Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & More
Episodes
Karen McNenny Reveals How to Have a "Good Divorce"
29 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Divorce often starts with the law and ends with burnout. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Karen McNenny, founder of the Good Divorce Academy and ...
How To Find Hidden Cryptocurrency In Divorce
22 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If your spouse has cryptocurrency and you're heading into a divorce, you can leave a fortune on the table without even knowing it … and your la...
How to Protect Your Business in a Divorce
15 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When a business is on the line in a divorce, the financial stakes can be staggering - and most people don't realize how much they don't know...
The Spiritual Gift in Divorce: How to Find Your Soul Again
08 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the most painful experience of your life could actually become the doorway to discovering who you really are? Lisa Lisser, a certified divorce...
How to Deal with Divorce Stress in Just 15 Minutes
01 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the secret to getting through one of life's hardest chapters isn't therapy, legal advice, or even time - but simply putting on your ...
Divorce Credit Mistakes That Can Cost You For Years
25 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you're going through a divorce, there's a financial landmine hiding in plain sight that most people don't even think to check … an...
Three Years. 170 Experts. 5 Divorce Mistakes They Agree On.
18 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Divorce isn’t just painful. It’s full of hidden divorce mistakes that can quietly derail your future if you don’t see them coming. After interv...
When Marriage Counseling Fails: How to Save Your Marriage
11 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most couples don’t fall apart because they don’t love each other. They fall apart because they don’t understand the patterns quietly running the...
The Divorce Correspondent Who Didn't Exist - Until Now
04 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Divorce doesn't come with an instruction manual … but what if it could? When veteran celebrity journalist Ilyssa Panitz filed for divorce in 20...
The 5 Stages of Divorce Grief You Need to Understand
25 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Divorce can feel like an emotional freefall, especially because you don’t know what to expect or when the pain will stop. That’s precisely the pro...
How to Have Productive Money Conversations With Your Spouse
18 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Money fights don’t usually start with numbers. They start with invisible beliefs you don’t realize you’re carrying, and they show up in the mone...
How to Clear Old Trauma and Create Extraordinary Love
11 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the real block between you and the extraordinary love you want isn’t dating apps or “bad luck,” but the stories your nervous system is s...
How to Know if Your Divorce Attorney IS the Problem
04 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the biggest obstacle in your divorce isn't your spouse, but the system itself? Jonathan Merel, a progressive Chicago family law and divor...
Stuck in a Toxic Divorce? Here’s How to Turn it Around
28 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Divorce can feel like a never-ending war that slowly strips you of your money, your identity, and your sense of control. Ravit Rose learned this the h...
Should I Get a Divorce? How to Make a Decision You Feel Good About
21 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When you can’t decide whether to stay or go in your marriage, your biggest fear is that if you decide to leave, you’ll be making a mistake. But st...
Your Childhood Is Sabotaging Your Love Life
14 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the patterns keeping you stuck in unfulfilling relationships trace back to wounds you didn't even know needed healing? Relationship coach...
Your Spouse Is Hiding Assets. Now What?
07 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if the evidence you need to win your divorce is hidden and you don't even know where to look? Becky Sampson, founder of Only Subpoenas, lear...
The Best Of "Off the Fence" 2025
31 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When life throws you into chaos - whether it's a divorce, a fractured family relationship, or a crossroads moment - the advice you get next can e...
How to Create Holiday Joy in Spite of Divorce
24 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Holidays can feel like a punch in the stomach when you’re going through a divorce. But divorce expert Jackie Pilossoph, the creator and CEO of Div...
How Financial Clarity is the Foundation for Life Decisions
17 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the biggest financial mistake you'll ever make isn't choosing the wrong investment … it's avoiding having the investment conv...
Divorce Taking Forever? A Judge's Opinion Could End It Now
10 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Stuck in a slow, expensive divorce that seems to feed on confusion? Karen Arndt, CEO and co-founder of “What Would a Judge Say”, has created a gro...
Divorce Without Court: What You Need to Know
03 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes the hardest part of divorce is realizing you actually have choices. But that’s exactly where Rosemarie Ferrante begins. A seasoned family ...
The Truth About How to Assume A Mortgage After Divorce
26 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You've spent months negotiating who gets the house, only to discover that the mortgage you “thought” was assumable, isn’t. Now what? Stacey...
Divorce Without Drama: How to Protect Your Kids in Divorce
19 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When her eight-year-old girl defined her parents' divorce as "good," Sarah Armstrong, VP of Global Marketing Operations at Google, knew...
The Hidden Health Insurance Trap That Can Make Divorce Unaffordable
12 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You don’t lose money in divorce because you’re bad at math. You lose it because you make huge financial decisions while you’re emotionally overw...
Your Sexless Marriage Isn't Dead: How to Rekindle Intimacy
05 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The sex stopped, the silence started, and now you're strangers sharing a bed. In this podcast episode, marriage, sex, and intimacy coach Irene Fe...
Social Security Mistakes That Cost You Thousands
29 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if one decision could give you a 24% inflation‑adjusted raise to your retirement for life? Financial planner Eric Blake reveals the hidden comp...
How This Accountability Coach Helps You Make Better Decisions
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Some decisions feel impossible - until you shrink them to the next doable step. Accountability coach Jill Consor Beck shares how tiny, sustainable act...
Gasping for Air: How to Deal with Narcissistic Abuse (ARCHIVE EPISODE)
17 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
WARNING: This episode might be triggering for anyone who has experienced or is trying to heal from domestic violence, sexual abuse, financial abuse or...
How to Heal From an Emotionally Abusive Marriage
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when divorce strips away not just your marriage, but your very sense of who you are? Licensed clinical social worker Debra Alper reveals ...
Gaslighting In Divorce: How To Protect Your Child
10 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Breakthrough Divorce Coaching, Anne, a divorcing mom caught in a three-year court battle, opens up about what it’s really like to...
How to Transform Your Marriage in One Weekend
08 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if one weekend could deliver the clarity and progress of months of traditional marriage counseling? In this podcast episode, licensed clinical co...
When Grief Destroys Marriage: One Woman's Raw Truth
03 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Thirteen years of marriage, seven years of sacrifice, nine months of hell – and now she faces the hardest choice of her life. Toki Simmons, a busine...
How Families Can Navigate Kids' Mental Health Issues Better
01 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The hardest truth about addiction and mental health struggles is that families become casualties too. Yet no one talks about their recovery. Lisa Kato...
Trapped by Divorce Debt: One Mom's $5K Mortgage Nightmare
26 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When Caitlin made the difficult decision to separate from her husband, she discovered that untangling their shared mortgage would be far more complica...
How to Create an Airtight High Conflict Parenting Plan
24 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The moment you’re begging over a $72 reimbursement is the moment you realize the paperwork isn’t the problem—the power dynamic is. That’s exac...
The Money Threat That Ended My 33-Year Marriage
19 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Roxanne had listened to her husband's money threats for years, but when he mentioned creating trusts to cut her out, something inside her snapped...
Money After Divorce: What Every Woman Needs to Know
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When your financial world gets turned upside down, the last thing you want is to feel powerless. That’s why Lauren Connelly, a wealth advisor with o...
26 Years Together And I Don't Enjoy His Company
12 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine carrying the weight of someone else’s happiness for so long that you forget what it feels like to breathe. Robin has spent the last ten of h...
Divorce Recovery Tips That Help You Choose Better Love
10 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
"Your divorce doesn't define you." These powerful words from divorce recovery coach Leah Marie Mazur capture the essence of her transfo...
Navigating Post-Divorce Dating with Love Expert Laurie Gerber
03 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the secret to successful post-divorce dating isn't about perfecting your dating profile, but about understanding the three crucial criter...
Finding Love After 50: Strategies From a Matchmaking Pioneer
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the key to finding love after 50 isn't about getting lucky, but about getting strategic? Andrea McGinty, known as the “Godmother of Mod...
The Money Mistakes Most Women Make Without Realizing It
20 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the biggest threat to your financial future isn't market crashes or economic downturns, but simply not being part of the conversation? In...
What No One Tells You About Divorce and Your Money
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if everything you think you know about divorce and your money is keeping you trapped in financial anxiety? Phil Telpner, a financial advisor, for...
Real Self-Care that Works When Your Life is Falling Apart
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the biggest threat to your health isn't cancer or heart disease, but something hiding in plain sight that you do every single day? Chroni...
How to Get Divorce Support with the AARP of Divorce
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when your child support payments suddenly stop because your ex lost his/her job? Most divorced parents have no safety net to help them in...
Breaking Toxic Relationship Patterns in Love
23 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Episode Description - Breaking Toxic Relationship Patterns in LoveThe mysterious patterns that keep showing up in your relationships aren't coinc...
Reinvention After 40 Is Possible—and Powerful
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
“You deserve to be happy.” That one sentence changed everything. It changed her career, got her through her divorce, and started her personal rein...
Scared of Aging Alone? The Truth About Solo Aging
09 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Aging alone is one of the quiet fears that few people talk about, but that a lot of divorcing people harbor – especially those going through a grey ...
How To Spot Cyberstalking In Your Divorce
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if your ex could secretly listen to your private conversations, track your every move, and even manipulate evidence against you — all without b...
The Hidden Energy Blocks Keeping You Broke - Money Tips
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if your biggest financial breakthrough wasn't about budgets or balance sheets, but about the invisible energy patterns secretly sabotaging y...
Numbers Don't Lie, But People Do - Hidden Assets in Divorce
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine discovering your spouse has been earning $4 million a year while you thought you were living a middle-class lifestyle. This shocking revelatio...
When Your 30 Year Marriage Falls Apart: Monica's Story
13 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When the life you've built for decades starts to fall apart, where do you even begin to pick up the pieces? In this podcast episode, Monica, a su...
Want to Keep the House in a Divorce? Here's How.
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Trying to keep the house in a divorce? You might be missing the one expert who can actually make that happen. In this episode, Jeffrey Landers—real...
I Was Married to a Covert Narcissist for 29 Years. Now I'm Free
06 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when the man who appears perfect to everyone else treats you like garbage behind closed doors? That’s what happens when you’re marrie...
Life After Divorce: From Breakdown to Breakthrough
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Most people think the hardest part of divorce is splitting the assets or facing the courtroom. But the real challenge—the one no one tells you about...
How My Husband's Affair Transformed Our Marriage [for Good!]
30 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the most painful moment in your marriage became the catalyst for its rebirth? In 2018 Jenny Townsend was the founder of an award-winning musi...
Jill Kaufman: How To Co-Parent Without The Drama
28 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Most parents want to protect their kids during divorce - but what do you do when your co-parent won’t meet you halfway? In this episode, therapist a...
Coffee, Courage & Codependency: How to Choose Yourself
23 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
"You don’t get a badge of courage for doing what everyone else thinks you should be doing."When the life you built starts to unravel, how ...
Bragging Rights - How to Own Your Greatness After Divorce
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens to our self-confidence when a marriage ends? For many, especially women, divorce not only shatters their relationship but also erodes the...
Emotional Intimacy: You Want Connection. He Wants Peace. Now What?
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Most people want a strong partnership—but what does it actually take to build one that’s equal, respectful, and emotionally connected? In this con...
You're Not Listening to Me! The Truth About Miscommunication
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When you're trying to have a serious conversation but it keeps going sideways, it’s not always what’s being said that’s the problem. More o...
Spouse Pushing Your Buttons? Transform Negative Emotions Now
05 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered why even small disagreements can explode into intense emotional battles? In this podcast episode, Dr. Greg Stewart, a counselor...
Has Your Marriage Lost its Spark? Here's How to Become A Power Couple
23 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if you could create an amazing marriage with the precision and effectiveness of an engineer? That's exactly what Gabriela Embon, a certified...
Trapped in Victim Mode? How to Flip Your Drama Triangle
17 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Life often throws curveballs that leave us feeling overwhelmed or trapped - especially during challenging times like divorce. But it doesn't have...
Struggling to Change Your Life? Here’s How to "Fix Yourself"
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel like no matter how hard you try, life just keeps throwing more and more challenges at you? Psychologist Faust Ruggiero has spent over 35 yea...
Drowning in Disappointment: Breathing New Life into Your Marriage
02 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When your marriage isn’t going well, it’s easy to believe divorce is your only option. But what if the answer isn’t leaving, but breathing new l...
Breaking the Silence: The Truth About Divorce and Menopause
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Divorce and menopause. Are they just two random events in a woman’s life? Or is there a connection between them?In this podcast episode certified he...
Narcissistic Alienation Of Adult Children: When Love Turns To Loss
19 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine discovering that your once-loving adult child has suddenly become a stranger, cutting you off from their life and your grandchildren over seem...
First Responder Divorce: The Hidden Crisis That Costs Us All
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Here's a secret that most employers and government agencies don’t know. An employee’s divorce costs the company or government agency that the...
Why Saving More Isn’t Enough: The Truth About Retirement Planning
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you could potentially save over a million dollars in taxes when you retire by making a few changes in your retirement planning strategy now, would ...
Leaving While There’s Still Love? How to Have a Good Divorce
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Conventional wisdom says that you shouldn’t leave your marriage until it has completely broken down. But what if that’s not true? What if leaving ...
Stop Attracting Unavailable Partners: The Secret To Lasting Love
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt deeply misunderstood in relationships, yearning for emotional connection and lasting love but unsure how to create either one? That...
Mid-Life Dating Secrets: The One Thing That Changes Everything
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if you could turn the chaos of post-divorce dating in mid-life into a journey of self-discovery and empowerment? Jonathon Aslay, one of America’...
Beyond the Bedroom: How to Create Relationship Intimacy
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Relationship intimacy is complicated.In this podcast episode, Dr. Jenn Kennedy, a clinical sexologist and licensed marriage and family therapist, unpa...
How to Break Free from Toxic Relationships with Leah Guy
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Everyone knows the emotional pain of feeling stuck. But what if the key to getting unstuck lies in understanding your own energy patterns? In this pod...
How to Create Peace Through Co-Parenting Counseling
22 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When your marriage crumbles, figuring out how to effectively parent with your ex can feel like navigating a minefield. Co-parenting counseling, an app...
Mitchell Gordon: How to Navigate a Divorce and Addiction
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When your spouse's addiction threatens to destroy not just your marriage but your whole family's future, you need expert guidance to protect...
How Financial Advocacy Can Get You a Better Divorce Settlement
08 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Navigating the financial maze of divorce can feel overwhelming - until you discover the transformative power of strategic financial advocacy.Certified...
The Best of "Off The Fence" 2024
01 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the most difficult conversations in life could not only give you answers but they could shine a light on a clear path forward? This special e...
Jackie Pilossoph: How to Find Holiday Joy During a Divorce
25 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Navigating the holidays when you’re going through a divorce – or have recently gone through a divorce – can really suck. Money will likely be ti...
When Your Childhood Whispers: How Childhood Wounds Run Your Life
18 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder why you and your spouse seem to have the same fight over and over again? Or why the way your spouse treats you reminds you of how your mot...
The Intimacy Breakthrough: Matt Cook's Secrets for Rekindling Passion
11 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Has your marriage become dull and boring? What if you could rekindle the passion you used to have for your spouse while simultaneously deepening your ...
How to Break Free from Insecure Attachment Styles (Part 2)
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Unresolved emotions and insecure attachment styles can silently shape our relationships and lives—but what if you could break free? In this second p...
Why Do We Love the Way We Do? Attachment Styles (Part 1)
27 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder why you chose the spouse that you did? Or why you and your spouse seem to be locked in the same dance – pushing each other’s buttons a...
Dana Cox's Bold Leap: Life After a 33-Year Marriage
20 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What drives someone to redefine their life after decades of marriage? How can you live through some of life’s biggest challenges – like the loss o...
Phyllis Leavitt: How to Handle Conflict Without Creating More Pain
13 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How amazing would your marriage, your family, and your community be if you had the tools to transform conflict into connection? In this podcast episo...
Raiford Palmer: The Biggest Divorce Mistakes Successful People Make
06 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
When divorce attorney and bestselling author Raiford Palmer sits down for a conversation, he doesn’t hold back. In this candid and thought-provokin...
A Police Officer's Simple Safety Tips That Could Save Your Life
30 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What would you do if your personal safety was at risk? Do you even know what you would do?This podcast episode takes a deep dive into practical safety...
When is the Right Time to Divorce?
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Is there ever a right time to divorce? Is there such a thing as waiting too long to get a divorce? How do you know if NOW is the right time to go?In t...
Maci Chance: How to Turn Heartbreak Into a New Life
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How do you decide whether to keep the house in your divorce?With your home typically being one of the biggest assets you have, it’s not a simple que...
When Love Isn't Enough: Options for Navigating a Sexless Marriage
09 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Love and intimacy can be complicated, especially when sexual challenges arise in a marriage. In this podcast episode Janelle Orion, an Ivy League-educ...
8 Ways to Create A Better Future With Divorce Financial Planning
02 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What if there was a simple way that you could save time and money in your divorce while also securing your post-divorce financial future too? By creat...
How to Decide Whether to Divorce Using Discernment Therapy
25 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you’re leaning towards getting a divorce and your spouse wants to work on your marriage? That’s the question we dive into toda...
Parenting Marriages Unpacked with Susan Gadoua
18 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when a marriage is no longer working, but the couple wants to stay together for the kids? Is there a way that they can continue to co-par...
How to Divorce-Proof Your Business with John Rodriguez
11 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine discovering that your life's work could vanish overnight. John Rodriguez, co-founder of Hill Country Business Strategies, reveals just ho...
Karis Nafte: The Truth About Pet Custody in Divorce
04 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s podcast conversation, Karis Nafte, a certified dog behavior consultant and family mediator, delves into the sensitive issue of pet custod...
A Child's Perspective: Misty Hardison On Divorce's Hidden Impact
28 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wondered how to truly support your children through the emotional whirlwind of divorce? Family law attorney and children’s book author, Misty H...
Cary Jacobson: How to Save Money with a Flat Fee Divorce
21 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What if getting divorced didn't have to be a painful, expensive, and drawn-out battle? According to Cary Jacobson, founder and CEO of Jacobson Fa...
Breaking Free from Fear: The Path to Self-Worth with Junie Moon
14 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder how societal norms and deep-seated beliefs shape your relationships and self-worth? In this episode, Junie Moon, CEO of Midlife Love Out ...