My Dating And Relationship Podcast With Chantal Heide - Canada's Dating Coach

Why Women Need to Observe First, Choose Later

05 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

I talked to Ethel Tan about confidence, early red flags, choosing partners with intention, and how our upbringing shapes the way we date. We got into ...

Women Are Building A New World

16 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Two behaviorists, Chantal Heide and CC Rice talk bluntly about power, patriarchy, and why women aren’t waiting for permission. We cover building mat...

Patriarchy Keeps Women Small — Here’s the Financial Roadmap Out | Chantal Heide w/ Mel Dorman

02 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The patriarchy keeps women small by teaching us to budget, save, and stay quiet—while men are told to buy assets and build wealth. It’s time to fl...

Unlearning Toxic Masculinity: A Conversation With an Anti-Red Pill Therapist

29 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What do men need to unlearn to become safe, emotionally available partners—and how does the red pill movement get it so wrong? In this conversation,...

She Had “Proof” That Body Count Matters… Until I Asked This.

13 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

She came in convinced that body count matters. "There has to be accountability!" she said, arguing that a high body count is a red flag. She had studi...

Why Is It Easier for Men to Set Dating Boundaries?

07 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

I had an insightful conversation with [guest's name], a guy who’s practicing my No Kissing for 3 Months rule and the Zero-Fight Relationship approac...

From Stuck to Strong: Live Coaching a Woman in a Toxic Relationship

24 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What started as a simple book recommendation request on my TikTok Live turned into a coaching session. A woman asked for a book suggestion, but when I...

Does Our Biology Set Our Morality? Diyo’s Science vs. A Girl's Illogical Claims

06 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Does our biology determine our morality? In this heated debate, Diyo brings science to challenge a woman's belief that nature dictates right and wrong...

The Loneliness Epidemic: Why Men Struggle to Connect (and How to Fix It)

28 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Discover why so many men today feel disconnected and how it affects their well-being.   Our guest, Beau Pinto, shares observations from talking with ...

Dealing w/Fear & The Power of Our Human Mind featuring Diyo (Psychology & Anthropology Expert)

26 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Diyo returns to the panel to share thoughts on how fear can be used as a control tactic and why exploring different viewpoints matters. We disc...

"Debunking the Myth of Male Dominance: Leadership, Hunting, and Why Women Are More Than Their Bodies or Domestic Roles

23 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this segment of my Ask Chantal live on TikTok, I’m joined by Therese, Diane, and Diyo (a psychologist expert) to dive into a discussion about the...

Th Truth About Boredom in Long-term Relationships

26 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

  In this episode, I invited Kristen Thomas, a Clinical Sex Therapist and Relationship Coach, to discuss the recent cheating scandal in...

How to Stop Falling for Abusers and Stop Dating Out of Fear

15 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I sit down with Veronica Wang, a popular Mukbang YouTuber, to dive into her journey with relationships, fear of intimacy, and how pas...

Deconstructing Religion, Purity Culture & Gender Expectations to Strengthen Your Relationship

08 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I talk to a couple who grew up in a Christian background and were indoctrinated to believe that exploring their bodies before marriag...

Traditional Views or Logic?

16 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I chat with a guest who joined my TikTok live and asked if my dating and relationship rules are based on traditional views.   We dis...

What You Need to Know Before You Start Dating

14 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I chatted with a woman who joined me on my TikTok Live and shared her inspiring journey of breaking free from an abusive relationship...

Red Flags to Watch Out For on a First Date

11 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

These Insecure Guys Love to Make Your Past About Them

08 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why Caring About One's Body Count Reeks of Insecurity

07 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why You Should NOT Save Yourself for Marriage

27 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

    In this short podcast episode, I am joined by a special guest who shared her powerful story during a TikTok live session. She opens ...

When Guys Come In To Argue About Women's Autonomy Over Our Bodies

25 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we tackle a recurring and heated topic: the unsolicited opinions of some guys about women's autonomy over our bodies.   Join us as w...

Dating Tips for All Genders

12 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I talk to a member of the LGBTQ+ community who joined my TikTok live to discuss some of my most popular dating strategies. We dive in...

An Entitled Guy Gets Cooked for Arguing Why Body Count Matters.

25 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A guy joined my TikTok live and kept yapping about why body count matters. He tried to change my mind, but I stood firm, explaining how women have aut...

Why You Find It Hard To Stick to The Three-Month No Kissing Rule

22 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How to Find Out If They're Right For You Before Comitting

21 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We Don't Find A Long-term Partner The Same Way We Hook Up

18 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I explore a listener's dilemma about whether she should hook up with a guy who seems like he can't keep it in his pants and doesn't align with what sh...

Meaningless Exclusivity

13 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this podcast episode, I sit down with a man intrigued by the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule but puzzled about the no exclusivity aspect. He ...

How Do You Achieve A Zero-fight Relationship?

07 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Listen in as we discuss the possibility of a zero-fight relationship in this episode. We explore personal responsibility for thoughts, feelings, a...

How Choosing The Right Partner and Healthy Behaviors Can Facilitate Healing

05 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this podcast episode, I talk with a man who shares his experience of domestic violence. He discusses using a rage room to manage his anger. We disc...

Finding Loyalty and Security in Relationship

02 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features a discussion about the 'no kissing for 3 months' rule and maintaining non-exclusivity during this period to vet pot...

Don't Start Dating Until You Understand These Things

26 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

During a TikTok live session, I chat with a guy interested in the journey of self-discovery before entering the dating world. We explore why it’s es...

Live Coaching Session: When To Introduce Them To Your Close Circle, Date Ideas, and Ensuring Safety When Dating

20 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we dive into a live coaching session where I answer your dating questions. We discuss when to introduce a new partner to your close c...

Why Setting and Reinforcing Your Boundaries Matters

12 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I conduct a live coaching session with a woman who has adopted my 'no kissing for 3 months' dating rule. Despite her commitment, she ...

Heal Your Energy, ChangeYour Life

02 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we talk with Diane about her work as an energy healer. She explains what she does for people and how she helps change their lives by ...

Chatting with Derek Gerard of That Library Show (Dating Tips for Men and Women)

14 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey everyone! In this episode, I'm hanging out with Derek Gerard, the guy behind the popular YouTube channel 'That Library Show.' We're getting into s...

Discussing Polyvagal Theory with Melissa

19 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of relationships, nervous system dynamics, and the impact of societal structures with the insi...

Achieving A Healthy and Fight-Free Relationship

07 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wondered how to build a healthy, conflict-free relationship where understanding overcomes resentment? In my latest podcast episode, I dive into t...

How Did These Two Men’s Relationships Evolve After My 3-Month No-Kissing Method?

01 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Check out this snippet from my TikTok live where a man shares his experience with the 'No Kissing for 3 Months' rule. He talks about how this approach...

HowTo Resist Your Impulses and Create a Strong Foundation for a Relatrionship

11 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this 11th episode of our coaching series, join us as we delve into Holly's evolving love life. After meeting someone who truly resonates with her, ...

How to Find Your Best Relationship Ever

13 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I delve into an inspiring conversation with my lovely guest, Nene. Nene's unique journey through the world of dating unveils a refres...

The Secret To A Fight Free Relationship

23 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I recently had a fascinating conversation with Tyler Kepp, who crossed paths with one of my TikTok live sessions. What's even more intriguing is how T...

How We Can Change the World Through Our Dating Choices

10 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Join me in this episode, where I sit down with a special guest Carly, a passionate dating coach and dedicated follower of our message. Carly stumbled ...

How To Stand Up For Yourself and Claim Your Power Back

02 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In my 10th real dating coaching session with Holly, we talked about her encounter with a man who turned out to be a predator during one of her dates. ...

How To Get Everything You WantIn Life

08 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Exploring Thoughts and Manifestation with Giselle Baumet Join us as we delve into the fascinating connection between thoughts and manifestation. Our s...

How to Stay Grounded During the Honeymoon Phase of Dating

25 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this 9th Real Dating Coaching with Holly, she shared the exciting details of giving an average guy, whom she initially didn't find attractive, anot...

What Makes Men More Attractive to Women?

10 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to our podcast about relationships and personal growth. Today, I want to share with you the insights I gained from my coaching session wi...

How to Navigate Online Dating Like a Pro: 7th Real Dating Coaching with Holly

03 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to another episode of My Dating and Relationship podcast. Today, I'm excited to have Holly back for our seventh session together. Over the pas...

6th Real Dating Coaching with Holly - She Met Someone!

28 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of our dating coaching series, we catch up with Holly and she spills the tea on her new man! She used the techniques from my book "No ...

What to Look for in a Long-term Partner?

18 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I had an insightful conversation with my friend Melissa Petlichkov, a registered social worker and practicing psychotherapist who bel...

The AI Advantage: Transforming Your Business and Dating Life

12 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we sit down with Caleb Roberts, a Marketing Consultant who has harnessed the power of AI to optimize his work and personal life. Cale...

Fourth Real Dating Coaching Session with Holly

10 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Real Dating Coaching with Holly, she shares how her dating journey has helped her build confidence and realize that she doesn't hav...

Third Session : Real Dating Coaching with Holly

03 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Holly joins me to talk about her non-negotiables and the traits she wants in a man. She shares how she's learned to recognize the imp...

Second Real Dting Coaching with Holly

31 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Real Dating Coaching with Hope with Holly, we dive into the topic of sexual compatibility during the No Kissing for 3 Months ...

Real Dating Coaching with Hope with Holly (First Session)

31 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Real Dating Coaching with Hope with Holly, listeners will be taken on a journey with Holly as she navigates the world of dating and...

Why Vetting is Important in the Dating Process!

14 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I talk to Dr. Taylor Burrowes about vetting!

Higher Consciousness Meditation by Rich Pendlebury

14 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Higher Consciousness Meditation by Rich Pendlebury   Sink into this Pineal Gland awakening meditation by Rich Pendlebury! 

HealingTrauma & Finding LOVE! With Melanie Hamlet

27 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

HealingTrauma & Finding LOVE! With Melanie Hamlet Meet Melanie Hamlett! She's a comedian, journalist, writing coach, has been published in WaPo, Harpe...

Yikes...This Was Hard To Listen To | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 8

25 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Yikes...This Was Hard To Listen To Be prepared to CRINGE!! Welcome back to the series where I interact with GUYS on my TikTok livestreams. Ladies, do ...

I Leave These Men Too Stunned To Speak... | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 7

18 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I Leave These Men Too Stunned To Speak... This was an extremely fun lighthearted debate with two great people! They questioned my methods, and you'll ...

Debating With Yet ANOTHER GUY *eye roll* | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 6

11 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Debating With Yet ANOTHER GUY *eye roll* Welcome back to talking with GUYS. (Be prepared to roll your eyes!) Remember Ladies, these are the GUYS you w...

Listen to a LIVE COACHING SESSION! | TikTok Live Guests! Ep.5

04 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Listen to a LIVE COACHING SESSION! I give a mini LIVE coaching session! Come and get some insight, and who knows, her situation may resonate with you!...

The GUYS Keep Getting Worse... | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 3

03 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The GUYS Keep Getting Worse... Yep...we talk to another GUY. Maybe I should start a series for this...hmmm. If you want to get an idea about what kind...

A Woman Used My No Kissing For 3 Months Rule And Here’s What Happened... | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 4

03 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A Woman Used My No Kissing For 3 Months Rule And Here’s What Happened... I talk with a lovely lady about her experiences using the No Kissing For 3 ...

Transitioning & Dating + Coming Back To Life 3 Times?! | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 2

02 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Transitioning & Dating + Coming Back To Life 3 Times?! Meet Nick! Come & listen to his incredible stories and experiences, from transitioning from fem...

Listen to a LIVE COACHING SESSION! | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 1

01 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Listen to a LIVE COACHING SESSION! In this episode, I do a LIVE coaching session with a fellow viewer. Stay & listen, maybe her situation will resonat...

Spiritual Chats w/ a Psychic! ft. Andy Ray Medium

30 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Andy Ray is an evidential medium and PSYCHIC, and in today's episode, we talk through a wide scope of topics including meditation, spirituality, reinc...

How To Have a FIGHT-FREE Relationship w/ Amanda Hanson!

23 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How To Have a FIGHT-FREE Relationship w/ Dr. Amanda Hanson! In today's episode, Clinical Psychologist Amanda Hanson is BACK and this time we talk abou...

THC Lube?! Self-Exploration, Sex Education, & MORE! w/ Sexologist Kristen!

17 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

THC Lube?! Self-Exploration, Sex Education, & MORE! w/ Sexologist Kristen! It's MASTURBATION month!! Kristen comes back for another juicy information-...

Aging is AMAZING! w/ Dr Amanda Hanson

03 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How To Age With Grace With Dr. Amanda Hansen Get ready to have your perspective on ‘aging’ completely changed. I like to say, it’s better to age...

Cold Water Therapy For Mental Health? w/ ProductiveRyan

04 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

TikTok Sensation @ProductiveRyan Talks About Mental Health Therapies Ryan and I talk about alternative mental health treatments, specifically COLD WAT...

I met someone in Costa Rica!

28 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I made a new friend in Costa Rica! Meet Therapist Michelle! The Universe brought me to this girl I'm telling you!!! Melissa and I found each other in ...

I answer some juicy relationship questions... 👀

21 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I answer some juicy relationship questions... 👀 with @EmpressCollective I join forces again with Alexi from Empress Collective where she gets to in...

Archetypes & Relationship Dynamics w/ @empresscollective

15 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Archetypes & Relationship Dynamics w/ @empresscollective Have you ever heard of the Archetypes? Find out your Archetype, what it means for your relati...

Relationship Advice w/ Sven @badasscounselling!

11 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Relationship Advice w/ Sven @badasscounselling! I absolutely LOVE my discussions with Sven. Great minds think alike! In-depth we talk about Men's ment...

What Another Man Thinks of My No Kissing Rule Ft. Badass Counselling

21 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What Another Man Thinks of My No Kissing Rule Ft. Badass Counselling   I have a chat with Sven from Badass Counselling to find out his thoughts on my...

5 Minute Relaxation Breathing Guided Meditation

20 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

5 Minute Relaxation Breathing Guided Meditation   Take a moment to relax, and melt your anxiety away. This guided meditation will send you straight i...

Energizing + Positivity Boost Morning Guided Meditation

18 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Energizing + Positivity Boost Morning Guided Meditation   Set yourself for a good day using this guided meditation. It will help shift your state of ...

Emotional Release Guided Meditation

16 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Emotional Release Guided Meditation   If you've read my book Fix That Shit, you will be familiar with this exercise. This is the easy way to release ...

We’re not having much sex... Ft. Sexologist Kristen Thomas

14 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We’re not having much sex... Ft. Sexologist Kristen Thomas   Let's talk about SEX baby! Kristen Thomas (Sexologist) and I get into the JUICY detail...

Relationship Anxiety Guided Meditation

14 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Relationship Anxiety Guided Meditation   Struggling with Relationship Anxiety/OCD? This is the perfect meditation to help you ride out those waves. ...

Dating Chats w/ Special Fan Halston Dare!

10 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dating Chats w/ Special Fan Halston Dare!   Halston Dare (singer/songwriter) reached out to me on Instagram about her experience using my No Kissing ...

20 Minute Guided Meditation & Empowerment

29 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

20 Minute Guided Meditation & Empowerment This meditation is guaranteed to leave you feeling relaxed, uplifted, and empowered! You'll be able to FEEL ...

Dating with an STD w/ Suzanna Brusik!

27 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dating with an STD w/ Suzanna Brusik! In this episode, TikTok star Suzanna and I talk about navigating dating when you have an STD. If you have an STD...

Relationship Talks w/ Taylor Ferrin!

13 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Relationship Talks w/ Taylor Ferrin! When I first saw Taylor on my TikTok fyp I LOVED what she was preaching! She’s all about standards and selectio...

Relationship Chats w/ Lisa from TikTok!

06 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Relationship Chats w/ Lisa from TikTok! Toxic and unhealthy relationships are sadly an epidemic in today’s world. Lisa is a perfect example of how f...

Another AMAZING chat with David Robbins, Marriage & Family Therapist!

29 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Another AMAZING chat with David Robbins, Marriage & Family Therapist! David is back! We dive deep into the world of relationships and explore some of ...

Interview with TikTok fan Madelaine!!

02 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Interview with TikTok fan Madelaine!! Madelaine is a beautiful example for how my advice can become the revolution your relationship needs!

Conversation with David Probbins, Marriage & Family Therapist

26 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Conversation with David Probbins, Marriage & Family Therapist I LOVE talking to people who work in mental health, and David's years of experience shin...

Another SINGLE MALE Dating Coach?! Let‘s See How They THINK About Dating

03 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Another SINGLE MALE Dating Coach?! Let's See How They THINK About Dating Seems single males never lack audacity, and we've got plenty to examine here....

TikTokStar Herspective! I Chat With Evelyn Nam About Feminism

27 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

TikTokStar Herspective! I Chat With Evelyn Nam About Feminism Evelyn is a rising star in the world of female empowerment and intersectional feminism e...

Brent & Maddie From TikTok! @brauntah

16 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

TikTokStars Brent & Maddie! @brauntah It took me no longer than 2.5 minutes to COMPLETELY fall in love with this couple! Come listen to their beautifu...

Interview with Jonathan AKA TuqueDaddy on TikTok - Situationships

15 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

TikTokStar Jonathan AKA @TuqueDaddy  - Situationships I first saw this TikToker initiate a 30 day "hug your wife" challenge, and I LOVED the idea. He...

1 Hour Chakra Repair by Rich Pendlebury With Binaural Beats

14 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

1 Hour Chakra Repair by Rich Pendlebury With Binaural Beats Rich Pendlebury creates the most amazing meditation music I've ever come across. Enjoy thi...

30 Minute Chakra Repair by Binaural Beats by Rich Pendlebury

14 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

30 Minute Chakra Repair by Binaural Beats by Rich Pendlebury Rich Pendlebury creates the most amazing meditation music I've ever come across. Enjoy th...

20 Minute Chakra Repair by Binaural Beats by Rich Pendlebury

14 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

20 Minute Chakra Repair by Binaural Beats by Rich Pendlebury Rich Pendlebury creates the most amazing meditation music I've ever come across. Enjoy th...

Interview with Brandon B!

02 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Interview with Brandon B! Brandon B from TikTok caught my attention when he came up on my For You page talking about how waiting for a first kiss help...

Another chat with Phil Eagle!

25 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Another chat with Phil Eagle! I LOVE this mans relationship and values, and I know you will too. Not everyone is mushy and communicative like he is, ...

Fix That Shit Foreword

18 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Fix That Shit Foreword Interested in listening to Fix That Shit instead of reading the book? Be sure to sign up to my mailing list and stay up to date...

Interview with Dr. G from TikTok!

18 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Interview with Dr. G from TikTok! I LOVE a nerdy conversation, and I hand-selected this TikTok Psychologist to have a chat with me! Dr. G first came t...

Interview with Phil Eagle from TikTok!

11 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Interview with Phil Eagle from TikTok! Wow, what a GREAT talk with the famous Phil Eagle! This iconic comic/family man puts out relationship gold on T...