Men Get Cheated On Too!
Episodes
Ep. 45: The Impact of Betrayal on Your Career
04 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most men don’t realize how deeply betrayal can affect their professional lives. You try to stay focused, show up, and keep producing, but the emotio...
Ep. 44: When You Can’t Stop Playing Detective
27 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
After betrayal, your brain goes into overdrive trying to solve the puzzle. You dig through texts, check emails, replay timelines, and feel like if you...
Ep. 43: Formal Disclosure vs. Rolling Disclosure
20 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
After partner betrayal, you want the truth, but how that truth is delivered can make or break your healing. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betray...
Ep. 42: When You Feel Betrayed by More Than Just Your Partner
13 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Partner betrayal can shatter you, but what breaks you even more is when the people you expected to show up, don't. Friends, family, your work. Wh...
Ep. 41: When You’re Not Ready to Tell Anyone Yet
06 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
There’s a moment after betrayal when the pain is real, but the words won’t come. You’re still trying to process what just happened, and the idea...
Ep. 40: You’re Not Alone
30 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Betrayal doesn’t just break your heart, it isolates you. In this powerful episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the man si...
Ep. 39: What to Do When They Blame You
23 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Nothing cuts deeper than being betrayed and then blamed for it. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the man who’...
Ep. 38: The Lie of Closure
16 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most men who’ve been betrayed find themselves chasing closure, thinking one last conversation or final answer will help them move on. In this episod...
Ep. 37: Jealousy, Comparison, and the Other Person
09 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When your partner cheats, it’s not just the betrayal that wrecks you. It’s the obsessive spiral about the other guy... who he is, what he had, and...
Ep. 36: The Emotional Rollercoaster: Rage, Numbness, and Back Again
02 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When your partner cheats, it doesn’t show up as one emotion. It’s all of them, rage, grief, confusion, numbness, hitting you in waves, over and ov...
Ep. 35: Why Some Men Leave After Betrayal, And Why That’s Okay Too
23 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Leaving after partner betrayal is one of the hardest decisions a man can make, and most people don’t understand the weight of it. In this episode, A...
Ep. 34: Why Some Men Stay After Betrayal, And Why That’s Okay
16 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
A lot of men stay with their partner after partner betrayal, but nobody talks about it without judgment. In this episode, Adam breaks down the truth b...
Ep. 33: The Role of Counseling in Masculine Betrayal Trauma Recovery
09 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most men avoid therapy or betrayal coaching after partner betrayal because everything already feels exposed. You are trying to hold it together at wor...
Ep. 32: How to Talk to Friends and Family About the Betrayal
02 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When a man gets cheated on, people don’t know what to say, and sometimes their reactions do more harm than good. In this episode, Adam help’s you ...
Ep. 31: When You Can’t Eat, Sleep, or Think Straight
26 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Betrayal trauma doesn’t just mess with your heart, it hits your body like a freight train. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, brea...
Ep. 30: What to Do with All the Rage
19 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
After partner betrayal, rage isn’t just anger, it’s grief in disguise. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, talks directly to men ...
Ep. 29: The Pressure to Forgive Too Soon
12 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
There’s a lot of pressure out there for men to be the “bigger person,” to let it go, to forgive fast, even when the pain is fresh and the betray...
Ep. 28: When You Feel Like They Got Away with It
05 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When your partner cheats and walks away with no remorse, no consequences, and no real accountability, it can feel like they got away with a major crim...
Ep. 27: Why Betrayal Feels Like Emotional Theft
29 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode goes straight to the gut. Adam names what so many betrayed men feel but struggle to say out loud: betrayal doesn’t just break your hear...
Ep. 26: Reclaiming Your Daily Routine After Betrayal
22 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After partner betrayal, everything that once felt normal can fall apart, your sleep, your eating habits, your energy, your sense of time. In this epis...
Ep. 25: When the Kids Are Caught in the Middle
15 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Betrayal doesn’t just hit you, it hits your kids too. In this powerful episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to fathers tryin...
Ep. 24: Sleeping with the Enemy – When the Betrayer Still Lives With You
08 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when the person who shattered your trust still shares your space, your kitchen, maybe even your bed? In this episode, Adam Nisenson, Th...
Ep. 23: The Masculine Shame Spiral
01 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After partner betrayal, most men don’t explode, they implode. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, takes you inside the quiet, corrosive cycle of masculi...
Ep. 22B: Thanksgiving: When Gratitude Feels Out of Reach After Betrayal
24 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Thanksgiving. A time when everyone around you seems to be posting about gratitude, family, and full hearts. But if you've been cheated on, betray...
Ep. 22: The Trauma of Sexual Betrayal
17 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When your partner has sex with someone else, it’s not just cheating, it’s a full-body trauma. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink,...
Ep. 21: Triggers – When the Smallest Things Wreck You
10 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You’re having a good day, until a song, a smell, a look, or a text sends you spiraling. That’s not weakness. That’s trauma. In this episode, Ada...
Ep. 20: When the Betrayer Plays the Victim
03 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when the person who cheated on you starts acting like they’re the one who’s been hurt? Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes on o...
Ep. 19: The Betrayal Wasn’t Your Fault, But Healing Is Your Job
27 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, delivers one of the most vital messages for any man facing partner betrayal: you are not to blame...
Ep. 18: Boundaries Are Not Ultimatums
20 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in healing after betrayal, boundaries. If you’ve e...
Ep. 17: What If They Don’t Want to Work on It?
13 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You’re ready to fight for the relationship… but what if your partner isn’t? This episode speaks directly to the gut-wrenching experience of bein...
Ep. 16: Why Gaslighting Hurts So Deeply
06 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Gaslighting is more than lying, it’s emotional abuse that distorts your sense of reality. In this powerful episode, Adam breaks down what gaslightin...
Ep. 15: When You’re Still Sleeping in the Same Bed
29 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when the person who betrayed you still shares your bed? In this raw and honest episode, Adam tackles the emotional toll of sleeping next ...
Ep. 14: The Power of Brotherhood in Healing
22 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Men heal better in the presence of other men. In this episode, Adam shares why brotherhood, true, vulnerable connection with other men, is one of the ...
Ep. 13: How to Stop Obsessing Over the Other Person
15 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when your mind won’t stop spinning about them, the person your partner cheated with? In this episode, Adam dives into the torment of ...
Ep. 12: You’re Not Weak for Wanting Your Partner Back
08 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if you still want your partner back after they betrayed you? Does that make you weak, or just human? In this episode, Adam takes on one of the ha...
Ep. 11: How Betrayal Impacts Your Self-Worth
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When your partner cheats, it doesn’t just break your heart, it breaks the mirror you see yourself through. In this raw and powerful episode, Adam di...
Ep. 10: What Betrayal Feels Like in a Man’s Body
25 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode gets personal and physical, literally. Partner betrayal doesn’t just mess with your mind, it lodges in your nervous system. Adam breaks...
Ep. 9: What is Masculine Betrayal Trauma?
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Most men don’t even know what they’re experiencing has a name. In this episode, Adam introduces the concept of Masculine Betrayal Trauma (MBT), a ...
Ep. 8: The First 90 Days After Partner Betrayal
11 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The first three months after discovering infidelity can feel like hell. This episode is your survival guide for the chaos, confusion, and emotional fr...
Ep. 7: Masculinity, Betrayal, and the Male Identity Crisis
04 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When your partner cheats, it doesn’t just feel like rejection, it feels like a failure of manhood. This episode takes you deep into the identity col...
Ep. 6: Why Men Don’t Talk About Being Cheated On
28 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Men get cheated on too, but most don’t talk about it. In this episode, Adam explores the deep-rooted cultural silence around male emotional pain and...
Ep. 5: Stop Pretending You're Fine
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You say you’re fine. But you’re barely sleeping. Barely eating. Barely holding it together. This episode is for the man performing strength on the...
Ep.4: The Male Ego and Betrayal
14 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When partner betrayal hits, it doesn’t just break your heart, it crushes your ego. This episode explores how infidelity shatters a man’s self-imag...
Ep.3: You’re Not Crazy, You’re Traumatized
07 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Think you’re losing your mind after betrayal? You’re not. You’re dealing with trauma. In this episode, Adam breaks down how betrayal trauma hija...
Ep.2: The Moment You Found Out
30 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You never forget the moment you discover your partner’s betrayal. It’s called D-Day for a reason, because it feels like everything explodes. In th...
Ep.1: Why We Need to Talk About Male Betrayal Trauma
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our first episode, where Adam Nisenson, LMFT, CSAT, The Betrayal Shrink, opens the door to an often-ignored conversation, what it’s like ...