Parenting After Dark

Address the mess, and change your story!

26 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do when your in a pissy mood, and need to get out? You change your story. Here’s the thing, you can tell all kinds of stories and still ...

It’s all about your perspective, not everyone’s the same!

25 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

*Perspective -a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view. - In this epi...

Start enjoying your 2020, CoVid and all!

09 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you had enough of this CoVid, what’s your story going to be? Are you fed up and ready to blow your top, or can you see a silver lining? What ar...

Pop that emotional pimple!

02 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Don’t your hate it when your in a mood, and your partner has all the answers! You just want to be heard. Bad things are going to happen, and you can...

Are you parenting like your parents, are you to soft?

22 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How are you being judged as a parent, are you soft or are you more strict? And by who’s standards? Kelly and Mark discuss whether or not they parent...

DIY Personal Grooming, be careful!!!

12 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Their is only so much we can do, don’t worry about it. Own your genuine self, your not a barber or aesthetician. Have fun with your new look, try so...

Mothers Day gift... Kids, or no kids?

11 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dad’s do you have a clue about Mothers Day gifts? Is it better to be funny or serious when picking out the right gift. Also were do you draw the lin...

So you get hit by a bus, what’s next?

07 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly what’s to know what Mark would do if she gets hit by a bus? As a good parent, what’s the proper age to date after 40. Can you find the joy’...

Sunday Sermon: How to be powerful!

05 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly and Mark podcast After their on-line church session with MTC Live. If you believe or not, this episode will make you more powerful each day. Don...

Should a Happy Parent take presidency over a grumpy teacher?

03 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly and Mark talk about a type of subsidy or tax relief for taking on teaching and other rolls. Is it time to through in the towel and stop the madn...

What does a Covid Caesar diet look like???

02 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you ready for the new CoVid Caesar Diet. Mark has come up with a new diet that might get traction. How is your school supporting you during this t...

How are your kids handling this CoVid? Here’s what ours have to say!

28 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In this special edition or PAD, Kelly and Mark decide to bring the kids on board to see what they have to say. How are they handling staying home with...

What’s your new 9-5, are you trying to figure out what the hell to do?

28 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Stay productive during this CoVid time, don’t let boredom or laziness take control. Chat with your kids about how to get what they want, give them a...

Can you admit your acting like a Richard!

23 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Mark’s negative attitude changes the entire family dynamics, while Kelly tries to change it positive. Then Marks character comes into questions when...

Perfect Husband or Dad, what’s your pick?

23 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How’s the personal hygiene going? Ladies do you need to get your nails and hair done? Are you High maintenance? Mark feels brave tackling the topic ...

Boredom Creates Creativity

21 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Hour’s have increased, are you still being productive Parent? Mark cleans out the garage and tosses some of Kellys things, now doesn’t want ...

You kids had a routine, do you still have that pre school routine!

16 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Don’t loose your morning routine, its the most important part of your day. How to rock you mornings with a powerful routine! Webinars and Podcast ar...

Do you have your Teachers Degree yet?

16 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Easter everyone! Our Dog ate the Easter bunny and wow, what a mess. Are you managing your teaching skill, are you teaching the right grade? Find...

30 Things your kids need to know by age 12.

12 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How do you score yourself as a parent of a 12 year old. Listen to these 30 questions and see if you score more then 50% which Mark classifies as a pas...

Boost your testosterone level, and build your estrogen level, to cope with staying at home.

12 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Families staying home can take its toll on everyone. Understanding what helps you build a positive attitude and understanding your spouse. Recapping a...

A prefect morning falls apart, can you blame the kids?

08 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Parents, have you went to bed, prepared, and ready to rock the next day. Only to have the wheels fall off. Staying positive can be difficult. Have a l...

Sarcasm, what’s the big deal!

03 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you ready to blow your top? Mark pops on this episode after giving the kids control over their day. Things start to fall apart and it affects the ...

Do you have a purpose, that could be what your missing!

02 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Go out and make someone else’s day special in this time of need. Kelly, Mark and family pile into the family cruiser and join a group of folks drivi...

Coping with Social Distancing, try these stay at home games.

30 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Being cooped up at home during this time can be very difficult. Isolation and social distancing doesn’t have to shut down your world. Brush up on yo...

It’s ok if your not perfect, just keep it on the horizon.

30 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The pressure and guilt of being a parent! Now can be a trying time to stay positive, weather your a family of 2 or 8. The most important thing to reme...

My husband wants a cleaning fairy, do they exist?

23 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Mark has an important question for Kelly “How would you suggest men tell their spouse they need to pick up on the cleaning?”. Guy...

Helping with the stress of CoVid-19

22 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I hope this podcast finds you and your families safe and well. Trying to stay positive and have fun can be difficult in times like this. As a global s...

Are you going to be a teacher or a principal?

17 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Now that kids have been sent home for the rest of the school year, what does that mean for us as parents? Excessive drinking!? It’s time to brush up...

I have a step mom?

14 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The CoVID19 is getting out of control, Kelly and Mark discuss their concerns. Along with that, Mark feels the kids are pulling the wool over their eye...

Show me yours and I’ll see if I can find it!

14 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This episode has gone off the rails from the get go! From CoVID 19 and no toilet paper, to Kelly going over female anatomy... in detail! Mark goes ove...

Ok... You go back to work and I will stay home with the baby!

06 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is all about the dollars, and how to save them. This after Kelly and Mark go out for dinner with the kids and drop $40 on milkshakes. How...

Do you know what a pushing gift is?

02 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Mark starts the podcast with a sensitive guilt trip about the kids eating chips in their bed. Leaving the chips on the dresser and telling them not to...

That’s it... I’m hiring a cleaner!

27 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Kelly and Mark couldn’t wait until after dark. This episode is live and in the moment. A dispute between how much Kelly cleans the ...

Dating again, what’s really important?

25 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Kelly and Mark are talking about how to find Mr/Mrs right and what that looks like. Kelly talks about her next husband and how much m...

The Joy of New Friendship, No one knows your story!

18 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever noticed how guys will through each other under the bus every chance they get, and Girls no one even knows their story. Well Kelly and Ma...

Hey Google, sync our family!

12 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Mark the electronics geek is looking to sync the family with google, and get organized. However Kelly is slow to get on board, knowinghow frustrating ...

Weekends here, kids are sleep over. Do you have a family plan?

30 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The weekends coming and your kids are having friends over, do you have a plan? Better yet, are you kids part of that plan? Make sure you communicate w...

Our Friends are important, how you pick them should be just as important.

24 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you remember everyone that was invited to your wedding? Kelly and Mark struggle to remember some of the names on their wedding list after Mark find...

Do you lie to your kids, why not?

21 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly and Mark decided to lie to their son, about how painful his knee surgery would be. Both him and momma are strong and ready for this surgery. 2 m...

Praise - everyone loves it but are you doing it right?

15 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode - Mark has a bit of a freak out. Kelly and the kids chuckle, as he’s on his hands and knees cleaning up after their new puppy. This ...

Anxiety and how can you control it?

07 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Many of us struggle with anxiety, and get confused on the difference between anxiety and fear. After church Kelly talks about the pastor’s message a...

Goal Setting with your Kids, Is it possible, and at what age works best?

07 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to 2020 and thank you to all our listeners. In this painful episode Mark and Kelly bring their kids on the Podcast to discuss Goal setting and...

Remember what your parents were like as a kid, is that you? Lead by example.

31 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Is their a leader in your household, is that leader you? Remember what is was like to be a kid, the things your parents said and/or did. Were they goo...

Is it possible to have a stress free Christmas?

31 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Christmas can be a stressful time of year. Getting the right gifts, late nights, a dwindling bank account. The stress can be brutal if you don’t pla...

Thats mine, get your own!

31 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been looking for something, that’s always in the same spot? You can trust it will be there when you need it! Knowing that after multip...

How to introduce a dog to the family, and stand out as a great friend.

30 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this Episode, Kelly and Mark talk about a special Christmas gift, and the best way to bring a dog into your home. Finding a name however, is becomi...

It’s that time of year! Who are you going for? The Grinch, Scrooge, or Jolly, Happy, and Depressed

03 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The Holidays can be a stressful time, and people expect you to be cheerful and happy. But let’s be honest, sometimes the stress of Christmas can be ...

How to create a well rounded friendship, and find out what you can bring to the table.

29 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Friends are a major factor in how you live your life, as the old saying goes “show me your friends, I’ll show you your future... Kelly and Mark di...

Stay in control by setting your Intention!

21 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

It has been a while since Kelly and Mark Last podcast. That’s because they have been busy, well that’s just an excuse as you will see. We all comp...

Learn how to be a Hero and take the blame, even encourage it!

19 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

It this special PAD first, Mark flys solo and speaks to just the Dads. This episode works with Dad’s on how its ok to take the blame, and also to en...

Thanksgiving and making memorable traditions. What will your memories be of?

15 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Thanksgiving! What are you thankful for, do you have family traditions, or are you ready to make new ones? Kelly and Mark discuss Traditions, an...

Cherished Gifts are great, do you have one? Or better yet, do you know how to give one?

10 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The only think that is better then having a Cherished Gift, is giving a one. However, what does that look like? We all have a different perception of ...

Is it OK to beat your kids?

26 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Mark talks about his lunch with good friend Donny and Stephen Kluserits -Author of the book “Beat Your Kids”. It’s a fun little...

Think you know your kids, think again?

25 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Kelly and Mark survey their kids, a challenge every parent should do. Learn about how your kids see them selves and what drives them. ...

What is your definition of Confidence, and how to you build it?

10 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Looking for a few tips on building confidence in you, and your children? Have a listen as Kelly and Mark share their secrets, and teeter totter on the...

Summers over, now back to school. Are your kids ready, are you ready? How do you protect your kids?

03 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Summer is finally over, and so is season 1 of PAD. Now, Kelly and Mark get ready for back to school. However leaving back to school shopping till the ...

Sometimes you just need to vent. It’s like popping a pimple. It’s much better once you get it out.

29 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Kelly and Mark have just had a blow up at home. It comes after a weekend Hockey tournament were their record was 0-7, and Mark was th...

Parenting vs Career, which one is more important? What’s one thing you would change looking back?

21 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever find it funny, that you go to school for years to get the right job or career. And becoming a parent only takes a couple of minutes! On th...

Looking to unplug for that family vacation, ready to take charge when your spouse is gone?

29 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode the family is just returning home from holidays. Back visiting Marks home town and celebrating Grandma’s 90th birthday. And just lik...

Learn to take action and commit right now! Also how to handle a borage of negative situations.

28 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In the Episode Mark confronts Kelly on why it has taken so long to invite friends to #PAD Instagram. Kelly gets backed into a corner and ends up posti...

Sticks and Stones are nothing, words are powerful. Understanding the words you speak and listen too

26 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly and Mark talk about the power of words, and the words you focus on? Planting the seeds for your kids and leading by example. Sounds easy, but di...

Everyone has a story whether you like it or not, find out how the right story can change your life.

18 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever guess what someone’s story is, I bet you do it every day with out even noticing. What are the stories you tell yourself, about you and o...

How often do you follow up and review you life decisions? It can be a motivator or a kick in the ass

05 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

After over 50 episodes on PAD its time for a review, how do Kelly and Mark score themselves? Starting with the kids money management (Roster money) ap...

Happy Mother’s Day. Do you spend time with the kids or spoil yourself? Is one better then the other?

15 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Mother’s Day to all you amazing moms out there, PAD salutes you! In this episode Kelly decides after dinner, to be part of the community garag...

Is your kids room a mess, and looking for some help? Are you leading by example?

08 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly opens up this episode with “how to get your kids to clean their rooms”. Seems simple however nothing is ever that simple with these two. Cre...

Extended Family Vacation, does your role ever change? Your kids need to be heard, are you listening?

06 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly and Mark get back from a family vacation with Kellys extended family, and Mark ask’s the question “how long is too long”? Do the family dy...

Easter is an important holiday, be carful not to sell yourself short. What will your kids remember?

28 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

What does your Easter look like, are you missing the message? Kelly and Mark discuss how the Easter bunny is becoming more like Santa Claus, and how t...

What is the right age to... have a sleep over, cross the street, stay at home alone, cook???

10 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you remember the first time you crossed the street? For most of us, probably not. Why? Because it wasn’t that big of a deal. Only parents find it...

Tired of your kids asking you for money? Set them up for Finacial success with this allowance secret

20 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly and Mark share their new allowance strategy with listeners. It’s called the Wela Way method and it will give you and your kids a new respect f...

Welcome to our podcast! Putting yourself out there can be difficult, but sometimes it makes it real

08 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly and Mark have been secretly podcasting without telling friends or family for the past few months. Fearful of judgement, ridicule, and opinions, ...

Would you like to start your day and everyday happy and positive? Take back control of your mornings

08 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have a morning routine, if not it’s something you should think about! In life you really only have control over how your mornings start and w...

Have you ever been apart of something that’s bigger then just money, were you get paid in hugs?

01 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Kelly and Mark talk about their faith and latest experience at church. It’s their first time taking on such a big project, the Watot...

Kids can say the darnedest things, hear what Kelly and Marks kids think about there parenting style

01 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly and Mark decided to bring their kids on the show to get another perspective. Each one a little different with different values and wants on how ...

Rules are meant to be broken or rules are their for a reason. Who do you resonate with?

20 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this podcast Mark and Kelly continue a heated debate from the night before. Kelly is a rules follower and Mark see’s them as more of a guideline....

Are you a modern day parent, wonder what that looks like? Dads vs Moms, who really wears the pants?

13 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

***Warning, opinions expressed are exaggerate for humour*** In this episode Mark comes out of the gate swinging, telling Kelly how stay at home dads w...

Looking for a way to deal with that parenting guilt when your kids ask you “Why can’t you?”

02 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this Episode Kelly is feeling guilty about missing out on one of the kids field trips because of a work function. You can let it beat you down or c...

Looking for a great way to connect with our kids and keeping their rooms clean all at the same time?

30 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Getting your kids to keep their rooms clean and tidy can often be a job in itself. A late Christmas gift to one of the kids make this task a breeze, a...

Have you seen the controversial Gillette commercial? We discuss with special guests Travis and Bre

23 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

You need to view this video to better understand this Podcast (link is at bottom) This unexpected debate started to get heated so Mark and Kelly decid...

Limit Conflicts in your marriage with these three simple strategies and make it stronger then ever!!

18 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Are you looking for that person you fell in love with, or are you looking for someone that has grown as a person? Kelly and Mark discuss questions lik...

Daycare or Dayhome, how do you pick the right one?

15 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

After learning about a tragedy at a local day home, Kelly and Mark decided to start up a group chat. To help parents when deciding on day-home or day-...

The gift of surrogacy and why they do it? With special guest Nick and Diana Thomas

07 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this first guest podcast, Mark and Kelly interview Nick and Diana about becoming surrogate donors . An amazing gift some folks might not understand...

Unique New Years Eve party’s and Traditions that will get you thinking.

04 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Good by 2018 and Hello 2019. Mark and Kelly ring in the new year traveling around to friends houses in an Uber. Seeing how others are celebrating. One...

Avoiding the stress of Christmas, is it possible?

29 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Mark and Kelly have just finished Christmas. It’s a stressful time for Kelly and Mark is oblivious to it, but not anymore. Kelly le...

It’s Christmas and this only child, and younger sister can’t agree on presents for the kids.

19 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Mark and Kelly are getting ready for Christmas, but things come to a halt when Mark questions the amount of gifts compared to the cost of the gifts. N...

ADD, ADHD, PHD, what do these acronyms really mean and are they that different?

12 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Labeling or coding kids can be negative, if that’s what you see. Kelly and Mark believe its more of a specific learning ability that makes them, jus...

Losing the battle of Christmas decorating ticks Mark off.

11 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

It’s Christmas time, what does that look like for you. Mark and Kelly finally go to the neighbors 24th annual Christmas party and they are blown off...

To Lie or Not to Lie to your kids? That is the question.

04 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Mark gets out witted by his 8 year old daughter in this episode. When asked if he always tells her the truth, followed up with a quick “do you move ...

Contentment. Are you ok with what you have, do you need more?

28 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Mark finds a flyer from the church about contentment “what does that really mean”? How do you define success in life and business Mark and Kelly h...

How do you define a great friend?

25 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

After dinner with friends Mark and Kelly talk about what makes a great friend. If you have ever wondered about the difference between a good and great...

Men, What are you really doing in the washroom.

23 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Mark is caught off guard as Kelly confronts him about washroom breaks, what takes men so long anyway. Then this slowly turns on the K...

How to handle losing, tough love or kid gloves?

17 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Coach Mark comes down hard on the team. After another last minute loss as Head Coach is taking its toll. Unfortunately Kelly is away at a well deserve...

How do you stop a fight before it begins, have a listen to this marriage saver.

06 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

It’s fall and Mark and Kelly have a few tips for you to get ready for the up coming season. And the big question everyone faces, which jobs are blue...

Sit down and Listen to what the coach has to say.

29 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Mark shares his coaching techniques and tips to a positive mindset with his team, Kelly also has her version of whats working and not ...

Are you judgmental

25 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Do you wondering if your being judged or not, do you care, how do you judge others??? Mark and Kelly discus how they judge others and it’s very diff...

Who’s grade 4 project is it anyway?

23 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Kelly and Mark are doing their 8 year olds school science fair project, what the hell are they thinking, who’s running this ship? Listen in and tell...

A 1 week challenge that will give you a boost

17 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Are looking for more kick in your morning coffee, want to get out of bed with a bounce in your step? Kelly and Mark discuss morning routines that have...

How do you handle the squeaky wheel?

11 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Kelly debates the difference between asking and complaining, and Mark can’t see a difference. Can you tell the difference?

Thanksgiving, whats it like for you?

09 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Thanksgiving. It’s a time to give thanks, for all you have been given, like staying with family all under one roof.

Tips on Handling the loss of a pet

03 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

The Stanton family is grieving the lost of their family dog. Find out how the kids take it and if what Mark and Kelly says will work?

No Fun in Fundraising

01 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Fundraising with 3 kids and multiple events can seem like a second job, what are you willing to give?