Shadow Work After Dark
Episodes
Understanding Your Ego's Defense System (Shadow Work Deep Dive)
08 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Before you can do shadow work, you need to understand what happens when your psyche fights back.In this episode, I break down 20+ ego defense mechanis...
Sexual Shadow Work: Why It Changes Everything
20 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when we stop avoiding the most socially conditioned part of ourselves?In this episode, we go deep into sexual shadow work through the len...
Why You Keep Getting Ghosted (It's Not What You Think)
12 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you keep getting ghosted, this video is for you — and it's probably not the answer you're expecting.In this episode, I'm breaking ...
What Your Sexual Fantasies Are Actually Trying to Tell You (Jungian Psychology)
05 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Your sexual fantasies are not a problem to fix. They're psychic material — dream language with libido attached.In this episode, we're goin...
How to (Safely) Work With Deities: Archetypal Mediumship, Goddess Work + Guided Visualization
26 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Are you being called to deity work but don't know where to start — or want to make sure you're doing it safely?In this episode, I break ...
Ego Death & Grief in Shadow Work: How to Let Your Old Identity Die
20 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we’re talking about death and grief in shadow work—the ego death / ego grief phase that happens when your old identity starts dis...
Trauma, the Golden Shadow, & “Dark" Parts (a Jungian & IFS POV)
12 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re afraid there’s something “dark,” “evil,” or fundamentally wrong inside you… this episode will change everything.In this deep d...
Collective Sexual Shadow and the Roots of the Madonna-Whore Complex
30 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode we are diving into the Collective Sexual Shadow — the unconscious web of repression, guilt, and control that shapes how we experience s...
FEAR OF BEING SEEN: Shadow Work for Intimacy, Visibility & Success
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever sabotage what you actually want — love, success, attention, pleasure — because being seen feels terrifying?This episode dives into the...
Why You Feel Stuck: Understanding The Void in Shadow Work
20 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in the void — that confusing, restless space where the old you has dissolved but the new version hasn’t fully formed yet? 🌑✨In this v...
What 5 Years of Shadow Work *ACTUALLY* Looks Like 🫣
10 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
So… what actually happens when you commit to shadow work for real?In this episode, I reflect on the last 5 years of doing deep unconscious work — ...
How Your Father Shapes Your Identity, Success Patterns & Confidence
27 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the father archetype and father complex—and how your relationship to this energy impacts your confidence, ambition, lead...
When Adulting Feels Hard: Dreams vs. Discipline + The Hidden Cost of Freedom
02 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why does growing up feel like punishment? Why do creatives, rebels, and free spirits often sabotage stability or crave constant freedom? In this episo...
The Shadow of Incompetence | Sexual Shadow Work & Active Imagination Exercise
22 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel terrified of being wrong, looking stupid, or not knowing enough? You’re not alone. This shadow is sneaky AF and can show up as perfectioni...
How Your Mother Shapes Your Intimacy Patterns (& How to Rewire Them)
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Unlock the truth about your relationship with your mother—and how it’s still shaping your nervous system, attachment style, and romantic life. In ...
Neurodivergent, Kinky & Divine: Bella Kitsune on Conscious Domination
05 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this raw and revealing episode, I sit down with Bella Kitsune — a professional dominatrix, somatic therapist, conscious kink practitioner, and ne...
Ego Resistance in Sexual Shadow Work (Why It Can Be Hard to Start)
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s talk about the part of your psyche that freaks out right before everything changes. In this episode, I’m breaking down ego resistance—what...
8 Layers of Sexual Shadow Workshop
17 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you want to see the accompanying slides (not necessary but may be helpful) [you can watch the Youtube version here]Welcome to this free shadow wor...
Dark Sexual Fantasies Explained | Trauma, Shadow Work, and Kink
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Dark, taboo, and even violent sexual fantasies are way more common than people admit—and no, they don’t make you a monster. In this episode, I div...
How to Fulfill Your Potential Via Sexual Shadow Work
02 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today we’re diving deep into how exploring your sexuality can unlock your full potential — especially if you’re kinky, queer, neurodivergent, or...
Consequences of NOT doing Sexual Shadow Work: My Manipulation Shadow STORYTIME!
23 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this candid and unfiltered episode, we’re diving into the consequences of avoiding sexual shadow work—what happens when we bury our shame, desi...
Is Your Kink Healthy or Unhealthy?
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many people wonder whether their kinks or sexual desires are problematic or rooted in trauma. In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the differen...
How Childhood Trauma Affects Sexual Shadow
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is your childhood trauma secretly shaping your sex life and attraction patterns? Today, we’re diving into sexual shadow work—a powerful Jungian ps...
Inside a Legal Brothel: Truths & Misconceptions w/Electra Rayne
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I sit down with Electra Rayne, a seasoned sex worker, adult content creator, and founder of QueerCrush.com, a site dedicated to authe...
Political Anxiety, Tribalism & Your Unconscious Mind | A Jungian Perspective w/ Chuck Gafvert
16 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How is political stress affecting your relationships, mental health, and overall well-being? In this episode, Jungian coach Chuck Gafvert joins me to ...
WHY YOU WANT TO F*CK THAT PERSON! (How sexual shadow influences desire)
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt an intense attraction to someone who isn’t your type—or even been repulsed by someone, only to have them show up in your sex dr...
Exploring Neurodivergence and Healing Through the Art of BDSM w/ Priestess Cinda Starr
20 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into an eye-opening conversation with Priestess Cinda Starr, a dominatrix and somatic wellness practitioner. We explore the i...
What is the Body Shadow?
12 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we talk about body shadow, how hidden emotions, repressed trauma, and stories shape how we express ourselves and experience life in o...
Mindfulness, BDSM, and the Body: Redefining Wellness w/ Ebony Eros
04 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the fascinating connections between the nervous system, sexual health, BDSM, and mindfulness with special guest Ebony Eros...
Why the universe is kicking your ass (The cosmic wakeup call)
30 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Why does the universe seem to "break" you during times of major change? In this episode, we explore how external chaos—like job loss, rela...
How to Forgive Your Parents
26 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the process of forgiving your parents. Whether the holidays have stirred up unresolved emotions or you’re exploring pe...
WHY YOU SHOULD QUIT THERAPY! (and what you should do instead)
20 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
I share why traditional therapy might not always be the best path for everyone.. especially if you’ve been stuck in a loop of revisiting past trauma...
Kink, Neurodivergence, and Shadow Work: Unmasking Your True Self
14 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into the powerful intersection of kink, BDSM, and neurodivergence. Join us as we explore how “neurospicy” individuals—t...
EXERCISE: Sexual Shadow Work Guided Visualization
07 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dive deep into your unconscious mind with this transformative Sexual Shadow Work Visualization Exercise. This guided meditation is designed to help yo...
How to be a Good Sub: Conscious Submission & Shadow Work in BDSM
30 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we’re diving into the energetics of submission and exploring what it means to be a good submissive in BDSM. Together, we’ll chall...
The Sacred Role of a Dom: Shadow Work, Archetypes, and Energetics in Kink
24 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve deep into what it truly means to be a good Dom, beyond just the physical acts of BDSM and kink play. Explore the spiritual, ...
The Mother Archetype: Intimacy, Intuition & Shadow Work
17 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we’re diving deep into the Mother Archetype—its influence on your intimacy, intuition, romantic life, and even your sex life. 🌙...
How to Safely Engage in Sexual Shadow Work: A Mental Health Centered & Trauma-Informed Approach
02 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the complex relationship between trauma, shadow work, and sexuality through a trauma-informed and Jungian psychology appro...
Will Shadow Work Heal Away Your Kink? Understanding Desire, Shame, & the Unconscious Mind
26 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Curious about how shadow work impacts your desires or kinks? In today’s episode, I answer one of the most asked questions I get: "Can I heal aw...
Kink Beyond Sexuality: Shadow Work & Self-Exploration
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, we discuss kink beyond sexuality to uncover why many individuals engage in kink activities that aren't centered around sexual experiences....
Conscious vs. Unconscious Kink: Shadow Work & Taboo Sexuality
17 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered how your sexual fantasies relate to your unconscious mind? Or how to determine if your kink is healthy or unhealthy? Join me as...
Ego vs. Intuition: How to Recognize and Move Through Resistance
07 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we’re diving into the topic of ego resistance and how it shows up during your self-development journey—especially when working th...
What Happens When You Explore Your Sexual Shadow?
02 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today's episode, discover why addressing this often-overlooked aspect of self-development can ignite your passion, authenticity, and overall w...
How to do Sexual Shadow Work
26 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you ready to embrace your authentic sexual self and unlock deeper levels of joy and freedom? In this episode, we dive into sexual shadow work, exp...
What is Sexual Masking? How To Be Authentic in Bed
18 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the concept of sexual masking and uncover how it hinders our ability to be authentic in bed. Explore the ways in which ...
How Sexual Shame Affects Your Relationships, Confidence, and Creativity
11 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I dive deep into my personal journey of confronting sexual shame and how it shaped my life. From struggling with my queer identity to...
Exploring the Spiritual Journey in Sex Work (w/Ashe Ellis)
30 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I interview Ashe Ellis, a spiritual life coach for sex workers, who shares her journey from cam modeling and OnlyFans to helping othe...
The Hidden Impact of Sexual Trauma on Men vs. Women: Survivor Insights
30 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It's time we address sexual trauma—a subject I understand deeply through personal experience, extensive research, and my work with clients. In ...
The Primal & Spiritual Aspects of Dominance and Submission
18 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, we're diving deep into the Dom/Sub dynamic—a topic that's sparked curiosity and numerous questions from the listeners. We discuss ...
How Your Shadow Affects Your Life, Relationships & Sexual Expression
13 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, we discuss the concept of the shadow and how it manifests in our sexuality. We’ll start by exploring the concept of the shadow & discuss ...
Understanding BDSM & Sexual Shadow with Jungian Psychology
04 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode, I bridge my experience as a former dominatrix and current Jungian coach to discuss the intersection of BDSM and Jungian psych...
Carl Jung 101 & Shadow Work
28 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
**Watch on YouTube here if you want to see the accompanying slides**In this episode, we review Carl Jung's work and review concepts like the psyc...