Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Episodes
Shedding Labels and Overcoming Societal Expectations with Alex Cox
10 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Get ready to embark on an enlightening journey with our guest, Alex Cox, as he gives a candid account of his polyamorous lifestyle. Since 2018, Alex h...
Navigating Polyamory with Emotional Intention with Victor Salmon
27 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The non-monogamous relationship journey is brimming with complexity and profound self-discovery. This episode opens a window into this world, as we ch...
A Journey of Liberation and Empowerment with Casey Donatello
13 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Casey Donatello opens up about the challenges and dynamics of striving for equity in non-monogamou...
Delighting in Self-Connection with Lee Harrington
29 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you tired of feeling disconnected from yourself and others? What if there was a way to build a unique web of relationships that truly support your...
Healing and Reclaiming Power in Non-Monogamous Relationships with Lucy Price
15 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, I am talking with relationship coach, Lucy Price. Join us as we discuss the power of non-monogamous relationships and the importance of u...
Celebrating 50 Episodes: Exploring Relationship Escalators, Jealousy, and Growth in Non-Monogamy
01 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are celebrating a major milestone for our podcast, Nope, We're Not Monogamous: our 50th episode! To mark this occasion, I was joined by ...
Embracing Compersion in Your Relationships with Marie Thouin, Ep 49
18 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am speaking with Marie Thouin, a dating and relationship coach with a passion for understanding the intricacies of non monogamous relationship...
Health, Happiness, and Safe Relationships in Non- Monogamy with Nurse Dynamite, Ep 48
04 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
My guest Christina Dynamite and I are chatting about our intimate journeys through non-monogamy and polyamory as we share personal experiences, ch...
The Journey Through NRE to the Relationships You Desire, Ep. 47
20 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I am talking to life and relationship coach, Randi Robbins, about some of the various forms of non monogamous relationships and how to manage the exci...
Reclaiming Your Power Through Self-Love and Pleasure with Kim Coffin, Ep. 46
06 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In todayâs episode, I talk with Kim Coffin, a trauma informed body based empowerment coach who's paving a new way for women to discover their i...
Intimacy and Non-Monogamy: Embracing Embodied Choices, Ep. 44
09 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
After 28 years of pure monogamy, my guest today dove into a sexuality community to explore something different during what one might call a midlife cr...
Kitchen Table Poly: Unpacking Metamours and Breakups, Ep. 43
23 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Sara and I are talking about her experiences with polyamory and some of mine too! We cover coming out to family and friends as polyamorous, how polyam...
Relationship Vetos: The Process of Relationship Grieving, Ep. 42
09 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Iâm chatting with Kyra Gilchrist, a relationship anarchist and solo polyamory advocate. Kyra shares with us how she coped with the aftermath ...
Finding Your Inner Dom(me), Ep. 41
26 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Domina Anne Shirley coaches people on how to be the Dominant in their own lives. Today, she shares her struggles with the idea of non-monogamy and we ...
Navigating Polyamory as a Pagan, Pansexual, Parent
12 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
 Emily Otto is a healer for healers and an intuitive business coach who helps women listen to their heart's desires and create it through busine...
Finding Community and Authenticity in Polyamory, Ep. 39
29 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking with Delphine Lumen. Delphine is someone who has a passion for learning about what makes happy, healthy relationships and has spent...
Love Outside of the Romance Novel with Eleanor OâBrien, Ep. 38
15 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today, I am speaking with Eleanor OâBrien is the artistic director of Dance Naked Creative, a sex-positive theater and event company. Â She is a wr...
Somatic Practices in Non-Monogamy with Isha Vela, Ep. 37
01 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week I am talking with relationship anarchist and solo polyamorous person, Isha Vela. Isha and I talk about how they came to understand and emb...
The Power of Wants and Needs in Relationships, Ep. 36
17 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today, I'm talking to Dr. Joli Hamilton, again! We had such a great time on Episode 21 that we decided to do it all over again! We're talk...
The Importance of Human Connection and Sex Work, Ep. 35
03 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking with my friend Numina Mara. Numina is a fantastic human and we had an amazing conversation that covered her love of the courtesan...
Pregnancy & Non-Monogamy, Ep. 34
06 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today Iâm talking to Kelli Moore. Kelli is the co founder and CEO of Soulfire productions, a podcast network for thought leaders, free thinkers and ...
Discovering Our Queerness, Ep. 33
22 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This weekâs episode is a little different! Today I am sharing a conversation with my girlfriend, Salena. We are giving you an inside look at the...
Finding Yourself in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 32
07 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I am so excited to share with you this conversation with Emily Gindlesparger. Emily is the author of Please Make Me Love Me, an intimate memoir of ope...
Good Girls Talk About Non-Monogamy, with Leah Carey, Ep. 31
11 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week I am talking to Leah Carey. Leah is a sex and intimacy coach and she's the host of Good Girls Talk About Sex. We talk about her evoluti...
Boundaries for Building Safety and Trust, Ep. 30
28 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am giving you a sneak peek into our community Facebook group, also called Nope, We're Not Monogamous and a workshop we had last week! In ...
Honing Your Desires in Polyamory, Ep. 29
14 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week Iâm talking with my friend, Ashley Thibodaux. Ashley helps women find safety to rest in and believes that the only way to speed up is to s...
Is non-monogamy written in your DNA?, Ep. 28
30 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What the heck is human design and what could it possibly have to do with my relationships? I've worked with Amber for about six months, and the i...
Sexy, Confident Non-Monogamy, Ep. 27
16 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I'm talking to Tia Lynn, the Sexy Biz Babe who helps women own their confidence and power in the bedroom and the boardroom. We have a really grea...
Lazy Successful Non-Monogamy, Ep. 26
02 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As we all know, the mental health impact of the pandemic combined with the process of opening up a monogamous, long term marriage can create a lot of ...
The Importance of Self-Consent, Ep 25
19 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I'm talking with the world's most interesting podcast guest, Chuck Copenspire. We talk about my favorite topic, relationships and no...
Growing Through Jealousy, Ep. 24
05 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We're talking all about jealousy in non monogamy and how to process all these really hard complicated feelings and move through them without blow...
Navigating the Biggest Pitfalls of Open Relationships, Ep. 23
21 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I'm talking to Shai and Lea today, the creators of the Secure Poly Collective about the biggest pitfalls of open relationships and I'm reall...
Epic Communication with the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships, Ep 22
07 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Kate Loree is a sex positive Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in non monogamous, kink, LGBTQ and sex worker communities. Kate a...
Starting Out Strong: First Steps to ENM, Ep. 21
24 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week I am speaking with Dr. Joli Hamilton. This is one of my favorite episodes that I've recorded yet. Meeting someone whose journey feels...
Vikings, Vulnerability, and Polyamory, Ep. 20
10 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today, I am speaking with Ragnar, the modern viking! He shares with us his Viking longship analogy about relationships and my mind was kind of blown. ...
Diversity and Equity in Non-Monogamous Communities, Ep. 19
24 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I'm talking with Crystal Byrd Farmer, a polyamorous speaker and writer from Gastonia, North Carolina. We talked about her book, The Token -...
Astrology and Non-Monogamy, Ep. 18
10 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I'm talking to Brooke Underwood, aka Oracle Brooke about the ebbs and flows of relationships as a metaphor for what's going on in each...
A Unicorn's Story, EP 17
27 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
My guest today is talking about her first ever visit to a sex club, her first ever polyamorous experience as a unicorn, and the biggest lessons sheâ...
The Pillars of Polyamory with Deana Tanner, EP 16
13 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today, I talk with Deana Tanner about the five main pillars of polyamory: autonomy, personal responsibility, boundaries, effective communication and u...
Swinger Events and Hotel Takeovers with Ying Ying Lee, EP. 15
30 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking with Ying Ying Lee. Ying Ying founded SOP Lifestyle Productions, with a vision to create fun, unique & sensual getaways and v...
Taming The Green Eyed Monster, Jealousy Ep.14
02 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In todayâs episode, I'm sharing with you a recent workshop I did on taming the green eyed monster, jealousy. I'm talking to you about the ...
Sexual Safety in Non-Monogamy Ep. 13
18 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In todayâs episode I have the pleasure of speaking with Evelin Dacker. We have a juicy conversation on creating sexual safety in non-monogamy. S...
The Spectrum of Non-Monogamy Ep 12
04 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In todayâs episode I talk with Michael Love. He is the former publisher of ENM Magazine and PDXScene Magazine. Michael fancies himself an ambassador...
The Sexiness of Communication, EP 11
21 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am sharing Part 2 of an amazing conversation I had with Leanne and Greg Million. We continue our conversation with some really juicy sex tips,...
Relationship Autonomy and the Power of Words Ep.10
07 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am sharing Part 1 of an amazing conversation I had with Leanne and Greg Million. We talk about non monogamy and all of its forms-- the differe...
Decolonizing Polyamory & Relationship Anarchy Ep. 9
23 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I'm no expert on racism. But I am a person who's always learning and growing and challenging my own internalized racism. I consider this pod...
Digging into Insecurities Ep. 8
09 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In todayâs episode, I'm talking to Danny, the producer and editor of Nope, We're Not Monogamous, and also one of my partners. He shares th...
Veganism & Polyamory Ep. 7
26 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
My friend, April Filiczkowski, the Green Goddess Pleasure Queen, and I discuss our previous monogamous marriages and the switch to polyamory after div...
Beyond the White Picket Fence - Breaking Out of the Life Everyone Expects You to Live
12 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Krista Kathleen, the author of Beyond The White Picket Fence - Breaking Out of the Life Everyone Expects You to Live, and I chat about her journey int...
Body Image and ENM Relationships Ep.5
29 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today we're talking to Katy Alaniz, a poly friendly therapist whose focus is really on helping clients rediscover confidence, sexuality, healing ...
Blending Polyamorous Families S1. Ep4.
15 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today Iâm talking to my dear friend, Wilder, about her experiences of non-monogamy and combining families with an already married couple. We talk ab...
Polyamory and Divorce S.1 Ep.3
01 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I talk with Mags Baker, a polyamorous, non-binary, sexy divorcée living their best life in San Francisco. They work one-on-one with ...
Dating for Polyamorous Nerds S1. Ep.2
01 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk with Kari Lu Cowell, not only about non-monogamy, but soulmates, monogamous conditioning, whether or not you should start your ...
Enthusiastic Non-Monogamy - Our Story S1. Ep.1
01 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
People always want to know about my non-monogamous relationship, what worked for me, what I've done in my life, or what other people who are non-...
The Trailer
19 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Hi, I'm Ellecia Paine, and as a sex loving relationship coach who specializes in enthusiastic non-monogamy and polyamory, I get a lot of people c...