Marriage Unmasked
Episodes
Is It Time for a Separation?
05 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Marriage can seem exhausting when there is constant tension, repeated hurt, and painful disconnection. It can leave you asking, is it time for a separ...
When Date Night Just Isn't Fun Anymore
28 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
It’s supposed to be fun and connecting! So why does date night fall apart, get tense, painful or awkward?A lot of couples try to use date night as a...
These 7 Red Flags Mean Your Marriage is in Trouble
21 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Are you ignoring any tell-tale signs that your marriage is in trouble? In this episode, we’re talking about 7 red flags that often show up long bef...
Navigating a Sexless Marriage
14 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
For some, it feels like rejection, for others, pressure and for most couples it comes with confusion, shame, or resentment that’s been building for ...
Mastering the Hard Moments in Marriage
07 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
The hard moments can make or break a marriage over time. It's those moments when conversations get tense, you feel triggered, the times you want...
3 Ways You're Emasculating Your Husband
31 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
This is a tough topic, but a very real one for so many couples.In this episode, we’re not here to blame or shame women or excuse men. We’re slowin...
Nice Guys Don't Make Great Husbands
24 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
This may surprise you, but being a “nice guy” isn’t the same as being a good husband.The kind of "nice" we're talking about often...
You're Married to an 8-year-old: Understanding Emotional Immaturity
17 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if your marriage conflict isn’t just about what’s happening right now, but about a younger version of you showing up beneath the surface? In...
The #1 Responsibility of a Husband in Marriage
10 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What does a man bring to a marriage that makes it safe, steady, and alive?In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we talk about the number one responsib...
The #1 Responsibility of a Wife in Marriage
03 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Believe it or not, a wife’s superpower isn’t in serving well, exercising control, productivity, or even communication skills. In this episode, w...
6 Reasons Husbands Stop Showing Love to Their Wives
24 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
A man doesn’t usually just stop loving his wife. More often, something inside him slowly shuts down. When a man feels like his efforts don’t matte...
What To Do When They Keep Hurting You
17 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Your spouse keeps saying, "I'm sorry." But then they hurt you the same way again. Trust is ruined, over and over. At some point this ha...
Commitment in Your Marriage is Making You Miserable
10 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When commitment starts to feel like misery, something deeper is usually going on. In this episode, we talk about a kind of marriage commitment many...
6 Reasons Wives Lose Respect for Their Husbands
03 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When a wife's respect for her husband disappears, both people are hurting.In this episode, we’re naming 6 Reasons behind her loss of respect. T...
When a Good Woman Is Tearing Down Her Husband
27 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
She's not trying to tear him down.She’s trying to survive her own pain.And he’s not shutting down because he doesn’t care,he’s shutting d...
Eleven Things Healthy Married Couples Do
20 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Healthy marriages don't just happen. It isn't about personality, or “finding the right person.”They’re built through small, repeatable...
When Trust is Broken
13 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when trust is broken in a marriage and nothing feels the same anymore?You’re still married. You still live under the same roof. But som...
Best of Marriage Unmasked: How to Rebuild Attraction in a Marriage that Hurts
08 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
This episode continues to be our most listened-to conversation, so we're bringing it back for those who missed it, and those who need a refresh. ...
Pursuing Pleasure Can Change Everything in Marriage
06 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Marriage isn't just to "make you holy." It's also designed for pleasure. Too often, marriage becomes about responsibilities, routi...
When You Don't Want to Touch Each Other
30 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when physical closeness no longer feels natural or even welcome? When hugs feel forced. Kisses fade. And the space between you grows quie...
How to Overcome a Victim Mindset in Marriage
23 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
"I'm blamed for everything." "Nothing I ever do is good enough." "I'm the only one trying." When marriage get...
What's Normal and What's a Red Flag in Marriage?
16 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Every marriage has tension. Every couple has conflict.In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we talk honestly about the difference between normal marit...
5 Things Women Need from Their Husbands
09 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many wives carry a quiet ache in their marriage over needs that go unmet and hopes that go unrealized. And many husbands want to love their wives well...
5 Things Men Need From Their Wives
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many husbands walk through marriage carrying unspoken needs, and too often, their wives are left confused, wondering why he pulls back, shuts down, or...
A Chance to Rebuild What's Been Breaking You Apart
28 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We know what it feels like to go through marriage pain, to pray for change, try harder, communicate more, stay strong and still feel alone, unseen, or...
Do Opposites Really Attract?
25 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do our differences feel magnetic in dating, but maddening in marriage?Have you ever had thoughts like, "Why are we so different? This shouldn...
The Top 5 Ways to Validate Your Spouse and Create Safety in Your Marriage
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever had a simple conversation suddenly turn into defensiveness, shutting down, walking away, or a full-blown argument?Maybe you've been...
Setting Boundaries with In-laws Without Causing More Conflict
11 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You love your family. You want peace, but every time your in-laws overstep, you feel that knot in your stomach tighten.You start wondering, "How ...
We Waited for Marriage, Why is Sex Still So Hard?
04 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You did the “right” thing. You waited. You honored God, you went into marriage believing that obedience would lead to awesome intimacy. But now, a...
The Top 7 Things That Cause Disconnection in Your Marriage
28 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever looked at your spouse and thought, “How did we get here?” You’re in the same house, but it feels like you’re miles apart. You ...
When You Don't Like Your Spouse
21 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you realize you just don’t like your spouse right now?You still love them. You’re still committed. It's just that what ...
Has Your Spouse Become an Idol?
14 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You're bending over backwards trying to "keep the peace" “do whatever it takes to make her happy,” or "trying to beg or contro...
When Compromise Seems Impossible
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do if your spouse refuses to budge? It can be incredibly aggravating when compromise seems impossible.In this episode of Marriage Unmasked...
5 Conflict Lessons That Changed Our Marriage
30 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Conflict can either break you down or bring you closer. In this episode, we share five powerful lessons we’ve learned through the struggles, argume...
How To Navigate Overwhelm When Both Spouses Work
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The weight of managing the home can feel like an endless cycle of stress, frustration, and burnout. One person often feels like they’re carrying mor...
For the Men: 7 Truths When It Seems Like You're "Not Enough"
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you have what it takes or not? Every man knows the sting of wondering if he’s measuring up in his marriage. Maybe you’ve felt the pressure of y...
Boundaries Are Biblical
09 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt like the more you give in your marriage, the less you’re respected or valued? Maybe you’ve been told that being a "good h...
Strong Wives Need Strong Husbands: How He Can Lead Without Competing.
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many marriages today are stuck in a quiet tug-of-war, wives stepping up because they feel they have to, and husbands pulling back because they don’t...
When Finances Feel Like a Power Struggle
26 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Money fights in marriage aren’t really about dollars and cents, they’re about control, trust, and fear. In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we’...
When Your In-laws Disrespect You and Your Spouse Stays Silent
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When in-laws show disrespect, and the one person you expect to protect you, your spouse, says nothing, it cuts deep.Maybe it was a comment that embarr...
Why You Keep Talking and Still Don't Feel Heard
12 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
She's pouring out her heart, hoping he’ll understand and really see her, but instead he's trying to figure out the problem, hoping to keep...
When Sex Feels One-sided In Marriage
05 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Does sex feel like rejection instead of affection? Or duty instead of delight?In this episode we’re pulling back the curtain on something so many co...
Is Your Marriage Making You Sick?
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the anxiety, exhaustion, or even chronic health issues you’re dealing with aren’t random, but connected to how emotionally unsafe your mar...
How Shame Keeps You Silent and Stuck in Your Marriage
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Shame is often the shadow behind a hurting marriage.It keeps you quiet when you should speak, passive when you should lead, and stuck when God is call...
How to Rebuild Attraction in a Marriage that Hurts
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you're not attracted to your spouse anymore? If the attraction isn't there, does it mean it's over? In this episo...
The Abandonment Wound in Marriage
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we’re exposing the abandonment wound, where it starts, how it silently drives your reactions, and why it shows...
When You Feel Like You're "Not Enough" in Your Marriage
01 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever looked at your marriage and thought, “If I were prettier… stronger… sexier… more patient… maybe my spouse would love me bette...
Unhealthy Ways to Apologize
24 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Not all apologies are created equal. In this episode we’re unmasking the kinds of apologies that do more harm than good. From defensive “sorrys...
Men Supporting Men: Why It’s Crucial to Your Marriage
17 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode, we explore a topic that doesn’t get enough airtime: the importance of men supporting men, especially in the context of mar...
When You Are the One Holding Your Marriage Together
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You're the One Holding the Marriage Together If you’re the one initiating the conversations, doing the emotional work, and trying to keep the ...
Grieving the Marriage You Wanted
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marriage can be so disappointing! Especially when the marriage you hoped for is not the marriage you're in. You had beautiful dreams. You envisi...
The Conflict Method That Saved Our Marriage
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you stuck in the same fight over and over in your marriage?Do your arguments leave you feeling exhausted, confused and isolated?We’ve been there...
Unmasking Codependency: The Hidden Struggle in Marriages
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is it love or is it codependency? In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Unmasked, we’re uncovering a struggle most couples face but few recognize:...
Do You Love Your Kids More Than Your Spouse?
13 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode tackles a sensitive but important question many couples avoid: Do you love your kids more than your spouse?We’re pulling back the curta...
Too Tired For Sex
06 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s be honest—when you're juggling work, kids, and the emotional weight of a strained marriage, sex can feel like the last thing on your mi...
Where's Your Marriage Headed?
29 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we’re asking a vital question: Where is your marriage headed? Without a clear vision, it's easy for marri...
Quietly Quitting Your Marriage
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt like you're still in your marriage—but your heart has quietly left the room? In this episode, we’re peeling back the layer...
How to Create Safety in Your Marriage
15 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode, we’re talking about one of the most foundational needs in marriage: safety. If you're feeling closed off from each other,...
Twisted Submission in Marriage
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Submission. It’s one of the most misunderstood—and misused—words in Christian marriage.Submission in marriage was never meant to silence, contro...
Faith, Shame, and Sex: What the Church Taught Us
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we’re diving into the complex relationship between religious teaching, shame and sex. God intended sex to be ...
The Dark Side of Being Married to a "Nice Guy"
25 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Being married to a “nice guy” sounds like a dream—until it’s not. In this episode, we’re pulling back the mask on what it’s really like t...
Getting Out of a Critical Marriage
18 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Criticism can slowly erode a marriage, turning a once-loving relationship into a battleground of hurt and defensiveness. In this episode, we’re unp...
Did I Marry the Right Person? Facing Doubts in Marriage.
11 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever found yourself wondering, "Did I marry the right person?" You're not alone. Doubts in marriage can feel unsettling, but t...
Victim Energy vs. Empowered Love. Change the Atmosphere in Your Marriage
04 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we're diving into a crucial topic: victim energy in marriage. If you've ever felt stuck, unheard, or helpless in your relat...
Why Masculine and Feminine Energy is Vital in Marriage
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In marriage the dynamic between masculine gifts and feminine gifts becomes incredibly important. They play on each other and build on each other. If t...
Sex Stereotypes In Marriage
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sexual intimacy is a wonderful gift from God that we get to enjoy in marriage. He has so much good for us in this gift! Unfortunately, couples often s...
When My Spouse Won't Change
11 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's so frustrating when you come to your marriage hoping for your spouse to change to meet your needs or expectations. You work on helping them ...
Is Love Enough to Make a Marriage Work?
09 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You find your spouse, decide they're “the one” and then happily ever after…right? Is love what makes a marriage work? In this episode, we’...
How To Have More Intimacy When You Feel Emotionally Unsafe
28 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Emotional safety is vital to the marriage relationship. If you can't feel safe to open your heart to each other, your relationship either stays s...
When a Husband is Clueless in His Marriage.
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever experience this? The husband thinks everything's fine. Nothing seems broken, no need to fix it. Meanwhile the wife is feeling disconnected, ...
Stuck in a Rut in Your Marriage?
14 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel like your marriage is in a rut? You're going through the motions, but there's no real spark or fire anymore. Every marriage goes t...
The Silent Weapon In Marriage
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we look at a destructive, but often inconspicuous weapon that husbands and wives can use in the marriage relationship: The Silent Trea...
Mismatched Sex Drives
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we are talking about mismatched sex drives. Sex is such an important part of marriage. God designed it to connect you in a unique and ...
At A Breaking Point In Your Marriage
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we break down what it's like to be at a "breaking point" in your marriage and how you can move forward, even in pain. W...
Marriage Unmasked Trailer
01 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Marriage can be really tough, especially when it feels like you are alone in your struggles.Welcome to the Marriage Unmasked Podcast where Adam and Ca...