Not so Christian Brothers

The Private School Secret: Why Our Sisters Got the VIP Treatment

03 May 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Were you the "scrappy" kid or the "polished" one? This Sunday, the Not So Christian Brothers explore the Psychology of Upbringing. Colm...

The LEGO Conspiracy: High-Tech Influence & The New Media Empire

30 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Is the future of media being built in a digital bunker? This Thursday, the Not So Christian Brothers dive into the high-stakes world of digi...

The Pyrenees Mystery: A Proposal, A Waterfall, and the "Picnic" Truth

26 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Is romance a carefully constructed "Global Script," or is it just a series of awkward timing and mountain goats? This Sunday, the Not So Christia...

The Ultimate "No": Refusing My Sister's Kidney Request | The Truth About Family Obligations

23 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

"My beloved little sister asked me to donate a kidney. I said no.". This headline sets the stage for a raw, unfiltered debate on the Not So Christian ...

The $2 Billion Blunder: Botox, "Bollocks" & The Hospital Scandal

19 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Is the world losing its mind, or just its money? This Sunday, the Not So Christian Brothers dissect the "Uncanny Valley" of male aging. Just...

The "Messiah" Complex: Is the Global Script Changing? | The Truth About Resilience

16 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when a global leader positions themselves as a divine figure? This week, the Not So Christian Brothersdive into the psychology of be...

AI Priests, The Tiger Woods Mystery & Forbidden History | The Tartarian Empire

12 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Can a machine offer moral support, or are we entering a dangerous "Uncanny Valley"? This week, the Not So Christian Brothers explore the int...

The End of Diplomacy & The Truth About Global Tensions

09 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Are we collectively heading for the bunker? This week, the Not So Christian Brothers find themselves geolocated in a world of increasing ins...

"I Got the Royal Seal": The Princess Diana Mystery | South Africa’s Red Tape Crisis

05 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The chaos continues as the team geolocates once again. Producer Rebecca reports live from the River Kowie in South Africa, where the "Truth" of global...

Wooden Spoon Trauma & The "Sterile Room" Secrets | The Royal Seal Mystery

02 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Does your past define your response to pressure? This week, the Not So Christian Brothers start with a deep dive into "Wooden Spoon Trauma"—...

"I Was Incensed": The Gender Debate Fallout | The South African River Mystery

29 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The fallout from Thursday’s show is real. Producer Rebecca joins the conversation from South Africa to voice her frustration over Justin and Colm’...

Men are Being Sidelined": The Truth About the Manisphere | The South African Escape

26 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Is the social balance of power shifting too far, or is it a necessary evolution? This week on the Not So Christian Brothers, Colm and Justin are ...

"We’re a Bunch of Sacks": The Truth About Irish Sexiness | Terry’s Feet Mystery

22 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Following our St. Patrick’s Day main show, the brothers return for a "Seachtain na Gaeilge" (Irish Language Week) special. Colm explores his "R...

The Irish Empire: From Gangs of New York to the CIA Mystery | St. Patrick’s Day Special

19 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Is St. Patrick’s Day a celebration of culture or a masterclass in global branding? This week, the Not So Christian Brothersstrip back the green...

The Truth About Identity | The Ticker Tape Mental Load

15 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The brothers are back to dissect the "detour" from Thursday’s show, and things get personal fast. From Colm’s "bubble butt" in leather pants ...

The Scripture of Secrets: Ancient Letters & The $3 Psychological Trigger

12 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Is the world reading from a new script or an ancient one? This week on the Not So Christian Brothers, Colm and Justin dissect the "Psychology of ...

"I Wanted Him GONE": The Shakespearean Truth | The Red Sea Wardrobe Crisis

08 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Following the shockwaves of Thursday’s show, the brothers return to dissect the "Shakespearean" drama of their childhood. Colm double-downs on the m...

Why I Wanted My Brother Dead

05 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Is the world losing its mind, or is it just the weather? This week on the Not So Christian Brothers, Colm and Justin tackle the "Atmospheric Myst...

The Aftershow: Are Aliens Hot? | Why We’re Being "Cancelled" for Thursday’s Show

01 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The brothers are in the "rhinoplasty waiting room" this week as they address the chaotic reaction to Thursday’s main show. Colm attempts to def...

The Alien Files: Did We Get Velcro From a UFO? | The Truth About Disclosure

26 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The conversation takes a bizarre turn into the "Velcro Theory"—is our modern technology actually reverse-engineered from an alien ship?. Plus, ...

The €450,000 Secret | The Psychology of Money & The "Fem-Lit" Trap

22 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Why are we so obsessed with "the number"? This week, the Not So Christian Brothers peel back the layers on our relationship with money and dopamine. J...

The €600k Retirement Trick & The Psychology of Your Digital Addiction

19 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Are you actually addicted to your phone, or is that just how the algorithm was "discovered" to work?. This week, Justin and Colm explore the high...

The End of Motherhood? | Declining Birth Rates & Why Men Only Talk About Sports

15 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this candid After Show, the Not So Christian Brothers dive into the shifting dynamics of modern society. From the "death of the icebreaker" to a gl...

Is Your Phone the New Opioid? | Meta on Trial & The Secret Language of Men

12 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this hard-hitting main show, the Not So Christian Brothers dive into the "Digital Opioid Crisis." A landmark court case against Meta reveals how so...

"You Have a Huge Ego" | The Brothers Roast Each Other & The Berlin Club

08 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this revealing After Show, Producer Rebecca puts the brothers on the spot with a "Secret Question" that threatens to tear the podcast apart: "...

Why Men Are Afraid to Tell Their Bosses They Are Struggling (71% Won't Speak Up)

05 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this powerful episode, the Not So Christian Brothers tackle the silent crisis in men's mental health. A shocking new statistic reveals that&nb...

"Why Are You Staying In This Relationship?" (Justin Gets Brutally Honest)

01 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers get deep into relationships, breakups, and the uncomfortable truth about why people stay in ...

The US Empire is Collapsing & The "Doomsday"

29 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The Not So Christian Brothers are back, and things are getting apocalyptic. Colm predicts the total collapse of the United States Empire&nbs...

"I Was In Bed With Victoria Beckham" | The Truth About The Wedding Drama

25 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The "Not So Christian Brothers" After Show dives straight into the biggest celebrity scandal of the year: The Beckham Family Feud.Colm drops a bo...

"My Testosterone Went Up 47%" | Justin’s Cialis Confession & The Greenland

22 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this explosive Main Show, Justin drops a bombshell about men's health right from the start. He reveals the results of his latest bio-hacking e...

"No Irish, No Dogs": Is Woke Culture Destroying Free Speech?

18 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The After Show gets heated this week as the "Not So Christian Brothers" tackle the most explosive topics of the moment: Racism, Free Speech, and ...

The Secret Deportation Flights: Is the Government Breaking the Law? (Plus: Ireland's Donald Trump)

15 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The Not So Christian Brothers are back with an explosive episode that swings from Hollywood absurdity to serious political scandal.Colm kicks things o...

Emotions & Realisations from Ground Zero & The Brooklyn Bridge.

11 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Colm is back on Irish soil! With Justin away working (possibly in Gibraltar... or the toilet), Rebecca steps into the co-host chair to debrief Colm on...

Miami Makes You Question Everything

08 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The Not So Christian Brothers have left the building! While Rebecca freezes back in the Greystones studio, Colm and Justin report live from Miami...

The End of The World is NOW (and Why Men Can't Get Pregnant)

04 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The chaos of the New Year continues as Justin, Colm, and Rebecca dive deeper into their 2026 predictions—and things get dark (and hilarious).Colm re...

2026 Predictions: Civil War in Cork & The "Dead Cat Bounce"

01 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Year! We kick off 2026 with a bang as the full team reunites to predict the future. Colm has run his theories through ChatGPT and predi...

Justin is BACK! (The "Guerrilla Shopping" Technique & Worst Gifts Ever)

28 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

e’s back! After traveling the world backwards (or just being "high performance" somewhere), Justin returns to the studio just in time for the post-C...

Colm’s Lonely Christmas: Why I'm Running Away To New York

24 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Merry Christmas! In this special festive episode (released early for your Christmas Eve drive), Justin is still missing in action, so Producer Rebecca...

Terry: "Men Only Want One Thing!" (The Friendship Debate Explodes)

21 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The "Not So Christian Brothers" AfterShow descends into chaos as producer Rebecca takes the therapy chair (Justin is still MIA) and Terry unleashes hi...

Can Men & Women Really Be Just Friends? (Rebecca Drops A Truth Bomb)

18 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

With Justin currently traveling (or being a "high performance Ziploc" somewhere), producer Rebecca steps out from behind the desk to take the co-host ...

Colm’s Mick Jagger Theory: "Older Women Don’t Have A Sex Drive?"

14 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week, the lads dive headfirst into the most explosive topic of all: marriage, sex, and the reality of long-term relationships.The debate ign...

The Truth About Marriage: “Is This As Good As It Gets?”

11 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Is monogamy natural, or just a choice we make to keep the farm in the family? This week, Colm and Justin tear apart the concept of modern marriage.Ins...

Colm Grabbed A Manager! (Why We’re Capping Christmas Spending)

07 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week’s Aftershow descends into chaos as we tackle the stress of Christmas spending, the power of cash, and Colm’s infamous history of restaur...

Crypto, Cash, and Chaos: Is the World About to Snap?

04 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the 'Silly Season' on Not So Christian Brothers! Following the massive success of last week’s episode on a looming housing crash, Justin ...

Bedroom Antics & The Coming Recession: Why You Need Cash NOW

30 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Not So Christian Brothers Aftershow, the conversation goes from the bedroom to the bank in record time.We kick things off w...

The Economy Is About to Snap: Justin Explains What’s Really Coming in 2026

27 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is a wild mix — starting with new chairs and a ridiculous pitch for a male-led sex-advice show… but very quickly turning into one of ...

The Conversation We Weren’t Ready to Have… But Had Anyway

23 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This aftershow hits deeper than anyone expected.It opens with Justin’s wild story about a man who dug an entire underground temple system under a mo...

We Got Another Legal Threat… Are We About to Be Shut Down?

20 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The Christian Brothers have officially come for the podcast again — and this time, they’ve issued a full legal warning. In today’s epi...

The Movies That Broke Us: Childhood Dreams, Death, and the Films That Shaped Our Lives

16 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week’s Aftershow takes a turn down movie memory lane — and things get emotional, hilarious, and unexpectedly profound.Justin reveals how a pa...

Disney Lied to Us All | The Movies That Messed Up Our Minds

13 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The Brothers are back — and this week they’re tearing into the fairy tales, Disney dreams, and “life lessons” that turned out to be complete n...

The Myth of Balance: Why Peace Is Overrated

09 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone’s chasing balance — but what if the secret is learning to live in chaos?This week’s Aftershow gets philosophical (and messy) ...

Everybody’s Faking It (Even You)

06 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s be honest — we’re all full of sh*t.This week, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and R...

Brothers, Guilt & The Snowman: When Family Messes You Up

02 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This one hits hard.In this week’s Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca...

Crying for Clicks: Are We All Addicted to Misery?

30 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Are we healing — or just performing pain for attention?This week on Not So Christian Brothers, Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and R...

Beckhams, Billionaires & Bullshit: Power, Sex & Corruption

26 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Sunday’s supposed to be holy — but not here.In this week’s Aftershow, Colm, Justin, and Rebecca dive straight into scandal, corruption, and...

Woke, War & Wives: The World’s Gone Mad (Again)

23 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This one’s an absolute ride.Colm gets accused of having “lesbian energy,” Justin tries to justify angry men, Rebecca calls out everyone’s hypo...

Fueled by Anger or Freed by Forgiveness? The Aftershow Gets Personal

19 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

It’s Sunday, and the hangover from Thursday’s episode on forgiveness is still brewing.Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan are ...

Forgive, Forget, or F* Off? The Truth About Letting Go

16 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Can you really forgive and forget?This week on Not So Christian Brothers, Colm Hayes and Justin Caffrey go head-to-head on forgiveness ...

Happiness, Guilt & The Voices in Our Heads

12 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This Aftershow might just break your heart and make you laugh out loud. Rebecca dives headfirst into intrusive thoughts, Justin preaches that happines...

Intrusive Thoughts & the 3:28 a.m. Spiral

09 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We all wake up at 3 a.m. sometimes — heart racing, thoughts racing faster.In this week’s episode of Not So Christian Brothers, Justin and Col...

Aftershow: Therapy, Grief & the Brothers Who Talk About It”

05 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The Aftershow continues one of the most moving conversations we’ve ever had. Colm has returned to the studio after sharing the story of lo...

Grief, Anger & Sandwiches: Colm’s Raw Story

02 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode marks a special moment as Justin welcomes his brother Colm back to the studio after the loss of his wife, Anne. What begins as a heartfel...

Why Nobody Does Funerals Like the Irish | The Aftershow

27 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the Aftershow of Not So Christian Brothers, released every Saturday.This week, Rebecca, Justin, and Beatrice continue the conversation...

Life, Legacy & Laughter After Loss – What Really Matters Most

25 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week’s episode opens on a heartfelt note. Sadly, Colm’s wife Anne passed away last week after a long battle with cancer. Our thoughts and pra...

Are We Born This Way, Or Broken Into It? Labels, Trauma & Destiny Unpacked

18 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

❤️ Note to ListenersBefore we dive in, we want to pause. Colm’s beautiful wife Anne — married 35 years — has sadly passed away. We are all d...

Marriage, Mental Load & 20 Years Together — The Aftershow Takeover

13 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week’s Not So Christian Brothers Aftershow looks a little different… with Colm away and Terry missing in action, Rebecca and Beatri...

Do Men Ever Really Share the Load at Home? Justin & Beatrice Get Real

11 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

With Colm away on personal matters and Rebecca on holiday, Beatrice Caffrey steps into the hot seat opposite her husband, Justin. What begins with pla...

The Aftershow: Loose Hyphens, Tight Wallets & Life’s Unpredictable Punch

06 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

But just when you think it’s all laughs, Rebecca shares a harrowing personal story from her holiday (Caution When Listening), witnessing a man colla...

When Life Blindsides You: From Chris Evans to Hospital Emergencies

04 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when life throws you completely off script? In this week’s Not So Christian Brothers, Justin and Colm swap wild stories of unpredi...

The After Show: Why men can’t get excited

30 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this Aftershow, Rebecca joins Colm and Justin on the sofa — and immediately throws down a challenge. Why do men shy away from joy? Are we meant t...

Why Men Feel Invisible

28 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Not So Christian Brothers Podcast | Is AI Going to Destroy the World? (And Why Men Feel Invisible)In this episode of Not So Christian Brothers, Justin...

The After Show.

23 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Not So Christian Brothers Aftershow, Rebecca jumps in as we pull apart the episode, wander into the weeds, and laugh far too much alo...

Why News Anchors Have to Be Hot

21 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week on Not So Christian Brothers, the news gets hotter than the headlines.Colm, Rebecca, and Justin dive into the strange reality that in A...

The After Show.

16 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Producer Rebecca jumps in with Colm and Justin as they discuss the art of lying from a woman's perspective. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for...

Dont' Tell The Truth, It's Dangerous!

14 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The brothers lie about lying and share weird stories about strangers. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The After Show

09 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What did producer Rebecca think of the sex advice from Colm And Justin Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex Advice from Colm and Justin.

07 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

A listener has asked the lads their advice on a very personal and tricky subject. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The After Show.

02 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

New producer Rebecca rips a new one for Colm and Justin. This will become a weekly exercise and you can listen and witness their pain. Hosted on Acast...

The Brothers Get Cancelled: And they Provide Dating Advice

31 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The Story Behind Our NameWhen we launched, the show was called Brothers in Arms. It felt right: two brothers, raw conversations, no filters. But ...

Jimmy Carr makes an appearance.

24 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We use a Jimmy Carr quote about life to get us to question emotional attachments. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

One of the brothers sold porn!

17 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Get ready for porn, Epstein, side hustles and ball boys shorts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What is Water Cremation and will Joe Duffy turn up at Colm's funeral?

10 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Justin may have Ireland's largest Urn collection and Colm wants to fake his out death. The brothers are out of control in this episode. Hosted on Acas...

Too Much Visualisation! Justin heard our parents having SEX!

03 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

It's about visualization, gratitude and did you ever hear your parents having sex? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mindfulness..Is it full of Sh*T!!!

25 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Justin's inner critic is a soldier, Colm's is a drunk! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WARNING! The Brothers Are On Mushrooms.

19 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

It's been medically proven, one of the Brothers has a lot of mushrooms in his body. And are Fox Newsreaders hotter than RTE newsreaders? Hosted on Aca...

The Leaving Cert is a joke. Why Bother!

12 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is controversial.Would you advise Leaving Cert students to have a few pints the night before a big exam. That's the advice from one of the Brothe...

Art Is a Joke and the Punchline Is War

05 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this thought-provoking episode of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin take a deep dive into the complexities of our modern world, sparking discussion...

Money Can Buy Me Love and lots of it!

29 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In the highly anticipated Season 2 premiere of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin kick off with a lively discussion that touches on everything from mas...

One of the brothers sold porn!

17 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The brothers have a go at Epstein, selling porn and ball boys shorts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The brothers are Locked, Cocked and Emotionally blocked in this series finale.

10 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this riveting finale of Season 1 of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin dive into a candid discussion about masculinity, politics, and the current st...

Featuring what every man needs, a good Blow Dry. It's our compilation episode.

07 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this entertaining episode of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin reflect on their journey as they approach the end of Series 1. With humor and wit, t...

Masculinty, Vulnerability, Sexuality and much much more.

03 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this exciting compilation episode of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin celebrate the end of their first series with a reflection on the journey so ...

Are you ready for the lies that make you stronger!

30 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 14 - The Art of Rejection and Parenting PerspectivesIn this thought-provoking episode of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin tackle the complex ...

How I nearly became a Scientologist. Justin shocks the pod with stunning revealation

26 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 14 - Lent, Sugar, and Unconventional ChoicesIn this eye-opening episode of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin share their humorous yet heartfel...

Dye Hard! The fight against time, the bald truths.

23 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 13 - The Hair Chronicles and Male ConfidenceJoin Colm and Justin in this lively new episode of Brothers in Arms as they tackle the entertainin...

Justin's Tesla worship and Colm's gun fetish may get them into trouble.

19 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 12 - Cars, Guns, and the Great Divide. In this episode of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin dive headfirst into the chaotic world of modern s...

How to adopt a Nun!

16 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this fascinating episode of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin embark on a humorous and thought-provoking journey through topics ranging from arthri...

Shakedown and Takedown Tesla.

12 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 10 - Keeping Up with the CancelledIn this episode of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin explore modern masculinity through the lens of personal...

Fame, Fear And A Finger-Up-The-Bum.

09 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode 9- Manhood, Mental Health And Movie Magic.In this episode of Brothers in Arms, Colm and Justin tackle age, masculinity, and the absurdity of ...

How many real friends do you need?

05 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Friendship is very complicates, sometimes it's just not worth it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.