Modern Anarchy

261. The Practice of Relationship Anarchy with Ewan McConchie

29 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode we have Ewan join us for a conversation unpacking the practice of relationship anarchy. Together we talk about non-attachment wit...

260. The Collective Power of Queer, BDSM, and Non-Monogamous Communities with Liam Wignall

22 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode we have Liam Wignall (he/him) join us for a conversation about the transformative power of community. Together we talk about an e...

259. Year 5 Reflection with Dr. Nicole and Dr. Lydia

15 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

I LOVE YOU, DEAR LISTENER! Here's to a lifetime of learning, unlearning, and learning together. Special thanks to my dear friend, Dr. Lydia. I cou...

258. Your Empowered Pleasure-Based Sexuality Narrative with Jane Downey

08 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On Today’s episode we have Jane (she/her) join us for a conversation all about liberating our communities and stepping into empowered pleasure. Toge...

257. The Voice of a Liberated Orgasm with Dr. Jen Gunsaullus, Ph. D

01 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Jen (she/her) join us for a conversation about building the courage and skills needed to talk about sexual pleasure....

256. Radical Relating with Mel Cassidy

25 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Mel (they/them) join us for a conversation about building anarchoqueer communities. Together we talk about having an org...

255. Embracing Authentic Queer Sexual Pleasure with Dr. Melissa Fabello, Ph.D

18 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Mellissa (she/her) join us for a conversation about aligning your sex life and your politics. Together we talk about dec...

254. Queer Joy as Collective Resistance with Dr. JJ Wright

11 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have JJ (she/they) join us for a conversation about building joyful queer sexual cultures. Together we talk about eroticism b...

253. Chill Polyamory and Intentional Community Building with Genevieve

04 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Genevieve (she/her) join us for a conversation about transformational interdependence. Together we talk about taking a b...

252. Exploring Your Sexual Pleasure with Dr. Frankie

25 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Frankie (she/her) join us for a conversation all about releasing shame and embodying your erotic power. Together we ...

251. The Heroic Dose of Polyamory and Sexual Communication with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers

18 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Evita (they/them) join us for a conversation about being turned on by more things. Together we talk about sex that feels...

250. Jealousy Orgasms and Sexual Individuation with Dr. Joli Hamilton

11 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Joli Hamilton (she/her) join us for a conversation all about rewriting the narratives of sexual pleasure. Together w...

249. Relationship Anarchist: Stephen Symington

04 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Stephen Symington (he/they) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about findi...

248: Liberating your Sexual and Relational Play with Dr. Liz Powell

28 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Liz (they/them) join us for a conversation about learning to embrace your full erotic play. Together we talk about t...

247: The Skills of Rupture and Repair with Lux Gypsum

21 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Lux (all pronouns) join us for a conversation all about somatics and conflict transformation work. Together we talk abou...

246: Becoming an Embodied and Empowered Sex Witch with Ashley Manta

14 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Ashley Manta (she/her) join us for a conversation all about leading with pleasure. Together we talk about orgasming with...

245: Relationship Anarchist: Jezebel Blessing

07 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Jezebel (she/her) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the power of cu...

244. The Revolution of Relationship Anarchy with Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés

31 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today's episode, we are celebrating the end of the year by replaying the most played episode of 2025: The Revolution of Relationship Anarchy wi...

243. Owning Your Consent and Sexual Agency with Kitty Stryker

24 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Kitty Stryker (she/her) join us for a conversation all about dismantling rape culture. Together we talk about the sexine...

242. Pleasure is the Power: A Female Led Revolution with Dr. Tammy Nelson

17 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Tammy Nelson (she/her) join us for a conversation about the power of liberating our collective pleasure. Together we...

241. Relationship Anarchist: Kara Szymanski

10 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Kara Szymanski (she/they) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversations. Together we talk about the re...

240. Stepping into Your Sensual Empowerment with Ally Iseman

03 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Ally Iseman (she/her) join us for conversation about following your curiosity all the way home to your pleasure. Togethe...

239. Decolonizing and Unsettling Sexuality with Dr. Roger Khun

26 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Roger Khun (he/him) join us for a conversation about embracing the innate wisdom of the body. Together we talk about...

238. Dismantling Purity Culture: Abstinence, Drug Use, and Harm Reduction with Sheila Vakharia

19 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Shelia Vakharia (she/her) join us for a conversation about our right to bodily autonomy. Together we talk about meeting ...

237. Relationship Anarchist: Momo

12 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Momo (they/them) join us for another Relationship Anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about creating mutuall...

236. Relaxing into an Abundance Mindset with Sex and Relationships with Roy Graff

05 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Roy Graff (he/him) join us for a conversation all about finding pleasure in expansive relating. Together we talk about t...

235. Learning the Language of Creative, Erotic Intimacy with Darshana Avila

29 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Darshana Avila (she/they) join us for a conversation all about erotic exploration. Together we talk about the connection...

234. Exploring the Edge of Infidelity with Paul Keable

22 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Paul Keable (he/him) join us for a conversation all about non-monogamy and the future of modern relationships. Together ...

233. Relationship Anarchist: Aaron

15 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Aaron (he/him) join us for another relationship anarchy research conservation. Together we talk about the finitude of ou...

232. Our Failure of Imagination with Non-Monogamy with Shai

08 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Shai (he/him) join us for a conversation about expanding the capacity of our cultural imagination. Together we talk abou...

231. Playing with your Erotic Edge & Sexuality Beyond Consent with Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou

01 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou  join us for a conversation about pushing the boundaries of your erotic edge. Together we talk ab...

230. Polyamory for Dummies with Dr. Jaime Grant

24 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Jaime Grant (she/her) join us for a conversative about the lifelong practice of liberated love. Together we talk abo...

229. Relationship Anarchist: Lucy Halliday

17 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Lucy Halliday (she/they) join us or another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the anarc...

228. Integrating the Body, Psychedelics, and Liberation with Geoff Bathje

10 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Geoff Bathje Ph.D (he/him) join us for a conversation about embodying the values of Anarchy. Together we talk about bypa...

227. Jealousy vs Compersion: The Transformation of Liberated Love with Dr. Marie Thouin

03 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Marie Thouin (she/her) join us for a conversation about creating fertile soil for compersion. Together we talk about...

226. The Psychedelic Dose of Non-Monogamy with Moss Herberholz

27 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Moss Herberholz (he/they) join us for a conversation about the paradigm expansion of psychedelics and non-monogamy. Toge...

225. Relationship Anarchist: Chrisalis

20 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Chrisalis (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about balancing t...

224. The Anarchy of Sex Manifesto with Sally Emm

13 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Sally (they/she) join us for a conversation about the subconscious power structures that prevent us from embodying our p...

223. Sacred Sex Ed: Expansion and Liberation with Leola Watkins

06 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Leola Watkins (she/her) join us for a conversation all about pleasure-based sex-ed. Together we talk about becoming turn...

222. Relational Ecology: The Interconnectedness of Our Pleasure with Kristina Scott

30 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Kristina Scott (she/her) join us for a conversation about the collective rebirth of our sexuality. Together we talk abou...

221. Relationship Anarchist: Erin O'Daniel

23 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Erin O'Daniel (all pronouns) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about ...

220. For the Anxious Person Practicing Non-Monogamy with Lola Phoenix

16 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Lola Phoenix (they/she) join us for a conversation about unpacking and honoring the roots of jealousy. Together we talk ...

219. Exploring the Set + Setting of Your Relational Ecosystem with Kate

09 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Kate (she/her) join us for a conversation about embracing the interconnectedness of our pleasure. Together we talk about...

218. Embodying the Values of Anarchy with Prince Shakur

02 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Prince Shakur (he/him) join us for a conversation about how the personal is the political. Together we talk about embrac...

217. Relationship Anarchist: Betty O'Leary

25 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Betty (she/her) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about releasing the sca...

216. Crying Through Non-Monogamy and Choosing It Anyway with Lea Dawn

18 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Lea (she/her) join us for a conversation about the liberation of desire and the future of relationships. Together we tal...

215. Cumming into Presence and Integrating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy with Dr. Dave Rabin

11 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Dave Rabin (he/him) join us for a conversation all about the ever expansive journey of knowing thyself. Together we ...

214. The Revolution of Relationship Anarchy with Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés

04 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés (he/him) join us for a conversation about the revolutionary power of building loving communit...

213. Relationship Anarchist: Silver

28 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Silver (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the infinite g...

212. The Edginess of Unconditional Love and Sexual Empathy with Bear Phillips

21 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Bear Phillips (he/him) join us for a conversation about the journey to reclaiming our whole humanity. Together we talk a...

211. Untangling the Scripts for Intimacy and Setting Them on Fire with Elise Braunschweiger

14 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Elise Braunschweiger (she/her) join us for a conversation all about running wild in your erotic desires. Together we tal...

210. Harm Reduction, Non-Monogamy, and Embodied Liberation with Justice Riveria

07 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Justice Riveria join (she/they; ella/elle) us for a conversation about the collective liberation of our bodily autonomy....

209. Relationship Anarchist: Juno Aventurine

30 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Juno Aventurine (they/them) join us for a relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about embracing t...

208. Too Queer to be Monogamous with Jaime Delgado

23 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Jaime Delgado (they/he) joins us for a conversation about the liberation of queer pleasure and community. Together we ta...

207. The Sexual Wisdom and Liberation of All Bodies with Emily Royce

16 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Emily Royce (she/her) join us for a conversation about how all bodies can access ecstasy. Together we talk about embraci...

206. Year Four: Liberating My Authentic Voice

09 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we are celebrating the four-year anniversary of the podcast with a special reflection episode. Together we talk about the intens...

205. Relationship Anarchist: Star Stewart

02 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Star Stewart (she/they) join us for a relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about learning to see...

204. Queering Our Religious Trauma and Sexual Liberation with Thickie Comrade

26 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Thickie Comrade (any/all) join us for a conversation all about reclaiming our pleasure. Together we talk about demonic n...

203. Healing to Create Our Collective Pleasure with Jessica McDuffee

19 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Jessica McDuffee (she/her) join us for a conversation about how another world is possible. Together we talk about follow...

202. BDSM, Kink, and Psychedelics: Exploring the Edge with Mike Margolies

12 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Mike Margolies (he/him) join us for a conversation all about the crossover between psychedelics and sexual liberation. T...

201. Relationship Anarchist: Jasper Brown

05 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Jasper Brown (he/they) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about embracing ...

200. Results from the First Research Study on Relationship Anarchy

26 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, Nicole shares her Clinical Psychology Doctoral Dissertation results from the first ever research study of Relationship Anarchy. ...

199. Becoming a Turned On Female Leader with Pamela von Sabljar

19 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Pamela von Sabljar (she/her)join us for a conversation about liberating our authentic sexual expression. Together we tal...

198. Exploring Non-Monogamy and Queer Sexual Freedom with Ren DAuria

12 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Ren DAuria (they/them) join us for a conversation about our ever-evolving connection to the erotic. Together we talk abo...

197. Relationship Anarchist: Mx. Flow

05 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Mx. Flow (they/she) join us for a relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about balancing autonomy ...

196. Building Psychedelic Communities of Care with Ifetayo Harvey

29 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Ifetayo Harvey (she/her) join us for a conversation all about the psychedelic transformation of trauma. Together we talk...

195. Following Abundant Pleasure After Purity Culture with Kelly Pastori

21 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Kelly Pastori (she/her) join us for a conversation all about embodying your right to pleasure. Together we talk about th...

194. The Polywise Paradigm Shift with David Cooley

15 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have David Cooley (he/him) join us for a conversation all about intentionally cultivating secure and dynamic attachments. Tog...

193. Relationship Anarchist: Miles Wilcox

08 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Miles Wilcox (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about shedding...

192. The Set and Setting of Your Somatic Intuition with Dr. Karolina Mikos

01 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Karolina Mikos (she/her) join us for a conversation about reconnecting with our healing wisdom. Together we talk abo...

191. Relationship Anarchy and The Romance Myth with Dean Spade

25 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today's episode, writer and activist Dean Spade (he/him) joins us for a conversation all about liberating our relationships from patriarchal and ca...

190. Claiming Each Other Across the Divide with Lorie Solis

18 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Lorie Solis (she/her) join us for a conversation about the revolutionary power of softening. Together we talk about heal...

189. Relationship Anarchist: Absayonika Hone

11 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Absayonika Hone (they/them) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview Together we talk about the expansive w...

188. Crafting Deeper Love in Your Relationships with Taune Lyons

04 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Taune Lyons (she/her) join us for a conversation about expanding our capacity to feel love. Together we talk about how w...

187. The Erotic Vortex to Anarchy with Rahi Chun

27 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Rahi Chun (he/him) join us for a conversation about the connection between erotic pleasure and our collective liberation...

186. The Alchemy of Psychedelics and Sexual Liberation with Katie Sullivan

20 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Katie Sullivan (she/her) join us for an open-hearted conversation about transforming pain. Together we talk about the me...

185. Relationship Anarchist: Aspen

13 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Aspen (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about deconstructing ...

184. Unleashing Your Divine Whore with Claire Dore

06 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Claire Dore (she/her) join us for a conversation all about challenging the status quo of eroticism. Together we talk abo...

183. Embracing Your Pleasure in Relationship Anarchy with Marcia Baczynski

30 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Marcia Baczynski (she/her) join us for a conversation all about communicating your desires. Together we talk about chasi...

182. Energy Literacy and Compassionate Magnetism with Dr. Broderick Sawyer

23 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Broderick Sawyer (he/him) join us for a conversation all about applied liberation psychology. Together we talk about...

181. Relationship Anarchist: Monica Davis

16 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Monica Davis (she/her) join us for another relationship anarchy research episode. Together we talk about the life goal o...

180. Approaching Sex Deeply and Wholistically with Ellen Heed

09 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have sexological body worker Ellen Heed (she/her) join us for a conversation about the expansive mind body connection. Togeth...

179. Exploring Psychedelics and Intimacy with Jordan Dobrowski

02 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have therapist Jordan Dobrowski (she/they) join us for a conversation about the power of psychedelics to deep intimacy with o...

178. Looking in the Mirror of Your Relationships with Dominatrix Eva Oh

25 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have dominatrix Eva Oh (she/they) join us for a conversation about the never-ending adventure that is connection. Together we...

177. Relationship Anarchist: Jase Brakoniecki

18 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have relationship anarchist Jase Brakoniecki (they/them) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview. Together we t...

176. How to Deal with Jealousy in Non-Monogamy: The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide [Audiobook]

11 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, I will be walking you through my book, The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide: Crafting Secure Non-Monogamous and Expansive Relationship...

175. The Polysecure Paradigm Shift with Jessica Fern

04 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have psychotherapist Jessica Fern (she/her) join us for a conversation about polyamory as a catalyst for liberation. Together...

174. Finding Our Collective Healing in Somatics and Social Justice with Staci Haines

28 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have author Staci Haines (she/her) join us for a conversation about collective liberation. Together we talk about feeling int...

173. Relationship Anarchist: Jeff Parrett

21 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today's episode, we have Jeff Parrett (he/him) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about owning ou...

172. Expanding into Integrated Narratives of Sexuality and Embodiment with Dr. Ido Cohen

14 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

One today’s episode, we have psychologist Dr. Ido Cohen (he/him) join us for a conversation about integrating new archetypes of sexual empowerment. ...

171. Tending Grief: Embodied Rituals and Growing Cultures of Care with Camille Sapara Barton

07 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode we have author Camille Sapara Barton (they/them) join us for a conversation about grief tending as a generative force for deepeni...

170. Liberating Our Pleasure and Labor from Whorephobia with Katherine Yeagel

31 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode we have surrogate partner Katherine Yeagel (all pronouns) join us for a conversation about expanding our cultural imagination aro...

169. Relationship Anarchist: Ren Cerebral

24 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Ren Cerebral (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about trying t...

168. Your Fierce, Fearless, and Fully Engaged Sexuality with Tristan Taormino

17 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Sex educator Tristan Taormino (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the queer sexual revolution. Together we talk a...

167. The Non-Monogamy Research Playground with Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud

10 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud (He/Him) join us for a conversation about letting go of erotic shame to embody your pleasure. Togeth...

166. From SSRI’s to Psychedelics with Dr. Sam Zand

03 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Psychiatrist Dr. Sam Zand (He/Him) join us for a conversation about finding your unique path to healing. Together we tal...

165. Relationship Anarchist: August Wolff

26 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have August Wolff (It/They) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview. Together we talk about finding the magic p...

164. Pleasure Activists Embrace Pleasure, Pain, and Everything In-Between with Jimanekia Eborn

19 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have sex educator Jimanekia Eborn (She/Her) join us for a conversation about finding presence in the full range of life’s e...

163. Your Self-Discovery Journey of Sexual Liberation with Dr. Juliana Hauser

12 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Juliana Hauser (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the cultural shift towards sexual empowerment and pleasure...

162. Queering the Narrative of Psychedelics and Pleasure with Bia LaBate

05 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s episode, we have anthropologist  Bia LaBate (She/Her) join us for a educational conversation about queering psychedelic healing and acti...