Love In Brief
Episodes
LIB 146 - Domination & Submission Dynamics
06 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wanted to explore a D/s relationship? Or maybe just some fun play? Playing with power dynamics can be suuuuuuuper fun, but it's helpfu...
LIB 145 - Spring 2026 Question Round-Up
17 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
On this quarterly Question Round-Up, RY and Lola tackle such diverse topics as when to tell your spouse about trying ABDL, when caregiving turns into ...
LIB 144 - Expanding Your ABDL & Kink Horizons
05 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Life gets so much richer with the crazy, exhilarating, deep fun of kink (and especially ABDL) doesn’t it? Have you ever wondered what *else* in the...
LIB 143 - CAPCon 2026 Live Episode
22 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
AT LONG LAST, it is here! We have had a two-week radio silence since CAP; there were some technical glitches with the audio, so we had to ship it off...
LIB 142 - CAPCon 2026 Preview
22 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
It’s almost time, IT’S ALMOST TIME… the biggest ABDL event of the year, CAPCon, is just a couple of weeks away, and we want to give YOU a previe...
LIB 141 - The Nook Crossover (Bridging the Gap Between Mainstream and Gay ABDL Communities)
12 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
It's our first crossover episode! On this episode, you get all three LIB hosts -- RY, Lola, and Teddy connect with two of the hosts of In The Nook, N...
LIB 140 - Hitting Bottom and Bouncing Back - Part 2
25 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In part two of our series on the hardest times in our lives and how we have found our way out of them, RY and Lola pick up with Bradly (FL/Tumblr) and...
LIB 139 - Hitting Bottom and Bouncing Back - Part 1
18 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Many of us have had a time in life where we have hit rock-bottom: unexpected life-changes have hit, major life plans haven't worked out, relationship...
LIB 138 - 2025-2026 New Year's Celebration
02 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
It's that time of year again, RY's favorite episode of the year EVERY year: the New Year's Celebration! This year's question was "what are ways in 2...
LIB 137 - Winter 2025 Question Round-Up (with a special ask!)
25 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ho ho ho, MERRY CHRISTMAS! It's RY Clause here, sneaking down your chimney to drop one little extra present under your tree -- it's a Winter Question...
LIB 136 - Makers Series - LNGU
16 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
As a part of our Makers Series celebrating those in the ABDL community who step up to make something for all of us to enjoy, Lola and RY talk to Daisy...
LIB 135 - Demisexuality + ABDL
21 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Really excited to be back with a new episode, and one featuring the fabulous Teddy as co-host! Teddy has been world-traveling and experiencing all ki...
LIB 134 - Switching for Couples
28 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Some of us are Bigs, or Tops, or Dom(mes). Some of us are Littles, or Bottoms, or subs... and some of us (including yours truly) love to be BOTH! Th...
LIB 133 - Summer 2025 Question Round-Up
10 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's Summer Blow-Out Time, and our deals have gotten CRAZY! On this Question Round-Up we cover not our usual six... not seven... but EIGHT questions ...
LIB 132 - Cloth Diapers!
22 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered what a Nappy Nipper is?? Have you always felt a dull, aching longing in your soul for whatever terrycloth toweling is? Did yo...
LIB 131 - Ebbs and Flows
09 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You know how sometimes you really really want to play diapers and play kink and do all sorts of nasty, unseemly things to yourself and/or your partner...
LIB 130 - Faith & ABDL (Part Deux)
19 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We get a lot of questions about faith and how it interacts (or doesn’t) with kink and ABDL. So we thought it was time to revisit this topic, and we...
LIB 129 - Spring 2025 Question Round-Up!
21 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can you hear that triangle ringin', little Cowpoke? Well yee-haw, that means it's time for another Question Round-Up! On this episode RY and Lola ge...
NEWS - CAPCon Sells Out Rooms in 2 Hours!
13 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Badges and rooms for CAPCon 2026, the world's biggest ABDL convention, went on sale yesterday afternoon... and they sold out rooms at both the host ho...
LiB 128 - Diaper Positivity (w BumblePree)
23 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Getting to a place of accepting your ABDL side is hard, but imagine turning a corner and not just *accepting* that you like diapers, but *embracing an...
LIB 127 - Live at NorthShore Care Supply HQ
08 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode of LiB, RY and Lola stop in at the headquarters of NorthShore Care Supply to talk all things diapers, all things NorthShore, what to l...
LIB 126 - Munches
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wanted to meet other dippy folks in real life, but aren't sure where to start? A MUNCH is the easiest, lowest-risk way to get to know o...
SPECIAL - LiB At the Beach
24 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's freezing in the American Midwest, so we did the only thing we could... we saved up our money and got the hell out of there. On this special edit...
LIB 125 - New Year's 2024-2025 Celebration
02 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
One of RY's very FAVORITE episodes every year is when we get the chance to ask people what good things their ABDL kink has brought them. In the past ...
LIB 124 - CAPCon SideQuest Preview + What to Expect
21 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you going to CAPCon SideQuest? You are??? You lucky dog, you! Welp, we've got some hot info for you; on this episode of LIB, RY and Teddy talk w...
LIB 123 - Fall 2024 Question Round-Up (Yeee-haw!)
17 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Howdy Partners! You know we enjoy a good round-up, on this Fall 2024 edition @LolaAndThenSome and I get to not 3, not 4, not 5, but 10 questions in t...
LIB 122 - CAPCON Sidequest 2025 + Announcement
19 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
WHOOOAH, hold onto your butts, it's 3 episodes in three weeks? Yup, we're going crazy over here at LiB Central and EVERYTHING MUST GO! OK, not reall...
LIB 121 - Dealing with Loss & Grief
14 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It is so hard to say goodbye to someone you love, whether it is due to a breakup, a change in living situations, a broken friendship, or a death. And...
SPECIAL - Replay - How to Be Super Un-Creepy (IdiotWind Tribute)
07 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Last month we lost another incredible member of the community and a friend to many, IdiotWind. On this special replay episode, RY pays tribute to Idi...
LIB 120 - The Dungeons One
04 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week on LIB we are exploring the world of BDSM Dungeons, talking about what they are, what to expect from them, and how ABDL folks can go and enj...
LIB 119 - The Pet Play Episode
16 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This is one we have wanted to do ever since CAPCon this year... a deeper dive into PET PLAY & ABDL! @LolaAndThenSome (FL) has been really excited to...
BONUS EP - NorthShore's ABDL Ambassador
01 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On this quick-hit bonus episode, we talk to James Frost, the new ABDL Marketing Channel Director for NorthShore Care Supply, a new-to-world (as far as...
LIB 118 - Summer 2024 Question Round-Up
19 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It's time for another round-up of YOUR questions! On this episode, Lolaandthensome and I answer six listener-submitted questions, on topics such as: ...
LIB 117 - Trans & ABDL (Part Deux)
26 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
As we wrap up Pride month 2024, we want to talk about what it’s like being trans in the ABDL community! My guests are @ABDLPedro_1925(IG)/Pedro_Lui...
LIB 116 - DD/lb Relationship Stories in Gay Male ABDL Culture
01 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On this long-form episode of Love In Brief, RY is delighted to introduce three brand new voices to LIB, and to focus on a community we don't talk enou...
LIB 115 - ABDL Retail Stores
15 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to walk into a real brick-and-mortar ABDL store? Or to find a whole section of your regional medical sup...
LIB 114 - Spring 2024 Question Round-Up
16 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It's time to reach into that mail bag and answer some more LIB listener questions! On this episode RY welcomes his partner @LolaAndThenSome to her fi...
LIB 113 - Post-Convention First-Timers Review
12 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, TeddyBearWith Me and RY catch up with two CAPCon first-timers, Kashi and ebabyboy, to get their candid review and reflections on thei...
LIB 112 - CAPCON 2024 Live Episode
04 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
CAPCON has just wrapped and we had a fabulous *live* episode with killer questions, amazing panelists, and lots of ridiculous fun. (We'd like to thin...
BONUS - CAPCon 2024 Preview
23 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It's just a week away from CAPCon 2024, and we wanted to give you a preview on what's going down this year! Joining RY for this bonus episode are CAP...
LIB 111 - Discovering the ABDL Community with Your Vanilla Partner
17 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Sharing your ABDL kink with a 'nilla partner can be scary, and getting involved in the ABDL community can be an intimidating prospect to boot...but so...
LIB 110 - Rope Play & ABDL
06 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you knot entertained??? On this episode TeddyBear and I welcome RopesbyPanda and his rope (and life) partner Bunny to talk about the joy of ropes...
LIB 109 - New Years Celebration 2023-2024
02 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
(UPDATED with two new audio testimonials) It’s that time of year again! We asked YOU to help us celebrate the New Year by telling us what about you...
SPECIAL - Night Before Christmas (ASMR)
24 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you waiting for someone to read you the perfect bedtime story before you go to sleep to wait for Santa? I'm here for you... I recorded this just ...
LIB 108 - 2023 Holiday Shopping Guide (with ABDLr)
13 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's that time of year, when we show our friends and partners we love them by showering them in absorbent undergarments and brightly-colored onesies a...
LIB 107 - Plus-One Support Group
28 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We spend a lot of time and focus on LIB on supporting and encouraging those with an ABDL kink, but not nearly enough time on the *partners* of those w...
LIB 106 - Stressful Work & ABDL
28 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
LIB is back with an episode about how ABDL interacts with our stress from our work and our lives. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it causes more stress...
LIB 105 - Summer 2023 Question Round-Up (Finally!)
02 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Hi, we missed you! It has been a busy summer, but we are so pleased to be able to bring you this episode, where RY and rnt team up again to tackle fo...
LIB 104 - Communicating for Better Play
27 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
For those of us who like to (or even aspire to!) play with others in person, it can be daunting to think about how best to talk through what we want, ...
LIB 103 - Spring 2023 Question Round-Up
14 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We're batting over .500 on our question-answering, and that's something, isn't it? In this ep we cover engaging the community in-person, what happens...
BONUS - Two Announcements from Trest
22 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Here's a short episode with two fun new announcements from Trest, one that will affect your adorable tushie and one that will affect your (maybe adora...
BONUS - rnt Post-CAPCON Reflections
30 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this largely unedited bonus episode, RY interviews rnt hot off of CAPCON 2023 for a chance to reflect on the experience. We talk what it's like to...
LIB 102 - Furries and Babyfurs
13 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Retract your claws and soften your paws-- there is a ton of overlap between the Furry and ABDL communities, particularly with BabyFurs and ageplaying ...
LIB 101 - Professional Mommying
01 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The world of Professional Mommying/Daddying has EXPLODED in recent years, and more and more ABDL folk are enjoying the doting attention (and sometimes...
LIB 100 - A Century (of episodes) In Review
01 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We have hit the 100 episode mark, and rnt and RY were so excited to review their favorite (as well as YOUR favorite) episodes from the past 4.5 years!...
Special - The Passing of a Pioneer
30 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we sadly lost a pioneer, empath, and brother to the ABDL Community -- Spacey. Learn more about Spacey through his remarkable contributions...
LIB 99 - Hosting Your Own ABDL Home Party
22 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
PAAAAAARTTTTTYYYY! Tired of waiting for big events to come 'round? Are local/regional munches and meetups not enough time with those you dig? Try ...
LIB 98 - Very-Late-Summer 2022 Question Round-Up
17 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
All right, all right, it's Fall. It's definitely Fall. But we didn't do a Summer Question Round-Up, and we wanna reserve the right to do another one...
LIB 97 - Cuddle Cooperative + Fairyland Launch
12 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Let's face it, RY cannot get enough of two things: diapers, and people in the community making stuff. SO, when folks band together to make a new dia...
LIB 96 - SummerCAP Live Episode!
12 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Here is our LIVE SHOW we recorded at SummerCAP! And boy was it a doozy! We were in the main stage room, we had a fantastic crowd of listeners, we ha...
LIB 95 - Masculinity and ABDL
27 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What is it to be masculine? What is the difference between being male, being a man and being masculine? What are the pitfalls of masculinity, and wh...
LIB 94 - SummerCAP Capcon 2022 Preview
27 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
After a couple of years of hiatus, it's finally time to regather and celebrate together at SummerCAP! Whether you are going or not, we hope this prev...
LIB 93 - The Diaper Episode 2022 (Part 2)
14 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's time to revisit our very favorite topic... MOAR DIAPRZ! This week we pick back up with Lu and Ultrapampers to dig into your comments on diapers,...
LIB 92 - The Diaper Episode 2022 (Part 1)
25 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I love 'em, you love 'em, we all love 'em! So, let's get out of the funk of the last couple of huge bummer episodes and dig into our VERY FAVORITE CO...
LIB 91 - Breakups and Moving On
03 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are back! Thank you for all of your support and love, as well as space to do what we need to. rnt and RY are really excited to be back and sharin...
SPECIAL - Some Difficult News...
31 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
RY and rnt are sharing some difficult news. (Warning -- Some emotional content here)
LIB 90 - Divorce + Legal Issues as an ABDL
27 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Nobody wants to end a relationship, or start a conflict, or end up in legal hot water with another person. But it happens. On this episode of LIB, w...
SHORT - Black History Month Podcast Recos
02 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Hey, we know this isn't about ABDL stuff, but we hope you like it anyway! Instead of our normal episode, we're taking a week off to let some other po...
LIB 89 - First Question Round-Up of 2022
18 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's a New Year, so why not kick it off with a bang with 5 brand new questions that RY and rnt can tackle together? On this episode we talk self-care...
BONUS - Our Christmas Wish
25 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's Christmas Day, and RY wanted to share a little cheer, reach out to those who may be having a tough time, and offer a little advice for the holida...
LIB 87 - Sustaining Kink After Telling 'Nilla Partner
14 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
After a brief (well, sort of protracted) Thanksgiving Day break, we are back with a great guest, @tatteduplittle (FL) talking about how he sustains hi...
LIB 86 - "You're Not Broken" - Dr Rhoda's Guide to ABDL Self-Love and Self-Acceptance
05 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb is back on Love In Brief to talk about her new book, "You're Not Broken : Dr. Rhoda's Guide to Strong Self Worth for ABDLs." It is...
LIB 85 - The Earlier Days of ABDL (Part 2)
27 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, we pick up with Part 2 of our discussion with @diaperedkent (FL) about the modern history of the ABDL community in the US. We pick u...
LIB 84 - The Earlier Days of ABDL (Part 1)
10 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
None of us know how long ABDL has been a thing in concept, but it has been a thing in name (in one form or another) for 50 years or less. And the ABD...
LIB 83 - Early Mistakes and Dangerous Situations
27 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week's episode is out, and as always I wanted to get it straight to you! This week's episode was a request: what about those mistakes that peop...
LIB 82 - Data Privacy & You
13 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we talk to a cybersecurity expert (and friend in the community) about common mistakes people make regarding their data privacy, and so...
LIB 81 - Summer 2021 Question Round-Up
23 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We are back from our annual summer hiatus, and rearin' to go! Psyched to get back into the question collection, dust off a couple of wonderful but ov...
BONUS - World-Record Breaking Announcement!
09 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Yes, we just put out an episode yesterday (you should listen to it, it's awesome). But we got some big news and COULD NOT WAIT TO SHARE IT! Hang on ...
LIB 80 - ABDL Makers Series - Build Your Own Diaper Store!
08 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Some of us dream of making podcasts, some of us dream of making art or music or literature... and some of us just go all in and build an entire giant ...
LIB 79 - TipsyPantz roadnottaken
14 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
By popular request, we give you this counter-punch to the Drunkypantz RY episode... a very tipsy roadnottaken eating answering listener questions! ...
LIB 78 - ABDL Makers Series - Sex Workers
01 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Call it what you like: paid content creation, pornography, sex work... whatever you call it, it's a thriving part of our community and a place where ...
LIB 77 - Talking to a Partner About Going to Events
17 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's hard to believe after fourteen months of quarantine, but *events are starting up again!* They will start small and grow over time as folks get v...
LIB 76 - ABDL Makers Series - Building An ABDL App
29 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We have talked to writers and artists, performers and diaper-makers... but what if you are a tech person? How can you get involved by making somethin...
LIB 75 - Spring 2021 Question Round-Up (+ Maker Challenge!)
12 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Spring is in the air, the tulips are blooming and many of us are walking around with goose-eggs on our arms from COVID vaccines. That means it is alm...
LIB 74 - ABDL Makers Series - Interview w Pepper North
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Makers come in many forms, and one form is the ABDL Fiction Author. Pepper North has sold dozens of books to hundreds and hundreds of ABDL listeners o...
LIB 73 - ABDL Makers Series - Isolation Storytime
02 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week RY gets excited about a new series focused on how people get involved by *making something.* We're kicking off with one of the amazing inno...
LIB 72 - Depression & ABDL
14 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
** Note: This episode includes a frank discussion about depression and mental health, and may impact those sensitive to depression** Depression typi...
LIB 71a - SHORT - Seaside Princess Release
01 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Another amazing diaper brand hits the market, for the community by the community. Here is our interview with the gents from Ageplay Outfitters, creat...
LIB 71 - Question Round-Up Winter 2021 (RY DrunkyPantz)
21 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
OK, so RY was in rare form. Which is why rnt decided this would be exactly the right time to handle a handful of back-log questions we needed to get ...
LIB 70 - NYE 2020 Celebration
01 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's one of our favorite annual traditions: bringing together voices from all over the ABDL community to ring in a new year by celebrating all that m...
LIB 69 - Interview with Northshore CEO Adam Greenberg
21 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We're not gonna hide it, we love Northshore. They have done wonderful things for us and the community, particularly when it comes to innovation and d...
LIB 68 - The One With the Nilla Partner - Part 2
03 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Remember last week when we talked to Mr. and Mrs. Padded (@Paddedtogether on IG) about what it's like being a person with an ABDL kink and having a pa...
BONUS - A Merry-Go-Round of Good News
24 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
So, we woke up to some good news from the ABDL world this morning about one of our favorite diapers evaaaarrrrr, and we wanted to share it with you!
LIB 67 - The One With the Nilla Partner - Part 1
16 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We get a lot of questions about what to do when you are a person with an ABDL kink who is dating / married to a non-kinky person. Since neither of us...
LIB 66 - OMO - Part 2
06 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Didn't get enough of our Omorashi episode 1? Well, we can't blame you, it kind of stopped right in the middle there. But no fear, the rest of the in...
LIB 65 - Omo - Part 1
25 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We just couldn't hold it in anymore... it's Part 1 of our two-parter on Omorashi! After weeks of absence over the Summer we are practically bursting ...
LIB 64 - Aging as an ABDL (Part 2)
16 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We join our friends BabyMisty (FL) and Zorro (IG/FL) to discuss what it's like to be over the age of 40 and a part of the ABDL community. REMINDER: ...
LIB 63 - Aging as an ABDL (Part 1)
28 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Did you hear that? Yes, that. The clock just ticked, which means you are now one second older. ZOMG, you're aging! It's OK, it happens to literall...
LIB 62 - Question Round-Up - Summer 2020
05 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Every season, we take an episode to fire through a few questions we have been waiting on in our list. This Summer 2020 Question Round-Up features que...
LIB 61 - BLM + Juneteenth Reading & Listening List
19 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Hello Friends! We love you, and we love the podcast. But we are not the voices that need to be heard right now. We hope instead of our podcast this...