across the Sexuality Spectrum
28 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
One of the main reasons that so many of us leave monogamous relationships is the realization that we or our partners may not be as hetero as we though...
SS 271: Gang Bang The Mailbag 31
22 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to Gang Bang The Mailbag TRIPLE X (plus 1)! We're recording tonight with a live (and muted) studio audience! As always, questions have been ...
SS 270: Gang Bang The Mail Bag XXX
14 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to Gang Bang The Mailbag TRIPLE X! That's right, this is our thirtieth listener mailbag episode, and we're recording tonight with a live (and ...
SS 269: Dating on the Outskirts of Sexuality - LGBTQ Matchmaking with Claire Ah
08 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Dating in the heteronormative world is difficult. It's also bizarre enough that hundreds of comedies and dramas are made about dating every year. When...
SS 268: Being Sex Positive from Inside the Non-Monogamy Closet
03 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
A large percentage of us dwell pretty securely within the non-monogamy closet. Friends and family may know something is different about us, but they r...
SS 267: Swingset Takes Over Desire
25 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Life on the Swingset hosts its fifth annual trip to Desire Resort & Spa in Cancún, right in the heart of the Riviera Maya. Cooper, Dylan, Dr. Liz, Ly...
SS 266: Asking For What You Want Leads to Better Sex
19 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Communication. It doesn't need to be said, yet as it's the answer to so many questions we get asked, it really can't be overstated. One of the most im...
SS 265.1 - #SSDESIRE Rain Delay Two, "The Quickening"
09 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
So, we apparently decided it was a good idea to podcast the night after election day. In Mexico. We were wrong. We've posted a three minute rain delay...
SS 265: Bi Invisibility & The Closet
30 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It's no secret that in the pantheon of the LGBT spectrum, bisexual people are looked down upon, told they don't really exist, avoided in dating life. ...
#ssclassic: SS 030: Love Thyself - Masturbation and Non-Monogamy
27 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Hello Listeners. Today, we present you one of the most horrifying things we can think of... a vintage episode of Life on the Swingset, remastered, fo...
SS 264: Couples' Privilege & the Notion of the Third
14 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
As couples, so often we're looking for the third. The unicorn usually. They're rare, seemingly unobtainable, but when we find them it's just so magica...
SS 263: Let's Get Sexting - Dirty Talk and Naked Pics
07 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We all send dirty comments, dirty pictures, full on sext-travaganzas with our partners, playmates, friends straddling the edge of naughty. Tonight we'...
SS 262: Why We Play With Others
30 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
When people consider exploring non-monogamy, we tell them to picture a pretty good but occasionally difficult relationship (ie, every relationship) an...
SS 261: Mistakes Happen - Processing After Boundary Violations or Safer Sex Failures
23 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It's pretty much a given that, at some point or another in swinging or polyamory, there will be boundary violations, safer sex failures, and other mom...
SS 260: Double Penetration and Other Varsity Sexual Moves
15 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
There are few acts in the pantheon of sexuality that carry with them so much intrigue, coveting, and fear, as double penetration, and its more advance...
SS 259: Polyamorous as a Person of Color, with Mike Joseph
07 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
While we're pretty good on the Swingset at talking about our experiences in polyamory and swinging, We have limits to our shared experience, so we rea...
SS 258: Gang Bang The Mailbag 29 - Post-Pregnancy Swinging, Grower vs. Shower
31 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Ginger takes the cords of the mailbag and sits down with Dylan and a LIVE STUDIO AUDIENCE as they answer listener questions for the 29th Gang Bang ...
On The Wet Coast - Mental Illness
24 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode we'll be discussing mental illness in non-monogamy with special guest Cooper S Beckett from Life On The Swingset podcast and www.coope...
SS 257: On Breasts and Attraction
17 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Cooper gets the night off as Ginger makes herself available to Dylan to discuss his attraction to breasts, and his fear that they are the focus of ...
SS 256: Smoothing Re-Entry, When Our Partners Date or Play Without Us
04 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
All three of us here on the Swingset have occasionally dated and played independent of our partners, and all three of our partners have dated and pla...
SS 255: People of Color in Kink Communities
27 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We've talked a lot of bout community lately on the Swingset, and while we've specifically made the point that it's not enough to talk about diversity ...
SS 254: The Pursuit of Playmates & Lovers in Swinging & Polyamory
14 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
How do you find other swingers? How do you find people to date? Those top a list of frequent questions we get on the Swingset. As outsiders looking i...
SS 253: Between Swinging & Polyamory - The Haziness Intensifies
06 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We're back! We took the longest (only) hiatus in Swingset History and each of us has come back rested and ready. Today we discuss the blurring of the ...
Desire Week - Essays from My Life on the Swingset Audiobook
10 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It's Desire Week at Life on the Swingset, with 150 days and less than 25 rooms remaining for our 2016 Desire Takeover (November 5-12) we're running D...
Desire Week - SS 184: Ending the Sexual Dark Age with the Swingset at Desire Resort & Spa
09 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It's Desire Week at Life on the Swingset, with 150 days and less than 25 rooms remaining for our 2016 Desire Takeover (November 5-12) we're running D...
OBH 011: Tingling your bits, albatross and menopause, ancient dildos, and NDT on cat sex - Our Better Half
09 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Show notes for Episode 11 of the Our Better Half Podcast, March 20, 2016 Laura whispers about ASMR in your ear, interviews an ASMRtist, learns about ...
Desire Week – SS 209: Swinging For Beginners IX – Sexy Vacations
08 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It's Desire Week at Life on the Swingset, with 150 days and less than 25 rooms remaining for our 2016 Desire Takeover (November 5-12) we're running D...
Desire Week - SS 183: A Swinging Vacation - Live from Desire Resort & Spa - Life on the Swingset
07 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It's Desire Week at Life on the Swingset, with 150 days and less than 25 rooms remaining for our 2016 Desire Takeover (November 5-12) we're running D...
Desire Week - SS 230: The Swingset Takes Desire IV - Where We're Going... We Don't Need Clothes
06 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It's Desire Week at Life on the Swingset, with 150 days and less than 25 rooms remaining for our 2016 Desire Takeover (November 5-12) we're running De...
SS 252: Gang Bang The Mailbag 28 - Moving from Swinging to Poly, Introverts & Voyeurs & Swing Clubs, & Playing Separately
25 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Ginger and Cooper continue to gang bang that mailbag! Tonight we answer questions about being given the go ahead to be open and then having it revoked...
MA 050: 5 Tactics to Tame Jealousy - Multiamory
18 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Jealousy pops up everywhere in our lives -- at work, at home, and in romantic relationships. It can range from slight twinges to full-blown outbursts....
SS 251: Gang Bang The Mailbag 27 - Bi Invisibility, Swinging From Infidelity, & The OPP
11 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We're scaling back a little at The Swingset to allow ourselves to take some needed rest. This has caused Dylan to go off to The Dakotas to hunt mastod...
SS 250: Pegging Experience with Ruby Ryder
04 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
"Pegging Enthusiast" isn't just Cooper's motto... it's his mission statement. One of the most specific sex acts, named in a contest by Dan Savage's Sa...
SS 249: Having Gang Bangs (Real Ones, Not Mailbags)
29 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We've talked of group sex and orgies often, the logistics of sex and play parties, of mfm threesomes, and somehow danced around the actual genesis for...
SS 248: Swingset's Got the D
21 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Today's episode features me, Dylan, speaking with Daisy, Dawn Ardent, Damien, and Duncan as we chat about our community and how we enjoy those of us i...
DP 003: Judaism, Technology, and Don't You Worry, Sey Hey with Ya el - Don't Panic Podcast!
13 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Hi Swingset Fans!Dylan Theodore Thomas here, (yes we've decided my middle name is Theodore)Over the last six years, Life on the Swingset has grown int...
SS 247: Stress, Closets, and Intersections
06 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
This isn't a regular episode. Dylan grabs the mic and takes over for a monologue on stress, thinking about being closeted, and intersectionality. In b...
SS 246: The One With The Lesbian Swingers
30 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Often our discussion of swinging travels down the traditional "norms" of the subculture, a couple, a man and woman, having sex with other couples. But...
SS 245: Abuse in Non-Monogamous and Kink Communities
24 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Abuse isn't discussed the same way we discuss other issues in our communities. Otherwise well meaning people sometimes end up working to silence victi...
SS 244: Cuckolding & Humiliation with Princess Kali
16 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes it feels great to be really and truly degraded. The humiliation expansion pack for BDSM draws curiosity, ire, and extreme excitement from th...
SS 243: The Bitchcast.
09 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Katie Mack and Ginger Bentham are ready to #femmespread like you've never seen before. Talking honestly and earnestly about their experiences as women...
SS 242: The Sixth Anniversary Show, with Miko and Shira!
05 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Six years ago, Cooper, Dylan and two other panelists blustered through far too long of an intro and a horrible title and made a thoroughly mediocre h...
SS 241: Men, We Need To Talk.
24 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Hey fellow men... Dylan here. I want to take a moment to express a little sympathy. It can be incredibly hard out there to be a man. We're living in a...
SS 240: Eroticizing Safer Sex with The Doctor
17 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
As a well known hypochondriac and germophobe who'd just as soon wrap his entire body in the Titan Full Body Condoms from The Naked Gun if only they so...
SS 239: A Life Less Monogamous - A Novel About Swinging by Cooper S. Beckett
09 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Ginger sits down with Cooper for a one-on-one discussion of his new novel about swinging A Life Less Monogamous, recorded just days before the book la...
SS 238: Fisting, with Andre Shakti
05 Feb 2016
Contributed by Lukas
One finger, two finger, three finger, four...sometimes even that's not enough and you need to go the full five. To fisting! Huzzah! Tonight we're join...
SS 237: Live Porn & Web Camming with Andre Shakti
27 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We discovered tonight's guest Andre Shakti after seeing her in the wonderful adult film Marriage 2.0, naturally smitten, we followed that internet rab...
SS 236: Casual Sex and You and Us
22 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We here on the swingset have a lot of sex. #explanabrag. We've spoken at length about how casual that sex may actually be, and that definition has cha...
SS 235: Gang Bang The Mailbag 26 - Warning Before Ejaculating, Who Should Pay, & Feeling Left Out
14 Jan 2016
Contributed by Lukas
For our first episode of 2016 we return to the mailbag for another listener question gang bang. We talk about seeking a well endowed man for an MFM th...
SS 234: Gang Bang The Mailbag 25 - Dating Apps, Changes in Desire, Erectile Dysfunction and Panic Attacks
31 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Today, on this last day of 2015, we commit to one more gang bang… the mailbag episode. We discuss dating apps, changes in desire, situational erecti...
SS 233: In the Ski Chalet High Atop Mount Swingset
24 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Hey, it’s Cooper, and boy, it's the holidays again, and here I sit in the Ski Chalet high atop Mount Swingset, crackling fire, hot chocolate spiked ...
SS 232: My Partner's Break-Up - Dealing With Relationship Fluxuations outside your Primary Swinging & Poly Relationships
16 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
The degree of complexity in relationship dynamics is exponential in non-monogamy. What that bullshit was trying to say, was that people are complicate...
SS 231: The Physics of Sex - Bodies, Positions, and Objects in Motion
10 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Soooo, hi guys, it’s Dylan, and I have this problem. Sometimes I want to be up close and personal with someone. I want that full body contact. I wan...
GPSC 009: Spaces, Places, and Behind Enemy Lines, Live at Desire Resort & Spa – The Gentleperverts' Social Club
02 Dec 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Hello and many Greetings to all you perverts, I'm recording live from Desire Resort & Spa in Cancun, Mexico! Earlier today I sat down with upwards of ...
ESA 075: Thirty Naked People and a Microphone - Desire 2015 Discussion Group
25 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was record...
SS 230: The Swingset Takes Desire IV - Where We're Going... We Don't Need Clothes
19 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Desire. It's an emotion, raw and real. It's a place, warm and inviting, November 7th through the 14th of 2015, we made it our space. We brought 79 (an...
SS 229.1: #SSDESIRE Rain Delay
11 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Hi Swingset Fans! We're in Desire and we don't have a new episode for you this week but we're recharging, recording, and we'll be back next week with ...
SS 229: Wanting It All - The Curse of Abundance in Swinging & Polyamory
04 Nov 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Many of us are easily attracted to other people, That can lead us to wanting to be with ALL of the people. Swinging lends itself to that pretty well b...
SS 228: Aural Sex - Audio Erotica, Phone Sex & Dirty Talk with Rose Caraway
23 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
One of the most enjoyable experiences you can have is putting on your headphones, closing your eyes, and listening to Rose Caraway, the Sexy Librarian...
SS 227: What Is Sexy? Thoughts on Sexual Attraction
12 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
Tonight we're exploring our thoughts on sexual attraction, what it means and why we're attracted to others, why others may be attracted to us and how ...
SS 226: Sintrovert or Sextrovert - How the Swinging Lifestyle Brings Out the Social Animal In Us All
05 Oct 2015
Contributed by Lukas
A while back, though who knows how long, because memory is fluid, like sexuality, Ginger, the coiner of terms, suggested Sintrovert and Sextrovert as ...
SS 225: Why We Push Our Sexual Boundaries with Guest Tina Horn
28 Sep 2015
Contributed by Lukas
"Why Are People Into That" is a question that people around the world ask of many things, often about various sexual kinks, fetishes, and practices. P...