Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!

Audacious Villain Era

22 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

She's back — and she's healing, but she's not done. Shirley, our guest from the season two episode The Relative Truth, returns with a long-awai...

Gaslighting for God with Becky Garrison

08 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Some people leave the church quietly. Becky Garrison stayed and took notes.A satirist, journalist, and Yale Divinity School-trained religious critic, ...

The Smallest Man Continues

25 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The charges were dropped this morning. Annie got the call the day we recorded.That moment alone — a DA personally writing a letter, a detective call...

The Smallest Man

11 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to Season 4. We're starting with Annie — and Annie's story is not for the faint of heart.Annie had a husband, young children, and a house in...

Behk's & LAH's Cozycore Autumn: A Seasonal Special

29 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

🎃 The pumpkins are out, the candles are lit, and your favorite duo is back with our annual Cozycore Autumn episode!🕯️🍂In this year’s cozy...

REPLAY: Behk & LAH's Spooky Spectacular! Halloween Edition

22 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

While we’re brewing up something cozy and spooky for next week’s Halloween special, we’re bringing back last year’s fan-favorite Halloween Spe...

Written in the Cards: Emily's Story Part Three

08 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In the final chapter of Emily’s story, we witness what it looks like to rebuild a life with intention, gentleness, and love. After surviving profoun...

Written in the Cards: Emily's Story Part Two

01 Oct 2025

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In this next chapter of Emily’s journey, we pick up where Part One left off — delving into her second marriage and the dark, hidden betrayals she ...

Written in the Cards: Emily's Story Part One

24 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week, we begin a powerful, emotional multi-part departure from our usual storytelling framework to bring you the deeply personal journey of Emily...

Trauma Dick

17 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH are joined by Annie—a woman who seemingly had it all together ...

The Ticking Love Bomb

10 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Lauren, who bravely shares her journey of falling for a man she met online during the isolation of the COV...

REPLAY: Trapped in Mis-souri and Abuse

03 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Sarah, a true survivor in every sense of the word. After conquering cancer, Sarah faced another battle—o...

REPLAY: Mr Audacity

27 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we delve into the harrowing story of Jodi, whose life took a dark turn when she entered a relationship with a friend. Thinking she kn...

REPLAY: Young Love Lost in a Mean Girl Haze

20 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with their friend, Charlie, who found herself in a web of toxic friendships and in a marriage with a woman grow...

When the Courts Fail Survivors with Professor Dale Margolin Cecka

13 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Professor Dale Margolin Cecka, Director of the Family Violence Litigation Clinic at Albany Law School, joins us to unpack the many wa...

Behk & LAH Banter About Everything

06 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

It’s Behk’s birthday weekend, and you know things are about to get derailed. In this episode, Behk & LAH set out to talk about a couple things...

Crashed & Burned to Learn with Bryan Power

30 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH are joined by Bryan Power, who opens up about his journey from a ...

Crossed Lines and Covert Mines

23 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH talk with Amie Schulz, a therapist who vulnerably shares her real...

Love Bombs and Lies

16 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Kris, a woman who shares her powerful story of surv...

REPLAY: Codependency is a Hell of a Drug Part Two

09 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode (2 of 2), co-host LAH picks up her story after year one of her tumultuous relationship. Sitting down once again with her co-host, Behk...

REPLAY: Codependency is a Hell of a Drug Part One

02 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

🎙️ Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! is taking a short summer break! ☀️We’re pressing pause for just a couple of weeks to soak...

REPLAY: Breaking Generational Cycles

25 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Stephanie opens up about her upbringing in Florida, shaped by the traumatic experiences of her parents' own challenging childhoods. T...

Co-Parenting Trapped by Abuse Part Two

18 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In Part Two of Veronika’s story, Behk & LAH follow her through the exhausting and emotionally brutal reality of ongoing court battles. Despite f...

Co-Parenting Trapped by Abuse Part One

11 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down to share the heartbreaking and harrowing story of Veronika—one of LAH’s friends—who has endured a lifetim...

When Presence Feels Like Absence

04 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, your hosts Behk and LAH sit down with a remarkable guest, Penny, whose story is a po...

Miss Zero Accountability

28 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Cleo, whose powerful story we’ll be following over time. Cleo opens up about growing up with gener...

REPLAY: The Relative Truth

21 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we dive into the story of Shirley, a woman who believed she had found her soulmate in a 9-year relationship, only to uncover a shocki...

A Year Later: Buddy on Healing After Fast Heartbreak

14 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH reconnect with a familiar face—Buddy! If you remember his whirlwind romance that ended in heartbreak, buckle up: it’...

UPDATE: Behk & LAH Shoot the Shit

07 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Join Behk and LAH on this week's episode of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" as they catch up on the latest, from a friend's wild holi...

REPLAY: Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak Part Two

30 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode (2 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH pick back up with Buddy’s story, delving deeper in...

REPLAY: Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak Part One

23 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We will be back in two weeks. In this replay episode (1 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk’s f...

The Return of the Dichotomy Diaries with Amanda Arnier

16 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH are joined by the fearless and unforgettable Amanda Arnier, host...

The Breaking Point

09 Apr 2025

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In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Grace, a woman whose journey through an abusive mar...

EXPERT POV: Dissolving Emotional + Inner Child Trauma with Jen Peters

02 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! hosts Behk and LAH are joined by the remarkable Jen Peters, author of Coming Home: T...

International Man of Toxicity

26 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Sarah, an international guest from Geneva, Switzerland, ...

Surviving the Toxic Twenties

19 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Elisea, aka ‘Leecy,’ who bravely opens up about...

Fearlessly Unlearning a Toxic Childhood

12 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Jessica, a resilient woman who has overcome unimaginable...

REPLAY: Escaping the Hobosexual Trap

05 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we delve into Melanie's story of resilience and determination as she recounts her journey of breaking free from the clutches of a tox...

Slaying Demons with Kim Davis

26 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with fellow podcaster Kim Davis, co-host of Slaycation,...

50 Shades of D&D

19 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this eye-opening episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Charlotte Rivers, a brave woman who sha...

Unmasking Covert Narcissists

12 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Growing up with a covert narcissistic mother, Michelle was conditioned to accept toxic relationships—leading her to marry a covert narcissistic husb...

Game Over, Player One

05 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we sit down with Alice, who shares her compelling and heart-wrenching journey from growing up in a family with a special needs brothe...

Nice Guy, Big Problem

29 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH are joined by Rena, who discusses her shocking and emotional ...

Mr Emotionally Unavailable

22 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!—we’re back with regular programming and we’ve got a powerful episode to kick thin...

Behk & LAH Are Back!

15 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

After a brief holiday hiatus, hosts Behk and LAH are back and ready to dive into the new year with fresh energy! In this return episode, they share ex...

DJ Holy High Horse

20 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In the season two finale of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH go deeper than ever as Behk shares the story that start...

Behk & LAH Banter About Behk Sharing Her Story

13 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! hosts Behk and LAH reflect on the podcast’s journey through season two, celebratin...

Major Mama's Boy Part Two

06 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In part two of Emily's story, Behk and LAH reveal the powerful conclusion to her journey through a toxic relationship and the hold of her manipulative...

Major Mama's Boy Part One

30 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH dive into the complex dynamics of a marriage marked by control and manipulation. Guest Emily shares the beginning ...

REPLAY: One Rotten Apple

23 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we sit down with Nicole and A, two passionate Facebook group admins who set out to create a haven for like-minded crunchy women seeki...

Kiss Kiss Dang Dang

16 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH welcome friend Steven, whose story is a rollercoaster of love, betrayal, and transformation. Steven opens up about his t...

Behk & LAH's Spooky Spectacular! Halloween Edition

09 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this special Halloween edition, Bekh and LAH break from their usual format to bring you all the spooky fall vibes! They kick things off by sharing ...

Mr Zero Acountability

02 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Bethanie shares her deeply personal story of surviving an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship. She recounts the gasl...

Behk & LAH Banter: Autumn Vibes & Podcast Guesting

25 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this lighthearted episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into a fun conversation about all things autumn. From the spiritual significance of the autum...

REPLAY: Codependent Confessions of a Polyamorous Heart

18 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Amanda, who bravely opens up about her personal journey through polyamorous relationships and the unique c...

Trapped in Mis-souri and Abuse

11 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Sarah, a true survivor in every sense of the word. After conquering cancer, Sarah faced another battle—o...

EXPERT POV: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships with Bre Wolta

04 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this special expert POV episode of "NGC, Oh My!", we welcome Bre Wolta, founder of Lucid Living and host of the podcast Heartbreak to Wholeness: Un...

Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak Part Two

28 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode (2 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH pick back up with Buddy’s story, delving deeper in...

Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak Part One

21 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode (1 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk’s friend, Buddy, a man who found himself...

UPDATES: Behk & LAH Give You the 411

14 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH dive into the latest updates, tackling a mix of current events and personal life stories with their signature charm and ...

REPLAY: Mr Tough Guy

07 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk’s friend, Sam, about her courageous 13-year journey through an abusive, toxic marriage with an addi...

REPLAY: Mr Sexual

31 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!", co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into Lauren's harrowing tale of her ex-boyfriend, Jaso...

REPLAY: Let That Shit Burn

24 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into the harrowing tale of Kate and her ex-boyfriend, Justin. Kate opens up about her relationship with Ju...

From the Mouths of Babes: A Child's Perspective on Relationships

17 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this heartfelt kid-friendly episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH bring a unique and touching perspective to the table as LAH dives into a special convers...

Young Love Lost in a Mean Girl Haze

10 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with their friend, Charlie, who found herself in a web of toxic friendships and in a marriage with a woman grow...

Codependency is a Hell of a Drug Part Two

03 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode (2 of 2), co-host LAH picks up her story after year one of her tumultuous relationship. Sitting down once again with her co-host, Behk...

Codependency is a Hell of a Drug Part One

26 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode (1 of 2), co-host LAH sits down with her co-host, Behk, to share a deeply personal story. LAH opens up about her childhood trauma and ...

DRAG is DRess As Girl

19 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

QUICK NOTE: We apologize for the audio quality in this episode. We did this one in person and it didn't turn out like we'd hoped. If you can bear it, ...

The Greatest Showman

12 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH welcome a dear friend from their early twenties, John, to share his compelling and raw story from an LGBTQ+ perspective....

The Dichotomy Diaries with Amanda Arnier

05 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this special collaboration episode, Behk & LAH of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" sit down with Amanda Arnier, the insightful ...

The Relative Truth

29 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

UPDATE: We are excited to announce that the episode has been updated to include the end of Shirley's story. We appreciate your patience and understand...

Behk & LAH Banter About Holler Goblins, Clueless Men, and T.Swift

22 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH take a break from the heavy and dive into a whirlwind of ADHD-fueled topics, from holler goblins, men who just don...

Mr Audacity

15 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we delve into the harrowing story of Jodi, whose life took a dark turn when she entered a relationship with a friend. Thinking she kn...

Unraveling Family Toxicity Part Three

08 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In the powerful continuation of Sarah's journey, we delve into a deeply personal and emotional chapter of her life as she confronts the toxic relation...

Unraveling Family Toxicity Part Two

01 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this follow-up episode, we delve into another chapter of Sarah's life filled with struggle and resilience. Sarah opens up about her tumultuous 14-y...

Unraveling Family Toxicity Part One

24 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Sarah, the sister of Amanda who shared her perspective in "A Child Left Behind Part 1 and 2," bravely opens up about her own upbringi...

Medical Gaslighting and a Poorly Timed Money Shot

17 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Curious about which episode topped our Top-Five Replay list? Just before our hiatus, we revisited it to help our guest, so we opted against another re...

Top-Five REPLAY: Sheila Unmasked

10 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coming in at #2 on our top-five countdown, we delve into the heartbreaking story of Jessica, a dedicated community builder who found herself entangled...

Top-Five REPLAY: Unexpected Validation and Hope

03 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coming in at #3 on our top-five countdown, we delve into the extraordinary life of Nancy, a resilient individual who triumphed over a tumultuous child...

Top-Five REPLAY: The Parasite of Anywhereville

27 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coming in at #4 on our top-five countdown, we delve into the life of Cheryle, whose childhood took an unexpected turn when her parents divorced. As sh...

Top-Five REPLAY: Unbreaking Bad - Bred from Toxicity

20 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coming in at #5 on our top-five countdown, we sit down with Brandy, a counselor and author whose life story is nothing short of inspiring. Brandy's jo...

Behk & LAH Banter About...

13 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH dive into a whirlwind of random topics, from mourning the loss of LAH's beloved family dog to discussing the lates...

REPLAY Spotlight: The Definition of a Bad Guy

06 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk & LAH engage in lively banter, but amidst the laughter, we are compelled to share a poignant story. We revisit this episode ...

The Hot Guy from High School

28 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Heather shares her tumultuous journey with a narcissistic partner she encountered after reconnecting with a hot guy from high school....

REPLAY Spotlight: All-American Chad

21 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Behk and LAH banter for a bit about things like being 40 and recouping from a night out at the club, the gorgeous Tennessee weather, ...

Escaping the Hobosexual Trap

14 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we delve into Melanie's story of resilience and determination as she recounts her journey of breaking free from the clutches of a tox...

Covertly Yours, Dick the Charmer

07 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we continue the harrowing story of Jena from episode five, who escaped the clutches of a cult only to find herself ensnared in anothe...

Abusive Culty Toxicity

31 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this gripping episode, we dive into the harrowing journey of Jena, a survivor who grew up in a cobbled-together toxic Christiany cult. The cult's r...

Breaking Generational Cycles

24 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Stephanie opens up about her upbringing in Florida, shaped by the traumatic experiences of her parents' own challenging childhoods. T...

A Child Left Behind Part Two

17 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we continue our conversation with Amanda, a remarkable individual who emerged triumphant despite growing up in the deep rural South w...

A Child Left Behind Part One

10 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we sit down with Amanda, a remarkable individual who emerged triumphant despite growing up in the deep rural South with disturbingly ...

The Parasite of Anywhereville

03 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we delve into the life of Cheryle, whose childhood took an unexpected turn when her parents divorced. As she navigated the complexiti...

Behk & LAH Give Thanks

22 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey, loyal listeners! This is Behk & LAH from Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, and we can't express enough gratitude for your conti...

Unexpected Validation and Hope

15 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we delve into the extraordinary life of Nancy, a resilient individual who triumphed over a tumultuous childhood marked by a toxic mot...

Unbreaking Bad – Bred from Toxicity

08 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we sit down with Brandy, a counselor and author whose life story is nothing short of inspiring. Brandy's journey has been marred by t...

Doctor Feelbad

01 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In the episode, we dive into the agonizing journey of Aleah, a military veteran who battled an invisible enemy for six long years. Her enemy wasn't on...

The Definition of a Bad Guy

25 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we sit down with Bethany, a survivor with a powerful story of resilience, hope, and recovery. Join us as she bravely recounts her enc...

Sheila Unmasked

18 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we delve into the heartbreaking story of Jessica, a dedicated community builder who found herself entangled in a tumultuous marriage ...

Sweet Peaches, Toxic Mama

11 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we sit down with Maya, a resilient woman in her 40s hailing from the heart of Georgia. Maya's story is a poignant exploration of her ...

REPLAY Spotlight: Bully Behind the Screen

04 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we dive into a unique and challenging dating story as Lisa opens up about her experience with Trent, the man who presents two vastly ...