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From Cirque du Soleil to Somatic Depth Work: Ambition, Identity Deaths & the Courage to Surrender with Antonia Dolhaine

07 Aug 2025

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Send us a text“Life is a dinner party—and healing is a descent.” – Antonia DolhaineEpisode 86: The Parts That Drive Us, the Pain That Transforms Us & the Courage to Go Deeper with Antonia In this episode of Return, Caitlan sits down with Antonia, a somatic depth coach and former Cirque du Soleil performer who now works with what she calls “uncommonly creative, ambitious, and committed humans.” Together, they explore the parts of us that chase excellence, the pain that often fuels our ambition, and the deep initiatory process of healing through Internal Family Systems (IFS) and somatic work.Antonia shares how her creative and driven parts helped her survive a traumatic childhood, and how her pursuit of success on the world stage ultimately led her to a healing collapse, what she now calls her “cosmic chiropractic adjustment.” This episode is a raw and potent look at what happens when our bodies say no, how we surrender identities that no longer serve, and why slowing down might just be the bravest thing we ever do.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why the pursuit of success often stems from deeper parts needing love, safety, or validationHow Antonia moved from performing on arena stages to becoming a grounded somatic depth coachThe difference between achievement-driven ambition vs. self-led purposeWhat surrender really looks like during deep initiatory cycles (including breaking up with the love of her life and leaving the circus world)How Antonia blends somatic work, IFS, dreamwork, and active imagination to meet her clients at the rootsWhy supervision, community, and personal integrity are non-negotiables in depth workChapters:01:30 – Antonia’s creative and ambitious parts as survival strategy 03:00 – The drive to perform: Antonia’s early years in circus arts 05:00 – When performance isn’t enough: the reckoning on stage 08:00 – Listening to the body when it says “no more” 10:00 – Healing isn’t linear: spiral paths and subtle shifts 14:00 – What we’re really seeking in achievement 19:00 – The surrender process: identity deaths & deep initiation 26:00 – Why supervision, integrity, and reciprocity matter 34:00 – Breaking up with the love of your life as a sacred act 38:00 – Somatic work, dreamscapes & psychedelic parts work 44:00 – Therapist parts doing parts work: when your own parts try too hard 48:00 – The joy of witnessing & the honor of holding 50:00 – Dinner party parts, cosmic invoices & finding belonging 55:00 – Kurt Vonnegut, dark humor & absurd wisdomLinks & Resources:Antonia’s WebsiteAntonia on Substack – check out her $8 workshopsApply to work with Antonia one-on-one hereConnect with Antonia on InstagramSupport the showProduced by Caitlan SiegenthalerCover Art by Kiara Opara If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me. And if you really loved it, the best thank-you is a written review on Apple Podcasts or a comment on Spotify. That is a beautiful energetic exchange for Caitlan creating the show.

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13:00H | 21 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

10:00H | 21 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

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2ª PARTE | 06 ENE 2026 | EL PARTIDAZO DE COPE

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