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Chapter 1: How do you find your ride or die friends?
If you put no effort into your friendships, you're also going to attract friends that put no effort into you.
You need to put yourself out there. If you want more friendships, they're not going to come knocking on your door saying, hey, be my best friend. It's our first time we hung out.
Open books, dude. Yeah. We weren't gatekeeping anything. We had a common goal. We had a common interest. And it wasn't like the, oh, I'm not going to tell her that in case she does that.
The podcast is obviously important to me, but like nothing surpasses our friendship, money, business, anything like that. All is secondary.
Welcome back to the Oilers Talk podcast.
I'm Kate. And I'm Gemma, a space for no BS conversations for the women who want more. And we are coming in hot with a final installment of the friendship series. And we're so excited to kind of wrap it up and bring together with today's topic of building your ride or die circle of friends. We can't wait to get into this.
We're going to use a lot of examples of things that we have seen work really well in the friendships in our life because we think that those practical examples really help.
Amen. And honestly, finding your ride or die circle as an adult, I'm going to preface it, it is hard work. And honestly, all of the previous episodes we've recorded in this series, if you haven't listened to them yet, you need to pause this episode and you need to go back to them because we spoke about outgrowing friendships. We spoke about how to become a
So hopefully you guys can start prioritizing deeper connections with your current friends or finding new people in your life to really form that ride or die circle. Now, when I think of a ride or die circle, I think about friends that I know I could call at any hour of any day and they would drop everything and be there for me as would I for them.
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Chapter 2: What steps do you need to take to build deeper friendships?
It can be a gym shared common interest. It could be the podcast common interest, whatever it is. Something where you're going to physically get out of your house, out of your current friendship, out of your current family circle and find new people because that is what's going to help you build those really deep, meaningful ride or die friends.
I love that. And getting vulnerable, you know, like in line with putting yourself out there is like you need to have a sense of vulnerability. Like when you meet someone for the first time, just say you decide to DM someone on Instagram and When you meet them for the first time, don't be awkward and have your guard up or not be open to having deeper conversations with that person.
Like, you know, with Gem, honestly, I think one of the reasons why we ended up where we are today is because our first time we hung out, open books, dude. Yeah. Like we weren't gatekeeping anything. We were like, let's hang out. Let's train. Let's film content. Let's grow on socials together. Like we had a common goal. We had a common interest.
And it wasn't like the, oh, I'm not going to tell her that in case she does that. And then I don't get to do that. It was like, yeah, this is what I do. This is the microphone I use. This is the camera I use. Do you want the same thing? Yeah, cool. Let's do it. And I think that level of vulnerability is also very, very important, especially when you're trying to find that ride or die circle.
Now, I want to get into a couple of listener questions because we have quite a lot for this one, and I think they're good ones. Yeah, I agree. Somebody asked, how do you guys, a.k.a. us, our love story? I love our love story. I love talking about it. I could talk about it forever, guys. If you want more about our love story, let me know. She's obsessed. I am. I love our friendship.
I think we have. I think we have the best friendship.
Without sounding like an absolute simp, I think we have the best friendship. Kate Simp Morris. I'm simping out. Big simp energy. I actually think we have a really good friendship. We piss each other off. Absolutely. You don't really piss me off.
Really? Not really.
Yeah.
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Chapter 3: How can self-reflection improve your friendships?
But like, you know.
Yeah.
She does. Yeah, I do. But like you, like as much as we piss each other off, like we have honestly one of the best friendships I've ever had in my life. We respect each other. We have good communication. We have common goals. We just get each other. Like I don't have anyone else in my life that just gets me. Like you can tell my mood. You can tell my energy. You're on. You're like,
You know what I mean?
Yeah. I love you. I love you so much.
This whole episode, we just fucked the friendship episode off and we just... I just love you. It's just us saying I love you for 15 minutes in here. The listeners are like, oh, I'm a burden.
Gotta wrap it up. No, I love it. So how do we balance being friends and having a business? What's your thoughts other than loving me?
Other than being absolutely utterly head over heels. Nah. We just have roles. So like we are very, very good at having particular days where we work on particular things and then particular days where we just have bestie time. Yeah. And I think that's really important. So we've always, you guys know, we've had the podcast oath. We have a friendship oath. We have a business oath.
We make sure that when we are working on the podcast, we have dedicated hours and times to do that. And we literally physically take hats off. We're like podcast hat is on, podcast hat is off and it's bestie time. We also are really good at organizing times where we're just hanging out. Like, let's go for dinner. Let's go watch a movie.
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