Relationship Truth: Unfiltered

When Faith Has Been Used to Keep You Stuck Kelly’s Story of Abuse, Awakening, and Courage

20 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered whether what you’re living through is really abuse—or if maybe you’ve just been told for so long to “pray harder,” “...

Boundaries, Overfunctioning, and Finding Your Voice in Difficult Relationships

06 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Boundaries, Overfunctioning, and Finding Your Voice in Difficult Relationships Have you ever tried to set a boundary… only to feel shut down, ignore...

Healing After Betrayal – Moving from Broken to Brave with Tammy Gustafson

23 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Healing After Betrayal – Moving from Broken to Brave with Tammy Gustafson Have you ever done everything you were told a “good Christian wife” sh...

Finding Hope in the Deepest Pain

09 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Finding Hope in the Deepest Pain   What happens when the unthinkable becomes your reality—and yet you still choose faith? In today’s deeply movin...

Who Has God Called You to Be? Rediscovering Your Identity Beyond Your Role

23 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever looked in the mirror and quietly wondered, “Who am I really?” Not what you do. Not the roles you play. Not what others expect of you...

When Faith Meets Reality: Accepting the Truth About an Abusive Marriage

10 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever thought you finally met the right one—only to discover, painfully, that everything he said was a lie? In this powerful and deeply pers...

When Should I Talk to a Lawyer (Even If I'm Not Planning to Divorce?)

26 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

When Should I Talk to a Lawyer (Even If I'm Not Planning to Divorce?) Have you ever wondered if reaching out to a lawyer makes you disloyal—or unfai...

Resilience After Abuse What It Really Means and How to Rebuild

12 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Resilience After Abuse: What It Really Means and How to Rebuild Key Takeaways Have you ever felt so broken by your past that the idea of “resilience...

When Healing Isn’t Instant: Reframing Mental Health, Faith, and Finding Your Next Step

05 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

When Healing Isn’t Instant: Reframing Mental Health, Faith, and Finding Your Next Step Have you ever wondered if your struggles with anxiety, depres...

From Confused to Courageous: Stories of Healing Through Empowered to Change Part 2

29 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What does it really take to go from paralyzing fear and emotional confusion to courageous clarity and freedom? In Part 2 of our conversation, Coach Le...

From Confused to Courageous: Stories of Healing Through Empowered to Change

15 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever looked around your life and thought, “I can’t keep living like this, but I don’t know how to change?” You’re not alone—and t...

Can I Ever Love Again? A Story of Hope After Unimaginable Loss with Michelle Hord

01 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to love again after your heart has been shattered? Maybe you've walked through a painful divorce, betrayal, ...

Boundaries During the Holidays

17 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Over-Functioning During the Holidays: Why Boundaries Matter More Than Ever Do you dread the holidays—not because you don’t love your people—but ...

How to Discern a Safe and Godly Man

03 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

How to Discern a Safe and Godly Man What does a safe and godly man truly look like? And how can you tell the difference between surface-level change a...

A Biblical Response To Domestic Violence

20 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and while we wish this wasn’t something we needed to talk about, it’s a heartbreaking reality—even...

When Pretending Breaks You: Finding Peace After Overfunctioning in a Destructive Marriage

06 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like you’re barely surviving behind the scenes while projecting a picture-perfect life to the outside world? You’re not alone. ...

Coaches Takeover Series – People-Pleasing & Insecurity

14 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to Relationship Truth: Unfiltered, where we bring truth with love to the tough topics of emotionally destructive relationships. In today’s s...

God Didn’t Ask Me to Be Nice: Reclaiming Truth, Boundaries, and Peace

07 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

📌 Episode Summary: In today’s episode of Relationship Truth Unfiltered, host LeAnne Parsons, Professional Certified Coach and trauma-informed pra...

“I Chose to Be Well”: One Woman’s Journey Through Betrayal, Boundaries, and Becoming Whole Again

30 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like you were losing yourself just to keep the peace? That you were constantly saying “yes” when your heart was crying out “n...

Unmasking Insecurity: The Hidden Struggle of People Pleasing

23 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Are you constantly saying “yes” when your heart is screaming “no”? If you’ve ever felt like your worth hinges on making everyone around you ...

When Pleasing Others Costs Too Much: TC's Story of Capacity, Courage and Clarity

16 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

🌟 Episode Overview: Welcome back to Relationship Truth Unfiltered. In today’s episode, we go beyond the surface and straight into the heart of wh...

Insecurity vs. Identity: Breaking Agreement with the Lie

09 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this heart-opening episode, Coach LeAnne Parsons takes us deep into the hidden ways insecurity can shape — and sabotage — our identity in Chris...

People Pleasing — Why You Do It and How to Stop

02 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

“People pleasing isn’t love. It’s fear dressed up as kindness.” Have you ever gone along to get along? Said yes when you really wanted to say ...

How Insecurity Shows Up in Your Life (and What to Do About It)

27 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

“You’re not alone, you’re not crazy—and with God’s help, you can build confidence and walk in truth.” Have you ever felt like you weren’...

When Trauma Shows Up in Parenting: One Woman’s Question, Many Women’s Reality

20 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this tender episode of Unfiltered Truth, Coach LeAnne shares one brave woman’s deeply vulnerable question about parenting in the wake of trauma—...

Our Stories, Our Why

13 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this deeply personal and powerful kickoff to the Coaches Takeover Series on Relationship Truth: Unfiltered, join Certified Coaches LeAnne Parsons a...

A Fresh Voice, A Familiar Mission: Welcoming Our Coaches Takeover

05 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this special episode, LeAnne Parsons (PCC, TBRI Practitioner, and coach on Leslie Vernick’s team) shares an exciting update. With Leslie’s full...

From Lost to Found: Reclaiming Your Voice, Identity & Faith in Destructive Relationships

21 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like you've lost yourself trying to make a relationship work? You go through the motions, trying to be the "good wife," the "submis...

Nick Stumbo on Breaking the Silence: The Hidden Impact of Porn on Christian Marriages

14 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do when trust is shattered, but no one around you seems to take your pain seriously? In today’s deeply honest and hope-filled episode, L...

I Didn’t Know I Was in an Abusive Marriage with Naghmeh Panahi

07 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What if the marriage you fought to save was the very thing destroying you? In today’s raw and courageous episode, Leslie sits down with Naghmeh Pana...

Healing After Sexual Abuse: A Powerful Conversation with Tabitha Westbrook

31 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered if healing is truly possible after the deepest kind of betrayal? Maybe you’ve been carrying the weight of shame, confusion, o...

When Loving Him Hurts: Navigating Neurodivergence, Abuse, and Ministry Expectations

24 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Is It Neurodivergence… or Abuse? One Woman’s Journey to Truth and Freedom What do you do when the man you married is beloved by everyone, but you’...

Money, Marriage & Moving Forward: A Financial Guide for Women Facing Divorce with Rhonda Noordyk

17 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Divorce is never the goal, but sometimes it’s the only solution to an abusive, destructive marriage. Yet, for many Christian women, the fear of fina...

The Nicest Liar You'll Ever Meet

10 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when the person you trust most turns out to be a stranger behind closed doors? Many of us go into marriage believing we’ve found a godl...

Power, Abuse, and the Church: Exposing the Truth with Dr. Diane Langberg

03 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

When the Church Harms Instead of Heals: A Conversation with Dr. Diane Langberg Does the church always protect the vulnerable? Unfortunately, the answe...

Acceptance: Facing Hard Truths Without Giving Up Hope

24 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of hoping things will change, only to be disappointed over and over again? Maybe you’re in a destructi...

Pastor's Wife: Called or Confined?

17 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Join Walking in Core Strength Today! Beth Allison Barr's website "Becoming the Pastor's Wife" by Beth Allison Barr What does it mean to b...

His Faith Was Fiction

10 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Episode Title: The Courage to Walk Away: Leah’s Story of Love, Loss, and Finding Strength Introduction Have you ever found yourself questioning ever...

Power in Powerlessness: Reclaiming Your Decision Making

03 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Resources Register for Leslie's Webinar, February 13: "I'm Not Okay When You're Not Okay" Think you might be in a destructive marriage? Get Leslie's Q...

The Night I Stopped Pretending

27 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Resources Register here for Leslie's free workshop, "I'm Not Okay When You're Not Okay" Leslie's Quick Start Guide Introduction Have you ever felt tra...

Why Churches Resist Abuse Ministry

20 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES Leslie's Quick Start Guide Brad Hambrick's Blog: Why Is It So Hard to Have Constructive Conversations About Abuse? Church Cares American As...

Hidden in Plain Sight: Recognizing Emotional Abuse in Marriage

13 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hear this raw conversation with Julie Sedenko and Jessica about recognizing and escaping covert abuse in her Christian marriage RESOURCES Leslie Vern...

The Scriptural Case for Women's Value with Elyse Fitzpatrick

06 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Resources: Elyse Fitzpatrick's website Elyse's Books Leslie's Website Leslie's Quick Start Guide In this episode, Leslie Vernick talks with Elyse Fit...

Reconcilation: Ready or Not?

30 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Relationship Truth Unfiltered, Julie Sedenko and relationship expert Leslie Vernick tackle the tough topic of reconciliation. If yo...

Promise of Peace: Navigating Christmas When Relationships Hurt

23 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode, recorded last Christmas, is a reminder that you can find peace in God's presence this Christmas... even if you're dealing with a destruc...

Break Free From the Breakdown Mindset

16 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Importance of Mindset Discusses the critical role of mindset in making real changes. Leslie explains the difference between breakdown and breakthroug...

Reclaiming Her Life: Mary's Fight

09 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Resources: Empowered to Change: www.leslievernick.com/empowered Darby Strickland https://www.darbystrickland.com/  In this heart-wrenching and inspir...

Habits for a Healthier Mind

02 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Register Here for Leslie's Free Workshop on December 5th! Honey Lake Clinic Leslie's Quick Start Guide In this episode of Relationship Tru...

Embrace the Past, Write the Future: Alyson's Story

25 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES Register for Leslie's Free Workshop December 5th! www.leslievernick.com/story  Leslie's Quick Start Guide www.leslievernick.com/start   In...

The Church's Role in Combating Domestic Violence

18 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Resources Leslie's Quick Start Guide: www.leslievernick.com/start  Chris Moles' Website & Resources: https://www.chrismoles.org/  Theology of S...

Courage in Crisis

11 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-GET-SAFE (1-800-799-7233) Leslie's Quick Start Guide: www.leslievernick.com/start The Hidden Depths of Add...

Five Signs of a Toxic Relationship

04 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES Quick Start Guide: www.leslievernick.com/start  Pattern Questions to Ask: When was the first time ... When was the last time...  What is...

The Challenges of Neurodiverse Marriages

28 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Relationship Truth Unfiltered, Dr. Stephanie Holmes, an autism researcher, life coach, and ordained minister, joins us to discuss t...

When Love Becomes Toxic: Raquel's Experience

21 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES Leslie's Quick Start Guide: www.leslievernick.com/start  In this episode Julie Sedenko talks to Raquel about her personal journey and insig...

Dealing with Destructive Friendships

14 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Honesty and Vulnerability in Friendships: Initiating tough conversations about unmet needs is essential to gauge respect and mutual support. Small “...

Surviving the Unthinkable: Michelle Hord's Story of Resilience

07 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of Relationship Truth Unfiltered, Leslie Vernick interviews Michelle Hord, a former producer of Good Morning America. Michelle shares ...

Betty's Story: How CONQUER Changed Everything

23 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: REGISTER HERE for Leslie's FREE Workshop, If He Doesn't Hit Me, Is it Still Abuse? God Cares. September 24th, 2024, 12pm & 7:30pm Easte...

Courageous Resilience: Pam's Path to Healing

16 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Register Here for Leslie's Free Workshop Are You in a Destructive Marriage Test/Quick Start Guide Pam's Journey: Reflects on her marriage ...

Expert Advice on Transforming Trauma

09 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Julie Bonn Blank's website https://www.juliebonnblank.com/  Abuse Recover Ministry: https://abuserecovery.org/ Book: "On the Frontlines ...

Ask Leslie About Sex

02 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Resources: Leslie's Quick Start Guide "She Deserves Better" by Sheila Gregoire "The Great Sex Rescue" by Sheila Gregoire Questions answered in this e...

Trauma is Not the End of Your Story

19 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Resources: Kobe’s book: Why Am I Like This?: How to Break Cycles, Heal from Trauma, and Restore Your Faith Dwell Bible App  In this epis...

Core Strength: Practical tools for Life’s Challenges

12 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Leslie's Free Webinar: www.leslievernick.com/o Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE Leslie Vernick’s book: The Emotionally Destructi...

Transforming Pain into Power: Laura's Story

05 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES Just Enough Light for the Step I'm On: Trusting God in the Tough Times by Stormie OMartian Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Verni...

Why I Believe: Dr. Henry Cloud's Journey

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Resources: Dr. Henry Cloud’s new book: "Why I Believe"   Online platform with courses by Dr. Cloud Dr. Cloud's book, Necessary Endings Leslie's Qu...

Is Your Marriage Dead or Alive?

22 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Leslie's Quick Start Guide - find out if you're in a destructive marriage   Today, we’re tackling a big question: Is your marriage dead ...

Unseen Manipulation: Jessica's Story of Covert Abuse

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Resources: Is Your Marriage Destructive? Find out. Get Leslie's Quick Start Guide here!   In this episode, we delve into the often overlooked dynamic...

Can a Wife Say "No" to Sex?

08 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE Are you in an emotionally destructive marriage? Get Leslie's Quick Start Guide HERE.  Listen to ...

The Connection Between Trauma and People Pleasing

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Resource: Leslie's People Pleasing Course In this episode, Julie and Leslie explore the connection between trauma and people-pleasing habits. They dis...

Virtues and Vulnerabilities: Why Good Christians Can Attract Toxic People

24 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Resources: Register here for our UNLIMITED Moving Beyond People Pleasing Drop-In Group Coaching + Video Curriculum Today, Julie & Leslie are explo...

Jill's Staying Well Journey

17 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Join Moving Beyond People Pleasing! leslievernick.com/peoplepleasingcourse   In this episode of Relationship Truth: Unfiltered, Julie Sedenko talks w...

Does Intent Matter? Navigating Harm in Marriage

10 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Leslie and Julie dive into the complex topic of intent and its role in destructive relationships. They explore the distinction between...

Healing from Hurt: Kay’s Story of Survival and Strength

03 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: JOIN HERE: Moving Beyond Insecurity Coaching Week Day One Journal App Lundy Bancroft: Why Does He Do That? Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800...

Faith and Legal Battles: Insights from Molly Catherine Goodson

27 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Quick Start Guide - www.leslievernick.com/start Domestic Violence Hotline: 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) In this episode of Relationship Truth: Unf...

Ask Leslie Episode! Divorce, Detachment, Indifference, Narcissism, and Empathy

20 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Leslie's Quick Start Guide: www.leslievernick.com/start If you'd like to ask a question for a future "Ask Leslie" episode, go to www.leslie...

Rachel’s Resolve: A Path Through Adversity

13 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: www.leslievernick.com Quick Start Guide 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) Marital Challenges: Rachel describes her passiveness in her marriage, emph...

Self-Compassion in Action

06 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Dr. Alison Cook I Shouldn't Feel This Way "The Best of You" Podcast Lesllie's Quick Start Guide I. Story: Understanding Emotional Trigg...

The Importance of Safety & Trust

29 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES www.leslievernick.com Suicide and crisis hotline: 988 Challenges in Recognizing Unsafe Relationships Dismissing Own Feelings and Needs Fear...

Boundary Basics: A Practical Guide to Personal Power

26 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Setting Boundaries and Prioritizing Self-Care 1. Introduction to Boundaries Boundaries are essential for maintaining healthy relationships and self-re...

Divorce and the Bible: Navigating Complexities with Faith & Understanding

22 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

RESOURCES: Find Joel Muddamalle's books and more at: www.muddamalle.com Find Leslie's books, programs, and more at: www.leslievernick.com  F...

Deciphering Transformation: How to Trust His Change

08 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Segment 1: Setting Boundaries with Compassion Leslie emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries for safety without resorting to shaming or demean...

Courage Found: Marie's Path to Freedom

01 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we dive deep into Marie's inspiring journey of breaking free from an emotionally destructive marriage, finding strength ...

Untwisting Scriptures: Seeing Beyond the Spin

25 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Leslie interviews Rebecca Davis, author of the Untwisting Scriptures series.  1. The Genesis of "Untwisting Scriptures" Discover the origins of Rebe...

Self Esteem: A Biblical Perspective

18 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Defining Self-Esteem and Self-Image Julie poses the question: What constitutes healthy self-esteem, especially from a biblical standpoint? Leslie expl...

Surviving Verbal Abuse: Amanda's Courageous Journey

11 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this compelling episode, we delve into the courageous journey of Amanda as she navigates through tumultuous waters in her marriage, fin...

Is Porn Adultery?

11 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

  The Danger of Pornography: It's not just a biblical issue; studies in psychology and science show the harmful effects of pornography. Pornography c...

Confronting Depravity: Essential Steps for Abusers & the Abused

04 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Understanding Abuse Dynamics: Andrew and Leslie delve into the multifaceted nature of abuse, encompassing emotional, psychological, and spiritual man...

Keeping Your Cool: Managing Emotions in Conflict

26 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Podcast Show Notes: Managing Emotions and Conflict Resolution In this comprehensive discussion on managing emotions and resolv...

Empowering You to Thrive

19 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Julie and Coach Diana answer all your questions about Walking in Core Strength... and offer valuable insights you can apply to your life today. Unders...

Reconciliation Roadmap: Strategies for Knowing When to Reconnect

12 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Topic: Reconciling After Separation In this episode, we discuss a question regarding reconciliation after a 34-year marriage marred by issues of porno...

Rebuilding Trust and Becoming Trustworthy

05 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this poignant and candid episode of "Relationship Truth, Unfiltered," Leslie's guest, Mark Savage bares his soul as he shares his extraordinary jou...

Traci’s Transformed Life: Her Escape From a Destructive Marriage

29 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this podcast episode, Julie Sedenko talks to Traci, a member of Leslie Vernick's Conquer support group, about her experiences in a destructive marr...

Help! I'm Married to a Sex Addict

22 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to this episode where we tackle the tough topic of sexual addiction. Julie Sedenko chats with relationship expert Leslie Vernick, and they dig...

Empowering Survivors: The Pastor’s Role in Responding to Destructive Marriages

15 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

  Advice for Women in Conservative Churches Find a trustworthy female within the church to confide in. Seek someone who embodies godliness and can p...

Healing After Infidelity: Dee’s Journey

08 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

  Discovering the Betrayal Dee's life as a pastor's wife and the shock of discovering her husband's affair. The initial emotions of hurt, anger, and...

Wisdom for Women in Destructive Marriages: 2023 Highlights

01 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

God's Love and Plans Encouragement from Survivors Emphasizing God's Love and Divine Plans Overcoming Challenges Staying the Course Trusting God and F...

Christmas Memories and the Gift of Presence

25 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Merry Christmas to our podcast listeners! In this episode Leslie and Julie share some Christmas memories and some practical advice, especially for tho...

Breaking Down Purity Culture: Impact, Myths, and Empowered Living

18 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today's episode is a deep dive into the concept of purity culture. Many women have expressed feeling damaged by the pressure to remain pure or to marr...

What Is Your Anger Telling You? Understand and Manage Your Strong Emotions

11 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Title: Empowered Podcast Episode 2 - Managing Anger and Guarding Your Heart During Difficult Times Introduction Welcome back to the Empowe...

Empowering Women: How to Recognize and Overcome Financial Abuse in Relationships

27 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Leslie shares her expertise and guidance on recognizing, addressing, and overcoming financial abuse within intimate partnerships. Und...

Forgiveness, Self-Care, and Overcoming Substance Abuse

20 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Introduction: In this enlightening podcast episode, we delve deep into the power of forgiveness as a catalyst for personal transformation. Our guest, ...