Own Your Pleasure
Episodes
The Desire Architect: Building Passion in Long-Term Relationships Part II
15 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', sex and relationship coach Craig Cassey and host Whitni Miller discuss building satisfaction in relationships ...
The Desire Architect: Building Passion in Long-Term Relationships Part I
01 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', sex and relationship coach Craig Cassey and host Whitni Miller discuss the complexities of desire, intimacy, a...
Building Community Part II
15 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', host Whitni Miller connects with Christabel Mintah-Galloway. Christabel is a writer, nurse and a relational sk...
Building Community Part I
01 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', host Whitni Miller connects with Christabel Mintah-Galloway. Christabel is a writer, nurse and a relational sk...
Sapphic Love Empowered by BDE Moves Part II
15 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', host Whitni Miller engages with Vicki and Nicole, a couple who recently married after completing Wh...
Sapphic Love Empowered by BDE Moves Part I
01 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this heartfelt episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni Miller and her guests Vicky and Nicole explore the journey of intimacy and connect...
Navigating Hormonal Changes & Health Part II
15 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni Miller and her guest, Dr. Michelle Gordon, discuss the complexities of hormonal changes in w...
Navigating Pleasure & Politics Part II
15 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni Miller and Dr. Lex Brown James continue their conversation and explore the intricate dynamics of relati...
Navigating Pleasure & Politics Part I
01 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni Miller and Dr. Lex Brown James discuss the importance of self-care, navigating the current political cl...
Navigating Hormonal Changes & Health Part I
01 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni Miller and her guest, Dr. Michelle Gordon, discuss the complexities of menopause, hormonal c...
Ten "Relationship Don'ts" when Libidos Differ Part II
15 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Whitni discusses the complexities of libido differences in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding intimacy, commun...
Ten "Relationship Don'ts" when Libidos Differ Part I
01 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Whitni discusses the complexities of libido differences in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding intimacy, commun...
Exploring Lesbian Identity & Sexuality Part II
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Whitni continues her conversation with Erin Brown. They continue to explore various themes surrounding kink, pleasure, and sexual iden...
Exploring Lesbian Identity & Sexuality Part I
01 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This month Whitni talks with Erin Brown, a public sociologist and host of the Lesbian Peep Show podcast. They explore the complexities of lesbian iden...
Perimenopause & Affirming Care Part II
15 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this month’s second episode, the conversation continues between Whitni Miller and Aleece Fosnight as they delve into the complexities ...
Perimenopause & Affirming Care Part I
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this month’s first episode, Whitni Miller, founder of BDE Moves, sits down with the founder of The Fosnight Center, Aleece Fosnight. T...
How Kink Benefits ALL Relationships Part II
15 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this month’s second episode, the conversation continues between licensed sex therapist Claire Perelman and Whitni Miller. They explore...
How Kink Benefits ALL Relationships Part I
01 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this month’s first episode, licensed sex therapist Claire Perelman and Whitni Miller discuss the principles of kink and how they can e...
Breaking the Silence on Menopause Part II
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this continuation of the enlightening conversation Dr. Kelly Casperson and host Whitni Miller are having, the discussion addresses the significant ...
Breaking the Silence on Menopause Part I
01 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Kelly Casperson and host Whitni Miller delve into the often misunderstood topics of perimenopause and menopause...
Flow State Sex... How do we find it?! Part II
15 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this episode of Own Your Pleasure, Dr. Emily Jamea and Whitni explore the complexities of sexual relationships, emphasizing the importan...
Flow State Sex... How do we find it?! Part I
01 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Show Notes:In this episode of Own Your Pleasure, your host Whitni Miller and this month’s esteemed guest, Dr. Emily Jamea discuss the concept of flo...
Unlocking Curiosity in Secure Relationships Part II
15 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this continued conversation, Whitni, Ash, and Dawn explore the intricate dynamics of pleasure, intimacy, and emotional safety within queer relation...
Unlocking Curiosity in Secure Relationships Part I
01 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni engages with queer couples experts Ash and Dawn Noble to explore the intricate relationship between emo...
Finding Kindness in Love: Enita's Story Part IV
15 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this engaging conversation, Whitni Miller and her guest Enita explore the multifaceted nature of pleasure, intimacy, and self-advocacy in healthcar...
Finding Kindness in Love: Enita's Story Part III
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni Miller and Enita discuss the complexities of pleasure and intimacy as one ages. They explore the physic...
Finding Kindness in Love: Enita's Story Part II
15 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni Miller and Enita Torres explore the multifaceted aspects of menopause, sexual wellness, and the importa...
Finding Kindness in Love: Enita's Story Part I
01 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni Miller engages in a heartfelt conversation with Enita Torres, a 66-year-old queer woman who shares her ...
Q & A Part II
30 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
00:00 Introduction to Owning Your Pleasure 01:59 Navigating Kinks and Open-Mindedness in Relationships 04:28 Understanding Anxiety and Performance in ...
Q & A Part I
19 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', host Whitney Miller addresses various questions related to intimacy, sexual desires, and relationship dynamics...
Cultivating Freedom & Accessing Pleasure
19 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', host Whitni Miller engages in a deep conversation with Dr. Uchenna Ossai about the multifaceted nature of plea...
Non-Binary & Trans Experience Navigating Pleasure
19 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Whitni Miller and Tuesday Feral discuss the challenges and strategies for non-binary and trans individuals in navigating pleasur...
Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy, & Decolonizing Love
19 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
00:00:00 Welcome & Introduction to Adelina Adler 00:04:16 Introduction to Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) 00:05:12 Hard Truths before starting in an EN...
Conflict as a Pathway to Connection
19 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', host Whitni Miller engages with Ash and Dawn Noble, founders of Queer Couples Academy, to explore the intricac...
Lesbians F*ck!
19 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
00:00:00 Introduction: Celebrating Queer Pleasure00:01:28 Breaking Stereotypes: Queer Women and Pleasure00:05:36 Challenging Internalized Misogyny in ...
The Path From Pelvic Floor Therapy to Writing Erotica
19 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
00:00:00:00 Welcome & Introductions 00:01:23:01 Heather's Journey into Pelvic Floor Therapy & Sex Counseling00:05:19:15 The Intersec...
The Transformative Power of Kink & BDSM in Personal Growth
19 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
00:00:00 Welcome & Introductions 02:06:21 What is Kink? 03:49:17 Conscious Kink 06:39:04 Communication 07:59:11 Exploring Powe...
Queering Sex, Surrogate Partnering, & much more!
19 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Whitni Miller interviews Cooper Stone, a queer non-binary somatic sex educator and certified sexological body worker. Cooper spe...
Deep Dive into Desire Discrepancies
19 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Whitni interviews Dr. Vencill & Dr Lauren Fogel Mersy diving deeply into desire discrepancies & pulling on pieces from their ...
Lesbian Bed Death & SO Much More
19 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Lynda Spann is the founder of the Lesbian Couples Institute (LCI). Lynda and her wife, Lisa Yaeger, live in the Denver, Colorado area. LCI, which ...
The Winding Road to Self
19 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Whitni interviews Brittany Shultz about her experience discovering her sexuality & the winding road that lead to her stepping into...
Talking Sex & Relationships w/Dr. Nikki
19 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our very first Episode of Own Your Pleasure Podcast with BDE Moves, aka Whitni Miller. In this episode we talk to Dr. Nikki about sex &...