NeuroDiverse Christian Couples
Episodes
Diagnosing Autism- Early Intervention- The ADOS, CARS & MIGDAS-2
04 May 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Today, I welcome back pediatrician, Dr. Mary H Jones. Mary has been a guest on the show and contributed to Uniquely Us, chapter 11, discussing additio...
Mismanaged Misalignment and Having to Carry the Extra Stinky Bag
27 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Just the Guys, the conversation explores a simple but powerful relational reality: misalignment is inevitable — mismanagement i...
NDCC to NDCC Couple Discussion with Tommy & Ginny - Navigating the Rapids of ND Marriage
20 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We are so happy to have Tommy & Ginny with us on the show today, sharing their story. Tommy & Ginny share their neurodiverse journey from the ...
Examining Expectations in NeuroDiverse Relationships
13 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie & Barb discuss the four principles of expectations (outlined in Emotionally Healthy Relationships by the Scazzeros) and apply...
Mismanaged Misalignment in your NeuroDiverse Relationship
06 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In a discussion over a fast earlier this year, we were facing big decisions and in prayer and fasting together on misalignment and differing views. Da...
Diversity, Inclusion & Belonging. Pt 2 of Panelist Discussion on Ministering to Every Member of the Body of Christ
30 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Continuing our Theme this month, looking at how the Church ministers to (or doesn't minister to) the entire body of Christ.We have on the panel today ...
Putting Down The Dream Grieving & Connecting to God in Disappointment & Community
23 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Today is a different feel for Just the Guys with guest panelists John Fela & Rev. Josh Davis.This month, we are putting the focus on disability, d...
Diversity, Differences & Disabilities & The Church Pt.1
16 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Navigating the Church and the Courts Leaving an Abusive Marriage with Sarah McDugal
09 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Continuing this month's theme of the CHURCH and how she supports the marginalized, hurting, and least of these. Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barb talk wit...
Neurodiversity & The Church
02 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
This month, we are focusing on autism/neurodiversity faith issues and the church!Starting out the month with permission from a former guest, Josh Davi...
When Pride & Shame Heal, Love Grows
23 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
February is the month of love- what is real love- real hesed- sacrificial love? How did Adam love Eve?Today is not our usual crew, but a discussion wi...
PART 2 - Is your NeuroDiverse Christian Coach_Counsel Gold Standard with ND Peer Panel
16 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome back to part 2 of the Gold Standard of Care!If you did not hear part one, go back to January 19th to hear the panel introductions and what we ...
Only Chasing Safety Humanizes Both Spouses with Jeremy Rochford
09 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Today, our guest is Jeremy Rochford of NeuroFM and a fellow Neurodiverse couples' coach! Jeremy is a regular on Just the Guys, and today he talks abou...
How and Who You Love Shapes Who You Are
02 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Today, in the month of love, we talk about sacrificial love in your neurodiverse marriage. Many view this month of love and Valentine's Day as a day f...
Black Friday, Cul de Sacs and Happy New Next
26 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Summary: In this first episode of the year, the guys crack open the idea of what it means to be new—not just with gym memberships and resolutions...
PART 1 - Is your NeuroDiverse Christian Coach_Counsel Gold Standard with ND Peer Panel
19 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
NEW Lens NEW Perspective: NeuroDiversity is the New Piece Not the Only Piece
12 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
New year - new you- or at least a new perspective of yourself and your neurodiverse marriage! So many times, once the diagnosis is made, the sole focu...
Atomic Habits for the New Year for Your NeuroDiverse Relationship Part 1
05 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
It's 2026, and Dan and Stephanie start our podcast series this year on Atomic Habits. The month of January is all about NEW! Remember, Patreon is ne...
From Victim Mindset to Staying Well in your Neurodiverse Marriage with Leslie Vernick
29 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Diagnosed with Autism As a Practicing Psychiatrist with Dr. Stacy Greeter
22 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Holmes talks with neurodivergent psychiatrist, Dr. Stacy Greeter.Topics discussed:Dr. Greeter's diagnosis journey at the age of 40 as a pra...
Showing Up With Your Own Face Faith, Masking, and the Autistic Pastor
17 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful and deeply introspective episode of Just the Guys, host Dan Holmes sits down with pastor, musician, and spiritual director Josh Davis...
Confessions of the Christian Alcoholic with Jon Seidl
15 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
About:Today, Dan and Stephanie interview Jon Seidl, author of Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic. Neurodivergent men are 9 times more likely than th...
Autism Burnout & The Holidays with Dr. Mona Kay
08 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today on Coaches' Corner, we discuss burnout vs. autism burnout and the impact on neurodiverse marriage and family systems.What is burnout, and how is...
Hope- Love- Peace-Joy & the Light of Christ In Your ND Marriage?
01 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
As we enter the Advent season, we pause to remember the beautiful rhythms God gives us through the four candles of Advent—Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love...
Voiceover Artists for Autistic Voices
24 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Holmes talks to Heidi and Robin about AVA: Autistic Voiceover Artists.What if there were a place- a program- a community for autistic adu...
Interoception: What's the Connection or Disconnection with Kelly Mahler
17 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie Holmes talks with Occupational Therapist, Kelly Mahler. The topic is interoception! Every neurotype can struggle with it, but we ...
I Still Make the Turkey- It's my Job
12 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this holiday-themed episode of Just the Guys, the conversation centers on thankfulness—not as a sentimental add-on to Thanksgiving, but as a prac...
Following the ND Compass The Stages of Relationship Progression with Dr. Jill Corvelli
10 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barb talk with Dr. Jill Corvelli about the ND Compass charting stages of relationship progression for ND couples.Stages of ...
Resolving Old Trauma Impacting Your Marriage Now with Immanuel with Dr. Karl Lehman
03 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We are welcoming back Dr. Lehman with so much positive feedback about his first time on the show. Last show with Dr. Karl, we specifically spoke about...
Humility & Sacred Attachment with Michael John Cusick
27 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Our guest was identified on the autism spectrum with the label he prefers, Asperger's Syndrome, and began his identification journey of what it means ...
Self-Attunement, Lament & Developing Your iSight with Marlene Allen
20 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Continuing this month's topic on attachment and attunement, we have with us today the Life Model Works Executive Director, Marlene Allen. So many of o...
Eating Powdermilk Biscuits for Better Attachment with Guest Dr. Jesse Gill
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This month, we are focusing on Attachment! Dan invited a previous guest and attachment expert, Dr. W. Jesse Gill, to join the guys to talk about attac...
Attachment to God with the Holsclaws
13 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Attachment to God!What a huge topic to cover! Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara talk with Geoffrey & Cyd Holsclaw about intimacy and attachment to ...
Identity, Attachment & Your NeuroDiverse Relationship with Dr. Jim Wilder
06 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today's podcast kicks off a new series, running through November 3rd, and concludes with Dr. Karl Lehman. This 6-week series focuses on identity, atta...
We Remember that Differently...So Who is Lying?
29 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dan & Stephanie try to cover a difficult topic using stories that can happen with neurodiverse couples and weaving in the story of Elizabet...
Can a NeuroDiverse Couple Truly Be Happy? Part 2
22 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Part 2 of the " Can a NeuroDiverse Couple Truly Be Happy discussion.If you missed part 1, check out the catalog as of September 1! Colleague and Neu...
For Every Action ... Mad & Meltdowns & Maybe even Mopey
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Just the Guys, the hosts — joined by a new guest, Kevin — tackle the important and nuanced topic of anger, meltdowns, and their...
NeuroDiversity Training Matters for Your NeuroDiverse Marriage with NeuroDiverse Experts Panel Discussion Pt1.
15 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can Neurodiverse marriages work?Can they be satisfying and healthy?Does autism really ruin marriage and family- NO!Does the training of your coach or ...
NeuroDiverse Couples' Work with Dr. Tony Attwood
08 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Barbara was unable to co-host with Dr. Stephanie. For today, Dr. Stephanie is joined by Jeremy Rochford of Our Neuro Fam and Just the Guys to d...
Can a NeuroDiverse Couple Truly Be Happy? Part 1
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Colleague and Neurodiverse Couple Specialist Jodi Carlton interviewed us for her show for Season 5- Your NeuroDiverse Couple Podcast. Stephanie and Da...
Want TOTAL Intimacy in Your NeuroDiverse Christian Marriage?
25 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We hope you have been following this entire month of podcasts on sex, porn, addiction, healthy sexuality, and now total intimacy.Today, we look at wha...
What even is Healthy Christian Masculinity & Sexuality with Dr. Andrew Bauman
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie is solo but has a discussion the church needs to hear with Dr. Andrew Bauman.Andrew has been on the show before, but this month o...
Surfing for God with Michael Cusick
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Just the Guys, Dan interviews Michael Cusick—licensed counselor, ordained minister, and founder of Restoring the Soul—to discus...
Porn & Sex Addiction, Sexuality & Autism with Candice Christiansen
11 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Continuing our focus on porn and sex addiction and autism sexuality with expert Candice Christiansen.Today, we talk about the co-occurrence and reason...
Is there Cross-Over of Porn Use/Sex Addiction in Autistic Men with Dr. Janice Caudill
04 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This month, the focus of the podcast involves the co-occurring issues of porn use or sexual addiction commonality in the autism community. We begin to...
Abuse, Autism, Ministry & Divorce with Rev. Jenilee Goodwin
28 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, I welcome back Rev. Jenilee Goodwin. On a previous show, Jenilee shared the journey of being on the mission field and their neurodiverse family...
Trailblazing the Aspie World with Daniel Morgan Jones
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie talks to Dan of the Aspie World! Are we still allowed to use the term 'Aspie'? Dan talks us through his autism identification and...
Have a Do Nothing Day
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have a Do Nothing Day Topic:The guys dive into the complex challenge of mental rest and the idea of having a “do nothing” day. What does it mean ...
Breaking the Stigma of Divorce and Addressing what Leads to Divorce in NeuroDiverse Marriage
14 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie & Barb discuss the differences in reasons for divorce between men and women when they divorce. Dr. Stephanie interviews Barb ...
From Tale of Two Marriages to Shared Life Experiences
07 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In our book, Uniquely Us, Stephanie uses the phrase: 'It was a tale of two marriages.' Dan's was going okay, and Stephanie's was not. We discuss the t...
Remaining Relational is KEY to Joy Building with Chris & Jen Coursey
30 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you been taught that all emotions except joy are bad? That you need to "count it all joy" in such a way that in your church or religious circles ...
Becoming a "Face of Grace" with Ed Khouri
23 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this insightful episode of Neurodiverse Christian Couples, hosts Stephanie and Dan welcome Ed Khouri, President of Equipping Hearts for the Harvest...
JTG - Does God Really Like Me? A Conversation with Geoff Holsclaw
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
🧠 Episode Summary: In this thought-provoking conversation, Dan sits down with Dr. Jeff Holsclaw, co-author (with his wife, Cyd Holsclaw) of Does...
Unresolved Trauma's Impact on Marriage with Dr. Karl Lehman
16 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many couples who receive a later in life identification of autism or neurodiversity in marriage come to couples' work traumatized. In addition, we may...
Dysregulation, PDA, RSD & Brainspotting with Jana M. Smith
09 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How to work with Jana: https://www.janamsmith.com/
Living in the Messy Middle Between Fear and Love Bonds with Amy H. Glaser
02 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This month is focused on neuroscience and your neurodiverse marriage! This entire month, we have elements brought in from LifeModel Works, Deeper Walk...
Communication is KEY to Relational Skills with Meredith Sinclair
26 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Discussion:Join Dr. Stephanie and Meredith Sinclair of Life Behavior Consulting to discuss how communication skills are key to relational skills and m...
Why NeuroTypical Marriage Models DO NOT WORK with NeuroDiverse Couples with Dr. Sean Hirt
19 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Discussion: Dr. Stephanie Holmes and Dr. Sean Hirt discuss their clinical training and how neither was trained in neurodiversity despite the update in...
JTG - If Fish can Fly, You Can Learn Empathy
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome back to Just the Guys, where a handful of neurodiverse men get real about growth, relationships, and life post-diagnosis — all without a scr...
Uniquely Us Can Help You Find Uniquely U!
12 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, we discuss the newly released book aimed at NeuroDiverse Christian Couples and Coaches! Dr. Stephanie & Barbara discuss Uniquely US: Gracef...
Achieving "Naked & Unashamed" in Your NeuroDiverse Marriage
05 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean to be naked and unashamed? Did your mind first go to sex? That is part of it in a literal sense, but being 'naked and ashamed' also ...
Love on the Spectrum's Dani Bowman, BFA, MBA
28 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Continuing our Autism Acceptance Month, today Dr. Stephanie interviews Dani Bowman from Love on the Spectrum. We will talk about her involvement wit...
Hurricanes in My Ears and a Fire in My Nose: My Sensory Life with Kim Clairy
21 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
For Autism Acceptance and Action Month, we are focusing on the autistic experience. Today, our guests are Kim Clairy, OTR/L, and her husband, William....
JTG - Planes, Trains and Aspiemobiles
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Just the Guys,' Jeremy and Dan pivot from their original plan due to an unexpected airline mishap, turning the moment into a meani...
Unlearning Negative Behaviors and Learning New Behaviors to Optimize Self & Relationships with David Glick
14 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It is Autism Acceptance and Action Month, and we have Dave Glick as our guest neurodivergent coach and clinician.Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara ask ...
Special Education Parent Rights Advocating for Your Autistic Child with Tiffany Yandle
07 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join Dr. Stephanie and Tiffany in an interactive discussion that will help you delve deeper into understanding your rights as a parent with a school-a...
The Marriage You Want with Sheila & Dr. Keith Gregoire
31 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We all want a marriage that feels like home. We long for a partner who is there for us through all of life's challenges and griefs, who is in on all o...
Engaged Fathers Have Positive Impact with Dr. Robert Naseef
24 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie is joined by Dan to talk with Dr. Naseef about the impact of passive or engaged fathers on children, especially their autistic ch...
Assessing Adults on the Autism Spectrum with Dr. Celine Saulnier
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Saulnier as they discuss her presentation on broadening the autism spectrum at the Converge Autism Summit. They will discu...
JTG - The Contextually Appropriate Penguin Skeleton
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this lively conversation, the “Just the Guys” team explores how crucial context can be—whether you’re deciphering a strange image, navigati...
When is it Abuse & Recovering from Abuse with Bob Hamp
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today on Coaches' Corner, Dr. Stephanie & Barb Grant, MMFT, talks with Bob Hamp about abuse and recovering from abuse.What is Abuse? When does a r...
Stuck in the Weeds! Communication & Collaboration Misfires
03 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you and your spouse have constant communication misfires? As the ND spouse, do you feel interrupted, falsely accused, and often confused about what...
Autism Burnout vs. Depression & Suicidal Ideation
24 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie talks with Dr. Natalie about Autism, Burnout, Depression, and Suicidality.Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and wa...
How Therapeutic Separation Helped Us Heal & Heal Our Marriage with Drs. Jeff & Mary Jones
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Part 2! Some of you had questions for Drs. Jeff and Mary so we had them back?Drs. Jeff and Mary are back to discuss therapeutic separation, addiction,...
JTG - Being Not Noticeably Unusual
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Shawna Meek - Guides to Therapeutic Separation and Reconciliation
10 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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Are you Resilient? Building Capacity in Yourself & ND Marriage
03 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Dan and Stephanie start their discussion with the book Building Bounce: How to Grow in Emotional Resilience by Warner & Hinman.For more resources ...
Disability Theology Informs Disability Ministry with Stephanie O. Hubach
27 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join Dr. Stephanie as she discusses disability theology and disability ministry with Stephanie O. Hubach, author of Same Lake Different Boat.Questions...
Strengths of ASD, ADHD and AuDHD
20 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie and Dan Holmes asked Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht about ASD, ADHD, and both.Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and was d...
JTG - Navigating Attachment and Emotional Resilience in Neurodiverse Relationships
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this special episode of Just The Guys, host Dan Holmes is joined by renowned authors Dr. Jim Wilder and Marcus Warner for an insightful conversatio...
Recognizing, Confessing and Healing from Shame with Curt Thompson, MD
13 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What is Shame? What is health shame vs toxic shame? What if someone is unaware of their feelings, including shame? Can you heal from shame alone? Thes...
NDCC Communication Challenges & Goats - With Greg & Carol Reller
06 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We have guests with us. Carol and Greg Reller join us to discuss Chapter 7 of Uniquely Us on Social Communication and Challenges!You may recognize Gre...
Autism is a NOT a Pass for Abuse with NeuroDivergent Coach Sarah McDugal
30 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie is solo hosting with guest Sarah McDugal. Sarah is a coach who was later identified on the autism spectrum. Today, we discuss her...
What I STILL Like About & How You Help me Grow
23 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Giving the gift of relational JOY!Dan and I are continuing to build joy by working through Chris and Jen Coursey's 30 Days of Joy: For Busy Married Co...
Some other Beginning's End: Being Mindful & Intentional Planning Travel
18 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Just the Guys discussed their experiences with planning surprise events and trips, emphasizing the importance of considering the other person's intere...
PEERS Curriculum for Teens & Young Adults with Meredith Sinclair
16 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Stephanie and Meredith discuss social skills groups for adolescents and young adults 14 and older.Meredith Sinclair is the Executive Director/Foun...
How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities & Differences with Dr. Todd & Kristin Evans
09 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
About our Guests:Kristin Faith Evans, MA, MS, LMSW, and Todd Evans, PhD, MA,are award-winning authors, speakers, and disability parents. Theyearned th...
NDCC to NDCC Discussions: NT Husband and ND Wife with Gary & Molly
02 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Listeners, you asked! We listened!Many reached out and wanted to hear from an NT Husband and ND Wife!Today, we have Gary and Molly, who discuss not on...
Chronic Illness, Stress, and Building Resiliency with Jana Smith
25 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We had 2 questions come in from listeners about chronic stress and autoimmune issues in the ND marriage and how to build resiliency and calm the centr...
MIGDAS-2 and Adult ASD Evaluations with Dr. Donna Berghauser
18 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Donna Berghauser is a Florida-licensed and Nationally Certified School Psychologist (NCSP) with over 10 years of experience in public schools and ...
Lessons Learned in Previous Marriage and New Marriage with John Fela
13 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today is a special edition of JTG. Our usual crew will be back!Today, Dan discusses marriage, divorce, and a new marriage with John Fela of Joni &...
Answering Listener Questions about NeuroDiverse Marriage with Heather Parks & Natalie Roberts
11 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today we took some listener questions and Dr.Stephanie asks them from neurodiverse couples to Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks. One key component- N...
Autism, Addiction, Healing with Therapeutic Separation(s) with Drs. Jeff & Mary Jones
04 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Transitioning From Highschool with Autism. Now What? Carrie Cariello
28 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Stephanie and Carrie talk about Carrie's journey in marriage and family navigating Autism. We speak about the limited opportunities that exist for...
Autism_Family & the Mission Field with Jenilee
21 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, we discuss a few topics in today's podcast. Dr. Stephanie talks with Jenilee about their family's journey with autism on the mission field. Whi...
In this case: Be FAIK
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dan and the guys talk about AI, Perry's new book FAIK and applications to real life.
Neuroscience & Nutrition for Neurodiversity with Sarah Casburn
14 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie interviews Sarah Casburn.They will chat about:ABA or not ABA?What is the controversy about ABA?Do nutrition and diet impact Autis...
Dan Reacts Uniquely Us Social Communication
07 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We continue to discuss the book Dan did not read before publication and what he learned from each chapter when we received our author's copies of Uniq...
Social Communication through Identity Building with Carolyn Long
30 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Dr. Stephanie and Carolyn discuss self-concept, self-identity, and self-esteem as key ingredients to building social communication skills. Caro...
Promoting Independence Safely for Young Neurodivergent Adults with Brody & Julie of Springbrook
23 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Holmes discusses promoting safety and independence for young adults on the autism spectrum.Brody and Julie are OTRs with Springbrook Behavioral He...