Life Turned On: Stories of Sexual Self-Discovery in Midlife & Beyond
Episodes
The Missing Skill in Intimacy
11 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Learning to Receive Care, Support, and Pleasure In this final episode of the Receiving series, we explore why receiving is one of the most important—...
It Is Good To Want
04 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the kind of wanting many women have been quietly trained out of — not achievement or performance, but honest, embodied d...
The Generosity of Receiving
22 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We’re between podcast seasons, but I didn’t want to disappear on you completely, so I’m dropping in with a short mini-series on a theme that kee...
Bonus! Inside the 2025 Shed Retreat
03 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this special episode, Kayla Moore and Shauna Stewart reflect on the magic and transformation that unfolded at the recent Shed Retreat. They share i...
S4:E19: Season Finale: What We Shed, What We Found with Shauna Stewart
29 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's the season finale and we're reflecting on what it truly means to shed, not just as an act of personal transformation, but as a collecti...
S4:E18: Shedding Fear of the Feminine with Ericka Day
23 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Shauna talks with Ericka Day, founder of Erica Day Rising and co-founder of The Kind Teacher, about the transformative role of psiloc...
S4:E17 - Shedding Orgasm & Redefining Intimacy with Joanna Arai
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
(CW: Sex trafficking.) In this episode, we talk with coach and trauma-conscious practitioner Joanna Arai about what it really means to reclaim intima...
S4:E16 - Shedding Vanilla: How I Discovered My Inner Kink with Shauna Stewart
08 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This Kinktober, we’re shedding one of the biggest myths about pleasure — that kink isn’t for “people like us.” Shauna shares her journey f...
S4:E15 - Shedding Diet Culture with Melissa Schafer
01 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Shauna and guest Melissa Schafer explore how diet culture fuels body shame, restricts pleasure, and disconnects us from ourselves. Together, they shar...
S4:E14 - Shedding A Ho-Hum Midlife with Natalie Blair
24 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Guest Natalie Blair shares her journey through perimenopause, burnout, and disconnection—and how bioidentical hormone therapy reignited her energy, ...
S4:E13 - LIT: Erotic Leadership For A World On Fire
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we're stepping away from our season’s theme of shedding to talk about something burning at the center of my heart right now: e...
S4:E12: Shedding the Hiding Game with Kate and Ant
10 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Shedding isn’t always soft. In this raw conversation, Kate and Ant—together 22 years, married 15—share how infidelity in 2023 became the catalys...
S4:E11: Shedding the "Good Wife Act" with Jen Kushner
03 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
From ‘good wife’ to fully alive. Jen Kushner spent years trapped in people-pleasing, infertility struggles, and the pressure to play the perfect w...
S4:10: Shedding the Belief That Sex Is Only for Him
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this Shed episode, Shauna reveals her journey of breaking free from the cultural script that sex exists only for men’s pleasure. She shares how t...
S4:E9 - Shedding the Fear of Sharing, A Sequel with Vanessa Leja
20 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this sequel episode, Vanessa Leja, a resilient voice and advocate who has been thriving while living with HIV for more than a decade, opens up abou...
E4S8: Shedding the Home & People We Love with Aasha T
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
From trauma to divine union — in this episode, Aasha T., founder of Beyond EQ International, reveals how she transformed her own pain into a path of...
S4E7: Shedding Scarcity with CJ
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What can cuddling with strangers teach you about desire?After divorce, CJ—a sexual empowerment coach and non-monogamy mentor—embarked on a journey...
S4E6: Shedding Bad Marriage Advice with Monica Tanner
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Shauna sits down with Monica Tanner—relationship coach, host of The Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, and author of Bad Marriage Advice. Moni...
S4:E5 - Shedding a Beautiful Dream with Shauna Stewart
23 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this soul-baring episode, Shauna shares why she's closing her beloved lingerie boutique to go deeper with coaching, retreats, and courses. Ins...
BONUS! Let's Chat About the SHED Retreat
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This season, you're invited to take the conversations of shedding out of your earbuds and into your body at the SHED Retreat. If you're wond...
S4E4: Shedding the Double Life with Tiffany Nickel
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
(CW: Rape.) What if everything you were taught to hide about your body, your desires, and your identity was actually the key to your freedom?In this e...
S4:E3 - Shedding HIV Stigma with Vanessa Leja
09 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we speak with Vanessa, a ten-year HIV thriver who has transformed her diagnosis into a journey of power, advocacy, and deep self-trus...
S4E2: Shedding the Myth of Automatic Safety in LTRs
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, therapist Kayla Moore unpacks what ‘safer sex’ really means—emotionally and physically. Through personal stories and expert ins...
S4:E1 - Introducing SHED: Stripping the Scripts Keeping Us From Pleasure
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when we stop performing and start peeling back the layers?When we let go of the stories that never truly belonged to us?Welcome to Season...
S3:E20 - On Season Three's Journey: Final Thoughts with Shauna
08 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for the season finale of Life Turned On as we dive into the transformative themes of sex, money, and power. Reflecting on the season's di...
S3:E19 - On Finding Pleasure After Trauma with Faith Hartzell, Mistress Diana, and Erin Saylor
01 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the journey of finding pleasure after trauma with three unique guests: Faith Hartzell, Mistress Diana d'Arc, a...
S3:E18 - On Conscious Uncoupling: Insights from Michele Heffron
25 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we discuss the topic of conscious uncoupling with guest Michele Heffron, a certified life relationship and divorce coach. Michele sha...
S3:E17 - On Transforming from a Sexless Marriage to Self-Discovery with Susan Morgan Taylor
19 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we connect with Susan Morgan Taylor, a renowned somatic sex therapist, to delve into the profound topics of sex, money, and power. Su...
S3:E16 - On Reclaiming Power and Pleasure with Marta the Medium
11 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marta, a psychic medium, shares her inspiring journey of overcoming a challenging upbringing marked by addiction, emotional abuse, an...
S3:E15 - On Exploring Power and Play with Professional Dominatrix, Lady Dane
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of BDSM with Lady Dane, a professional dominatrix based in Denver. Lady Dane shares her journey into beco...
S3:E14 - On Sex Magic with Lona Garner
27 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of sex magic with the amazing Lona Garner, our returning guest. Join us as we explore what sex ma...
S3:E13 - On Health, Beauty, and the Power of Aging with Grace Grimes Chapman
20 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the intersection of beauty, aging, sexuality, and power in a society obsessed with youth and appearance. Our specia...
S3:E12 - On Legal Battles with Norma Buster
13 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Norma Buster shares her unique perspective as both an advocate and a survivor of image-based sexual abuse. As Chief of Staff at CA Go...
S3:E11 - On the Darker Sides of Sex, Money, and Power with Faith Hartzell
05 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we discuss heavy themes such as trauma, sexual assault, abuse, and coercion with guest Faith Hartzell. Faith shares her extensive bac...
S3:E10 - Sex, Hustle, and Culture, a Solo Episode
30 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Shauna explores the concept of virginity and delves into various models of understanding sex: from the capitalistic and characte...
S3:E9 - On Awakening the Feminine with Tiffany Jones
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
With our guest Tiffany Jones, we dive into the journey of awakening the feminine in a culture driven by hustle and constant productivity. We explore t...
S3:E9 - On High Control Religion with Elizabeth Tidwell
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join us as we dive deep into the powerful ways high control religions shape our sexual self-discovery. This conversation uncovers the profound impact ...
S3:E8 - On the Sacred Feminine with Kayla Moore
09 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Joined by sex therapist, Kayla Moore, we explore the deep connection between sex, spirituality, and power—and what it means for women to reclaim the...
S3:E7 - On Feminine Movement with Bonni Cardoza
02 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode, we’re exploring the empowering feminine movement practice known as S-factor, which blends sensuality, embodiment, and self-dis...
S3:E6 - On Barriers to Receiving with Shauna Stewart
25 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the often-overlooked barriers that prevent us from fully receiving pleasure in our lives. Whether it’s guilt, str...
S3:E5 - On Performing and Producing Adult Film with Rebecca Bailey
18 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we chat with Rebecca Bailey, a seasoned professional in the adult entertainment industry, to explore the intersecting themes of sex, ...
S3:E4 - On Living Orgasmically with Patty Alfonso
11 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this insightful episode, we explore the powerful intersections of sex, money, and power with Patty Alfonso, globally known as the Orgasmic Body Whi...
S3:E3 - On Embracing the Taboo with Lona Garner
04 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we're diving into a topic that’s often considered “taboo,” yet holds incredible potential for healing and transformation. ...
S3:E2 - On Reclaiming Our Cycles with Elizabeth Tidwell
28 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Understanding our cycles and working with our bodies can be a source of power. In this episode, we will look at our menstrual cycles through the lens ...
S3:E1 - On Introducing Sex, Money and Power
21 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This season, we're diving into one theme through a variety of lenses. Over the course of Season 3 we will explore the ideas of Sex, Money and Pow...
S2:E21 - On Season Two, Season Finale
19 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the Season 2 finale of "Life Turned On"! Join us as we reflect on the common threads woven through our diverse conversations. T...
S2:E20 - On Booty Play with Katie Nelson
12 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Booty play is becoming increasingly popular for all genders, but today we're going to talk about it from a woman's perspective. From consent...
S2:E19 - On Exploring Embodiment Through Tango
05 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the world of tango, exploring how this passionate dance transcends mere movement to become a profound expression of con...
S2:E18 - On Building Your Own Adventure, a Solo Episode
29 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Let's explore what intentionality, nuance and communication look like in the context of diverse relationship models. From monogamy to non-monogam...
S2:E17 - On Purity Culture and Polyamory with Wendy
22 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Can someone hold conservative religious beliefs AND be polyamorous? Find out what that can look like in this week's episode with our guest, Wendy...
S2:E16 - On Anorgasmia and Joy After 60 with Karen Bigman
15 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
After a decades long marriage, our guest, Karen Bigman, was finally in a position to explore her sexuality in a new way, only to find out she was anor...
S2:15 - On Nurturing Feminine Power with Bonnie Cardoza
08 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What does it look like to be a mother and a sexual being? We talk about this and so much more with this week's guest, Bonnie Cardoza. Learn how y...
S2: E14 - On Sexuality as a Key to Awakening with Sureya Leonara
01 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this must-listen episode we explore sexuality as a path to awakening, a way to unlock our authentic selves and live more fully. Join us as we chat ...
S2:E13 - On Discovering What is Available to Us with Magenta Freeman
24 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes, like our everyday lives, sex lives can run on auto-pilot as we go through the motions of what we think it's supposed to be. In this we...
S2:E12 - On Watching and Processing Two Days of Porn, A Solo Episode
17 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Our host, Shauna Stewart, recently participated in a Sexual Attitudes Reassessment Training as part of her work towards becoming a Certified Sex Educa...
S2:E11 - On Erotic Evolutions with Dr. Jasmonae Joyriel
10 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Tune is as we talk all things "erotic evolution" and learn what having an "erotic pantry" means! Our guest, Dr. Jasmonae Joyriel...
S2:E10 - On Sexual Agency After Trauma with Jacquelyn Michelle
03 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this deeply personal episode, we explore the journey of sexual self-discovery after trauma with our guest, Jacquelyn Michelle. Together, we navigat...
S2:E9 - On Duality and Integration with Brian Rink
27 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we get to hear a gentleman's story of sexual discovery. In our conversation with Brian Rink, we hear what it was like for him growing ...
S2:E8 - On Finding What (and Who) Works for Us with Stefany Testerman
20 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Sexuality and self-discovery journeys are so unique to each person, there's no real one-size-fits-all solution to finding what works and what d...
S2:E7 - On Creating Connection with Dementia with Laurie Thompson
13 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we dive into the world dementia with it's unique challenges and considerations for creating intimate moments and meaningful conne...
S2:E6 - On Transitioning, Part 2 with Ally Rays
06 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This is the second part of our conversation with Ally Rays on transitioning. In this episode we talk about her experiences with Hormone Replacement Th...
S2:E5 - On Transitioning, Part 1 with Ally Rays
28 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
One of the beautiful things about sexual self discovery journeys is how much we learn about our authentic selves in the process. This episode is the...
S2:E4 - Psilocybin and Intimacy with Ericka Day
21 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Getting stuck in our heads, struggling with body image, connecting with our partners, and embracing the feminine are all challenges for today's m...
S2:E3 - On Disabilities and Intimacy with Callie Sparrow
13 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This conversation is rich with funny stories, touching moments, and invitations to expand our pleasure and deepen intimacy with ourselves and our part...
S2:E2 - On Divorce and Choosing Yourself with Michele Heffron
07 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Discover how divorce can serve as a catalyst for positive change, allowing individuals to rediscover their authentic selves, redefine their priorities...
S2:E1 - On Embodiment and Experiences with Rachel Zitin
31 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We're back! This week we're talking about embodiment and what it has to do with sexuality, liberation, and learning to trust ourselves. Our ...
Beyond the Mic: Processing Season One with Shauna Stewart
20 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
As Season One of Life Turned on comes to a close, let's look back and reflect on the conversations and stories we shared together. We'll tal...
A New Vision for Sex-Ed: Navigating Sex-Positivity at Home and in our Communities with Desi Saylors
13 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Discover the importance of breaking the silence surrounding sex education at home and in our communities. Our guest, health educator, coach and consul...
A New Depth of Intimacy through the Swinging Lifestyle with Anonymous Amy
06 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dive into a captivating conversation on our latest episode, where we unravel the layers of the swinging lifestyle with a special guest who shares her ...
Confronting Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence with Bridget Coffou
29 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
For too many people, overcoming abuse in some form is part of their sexual discovery journey. In this powerful episode, we delve into the uncomfortabl...
Breaking the Mold: Parenthood, Passion, and Putting Partners First with Britney Johnson
22 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Discover how to liberate love from the constraints of traditional expectations, embrace passion in the middle of a busy family life, and foster a conn...
The Naked Truth: Navigating Body Image & Worthiness in Intimacy with Lauren Leinani
15 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Body image is one of the top barriers to experiencing pleasure - especially for women. This week, we're chatting with transformation coach, Laure...
Grace and Grit: How Pole Dancing Celebrates Feminine Expression with Cally Crabtree
08 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this captivating episode, we delve into the world of pole dancing as a powerful form of feminine expression. Join us as we uncover the artistry, st...
Exploring BDSM with Hara Allison
01 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Contrary to popular belief, BDSM can be a loving form of affection and sexual expression between partners. Tune in this week as we get a behind the sc...
Chronic Pain and Pleasure with Crystal Wolf
25 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this emotional episode, we delve deep into the often overlooked and under-discussed topic of living with chronic pain. Chronic pain can be isolati...
Celebrating 12 Years: Answering Your Questions with Chris and Shauna Stewart
18 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this special episode we're joined by Shauna's husband, Chris, partly to celebrate 12 years of marriage, and partly to answer all your que...
Navigating the Journey of Aging Bodies: A Luxurious Perspective with Beloved Founder, Sara Gold
11 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the world of aging, self-care, and the luxurious secret to navigating the changes that come with it. ...
Faithful Fling: Role Playing with Katie Runyan
05 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Role playing in a relationship is not only a fun way to keep things fun and spicy, it can also offer several benefits that contribute to a healthy and...
More Than Our Numbers: From Bra Measurements to Body Count with Kimmay Caldwell
27 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In our culture, we're very used to using numbers to measure success and even our worth. This week's guest has dedicated her life to helping ...
Safety First: Embracing Life and Pleasure after Divorce with Renee Fiorelli
20 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode, we have an incredibly candid conversation with our guest, Renee Fiorelli, who's embarked on a transformative journey...
How to Celebrate Sexual Health Month with Shauna Stewart
13 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
September is Sexual Health Month! Tune in to learn what sexual health actually means, why it's important, and walk away with some great ideas to ...
From Sexless to Expressed: Exploring Kink and Threesomes with Katie Nelson
06 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join us as we delve deep into the intimate and intricate world of kink and threesomes, exploring how they can be powerful tools for healing and revita...
Tales of the Traveling Implants: When a Double Mastectomy Unexpectedly Ignites the Fun Factor in the Bedroom with Danielle Meier
30 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for a transformative episode as we sit down with Danielle Meire to explore her personal journey through the complex and empowering topics of...
In Pursuit of Pleasure: Sexual Wellness, Tantra and Authenticity with Tiffany Jones
23 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When we drop old scripts and someone else's ideas of how things "should be'', we free ourselves to experience life as the most tru...
Beyond Barriers: Embracing Vulnerability for the Sake of Pleasure with Adriana D'Amelio
16 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What would happen if you thought you could never have sex again? Our guest Adriana D'Amelio hadn't given much thought to her sex life until ...
Empowerment Explored: Harnessing Pleasure (and Orgasms!) to Challenge Patriarchy with Annette Benedetti
09 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Barbie took on the patriarchy in high heels, we're taking it on with orgasms! Not long ago, our guest Annette Benedetti, committed to 365 days of...
Inner Confidence and Radical Ownership with Elle Sanders
02 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Sexy is a feeling, but it's not always one that comes easily. Join us for an intimate conversation with Elle Sanders as we talk about the hard wo...
Just Shauna: The Ask for More
26 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join us on a journey of sexual self-discovery with your host, Shauna Stewart. From stressed out to turned on, find out what happens when a former hi...
Trailer: Start Here for an Intro to Life Turned On
17 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to Life Turned On: Stories of Sexual Self Discovery in Midlife and Beyond. Tune in to this brief, 5 minute trailer to dive into the essence of...