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Saved Not Soft

Daddy Issues are a LIE!

24 Feb 2026

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Chapter 1: What are 'daddy issues' and how do they affect identity?

0.031 - 28.426 Emy Moore Brookins

Hello, hello you guys and welcome back to saved not soft The vibrato was very unnecessary I think I felt a little rushed, and I was like, the saves came out too quick. I was like, we're just going to run with it and make it a musical number. But anyways, it's episode two, season four. Let's get it. We're consistent, and we back. Girl, the pause is so exciting. You guys, I love Jesus.

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I love what God is doing through this. I love how many women are being impacted. I thank God for the message two weeks ago that not only just encouraged me to see that encouraged others, but it just has encouraged me, period. The word of the Lord is incredibly sustainable. And if you're looking at me right now and you're like, I have no idea who this chick is. She's just on my screen.

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She's yapping and she's screaming and singing like. Who is she? My name is Emmy Moore Brookins. I'm the host of the Save Not Soft podcast. And Save Not Soft is catered to let you know that you are loved, seen, and heard by Jesus. And when I first came to Jesus, when I was 17 years old, about to turn 18, I was about to go into the Air Force. I had no idea what I was doing with my life.

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I grew up lost and forgotten and forsaken. And God met me on my neighbor's mother's bedroom floor. And he had found me and he looked at me and he said, I love you. I hear you. And I see you. And I knew that God imprinted me with that same testimony to share with other people. So they know that their love seen and heard by Jesus. And this podcast is catered to teach you and to be a tool.

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This is not a replacement of God's presence. You hear me girls. As much as you're like, oh, I just want to sit back and watch a podcast and not read my word. I will never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever endorse replacing God's word with a Christian influencer, with a podcast. You name it, girly pop. And this podcast is literally just a tool. It's a teaching form. It's a tool.

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However you want to use it to advance your Bible studying journey. to advance your knowledge and honestly to cultivate fellowship and friendship and community through women who love Jesus. And so that's my hope for you today, that you're empowered by the Holy Spirit and that God touches you on the other side of the screen.

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My hope here today that through this message is that God touches you mightily and that the crucifixion of Jesus Christ is manifested to you in a very brand new way. And I pray that this message heals you. And today, We're talking about a very heavy topic of which I'm very, very passionate about. This has been a topic I've been passionate about through the entirety of my podcast.

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And I'm so excited to talk about it today because I believe so many people are left incarcerated by fatherlessness. And in a generation, Generation Z is the highest generation impacted by fatherlessness with the highest recent high statistics we've ever seen ever. And we have to talk about it. We have to touch on it.

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Because not only does this bleed into our characteristics, our behavior, but also in the way that we see the Lord, the way that we read the scriptures and the way that we do every single day life. And if we don't address fatherlessness and how we need it and calling spiritual fathers to rise up, we will always be an orphaned generation.

Chapter 2: How does fatherlessness impact Generation Z?

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It's because I dishonored a lot of people a part of my story. And while there can be a lot of wounds that are incredibly real, and no matter what a person does, it's not my job to protect a reputation anymore. There is a real wound that was still open when I shared my testimony. And I have struggled with that. emotional, physical fatherlessness, and it has impacted my life greatly.

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And it hurts me to say that I have been a part of a statistic that has also hurt so many other people my age and even beyond that. So many people in the body of Christ have lacked the knowledge of what it's like to be loved by a father.

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And I wanted to curate a message specifically catering to that, where we talk about what it means to be a daughter or son in the eyes of God, to be owned and belonged by him, and have a sense of belonging for those who do not know. And even to people who grew up with two-parent households and, you know, your parents were...

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not necessarily divorced, or you didn't go through a crazy tragedy, but maybe you were emotionally or mentally neglected, I wanna let you know that God has not forsaken you or abandoned you, that he is the greatest of fathers.

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And even if you have a great father and a great mother, and if you don't sense an orphanage in spirit, I wanna encourage you that even through the bestest fathers and mothers here on earth, because there are so, so, so, so, so, so many, God is still a better father. And today we're going to talk about fatherlessness.

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We're going to talk about how fatherlessness has impacted our generation tremendously. Fatherlessness is the highest it's ever been ever. I want to start off the podcast by naming a few very scary and terrifying statistics. And Gen Z fatherlessness is the highest it's ever been. Around 80% of single parent households are headed by single mothers.

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So even in single parent households, usually the dominating parental figure is always a single mother household. Fathers have left the picture. They have left children behind. They have pursued a life outside of their children. and they have left the responsibility all upon mothers.

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And according to recent US Census Bureau data, about 24 to 25% of US children live without a biological step or adoptive father in the household. This is one in every four child in Gen Z. It's 25%. Approximately 17.6 through 19 million Gen Z all over the United States have grown up with the idea and in a real reality of fatherlessness.

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This is concerning for a generation that is progressing in a way that is no longer adapting to the principles of marriage, which is so scary and sad because kids need mothers and fathers. We need men more than ever. And I'm talking about like real men who know how to step up and be emotionally intelligent and mature and provided and intentional with their children.

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