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You say anxiety always lies. Always. Why?
I say that at the end of the book.
Spoiler alert. Sorry about that.
Boom! Come at me with the biggest... Now, here's the thing. We have brains that are very prone to anxiety and we have a culture that magnifies our proneness to anxiety. But anxiety, unlike fear, which is a visceral response to a danger that is present in the physical moment, there's a surge of adrenaline, a surge of activity, and then boom, it's gone.
Anxiety comes from the way we perseverate and tell stories to ourselves in our heads about the things that may or may not happen. As Mark Twain said, I'm an old man and I have lived through many troubles, but most of them never happened. So anxiety is like being haunted. And if you sit with it, you will see that it is never with you in the room.
It is never in a form that you can address in the present. It's always saying things about something that's happening somewhere else, somewhere on the line of time. And for that reason, it's never real. It's never present, and it's never true.
This interesting... cocktail between our brain's predisposition and our modern society's reinforcement of that i suppose yeah i It's an interesting one talking about anxiety because it's become so pattern matched. People have used, I feel uncertain or I am worried. And the term has sort of concept creeped itself out to encompass all of this.
I wonder how much of it is people giving a name which sounds way more pathological to something which is a normal part of the human experience, you know?
Well, there is that. No question. We are like over-diagnosing ourselves and over-assigning diagnoses to everything that happens. But it's also true that even the World Health Organization, looking with fairly objective tests, as objective as you can get, has shown a dramatic rise in the number of people who are suffering crippling clinical levels of anxiety and
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