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Why do men have a bad reputation with emotions, do you think?
Oh, man. I mean, I think that generally we feel emotions pretty intensely. And so when our emotions let loose, sometimes it cannot be pretty. It can be loud. It can be big. It can be intense. And so I think sometimes men have a bad rap because of that.
I think that there's been a few generations of men that have been told not to feel that their best emotional tool is suppression, is repression, is just like stuff it down, pour some whiskey over top, light some weed up and just keep soldiering on, stiff upper lip as I think they say in your country.
And so I think we've gone through a few generations of men who used avoidance as their main tool with emotions and because of that cut themselves off from some pretty important data and information. And so a lot of men have just, you know, older generations haven't been able to speak the language of emotions, of what they're feeling, of what they're going through.
But I think having worked with men for over a decade, tens of thousands of men from around the world, men feel very deeply. I think it's not that men don't feel, I think it's that men feel very deeply. And we've, in some cultures, created a vacuum of being able to teach men what to do with their emotions, how to actually traverse through their emotions. So I think those are parts of it.
I'm curious what your thought is on that, though, as well, because even you talk to a lot of people in this space.
Yeah, I think you're right. We don't exactly have fantastic emotional role models as men.
You mean Homer Simpson and Peter Griffin aren't the role models of emotional acuity?
Exactly. who's that who's the guy that used to be like ah and then would hit his wife like pretend to hit his wife on like some sitcom who is that american guy i'm not from this country i don't fuck i don't i don't think that's i think that's before my time i'm not sure very well maybe yeah you know it was the 50s it was a different time the hands were softer
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