Chapter 1: What personal story does the caller share about his son?
Hello, Jack and Wendy. Thank you for this opportunity. My name is Matt. I live in the Dallas Fort Worth area. I have kind of a long story that could probably revive the Jerry Springer show, but I will keep it as brief as possible. I'm going to read through some bullet points here that I wrote down. It started with a prophetic dream about having a new baby boy.
The mother of that boy that did come to be, she leads a secret life. I learned just before his third birthday that Biologically, he's not my son. I knew it. She has addictions to hard drugs, and she's very promiscuous. I didn't realize this the first few years we were together. Everything seemed fine. Everything was good. I bought a house for us to live in. We had a nice little family.
Then when I noticed, I found some drugs hidden somewhere and looked through her phone and found out all sorts of information I didn't want to know. realize, hey, you know, our son was born a month earlier than he should have been, so that got me questioning his parentage, and I had a DNA test done, and he is not my son, unfortunately.
I never wanted to abandon, it was never a question for me whether or not I was going to abandon him and her and just... and let them go on their merry way. Despite all of my friends and family advice, they all said, hey, you know, just get yourself off the birth certificate, man. Just go on your merry way. And I could have, but that's not... I couldn't.
You know, I'm the only person he knows as his father, and I'm not going to permanently disrupt his life just because of a temporary... disruption in mind. So anyway, he's my son. I'm going to raise him. I learned later on that she was a felon. She's got these drug addictions. Her friends are mostly felons. She's just not somebody I would have gotten with had I known all these things prior to, but
She's in my home and I don't trust her. She disrespects me all the time. And just the things she does, whether or not we're together, she could still be a good mom, but she's choosing not to be. She's doing the bare minimums and not completely neglecting him, but she could be better. I would hope for better, but she is who she is.
I just need to know, like, I feel like keeping it around is the best thing for him because, you know, if she goes, she's going to live in some probably not a great place, do things that are not safe for him. Then he's going to be around some of it because his time is going to be split. Probably get full custody, but then I'd be taking his mother out of his life.
And I don't want to do that either. I feel like, you know, I was tasked to be his father because of this dream that I had. Yeah. And I think, you know, this is something that I'm expected to do. I'm expected to be his father and I'm not going to give up on that. But his mother sure does make it hard. It's really horrible. To have, you know, I'm just so anxious. I'm depressed.
I'm
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Chapter 2: How does the caller's discovery about his son's parentage affect him?
So difficult. I think I just kept getting this image of him with this little boy and like loving him and, and just the attachment because having a child to me is, it's the most love you can possibly feel. It is the, it is truly the best gift in the world to have. a child to me. That is the best gift, the most love you can ever experience in this realm.
I think, of course, because he had this dream, it's obvious he received a message before that this was something important. This is something he was supposed to be open to and almost like source or energy or his angels are reminding him about about this. Like this little boy was meant to be in his life, regardless who the father is.
And then this woman, I mean, he's extending himself in ways that sound, I mean, part of it, you would be, I'm sure a therapist would be like, get away from her. Although, you know, I'm not a therapist, obviously, but you would have to be like, you have to have boundaries with this kind of person. And, and he has just, it sounds like he's been through so much, trying to help her.
And I understand the quandary he's in because if he leaves her, she could take the baby and put the baby in danger. I mean, the situation he's in, those are called trick bags, right? Because either way, whatever you do, there's not a win to that situation. What were you going to say, Bug?
I could feel... No, it's just messed up because, yeah, if he... prioritizes you know keeping the child away from drugs it sounds like that would mean removing him from having a dynamic to the mom who is immersed in that i mean ultimately it's horrible yeah ultimately you would want to get the the mom help yeah like is she open to help is she willing
Is she willing to receive help? What, what is in pain? What is lost in her? What is her suffering connected to? You know, you have to track it. There's like almost everything I've seen with sessions. And so when I'm in trance, I'm like putting pieces together. You know, I just did some intense, intense sessions.
These people flew from the East coast to have sessions, putting the pieces together of, of, When a family member, like a parent, is an alcoholic and the trauma it creates on children, how their nervous system is affected at such a young age.
Addiction is like just, it is immersive for everyone. Yes. It impacts everyone. The whole ecosystem around the person. No, it does.
And I can't believe how many... It's just like the grandfather will have it. The great-grand... Yeah. It will just be passed down. That's why people do... Yeah, like proliferates.
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Chapter 3: What challenges does the caller face with the child's mother?
you heal it. This woman who sounds like she's put him through hell and back.
But it sounds like this person doesn't want help is the thing. Like, based on his description of her character. Yeah, maybe. Which is the thing I think that is tricky about it is that it sounds like she doesn't want any alternative for her lifestyle.
Probably. You know. And then maybe he can, I don't know if he wants to just raise this baby on his own, but clearly this little baby boy was meant for him to be Hit the father up. I know I got goosebumps like three times during him talking. Did you feel that, Jack?
Yeah, this is heartbreaking. I mean, it's so heartbreaking. I feel like step one is he should talk to a lawyer just about like where he stands with his own rights. And like the legality, he's like on the birth certificate. Like what happens if the biological father shows up? Like where does that leave him legally? Like could that guy come and take the kid away from him?
I think it's awesome that he wants to raise this kid. It sounds like he might need to even protect the kid from his own mom.
I think all of that's good. I have a feeling this man is going to fall in love with someone else and raise this baby with a beautiful wife.
Yeah.
And I have a feeling that this woman doesn't want to be involved in the future because she is self-destructive and she doesn't care. She doesn't truly care about what's happening with the baby in essence or herself. She doesn't have any self-love. I think that it'll eventually ease into something else. But I think that's really important what you said, Jack, because there are
You know, where is the father? Where's the dad? Where is he involved in this?
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Chapter 4: How does the caller justify staying in the child's life despite difficulties?
And I think that whatever was supposed to happen with this man and this baby. I mean, the dream is an important part of it. I think that... I just think that he can create something better in his relationship with a partner, obviously, of course, and hopefully work through this where he has custody of this little boy. I don't know the legalities of it. Phil has been talking about it so...
It's intense. Yeah, but we can... That we should try to be more loving to one another because this is a great example of not knowing what someone else is going through. And this was intense to listen to him. I kept getting waves and waves of energy listening and goosebumps. I call them God bumps. Listening to him talk about it.
I'll say... I know he's struggling, but I also feel like he kind of knows the answer to what he's asking, right? Yeah. I can kind of tell he knows what he wants to do.
Yeah.
It's a pickle. It's tough, but it sounds like he wants to take care of this kid and do what it takes.
Yeah.
That's the good thing.
What was his name, Jack? Did he say his name? Yeah, Matt. His name is Matt. We love you, Matt. We're going to send healing light to you. So that's what we can do is we can send, we can all collectively, all the listeners pray because prayer, you set your intention and I'm telling you, you can penetrate the field where we all exist together in this oneness.
And we can send, we can all send healing light to Matt and pray for him and pray for this beautiful baby boy and send them love. And we can do this. This is something we can do seriously.
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