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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
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Good afternoon. You are very welcome to LiveLine. 51551 is the text number. You can send an email, LiveLine at rte.ie. Or as always, give me a call on the WhatsApp on 087-484-8888. And Mandy Kelly is on that WhatsApp line. Mandy, you're very welcome to the show. I'm looking here at photos that you sent in on that number, photos of... of your children's bedroom, of Zayn and Kareem's bedroom.
How long has it been since either of them slept in that bedroom?
So good afternoon, Ciarán. Thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to speak with you and your listeners this afternoon. So it's exactly four years and three months since my two children, Zayn and Kareem, have slept in this room. Which I'm actually sitting in at the moment.
You're in that room now?
Yes, I actually work in the room now. It's the only place that I actually feel that I'm anywhere close to my children. What happened was during that horrid nightmare from a holiday from hell, my mum, my kid's grandmother, had actually decorated the bedroom in anticipation for my two sons and us coming back as a surprise for the two boys.
So describe the room to me there, Mandy, as you're looking at it.
Okay, so I've changed absolutely nothing. The only thing that has changed is that I have my work, working from home kit in it. All the boys' clothes are obviously still here and their toys and their belongings. It's just, it's a small and cosy box room, so it is. Even all the presents, you know, the boys would have got throughout the years as well. It's
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Chapter 2: What is Mandy's experience with her children's abduction?
And having to leave Cairo in such horrid circumstances in March 2022 was one of the most difficult decisions I've ever had to make. And even, like I said, I didn't have, like I said, he removed the kids from my, the two boys from my care. But even if I had got saline cream and gone to an airport, I would have been arrested and killed. You know, arrested for child smuggling.
So he was putting me under, you know, like horrid legal implications as well. Like even at the moment, if I was to go to Cairo and take custody of my two children, if I went to the airport, I will actually, you know, be arrested because I'd be committing a crime.
So Mandy, tell me then what happened. So you don't know anything about this, this travel ban or what's happening in the background. No, nothing. I only was notified about this. You leave that room with your kids, the room you're sitting in right now, for a family holiday to Egypt. Yes, exactly. What happened then? Talk me through what happened on that family holiday.
To be honest with you, the trauma of it, I remember only the bits that I have to remember. But on the 11th of March, the day before we were supposed to leave, we were supposed to leave on the early morning of the 12th of March. And he came and told me we were all, we were in a holiday apartment and that he didn't want to go back to Ireland. Now, I had Karim in my arms.
Karim was only 16 months at the time. And obviously, I can't even tell you, I don't even have the words. My whole body went into a complete freeze. And there was absolutely, I tried anything and everything to negotiate with him. And there was no talking with him. Absolutely no talking with him. We had to get COVID tests to be able to travel back to Ireland.
So I thought by walking to the COVID centre, which was quite close to where we were staying, the kid's grandmother and his family had been staying in the apartment that morning. So I just thought if I had got to speak with him in private for 10 minutes, that, you know, I would let him, get him to see sense.
But, um, during that negotiation stage, um, both of him, both him and I had an argument and he went back to the apartment and took the two boys. And that was the last time I saw Zayn and Cream. Well, I went back to the apartment later that evening and, um, He came and that's when I was locked in the apartment, to be honest, Ciarán.
Mandy, have you laid eyes on them since?
No. You haven't seen a hair on their head for four years and three months? I have one picture of my oldest son.
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Chapter 3: How did the family holiday lead to a legal nightmare?
But you said that your mother, had worked on that room, had done it up while you were gone. This was going to be a little surprise when you got home. The room that you're in right now.
We had so many plans for when we were to come back to Ireland. He wanted to apply for his Irish passport. That was the reason he gave for applying for his Irish visa before we travelled. He was wanting to get a better job. He had Completed his undergrad degree the year before. I was doing quite well at work. We have two absolutely gorgeous, healthy children. We had a house over our heads.
We survived COVID. So as in, you know, things were OK. So they were. They weren't great, but they were OK.
How did your parents react when you came home?
Well, my mum, my mum was absolutely heartbroken. absolutely heartbroken that, you know, I come home in such a state. She had spent an awful lot of time with Zain and Kareem beforehand because obviously COVID had happened and, you know, she was looking after the two boys while him and I had been working.
So, you know, it's been so, so tough on my mum and on my family and my friends as well because they're watching me going through this horrendous ordeal
absolutely horrendous ordeal you know it's nearly probably harder for them than it is actually for me they're watching me what I'm going through So then the and I know we could talk all day all week about the legal battles and how long they've gone on but essentially where are we today in terms of your attempt to to legally get custody of your kids and bring them home
So in 2022, I successfully got an order from the Irish High Court and that and Miss Justice Garty ordered the immediate return of Zayn and Kareem to my care. And she he had participated in proceedings and she clearly stated in her order that there was no way possible that I could relocate to Cairo because all the support services that, you know, are required.
you know, that make me a good mum, you know, that my work, the family home, you know, the boys' health care, my health care, everything is located in Ireland. So that was one of the reasons why she issued that order.
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Chapter 4: What challenges did Mandy face regarding the travel ban?
Obviously, there was a year-long appeal system through their family courts, and it has been very, very tough. I've visited Cairo on nine different occasions, so I hope that it's always very clear to the authorities, both here in Ireland and Egypt, that I've always acted in the best interest of my two children.
I've always tried to comply with every ask from me, both through legal asks and through diplomatic asks as well.
So you've got this then, this order from the High Court, you've got recognition of this, of your custody by a court in Egypt. And that brings us back then to, because it would seem that on the face of it, things are slowly turning in your favour. So that brings us back then to this travel ban.
Yes.
Yeah, I must add as well. Yeah.
Yeah, I must add as well that, you know, my case has been raised by the Irish government on a number of occasions with the Egyptian authorities from 2023. And that I am incredibly grateful for. Like I said, my case has been under three different ministers of foreign affairs. My case has been raised by Simon Harris when he was Taoiseach, Micheál Martin now when he's Taoiseach.
So as in my case, it's even been raised by our former president, when the Egyptian delegate visited Ireland. So as in, you know, passive diplomacy has been used to date with my case and that I am incredibly grateful. And once again, I want to say it, I'm not out to embarrass the Irish government or the Egyptian government. I'm an Irish mother.
I just want my two children home safe and sound and to get on with my life.
So tell me then about this latest stumbling block because there was a hearing over the weekend. This is what's stopping you going to Egypt and bringing the kids home is this travel ban. And that's totally separate from all the other proceedings, is it?
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