NAUGHTY GYM SHOW - Building Stronger Non-Monogamous Relationships
Episodes
Wild Love Retreat - What Really Happens When You Live This?
28 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, April, Scott, and therapist Catherine from Expansive Connection unpack the raw, surprising, and powerful reality of the very first Wi...
April On The Non-Monogamy Hot Seat: Questions To Argue About
14 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Naughty Gym Show, April and Scott pull back the curtain on one of the biggest shifts in their relationship so far: removing bou...
Rewriting Our Relationship Rules: Rethinking Boundaries Together
31 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this raw and deeply personal episode of The Naughty Gym Show, April and Scott pull back the curtain on one of the hardest parts of open relationshi...
Starting Non-Monogamy - A Real Couple's Experience
17 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Before we jump into today’s conversation, we share a major announcement: after months of quiet work behind the scenes, we reveal that we’ve been i...
Angry Feminist Era Activated: Unlearning Purity Culture & Defensive Masculinity
03 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
This week on The Naughty Gym Show, April takes the wheel for a real-time life update that starts with a chaotic wine-night incident (yes—April fell ...
The Spectrum of Compersion: From Neutrality to Joy, Without Toxic Positivity, w/Dr. Marie Thouin
17 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the goal is not to erase jealousy, but to stop letting it drive the car? Dr. Marie Thouin joins April and Scott to define compersion in clear,...
Reframing Jealousy: Why The Word "Reclaiming" Gives Us The Ick
03 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Jealousy isn’t always about fear of losing your partner. Sometimes it’s about losing yourself. In this episode, April and Scott share a real, rece...
Two Keynotes LIVE From Hedonism Resort: Luna Matatas & Ashley Manta
28 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this live event recording, sex educator Luna Matatas breaks down why kink can feel so electrifying by exploring the psychology of power, risk, and ...
BBBB 2026 Recap At Hedonism Resort: Doctor Strange, Gum Hair, & A Coma In The Hot Tub!
21 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
April and Scott recap Be Better at Being Bad 2026 at Hedonism—day by day—covering the themes, the workshops, the connection circles, and the parti...
LIVE From Hedonism (2/2): THE FREEDOM MANDATE - Scott's Keynote BBBB 2026
15 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
This week’s second special episode is Scott’s opening keynote from Be Better At Being Bad 2026 at Hedonism II Resort: The Freedom Mandate: The Eth...
LIVE from Hedonism: What Do You Want? How Desire Becomes Your Revolution - April's Keynote BBBB 2026
14 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this opening keynote from Naughty Gym's Be Better At Being Bad Takeover at Hedonism Resort, Coach April invites you into a deeply honest exploratio...
She Chose Herself: April's First Date And The Night Autonomy Became Real
30 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
2025 was a LOT… and we’re ending the year with one of the biggest growth moments in our relationship.In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we t...
Sexy Santa Surprise: My Wife Agreed to a Dinner Date (After 1 Year of “Wild Love Theory”)
16 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
April and Scott recap a wild (and unexpectedly meaningful) night out: a sexy Santa & Mrs. Claus gig at an LGBTQ-friendly Christmas party that turn...
Recap Of Our Men's & Women's Retreats, & Details On Our New Wild Love Theory Retreat
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome back to The Naughty Gym Show! In this episode, April and Scott catch you up on everything that’s been happening behind ...
Smoky Mountain Holidaze: Our Recap From Dirty Santa to Dueling Pianos
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
April and Scott are back from the Smoky Mountains and very well-rested… because they slept for 3 days. In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, Apri...
Throuples: The Good & The Bad, w/Dr. Rachael Meir
04 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today we go deep on throuples—what makes a three-person relationship (triad) work in real life. Our guest is Dr. Rachael Meir, a Stanford-trained ps...
Cupcakes, Cunnilingus, & Cuddles: Luna Matatas & Handling Rejection
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Rejection happens in the lifestyle. What do you do with the sting. April and Scott sit down with pleasure educator Luna Matatas to unpack expectations...
Retreats, Rules & Real Love: A 15-Year Journey Beyond Monogamy
09 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when a longtime marriage says “yes” to curiosity? In this candid convo, Freddy and Andi share how a flirt turned into a slow, consent...
Celibate Swingers: Why Some People Need More Than Sex
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this playful and thought-provoking episode, Scott and April explore one of the most surprising dynamics in the lifestyle: choosing connection over ...
Love On The Spectrum: Neurodivergence in Non-Monogamy
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this raw and hilarious episode, April and Scott sit down with their dear friend Roderick — filmmaker of Open: A Journey Through Love — to explo...
Naughty Gym Goes To Portland: Recapping Our First Lifestyle Meetup at Sauvie Island & Club Privata
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when Naughty Gym hands over the reins for the very first time? In this episode, Scott (“The Coyote Whisperer”) and April sit down wit...
Who Do You Think You Aren't - Boundaries, Self-Trust, & The Power Of The Non-Monogamous Pause
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode, April and Scott open up about two months of unexpected personal chaos—and the tools that got them through it. From setting...
Scott Debates Scott: Can Love & Commitment Survive Radical Freedom?
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can a relationship thrive without rules?Or does lasting love require some limits?In this candid and thought-provoking episode, Scott sits down with on...
Affairs, Empathy, and the Morality Police: Why People Cheat and What No One Talks About
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When a viral kiss-cam moment exposed a workplace affair, the internet exploded with judgment, doxing, and moral outrage. In this raw and honest episod...
I Don’t Know What I Want (And Neither Do You) - Desire, Doubt & Discovery in Non-Monogamy and Real Life
10 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why is it so damn hard to know what we really want? In this vulnerable and unfiltered episode, April and Scott get real about the psychological and em...
Rage, Hormones, And Vaginal Dryness: The Real Talk You've Never Heard About Menopause.
26 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if menopause wasn’t something to dread, but a wake-up call, a shift, a powerful evolution?In this raw and empowering episode, April is joined b...
Unveiling Majesty: Drag, Backlash, and the Fight for Dignity in Alabama
17 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when a beloved teacher and drag performer in Alabama becomes the target of a national smear campaign? In this powerful Pride Month episod...
🎙️ Fitness Without Fences: Building Inclusive Spaces for the LGBTQ+ Community with Cara Turnquist
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful Pride Month episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we sit down with advocate and fitness coach Cara Turnquist to tackle one of the fitness ...
Bisexuality in the Lifestyle: Myths, Truths, & Allyship
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to be openly bisexual in swinger and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) spaces...
Weight Bias, Toxic Masculinity & Being Seen: A Raw Conversation with Ashley Manta
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful and deeply honest episode, we sit down with sex educator, writer, and CannaSexual® Ashley Manta for a raw conversation about body im...
Our El Salvador Recap - Deep Connection, Volcano Hikes, Tropical Parties… and a Stomach Bug!
16 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we’re giving you the full, unfiltered recap of our unforgettable retreat in El Salvador! 🌋🌴From volca...
30 Days At Hedonism - What We Learned About Ourselves & the Resort
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We spent 30 days at Hedonism Resort coaching fitness classes and playing host for close to 2000 people over that period. This episode is an overview o...
Unpacking childhood trauma through Wild Love Theory: April's most vulnerable episode yet
13 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is unlike any we’ve ever recorded.For the first time, April opens up about some of the deepest wounds from her past—stories she’s r...
DTF? What is it and is it you?
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
DTF, otherwise know as "Down To F^@%," is an acronym that some use disparagingly and others wear as a badge of honor. But what does it mean to be DTF?...
Improved Erections, Physiques, Sex life, and Mental Health - with the Hacking Love Podcast
13 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We interview the creators of the Hacking Love podcast, Anna & Aiden. They have a tremendous podcast focused on deepening commitment through open r...
Wild Love Theory - A Controversial Model of Maximal Relational Happiness
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is a video of Coach Scott's LIVE Keynote address, including the Q&A session, at BBBB 2025 at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica. T...
Recap of BBBB 2025 at Hedonism Resort, 2025
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is our full recap of Be Better At Being Bad, our full resort takeover of Hedonism II Resort, in Negril Jamaica. It took place Jan 4-11th,...
April's BBBB Keynote: Unmask Your Inner Badass And Overcome Imposter Syndrome
16 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Did you miss BBBB week at Hedonism II? Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered! In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we’re bringing you the full...
2024 & 2025 - Highlights, Lowlights, Goals, & Resolutions
31 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In our last episode of the year we cover our favorite personal, professional, and relational moments of 2024. Then we go in depth about our goals (Apr...
April Gets Her Stocking Stuffed Early
17 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Scott surprises April with a gift he's been emotionally working towards for months and months. It's his theory, called Wild Love Theor...
What Is So Naughty About Naughty Gym?
03 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This episode covers everything you've ever wanted to know about Naughty Gym, including...How Naughty Gym startedWhy we started itWhy we don't post but...
The Art Of The Orgy, w/Dan & Lacy from The Swing Nation
19 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about all things Orgies with Dan & Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast. We work through the pros and cons, mindset approaches, how to avoid...
Tit For Tat - Should Equality Be Your Swinging Goal? w/the Flirty Swingers
05 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we bring in special guests, The Flirty Swingers, to discuss the idea of equality in non-monogamous relationships.We tackle questions l...
Swinging, Catching Feelings & Falling In Love
21 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are feelings something you should avoid at all costs when swinging? Are we all just a bunch of cyborgs having fun with our emotions turned off? What h...
Breaking Down Barriers: The OUT Foundation’s Impact on LGBTQ+ Health & Wellness
27 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we talk with OUT Foundation Vice President Paul Raker about their mission in the LGBTQ+ community and their partnership with Naughty G...
Reconciling Religion & Non-Monogamy
10 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Do you experience religious shame or guilt because you choose to live a consensually non-monogamous lifestyle? Are you trying to find a way to reconci...
Are You Good In Bed, w/Ashley Manta
27 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In Episode 30 we talk with Ashley Manta about how we can know whether or not we are good in bed. We all (well, mostly guys) think we are good in bed. ...
April Learns To Be A Femdom with Luna Matatas
14 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In Episode 27 we reviewed April's first separate date with a man who wants to be her submissive. The first date was dinner and drinks mostly for April...
Hedonism II Resort: Behind the Scenes with Hedonism Management
30 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we interview 4 of the most important members of Hedonism II Resort's management team to get the inside scoop and ask questions about t...
April's 1st Date - the Recap
16 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
After exploring the possibility of separate dating for about a year, one of us finally gets to do it. April went on her date and we recap it live on t...
Aggressive Dieting & Jealousy Kinks with Martin MacDonald
02 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Famed UK clinical nutrition scientist, philosopher, and April's apparent new boyfriend, Martin MacDonald is back on the show. This time we are going i...
Non-Monogamy: The Art of Saying "No" To Play
26 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we tackle the difficult topic of saying "No" when someone propositions you with play when you aren't interested. It is always tough to...
The Heavy Weight Of Expectations
11 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In episode 24 we try to break down the issue of expectations in consensual non-monogamy.It is all too common for one partner to have different (or no)...
April Off The Cuff
04 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This episode was going to be April flying solo but she quickly calls Scott in when the wheels fall off. We discuss a few things that have been swirlin...
Fitness, Fluidity, and Freedom: Gabrielle Kassel on CrossFit, ENM and Gender Diversity
16 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We interview journalist, sex coach, and CrossFit coach, Gabrielle Kassel. She has written extensively for major publications about sex, fitness, and t...
Care & Feeding Of Unicorns
16 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We talk with Coach Cara about the ins and outs of the illusive unicorn. When a couple decides to open up their relationship one of the most common ini...
The 1st Matchmaker For Open Relationships
26 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We interview Victoria and her husband Ryan about their new venture, Birds Of A Feather Matchmaking. This is the industries 1st matchmaking service (as...
Ideal Play Partners - We Tell All
12 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We sit down with Casual Swingers Podcast creators, Mickey and Mallory, while we are together in Nashville, to discuss our ideal play partners. Each of...
Martin MacDonald, Nutrition Scientist
27 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Nutrition Scientist (and philosopher according to April), Martin MacDonald, joins the Naughty Gym Show to discuss the intersection of nutrition, fitne...
Rebooting 2024 Goals - Naughty Gym's Top 5 Tips
13 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It's the time of year where we start to see those New Year's resolutions failing. This episode is our 5 best tips to try and keep those resolutions on...
Part 2, BBBB Recap - The Personal Stuff
02 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We continue our discussion about our takeover week at Hedonism, Be Better At Being Bad Week. This episode we talk exclusively about the most per...
Recap of Be Better At Being Bad, our Takeover of Hedonism
19 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this 1st of a 2 part series, we recap the big picture overview of our inaugural new event, Be Better At Being Bad, a complete takeover of the Hedon...
We've Got The Meat
26 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we discuss the difficulties of making connections with other couples, how to handle imbalances in yours or the other couple's flirt ga...
Male Bisexuality - The Double Standard
11 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In the first half of this episode, April interviews Scott about his bisexuality and the double standard we sometimes see in the world of Consensual No...
Hedonism Resort and a preview of our full takeover, Be Better At Being Bad
15 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In the first half of the episode we give an overview of a what a typical day at Hedonism II Resort is like. We break down the general daily itinerary,...
Finally, The Documentary the Lifestyle Needs!
24 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
April and Scott interview Roderick Stevens about his upcoming documentary, "Open, A Journey Through Love." We talk about why Roderick is the right fil...
So You Want To Be A Swinger, Part 2 of 10, Setting Boundaries w/Monogamish Marriage
10 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Our 10th podcast episode is the 2nd in a 10 part series "So You Want To Be A Swinger?" This series is designed for anyone curious about opening...
Flirting in the Lifestyle
04 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode April and Scott discuss what qualifies as flirting, their evolving boundaries, and the research on improving your flirt game. Naughty ...
Kink & Body Positivity with Luna Matatas
26 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In episode 8 we interview one of the top sex educators in the country, Luna Matatas. Luna takes a playful approach to sex, kink, bdsm, and life. And a...
Pelvic Floor Health & Sex
19 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Coach April interviews Cara, a fitness professional and specialist on pelvic floor health and specifically how it can affect your sex life. They discu...
So You Want To Be A Swinger, Part 1 of 10, What is the Lifestyle w/Casual Swingers
12 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This is the 1st episode in a 10 part series "So You Want To Be A Swinger?" This series is designed for anyone curious about opening their relat...
CrossFit Kate Gordon w/fiancee Greg, Fitness & Open Relationships - Naughty Gym Podcast Episode 5
05 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We interview CrossFit Kate Gordon and her new fiancee, Greg. They are the hosts of the Gone Rogue Podcast. Kate is a highly respected CrossFit Coach a...
Psychedelics & Sex w/Ashley Manta, the Cannasexual
29 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We interview Ashley Manta, aka. the "Cannasexual", recognized expert on the intersection of cannabis and sex. We discuss all things cannabis-related a...
Our First Separate Dates - The Recap
22 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Listen in as April and Scott discuss their long-awaited, first separate dates. It took almost 4 months to get dates setup. How did it go? Did either o...
Coach Scott's Story - Starting Life Over
15 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Listen in as April interviews Scott to really dig deep into his journey from ultra conservative small town Alabama, having a daughter at 17, loving th...
Coach April's Story - A Journey To Empowerment
07 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In our first episode we wanted to tell April's story from her less than ideal upbringing, her rebellious early twenties, a tumultous marriage, the sub...